Episode 3964 finds strength in your team.

Moms, it's time to rediscover, rejuvenate,

and renew who you are in mind, body, and spirit.

Welcome to Create Your Now, Your Best Selfie,

the show that help you do just that.

Here's your host, Certified Life Coach,

Personal Trainer, and Nutritionist, Christian Wargo.

Happy Happy Day, ready, set, putt!

Oh, yes, it is Super Bowl Weekend, and you know what?

It's Friday, June, here.

That means we're getting closer to the big game,

and you know what, the Olympics opening ceremony,

I believe is Friday.

I think I said it was Wednesday earlier.

I'm so confused as to what day it is,

but mark your calendars.

It's going to be a great weekend for some great games,

some great competition, find strength in your team.

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All right, so are you really ready?

I mean, come on, you have everything done,

or do you need to go to the Big Box Storage?

I won't tell your secret to anyone.

I need to go to, we're going to be doing some fun family things,

and I don't know, we'll probably pop some popcorn

and have, oh well, you kind of have chips and salsa, right?

You just got to have chips and dip

in some form or fashion.

But are you ready, like, seriously?

But I'm not talking about the Super Bowl.

I'm going to refer to it, yes.

But I'm talking about you.

Too often we're sold the myth

that success means soldering everything solo.

We do it well as mummies.

We show up and we're the nurturers,

and we fix dinner,

and maybe you have your husband

that comes and cleans and cooks behind you

and does some of those things too.

Maybe you're not that.

Maybe you're a single parent.

Wherever you are in the spectrum,

us as mummies we wear a very, very, very heavy load.

We carry it.

We wear it, and I think we shoulder it

to the point where we got to show everybody

that we're our own hero, right?

And do you really?

Because I know the world sometimes tells us that, right?

You're told to grind.

You're told to do the hustle

and to prove yourself by pushing harder

all by yourself.

But you're not less than for needing help.

You're smart and strong.

You're beautiful.

For building a team you can rely on.

So find strength in your team.

I mean, let's take a page

out of the expert's books, right?

We're talking Super Bowl quarterbacks.

Come on, they're there for a reason.

Nobody wins a game without a huddle.

A moment when the entire team stops,

locks in and plans the next move.

It's important.

And if you miss that huddle,

you miss what's next.

Have you watched them on the field?

That one last player,

player number 11's coming off

with player number 11 coming on

as in they're switching.

And if that last player comes in

and they didn't get the play,

there's gonna be some mishap.

And you've seen that.

You've seen it in the NFL.

You've seen it in college sports.

You've probably even seated in Friday night lights.

Your life and business work the same way.

Even the toughest, most driven leaders

don't go it alone.

They have a tribe,

a support system that keeps them steady.

It helps them spark new ideas

and fires them up when the going gets tough.

We all have tough times.

Do they all look the same?

No.

Does it all feel the same?

No.

But let me remind you

when the going gets tough,

the tough gets going

and you can do this.

True strength isn't about going it alone, my friend.

It's about knowing who's in your corner,

trusting them and leaning on each other

to push through roadblocks.

Now, I get it.

You may be saying, Kristian,

it sounds all great.

I want a team, but honestly,

I can't trust some of the people around me.

Then guess what?

Find another team.

Maybe you can't find your team

within the privacy of your own four walls.

I get it.

But you still can find a team.

And you can find strength in that team

as you build it.

And that's how momentum builds.

That's how breakthroughs happen.

I mean, that's honestly why I'm excited

about opening up Kairos,

our free community.

I'm working on it diligently.

I really, really am.

We're trying to get that new homepage on there

so we can have these links

so we can bring you into the community

because I don't want stuff out there

on the real world stage

called Facebook and Instagram and all of that.

That's fine if you want to post there.

Biomains go do it.

But when you come into my community,

I want to safeguard you as much as I can.

I can't guarantee 100%.

But there's no reason why we have to have all of our stuff out there.

And so by introducing Kairos,

having that free community allows people to come together

to support one another.

That's what we need, right?

And then when we open up aim, it goes even deeper.

And that's when you can begin to say,

oh, I want my huddle.

I want it to look like this.

I want my pot.

I want my women to come beside me.

Then possibly you too.

I don't know what it all looks like.

We just have to take it one step at a time

that will lead to miles of greatness.

I don't have it all worked out,

but I know God does.

And I'm telling you, you've got my heart.

And I'm going to show up like I show up every single day here.

Creature now is about walking your everyday God's way.

And it's not about doing it with weakness.

It's leaning on him.

Did you know he's part of your team?

He should be number one in your team, in my opinion.

And then you have, you don't need 10 or 12,

like you don't need a football team to huddle up with.

You may only have one or two people.

For me, it's my mom.

I've got a couple close girlfriends

that I know that if I send them a text

or give them a phone call,

I know immediately they're going to respond

when they can, obviously.

But I know they're going to be honest with me.

I know they're going to tell me the truth.

I may not want to hear that truth,

but they're going to tell it to me.

And they're going to be there when I'm happy.

They're going to be there when I'm sad.

So they'll smile with me or they'll cry with me.

And I get that sometimes we don't all have that.

But I'm telling you, you can find it.

But the first thing starts with you understanding

that you've got to stop trying to carry the weight by yourself.

Build your huddle.

And maybe you need to start with God again, seriously.

People say, Kristian, you know, are you always talking to yourself?

Like you're always on the go and I am driving a lot.

Right now, I mean, my whole life is on the road.

It feels like I need an RV.

Like I should have it.

It should be a tax deduction.

Because taking my business on the road, every single thing I do.

And the people I meet, the people I see,

and the conversations that I have,

you can build a huddle no matter where you are,

no matter your position.

It doesn't have to be within the privacy of your own four walls.

And if you want to include me in that huddle, great.

And some of you I know of, Kristian,

it's like you're part of my family too.

Thank you so much.

Like, I don't take that lightly.

I pray for you every single day.

And I lift you up, but I know that God has you,

even in the toughest of times.

Even when you're in the frozen tundra,

without electricity, maybe now it's just coming back on.

We still have people without power here, down south.

We've got stuff that just isn't back to full speed.

We now still have snow on the ground.

I was just shoveling yesterday.

And the day before, two and a half to three inches of ice.

So it was snowing sleep with a little bit of rain,

not freezing rain, but it was rain.

And then of course, we're dropping temperatures.

And it's only been the last two days

that we've gotten over, you know, 40 degrees,

really over freezing.

And every night that drops in the low 20s.

And so we're freezing.

So we've got black ice all over again.

People are slipping and sliding.

You have to come up my hill on my driveway.

It's a full u-shape.

But it's nothing but ice.

And I'm shoveling it.

Man, let me tell you.

I didn't get a whole lot done in two hours,

but I was exhausted.

The weight of it was crazy.

Sometimes we're trying to do everything on our own.

You can't build your huddle.

Deepen those trusted connections.

Reach out.

If I'm included and God's included, great.

You had two people.

You know you're going to get inspiration and motivation here.

You know I'm praying for you.

But you may need someone else too.

Someone to talk to.

And yes, when aim and chyrus open, great.

Jump in.

Don't hesitate.

We need to be sharing the load for each other.

We need to be able to gain that feedback

and be honest about what is needed in your life

and in somebody else's.

Because honestly, it's not always just about you, right?

You can be someone else's huddleer.

That makes sense.

If that's not a word, I just invented it.

Maybe I need to look it up on, yeah, I don't know where.

We'll look it up later.

I'll Google it later.

I'm not going to do it now.

I'm talking to you.

But seriously, a huddleer.

You got to be a huddleer.

Give a little.

And give a little more.

Because when you're doing that, you're showing, hey, I need that too.

And let me tell you, you may be a huddleer for one person

or two or three or ten or twenty.

But that doesn't mean that those people are going to huddle back for you.

Right?

And that's okay.

Find your team.

Find the strength in your team.

Because the score you really want isn't just measured and wins.

It's not about all the celebration.

Just it's fabulous.

But really, honestly, the score that you really want is measured in resilience, growth.

And the power of coming together, who you are and who you are becoming.

There's nothing that makes my heart happier, seriously.

Then hearing someone say, you know what?

I've been through a really rough season.

And they tell me their life story within five to ten minutes.

Most of the time this happens in a store on the side, like on a sidewalk,

outside of a store or something like that.

It's usually a stranger.

I mean, I have a lot of conversations with people who aren't strangers.

But in this circumstance, I'm telling you, this is a stranger.

And they let me know that I just, I don't understand, but there's something about it.

After eight, nine months of wrestling with all of this now,

I'm on the other side and I can see.

But when I was in the middle of the mess, I couldn't see.

I didn't know.

So you've got to honor who you are and then know that you still are becoming.

You're not stagnant.

There's growth to be had.

So let me ask you this question.

When was the last time you came together,

whether for yourself or someone else?

Maybe it was in a tragic situation,

a loss of a family member or a good friend, a medical diagnosis,

a struggle at school with your child.

Maybe even a struggle with wedding plans or grandbabies.

Maybe it's more so of, I don't know what I want to be when I grow up.

I don't know who I am.

My marriage failed or it feels like it's failing.

What is it for you?

But in the midst of all of that,

when was the last time you said, I want to be a part of a huddle.

I want to be a huddleer.

I want to be there for someone else.

Because when we're there for someone else,

it's amazing what happens to us.

So it's not always just about calling people to your team,

but also being willing to be a part of somebody else's team.

Let God be your quarterback.

And then build the rest around.

Seriously.

I mean, imagine how that would change things.

You're literally playing the Super Bowl of your life, right?

It's the game of life.

That's your Super Bowl.

And you get to get up and do it every single day.

So build your huddle because strength isn't a solo game.

It's a team sport.

Go in peace.

Be present.

Be incredible.

Be you.

I love you so very much.

I cannot wait to see you on the other side,

blessing tags and lots and lots of love.

We'll talk to you real soon.

Have a glorious blessed day.

Bye-bye.

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