#3588: Men: Why You Are Getting NO Pussy [Part 7 of 7]

Power presence calibration exists. It is not training. It is not coaching. It is for

people already operating under consequence. And that's not you, ignore this. Information

is in the episode description. Your confidence is not linked to the outcome of what happens

between you and the girl. Your confidence is something that you came with and is what

you're going to leave with, whether you leave with her or you leave by yourself, you'll

leave with the same thing you showed up with.

Work on your game. Work on your game. Work on your game.

This is Dre Baldur. And work on your game is the system that turns discipline into dominance.

Today's topic is, men, why you are getting no pussy. This is part seven of our seven

part series that show continues after this one. Just the series will be finished after

this episode. We are picking up where we left off on point. Number 19, no introduction

needed. Number 19, your confidence is linked to outcomes. How do you feel about yourself?

Your internal story about you is linked to the results of what happens between you and

female X and understand something. Women can read this energy in you when you have it.

This comes off as neediness. It comes off as uncertainty. It comes off as insecurity.

And it's a flashing red sign to her that she controls how you feel about you. This opens

the door for female manipulation. This machine can start manipulating you and making you do

whatever she wants you to do that is usually probably not to your benefit. Why? Because

the outcome of whatever you get from her determines how you feel about you at which point

again, she can manipulate your emotions and just completely control you. And if you don't

get the outcome that you want and any engagement with the woman, whether it be a conversation

or anything else, your confidence drops. And sometimes with someone's confidence drops,

you can see their confidence drop. You can see the confidence drain from their face. And

when things don't go the way they want them to go. And when your confidence drops, people

can read this energy coming off of you without you saying it. And they will take advantage

of it because you allowed the advantage to be taken. Your confidence, gentlemen, is an

internal self-belief. That's what confidence is. Your internal self-belief and confidence

is fueled by discipline. When your structures are in place and you follow your structures,

your discipline will be on point. When your discipline is on point, confidence follows

as a natural byproduct. When you build your confidence that way, there is no outcome that

comes from a woman that can hurt that confidence or even affect or even have a conversation

with that confidence. Because your confidence is an internal structure that is built by following

systems that we need to discipline has nothing to do with outcomes. You can't control outcomes

in life. You can't control in a sport what the other team is going to do with other players

going to do. You can't control the weather outside. You can't control whether the business

guy you're dealing with says yes to your offer says no to your offer says give me a month

before I can answer the question to your offer. You can't control any of that. All you

can control is operating your structure following your own structure. Getting this point

it comes out and getting the confidence that comes with it. That is all a self-contained

process. Confidence has nothing to do with what happens in the outside world. Yes, you

heard me correctly. Confidence has nothing to do with what happens in the outside world.

Now yes, can your confidence be boosted by something that happens on the outside such

as you getting a win or some notoriety or some notable outcome that the public knows about

you know that they know about it. Can I give it a boost? Yes, but if that doesn't happen your

confidence will still be sky high. If you get a negative outcome doesn't mean your confidence

has to go down. Absolutely not. Your confidence is a byproduct again of what I just told you.

Discipline and structure not results. Confidence leads to results. Confidence is a leading indicator

of results. It's not a trailing indicator of results. Confidence has not come after results.

Confidence comes before results. They're by own standards. Your confidence is not linked to

the outcome but what happens between you and the girl. Your confidence is something that you

came with and is what you're going to leave with whether you leave with her or you leave by yourself.

You leave them with the same thing you showed up with. You don't get that from girl. You don't

outsource your confidence to a result that comes from your dealings with another person. I don't

care who it is. It can be your parents. It can be your boss. It can be a coach. It can be one of

your friends. It can be the entirety of the community voting for or against you. Your confidence

is not on the ballot. Your confidence is not on trial when these things occur. Your confidence is

a byproduct again of those two things as it told you about. The structure and the discipline that

you follow. Point number 20. Today's topic once again is men. Why you are getting no pussy.

This is part seven of our concluding seven part series. Number 20. You don't control your masculine

aggression. What is this? It's exactly what I said it is. Mask on aggression is the aggressive

tendency that any majority testosterone having human has. Usually these are men. Men, we have

testicles. Our testicles produce testosterone. Testosterone is the hormone that leads to aggression,

challenging, fighting, not necessarily fist fighting, but fighting, working through tough

situations, handling challenges, dealing with confrontation, pushing back against things that we

don't want. The desire to win, to conquer, to achieve, to dominate, all of that is a byproduct

of testosterone. The higher you're a testosterone, the more of that energy you feel and the more of

that energy you project without saying anything. Men who are, they call it tea. Most people talk about

testosterone, talk about tea. So you hear low tea. That means a man with low testosterone. When a man

has low testosterone, that usually coincides with low drive, low energy. He doesn't come across

in a forceful way. He comes across more than a weak, feminine energy way. He can't seem to

command a room. His voice just is not as strong. He doesn't have the same effect on women, even

though he may be physically attractive. His energy is just not communicating to women the way that

it may have in the past as testosterone as well. And understand that no man walks around with a

big sign around his forehead that tells you how high or low his testosterone is. This is on

energetic communication happening between men and women. A man who is very high in testosterone

is going to draw the energetic attention of women. Even if they don't think he is pretty,

they may not like him. They will be attracted to his energy because the testosterone can be felt.

That's the whole point. You can feel when someone's high in testosterone. And when a man is high

in testosterone, he is more aggressive, more direct, more confronting, not necessarily in a

negative way, more assertive. He goes more towards the things that he wants. And his energy

carries in such a way that he gets a lot of the things that he wants without having to ask for it.

It's simply because his testosterone, his masculine energy, that aggressive energy is so high.

Now, what does this have to do with what we're saying here in point number 20? As a man,

just having a lot of masculine aggression, high testosterone is not the only goal. You have to

remember how to control that masculine aggression. You see a man who has a high level of masculine

aggression, high testosterone, but he doesn't know how to control the aggression that comes with it.

He can put himself in a dangerous position through reckless behavior. A man who spends his life

in and out of jail, saying no in street corners, ends up dead or incarcerated for life or dead forever,

end or incarcerated for a long time. It's often because the man did not learn how to control his

masculine aggression. So, masculine aggression in and of itself is not positive or negative,

but masculine aggression without a governor, without control, without containment that we talked

about over and over again in this series is a killer to your future success. Why? Because you don't

know when to turn it off. Man has to be able to turn it off or at least control. Aggression

can be a good thing when it's used properly. Aggression does not mean fist fighting or attacking

someone or jumping in front of somebody online at the movie theater. Aggression means going after

what you want purposely and intentionally. That's what aggression is. And it does not mean you

had to be a jerk to be aggressive. Aggression becomes dangerous and reckless, dangerous not only to

the user, but also to people around them when the aggression is out of control. So, what does this

have to do with this point number 20? One thing for some of you men reason you're not getting any

pussy because you don't know how to control your masculine aggression. You get direct and intentional

going after women, which is to a point a good thing, but also you got to remember what I'll

tell you. What if that woman tells you? What if she hesitates? What if she pauses a little bit? What if

she pushes back a bit against you? Can you deal with it? And, quote unquote, play ball, play tennis

without getting overly aggressive or getting impatient, simply because she's not giving you what

you want immediately. See, this is where your masculine aggression can get out of control. You

don't know how to channel and contain that energy. Being aggressive is great. I encourage aggression

in men, but I encourage aggression in men channel properly, not recklessly. And there's a big

difference. I've known some men who are very reckless with their aggression. They ended up in

bad situations in their lives or losing their lives or spending their lives behind bars because

they didn't know how to control that aggression. And I know men who have high levels of testosterone

that leads to masculine aggression, but they know how to control it. And they are able to channel

that energy into productive things. They are contributing members of society. If they only cannot

feel physically or emotionally safe with you, i.e. she doesn't feel like you can control your

aggression, she cannot be attracted to you because being around you is a dangerous situation. A woman

can't feel sexually attracted when she feels endangered at the same time. Has to be one another.

Now, she can feel protected by you and that same masculine energy when you learn to channel it,

but if she feels endangered by it because you can't control it, well, she can't be sexually

attracted. I send out a daily motivation text every single morning that is guaranteed to have

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to get that daily motivation. Point number 21. Today's topic once again. Part seven of our seven

part series men while you're getting no pussy number 21. You remain available when she is no longer

interested. Do not do this. I've seen many men. Some of you are listening to this. Violate this

principle and this is a principle. Never violate this. And I want to let you know this is a universal

principle meaning this is not just about men dating women women. This applies to you dating men.

All of you humans. This applies to you in business. It applies you in friendships. It applies to

you in situations anywhere where you have made it clear that you're interested in the other party.

Your counterpart has made it clear that they or he or she is not interested. Your job at that

moment as soon as you realize that it's you turn around and walk away. You ever seen Shark Tank

on ABC? There's a guy on Shark Tank named Kevin O'Leary. He makes a lot of appearances on news

networks and TV and stuff talking about finance and investing and things like that. Kevin O'Leary

on Shark Tank. Those who know Shark Tank is with some entrepreneurs show up on the show and

in front of a bunch of people have a bunch of money and they present their business and they

ask for an investment into their business to help them grow their business or get their business

acquired by one of the sharks. Kevin O'Leary is one of the sharks. One of the noted people without

a money who can buy into or invest in businesses. So Kevin O'Leary when he's on Shark Tank and

some entrepreneur comes up and they present their business, Kevin O'Leary will make an offer.

And just because a shark makes an offer does not mean it will be accepted. Their offer could

be beaten by one of the other sharks usually is five or six of them sitting up there so they will

compete with each other sometimes they collaborate on deals whatever. And Kevin O'Leary whenever

he makes an offer to an entrepreneur and an entrepreneur for whatever reason turns down his offer

or does not accept his offer the way that he presents it and he doesn't want to change his offer

Kevin O'Leary has this saying that he says he says you're dead to me and he's not saying it in a

nasty way it's just kind of like a tongue and cheek thing but that's this thing. Anytime

entrepreneur turns down Kevin O'Leary's always says you're dead to me. What he's saying is you're

very existence on this program never happened because we didn't do a deal so it's almost like it

never occurred so to me you're dead I never even knew you all right you don't exist man I'm telling

you that to tell you this you need to adopt Kevin O'Leary's mindset when it comes to a woman

turning you now. I'm gonna tell you she's not interested she's dead to you you're not interested

okay you're dead to me I never met you this conversation never happened I never introduced myself

you don't know my name I don't know your name and I'm gonna turn around and walk that way and I

don't even remember the conversation what conversation what girl and it's not something that you

announce by the way there's not something that you say out of your mouth to her or to yourself

this is the posture that you adopt as soon as you're told I'm not interested I got a boyfriend

I'm not available I don't want to date you anymore whatever the hell it is that she said doesn't

matter she's not interested you're not available you don't remain available you don't hang out you

don't orbit you don't say hey hey just in case you change your mind in six months say here's

my number no no no no go to jail go directly to jail do not pass go do not collect $200 if you

approach a woman at a bar and you ask her for a number and she turns you down I don't care how

she turns you down they can be very likely it can be very bluntly it doesn't matter if she turns

you down you say okay have a good time you turn around you walk away and you forget that you even

had that conversation that's what you do you never speak to her you know you don't say hi the next

time you see her at the bar you know say hey remember me last week I was talking to you and

ask you for your number you said no no you just act like it didn't even happen like I don't

need to remember you say absolutely nothing that's the power post that's the power position

that you take when someone is no longer interested I don't care if she works with you

she goes to the same gym as you or she will be next door to you the woman is not interested

you are no longer available for her interests because she told you she's not interested

she's dead to you you move on so recapping today's class is part seven of our now concluding seven

part series man why you're getting no pussy number 19 your confidence is linked to outcomes

don't get the outcome you want in any engagement with a woman you'll allow your confidence to drop

remember confidence is not based on outcomes confidence based on internal structure confidence

is an internal job done external job confidence based on following your structure following

this point this one produces confidence period confidence is a leading indicator of performance

is not a chilling indicator after performance number 20 you don't control your mask on aggression

mask on aggression is a good thing when it is controlled contained and directed properly

when it's out of control it makes a woman feel unsafe and insecure around you and she cannot

become sexually or intimately interested in a man where she feels unsafe around him number 21

you stay available when she's no longer interested your approach girl at the mall and you ask

before a number and she tells you no whatever form of no she gives you okay good to meet you good

talking to you turn around walk away and you forget that you even spoke to her she's dead to you

since the woman tells you she's no longer interested she becomes dead to you you move on as if

it didn't happen not to get angry at her you don't lash out at her you don't say another word you

don't ask her why you don't do anything you just leave get out of there and clean your hands of

that situation as if it didn't even happen because there's somebody else waiting all this said

everybody you met out there who need to calibrate yourself gets yourself into the right energetic

state to where you are carrying yourself as a way of being with the energy that I've talked about

here in this series go to powerpresenceprotocol.com work on your game drae all day there is a private

calibration process connected to this work most people should not look at it it assumes responsibility

not curiosity it assumes pressure not interest details are in the description do whatever you want

with that