299: "I'll Never Be Enough" vs. the "Try-sexual"

In this episode, I respond to a vulnerable question from a wife navigating desire differences, purity culture, and a husband who seems to always want more—more novelty, more frequency, more intensity.

If you've ever felt like:

• You're not "enough" sexually

• Your spouse is never satisfied

• Sex has become a source of pressure instead of connection

…this episode is for you.

We'll talk about:

• The three core drivers of sexual desire

• Why anxiety can increase desire in one spouse and decrease it in the other

• The "try-sexual" dynamic 

• How ego can quietly sabotage intimacy

• What true sexual maturity actually looks like

This isn't about doing more, but becoming more mature, grounded, connected and intentional.

Resources

Episode 101: Overcoming Roadblocks to Intimacy & Sexual Desire (mentioned in the episode)

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