
About this episode
In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest questions couples ask: how often should we be having sex? We’ll break down what research actually says about sexual frequency, why comparison steals joy, and how to find a healthy rhythm that fits your marriage and season of life. This conversation will help you let go of “normal” and focus instead on connection, communication, and grace.
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Opposites: Wants
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
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