645: Seeing Greene: Will Borrowing Money from Family Ruin Your Real Estate Deal?

Should you borrow money from your family? It could hurt your relationship if the deal goes wrong, but strengthen an existing partnership if everything goes right. Maybe a better question—how should you start raising private capital for your real estate deals? When it comes to the debt vs. equity debate, which makes more sense in your situation? Don’t worry, we’re bringing answers to all these questions and more! Welcome back to another episode of Seeing Greene, where your host David Greene answers questions from both aspiring and established real estate investors. We’re also joined by Alex Breshears and Beth Johnson, two expert private money lenders and authors of the newest BiggerPockets book, Lend to Live. They help tag-team some private money-specific questions as well as give context on who you should and shouldn’t accept funding from. Want to ask David a question? If so, submit your question here so David can answer it on the next episode of Seeing Greene. Hop on the BiggerPockets forums and ask other investors their take, or follow David on Instagram to see when he’s going live so you can hop on a live Q&A and get your question answered on the spot! In This Episode We Cover: How to use real estate depreciation to offset income from a W2 Sell, refi, rent, or hold—which is the best move as the market gets shaky? Whether building a purely passive real estate portfolio is possible or improbable How to pay back private money and whether taking debt vs. equity partners is the best move Borrowing money from family and how it could hurt your real estate deals and relationships Why understanding a lender’s pain points is mandatory before accepting money from them And So Much More! Links from the Show BiggerPockets Youtube Channel BiggerPockets Forums BiggerPockets Pro Membership BiggerPockets Bookstore BiggerPockets Bootcamps BiggerPockets Podcast Get Your Ticket for BPCon 2022 Listen to All Your Favorite BiggerPockets Podcasts in One Place Learn About Real Estate, The Housing Market, and Money Management with The BiggerPockets Podcasts Get More Deals Done with The BiggerPockets Investing Tools Find a BiggerPockets Real Estate Meetup in Your Area David's BiggerPockets Profile David's Instagram Rob's BiggerPockets Profile Rob's Youtube Rob's Instagram Rob's TikTok Rob's Twitter BiggerPockets Podcast 636 with Amy Mahjoory (Part 1) BiggerPockets Podcast 637 with Amy Mahjoory (Part 2) Scott Trench’s 10-Step Checklist to Buy Your First Rental Property Books Mentioned in the Show Lend to Live by Beth Johnson and Alex Breshears The Win-Win Wealth Strategy by Tom Wheelwright Set for Life by Scott Trench Connect with Beth & Alex: Alex and Beth Email on Lend2Live Beth's Email on Flynn Family Lending Alex' BiggerPockets Profile Beth's BiggerPockets Profile Lend2Live Flynn Family Lending Click here to check the full show notes: https://www.biggerpockets.com/blog/real-estate-645 Interested in learning more about today’s sponsors or becoming a BiggerPockets partner yourself? Check out our sponsor page! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices