A Failing System, Custody Wars, & Domestic Violence Led To Her Daughter's Death

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Today, I sit down with Christina Ronquillo, a domestic violence survivor and contributing author in the Warriors of Hope anthology. We reconnect after meeting at the book launch and walk through the core themes survivors face behind closed doors—abuse, control, fear, and what it takes to speak up when the system feels stacked against you. 

Ms. Ronquillo shares how being raised in a strict, faith-centered home shaped her view of marriage, endurance, and family, and how those beliefs influenced major decisions as a young mother. We talk through the realities of domestic abuse—financial control, isolation, escalating violence, and the pressure to “stay” even when staying puts you and your children at risk. 

We also unpack the long legal aftermath: custody battles, CPS involvement, protective orders, and how court continuances and systemic gaps can leave victims feeling unheard and unprotected. Ms. Ronquillo explains how advocacy, documentation, the right legal support, and the right people in your corner can change the trajectory—especially when children’s safety is on the line. 

To close, we highlight what she’s building today: her books The Silenced Truth (her life story), Ink and Silence (poetry), and her upcoming project 7:17 Springs of Living Water (paired with music), along with her work in acting and digital marketing. Most importantly, Ms. Ronquillo leaves listeners with a direct call to action: speak up, tell someone, and don’t assume you’re alone—help exists, and your voice matters. If you or someone you know is in danger, call local emergency services; for confidential support in the U.S., you can also contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233). 

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