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3129: Want Your Child to Talk to You? Become a Brilliant Listener! by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Listening Better
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Episode 3129:
Dr. Laura Markham explains that getting a child to open up has almost nothing to do with the right question and everything to do with how you listen. She walks through twelve habits, from putting the phone away and trading questions for gentle openers, to matching your reaction to their mood and keeping your own worry out of the room. It is parenting advice for becoming the person your child brings the hard things to.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.peacefulparenthappykids.com/read/brilliant-listener
Quotes to ponder:
"The most important skill in talking with anyone, including children, is listening."
"What your child needs from you is your full attention and empathy."
"Empathy is mirroring whatever she's already showing you."
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