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Most people after spending a bit of time with me eventually figure out that I wake up every day
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and lift weights at 5am. And this is not me bragging about how energetic I am or anything like that.
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This is just the bedrock of my daily routine and people kind of work it out.
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The discipline of doing that and lifting weights is what taught me a ton about Bitcoin.
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Welcome to Should I Invest in Bitcoin, making Bitcoin simple for millennials
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serious about growing their wealth? Whether you're on the fence about it or just starting
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your Bitcoin journey so you could secure your financial future, even in a system
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where working hard never seems to be enough. I'm Miles Dillham, let's get into it for this week.
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This episode isn't really about fitness, it's about why most people struggle to build real wealth
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even when they earn a well because the traits that build strength in the gym are the exact same
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traits that build capital over time. And lifting weights taught me three principles that
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completely reshaped how I think about Bitcoin and money. The first is delay gratification,
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compounding and the third is responsibility. And in this episode I'm going to unpack how those
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three things connect and if you listen all the way through you'll understand why discipline
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matters more than income and why consistency beats hype. And why Bitcoin isn't really about
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getting rich, it's about growing up. And honestly you might even feel inspired to lift
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a little heavier tomorrow morning. This first part I like to talk about delayed gratification.
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Now the gym teaches you something most people never learn and it's that you don't get stronger
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immediately, you get stronger later. And often here people say I just can't put muscle on,
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I never gain muscle, it's difficult for me to put weight on. Yes I understand that, there are lots
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of people who maybe physically and genetically find it difficult to gain weight and to gain strength
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but I really believe that most of the time these people have only trained for like six months
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or nine months or a year. That's not long enough to really build a strong body. Similarly it's not
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long enough to build a strong wealth portfolio of assets that are valuable that grow over time.
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You can quit early if you want but you'll never find out the real benefits of betting in and
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doing something long term and being disciplined. And for me I went in and out of different fitness
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hype so I was quite into weightlifting in my teenage years and early 20s and I got fairly strong,
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you know I was okay, I was just an average weightlifter but I never really hit into it super hard
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and understood what it meant to build muscle over many years and to build strength over many years.
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I got quite into boxing and I got into marathon running and then I got into calisthenics and
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but you're just training with your body weight doing chin ups and press ups and dips and that kind
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of stuff and ring movements and then it was only when I hit about 30 that I realized right what
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am I actually going to do and how do I actually want to be as a fit man going into the rest of my
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life and I decided after listening and learning and researching that weightlifting was actually the
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most beneficial thing that I could do for myself and the longevity of my life and my ability to be
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able to be around my kids and potentially my grandkids I think about a lot now I want to be able to
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throw my grandkids in the air I want to be able to sprint around with my grandkids and I
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realized that weight training was one of the things that I would incorporate constantly consistently
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into my life and for me I had small children at that time there was a lot of space to be able to
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go to the gym and have an hour to do stuff by yourself so I started waking up at 5am and hitting the
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gym it's dark there's no dopamine hit there's no one saying well done there's no visible change
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for weeks even months and I really know now that strength is built in private and the reward is
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delayed and most people quit before compounding even begins because they want the evidence too
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quickly it's the same with investing it's the same with Bitcoin people who have bought Bitcoin
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recently will be saying oh man it's not a good investment I'm not seeing any returns I saw someone
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on the internet saying how is your Bitcoin investment going for you and I said going great
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actually over the last eight years fantastic investment over the last eight years and they're like
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oh what about last year is totally flat you haven't made any gains in the last year like well
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no I haven't really made any strength gains in the last year either but this last year I've been
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lifting weights in a sort of medium way because I've been traveling quite a lot I'm just trying
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to keep my strength at the same level right now and I know that once I get back into a routine where
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we're living in one place and we're not traveling around the world I'll be able to hit some massive
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strength gains because I've been maintaining and giving my body this stimulus that allows me to
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then push it to another level in a few months time potentially it's the same with Bitcoin I'm
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putting money into Bitcoin I'm not seeing any gains right now but I know that if I bed in it's
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going to grow and right now it's kind of boring and just want to add this in in terms of delay
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gratification I remember when I started doing CrossFit actually don't really train CrossFit as much
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anymore but I was combining some CrossFit with some regular strength training and I was feeling
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like quite strong dude anyway I'm a fairly good lifter now I've been consistently lifting weights
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for about eight or ten years without much gap or break when I started going to CrossFit we started
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doing overhead squats and sort of a lot of overhead lifts that you'll see in CrossFit like push
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pressing and clean and jerk clean and press those kind of things I asked the coach dude so
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how long till I get to this kind of weight which was I was just looking at some of the professionals
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and thinking I wonder if I'll ever be able to lift that weight not compete with those guys but
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just lift the weights that they do maybe not at the same intensity but at least get it above my head
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he was like oh man maybe like five to seven years of consistent weightlifting and I was thinking
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what five to seven years that is hardcore commitment and he said yeah but it takes that long to be
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able to slowly build muscle on muscle on muscle on muscle and get your joints and your ligaments
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used to that kind of stress and that load I thought flip that is intense that is delay gratification
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and for me weightlifting in this way has has prepared my mind for a low time preference to do
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longer compounding and understand that it's not going to happen tomorrow and if you quit now
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in weightlifting or in Bitcoin you're not going to see the gains that you might see in the next four
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five six seven eight years and that is not popular in today's society it's not popular to say
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yeah start hitting the gym and you might see some gains over the next year or two or three years
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but if you want to see real strength or real wealth built it takes a long time
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this next section I like to talk about emotional control in relation to volatility in Bitcoin
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and probably need to do with weightlifting it's it's emotional control around your ego
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right the barbell doesn't care how you feel doesn't care if you think you're badass and you're
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strong it makes no difference the barbell doesn't lie the weights do not lie to you
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if you're not strong you can't move them if you haven't put the work in you cannot move them
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true some days you do feel stronger but based on what you've been doing the week before the
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couple weeks before how you've been eating how you've been sleeping depending on how heavy you've
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been lifting in other exercises some days you're not strong the weights days are same and it's
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absolute truth it doesn't lie to you and it doesn't care about your feelings and your ego you
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cannot approach a barbell with an ego and say I'm going to lift this so I look cool in front of my
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friends or the other people in the gym but it doesn't care Bitcoin equally doesn't care about
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your emotions either and with Bitcoin the thing that spikes our emotions is the volatility in the
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market now we know that Bitcoin is volatile we talk about that all the time but when it hits
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how are you really feeling about that and your reaction to it is actually the problem not the
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volatility now I train with my brother-in-law sometimes I lift weights with them sometimes and
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I train some other dudes that are super strong a friend called James he's really strong and
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sometimes when I go there I want to put more weight on the bar just to try and keep up and some of
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that competition is healthy like it's actually good to train with other people because it pushes me
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a little bit but sometimes I can put too much on the bar and I've injured myself because I'm being
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impatient and because my ego is getting in the way and it's the same with Bitcoin you can become
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impatient and you can panic when you want to sell stuff or you can over trade selling when
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you're fearful buying a hype all these things signal emotional maturity and potentially some ego
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and I feel like now for me lifting weights for quite a long time and I'm building strength over a
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long period of time kills your ego and actually I feel like I have less ego around weight lifting
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now than I did when I really started focusing on lifting weights eight or nine or ten years ago
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strength is physical maturity holding Bitcoin through volatility is emotional maturity and both
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of them kind of compound into each other and I really understand now that the gym has taught me how
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to stay calm under heavy weights and if it doesn't move or I was something not right I've not
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trained correctly for it and I haven't put the work in that's okay you can stay calm in that
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but Bitcoin has taught me how to stay calm under volatile market environments
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this last section here is about responsibility and what the gym has taught me about responsibility
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and what Bitcoin has taught me about responsibility the reality is no one can lift the weight for you
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in the gym you cannot outsource weightlifting even the richest people in the world they cannot
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outsource doing hard things in the gym and taking responsibility for their bodies you can outsource
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a lot of stuff the richer you get the more help you can get the more staff you can get the more
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life may become easier as you get richer but you cannot outsource weightlifting it just doesn't work
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like that there's no way you can avoid doing hard things if you want to get strong you can read
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about weight training you can watch videos about weight training but at some point you have to step
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under the bar and start lifting and money is the same you can learn about money and study money
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but eventually you've got to start working and earning some money so you're able to save and invest
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that money and very often I find in this current climate in this current society a lot of people don't
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want to take responsibility for their finances and they're very quick to attribute blame to someone
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else for the reasons why they haven't got enough money or they haven't got access to the
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housing opportunities that they want or access to the jobs they want or they've got too much
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student debt and it's not their fault of course it should bloody fault you went to university
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what do you expect to get your debt paid off there's a lot of stuff in the UK around
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having student debt paid off right now and I can't really understand
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why we're doing that it's it's a lack of responsibility and people need to know no one is coming to
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fix your finances yes in western developed economies there is the welfare state there is social
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security to some extent you can get a bit of help and there is a bit of a safety net for most
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people but it's not a good safety net do you really want to be be complaining and not taking
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responsibility and wanting to to have someone come and scoop you up when things go wrong no that
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doesn't feel good and I can really fall into this as well I can really fall into it and look around
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other people and see how well somebody else is doing and the house they're moving into and
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you know it can start feeling like oh like you know look at them they've managed to get this
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thing and I can find a reason why they've done that and I haven't done that and you can start
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blaming other outside factors for why you're not progressing in the way that you would like to
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and it can be like a real pity party and I need to really avoid that and it's a terrible
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situation to get into no one is coming to fix your finances and actually feel like most people
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listen to this podcast are not in this category I'm just addressing it for a bunch of people that
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may have tuned in and are a bit of a complainer Bitcoin really removes the excuses it totally removes
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the ability to blame other people for your situation right now we like to blame the rich the super
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rich for the fact that housing is too expensive in the UK and inflation is popping off things are
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getting more expensive and they used to be we love to blame the rich and we want to tax the rich
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but Bitcoin removes all the excuses you must take responsibility for your own finances in Bitcoin
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there's no one else to blame you are responsible for your Bitcoin once you buy it and you custody
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yourself you take ownership of it yourself there is no one else to blame if you lose it you can't
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blame anyone else if it goes down in value don't get in touch with me and say are you talking to
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buy Bitcoin it's gone down I always say to do your own research to to to find out for yourself
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whether you would like to buy Bitcoin I'm just here saying that I believe it's the best thing
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that you should invest in but you must take responsibility for your own finances and that is
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something people find very hard to do and I really believe that weightlifting built my ownership of
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my own body it built my understanding that I have to put in hard reps I have to put in hard work
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not just for a couple of months before I go on a summer holiday every single day for years and
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years and years and people will often look and say oh it's easy for you isn't it you're already fit
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no I'm not already fit it didn't just happen it took years of responsibility years of waking up at 5am
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years of eating the right food years of saying no I'm not going to come out on a Tuesday late and
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drink too much I'm going to go to bed because I'm getting up tomorrow morning years of saying no
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to unhealthy food to fear crappy food and also years of saying no to pudding I do eat pudding
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and sweet stuff sometimes but you've got to get a balance and really take responsibility to think
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if I eat that it has an impact on the rest of my body and the way I train most people want to have
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freedom but very few want responsibility but they are the same thing freedom and responsibility
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go in hand and hand and Bitcoin taught me this and weightlifting has also taught me this
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so when people ask what my 5am gym sessions have to do with Bitcoin the answer I think you'll see
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now is quite simple the gym taught me to delay gratification and it taught me to stay steady when
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things get heavy and it taught me that no one can do the work for me Bitcoin rewards the exact same
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traits delay gratification emotional control and responsibility and when you realize that Bitcoin
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stops looking like speculation and it starts looking like discipline hey y'all if you want to
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connect with me you can check out my website is milesdillon.com you can get in touch with me that
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way you can see the stuff that I do stuff that I've done and you can find other episodes this
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podcast cool see you later guys bye