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3128: Is Your Child Selfish? 4 Simple Ways To Turn Your Kid Around by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply on Positive Parenting
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Episode 3128:
Adina Soclof explains that children who seem selfish are usually just doing what their age allows, since seeing an adult's point of view is a skill they have not developed yet. She offers four ways to teach it without coming down hard: empathizing with their feelings, saying what you need before the moment arrives, describing your situation plainly, and modeling compassion for others. It is practical positive parenting for raising a child who notices what everyone else is carrying.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/is-your-child-selfish-4-simple-ways-to-turn-your-kid-around/
Quotes to ponder:
"It is helpful to know that kids do not want to misbehave they are usually just acting normally for their age."
"Empathizing with kids and respecting their negative feelings is truly the best way to teach our kids to see our perspective."
"Naming their feelings helps kids to become emotionally literate and comfortable with their wide range of emotions."
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