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The Garfield community -- and, it seems, the whole city of Seattle -- mourns Tom Hudson, remembering him as a great man and teacher. One of the students who was closest to him, Jonathan Hill, spends the weeks after Hudson's death trying to ensure his reputation and legacy go untarnished by the allegations that led to his suspension in late 1999.
But secretly, Jonathan is still reeling from the weeks before Tom's death. During that time, Hudson repeatedly leaned on Jonathan -- then the president of Post 84, Hudson's outdoors club -- as his personal crisis counselor. Jonathan reveals he’s also wondered if he’s to blame for Hudson’s death. This is the closest Isolde’s ever come to understanding what happened to Hudson in the weeks between his leave of absence and his suicide.
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On February 6, 2000, the Sunday after Garfield High School Science teacher Tom Hudson died.
The Seattle Times published two stories about him.
If you opened the paper that morning, you would have read that this celebrated educator,
the leader of the school's renowned outdoors club, was suspended after a parent complaint
about his conduct.
At the school district dragged out a month's long investigation into his alleged abuse
of boys, and that Mr. Hudson, who dedicated his whole world to young people, was in agony
being isolated from his students.
So he took his own life.
One of the stories was a fawning portrait written by a news columnist who clearly believed
Mr. Hudson had been wronged.
The columnist referenced ancient Greece when a famed philosopher was put on trial for
his unorthodox teachings.
Like Socrates, she wrote, Hudson walked a line with rule-makers.
But it was the last sentence of the column that made me go cold.
I ran to my dad holding the newspaper.
My dad scanned the piece, his eyes growing wide.
He read the final paragraph aloud, slowly in disbelief.
It may never be known if the allegations were true, only that they likely played a part
in killing a teacher, best known for showing his students how to survive.
What those Seattle Times stories didn't say is that the original complaint made against
Mr. Hudson came from me.
I urged my mom to call the authorities after Ella Husshagen, my best friend, told me Mr.
Hudson had pressured boys to look at porn and shower with them.
Ella and I had done what we thought was right.
But now one of the city's major daily newspapers had taken angry whispers, printed them, and
in so doing, put a target on both our backs.
And after Mr. Hudson died, the district's superintendent ended the investigation, saying
it wouldn't be fair to continue because Mr. Hudson couldn't defend himself.
So for the last year and a half, I've been trying to complete the investigation that
was cut short.
It's been like having a 1000 piece puzzle dumped on the table, but with some pieces missing
and no box cover as a guide.
I'd collected records and talked with some former classmates, but to answer the questions
I've carried with me for so long, I had to go into Mr. Hudson's inner circle.
I reached out to the former president of Post 84.
That's when I discovered how little I really knew about those seminal events from my past.
He told me how, at age 17, he was forced into the role of Mr. Hudson's confidant in the
final months of his life.
How he fought to keep Mr. Hudson alive.
And how, like Ella and me, he's carried the weight of those tragic days well into adulthood.
All this time, our former classmate hadn't thought of us as responsible for Mr. Hudson's
death, because he's blamed himself.
From K-O-W Public Radio in Seattle, I'm Is Older Aftery.
This is Adults in the Room, Episode 4, Jonathan.
Tom Hudson's memorial service took place in downtown Seattle in an old church turn performance
space.
Today it's typically reserved for famous authors passing through the city on booktours.
Picture a domed ceiling, stained glass windows, and a sea of long, curving oak pews.
A thousand people packed in, shoulder to shoulder to honor Mr. Hudson.
Kids from Post 84 sat on the floor at the front of this grand space, criss-cross applesauce
wearing fern crowns.
But this wasn't the only service, the Post 84 students attended for their leader.
They had gathered the weekend before, in a forest outside Seattle for their own private
remembrance.
Under the Evergreens, dripping with lichen, a campfire crackled as the team.
Many in wool pants bought for cheap at the military surplus store downtown, shared memories
of their beloved instructor.
My friend Maria sent me a VHS tape from this Woodsy Tribute.
The video runs for half an hour.
Students reminisced about Mr. Hudson could joling them to belay off a rock face, delivering
Snickers bars to hungry campers after a night alone in the soggy woods.
And handing out a chainsaw, like it was no big deal.
After watching the eulogies, I noticed a common thread.
Many of these kids were nervous, shy even.
There's a recurring pattern of Mr. Hudson pulling introverted students out of their shells
and into some new, ridiculous scenario they'd never been in before.
But he didn't ask kids to do these things.
He made them.
That totally freaked me out, and I looked at Tom, as all of you guys know, you know, when
you look at Tom, he tells you to do something.
I mean, there's nothing you can really do about it.
You've fallen told me to do the program, so you're a mixture of volunteering me, but
telling me I was going to do it.
During our senior year, Jonathan Hill was the president of post-84.
Mr. Hudson had recruited him as a freshman when Jonathan was just a quiet band nerd.
When there was a trip coming up, he didn't approach me and say, Jonathan, are you interested
in doing this?
Jonathan, I signed you up, I can't wait for you to join.
And me still as a pretty timid, small guy at the time, and Tom being a very authoritative
teacher, you know, charismatic, and all that, it was hard for me to say no.
Jonathan said being violent told was uncomfortable at first, but with each trip, he could feel his
confidence and his bond with Mr. Hudson grow.
Are you glad that he did that?
Yes.
Yes.
Like, is there two ways to look at it, right?
One is like, it's too forceful.
Or he saw in you, I've got to push this kid harder.
Yeah.
I think it was both of those things.
Tom took the post and our programs very, very, very, very seriously.
And he recognized that for the program to be successful, he needed talent.
And I do think he saw that in me.
And when I certainly did not see it in myself, I do think another reason he pressured me into
joining the post was like he wanted to be around me more.
By the time Jonathan was a sophomore, he devoted almost all of his free time to post 84, which
meant he was around Mr. Hudson a lot.
Though it wasn't surprising when Mr. Hudson invited Jonathan to play racquetball one day
after school.
You've heard a story like this one a few times already.
We played racquetball and it was fine, it was kind of fun.
But then in the locker room after needing to change it back into clothes, there was a shower
and he was like, okay, we're going to shower.
Again, it wasn't hey, Jonathan, do you want to take a shower after it's, we're going
to take a shower now.
I was just like, yeah, I can just, you know, so I brought up my swimsuit and he said to me,
Jonathan, we don't wear swimsuits in the shower.
And that made me so uncomfortable.
And I put on my swimsuit anyway and I was like, okay, we're shower good.
And you know, he went into the shower area naked and I picked the farthest shower away.
And I went against him, which I'm proud of myself for.
Jonathan can't recall if he'd known beforehand that Mr. Hudson would likely pressure him
into the shower.
Jonathan told me he was risk averse in general, the kind of kid who would bring swim trunks
along to a gym just in case he might need them.
Regardless, that shower changed how Jonathan saw his teacher.
He still admired Mr. Hudson as a mentor and he still loved post 84.
But after that day, Jonathan decided he didn't want to spend time with Mr. Hudson alone.
He still helped me grow into a confident person.
He just was transformationally good for me before and after that racquetball experience.
But I, you know, age 16, 17, I was like, okay, Jonathan, here's the plan.
We're going to have a business relationship with Tom.
And I thought that at the time, that's how I'm going to be safe.
By his junior year, Jonathan had seen Mr. Hudson coax other boys into showering with him naked
after post 84 scuba trainings.
And he'd heard from friends in the club that Mr. Hudson had slapped boys' butts in the
shower.
These stories made Jonathan uncomfortable.
But instead of blaming Mr. Hudson for that feeling, he believed something was wrong
with him.
He was an anxious kid and Mr. Hudson was so confident and all knowing.
Maybe he was the weird one for not being chill enough to take off his swim trunks in
the shower.
None of the other guys seemed to think Mr. Hudson's behavior was a big deal.
So Jonathan kept to himself but felt like he was walking a tightrope as he balanced the
risks and rewards of working closely with Mr. Hudson.
And in hindsight, I think I pulled that off pretty well until senior year.
Just ahead of senior year, Mr. Hudson told Jonathan that he'd be the new president of
post 84.
In that moment, neither could have foreseen that Mr. Hudson would soon be placed on leave,
that a formal investigation into his behavior would be launched, complicating their relationship
even more.
And that in the thick of it all, Jonathan would be drawn deeper into Mr. Hudson's orbit
with a force that would take him decades to overcome.
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At the start of our senior year at Garfield High School, post 84 drew more students than
ever before.
But Jonathan noticed something was off about Mr. Hudson, the daring rescue on Mount Olympus,
which I described in episode one, happened almost exactly one year before.
Jonathan had avoided that trip, so he wasn't there to help his friends save Mr. Hudson's
life after he fell into a deep crack in the ice.
Publicly, Mr. Hudson said the rescue was a success.
He touted the survival skills of the students he trained.
But behind the scenes, Mr. Hudson seemed deeply shaken by the accident.
That event really messed with Tom.
Messed with his mind and his sense of self.
I think he had an invincibility complex where he thought he could get away with things
and that things wouldn't get in his way.
He told me that he wasn't going to see his doctor, even though his knee was messed up
from the fall, telling me it takes 20 ibuprofins a day, that's not healthy, why are you telling
me that?
And he became more volatile?
Jonathan heard that Mr. Hudson had kicked another club member in anger and saw that Mr.
Hudson was now using his personal boat for post-84 activities, which made Jonathan nervous.
Kids would be alone with him, isolated on the open water.
Jonathan remembers feeling overwhelmed by these changes in Mr. Hudson's behavior and
whether it would hurt post-84.
I think I was more just worried about what would happen either to Tom or the program or
to the students or whatever and I was just like, I don't like this, I don't like things
being elevated, I don't like things coming to light.
Jonathan didn't share his concerns with anyone.
I feel bad saying it, but even at the beginning of senior year, I was like, okay, I've
eight more months of Tom, I can get through this.
I was still very appreciative for him, but already I was like, I'm looking forward to not
being around Tom anymore.
White before Thanksgiving break, Jonathan learned the school district was poised to investigate
Mr. Hudson.
He doesn't remember who told him about this or why, but he and fellow post-84 member,
Rosie Bancroft went to Mr. Hudson's classroom.
Without thinking, I felt that I needed to tell Tom.
It was my responsibility to tell him if I have information that affects him or our program.
It wasn't a debate in my mind.
In hindsight, it's like, why, why?
And I was 17, I was a few months away from my 18th birthday.
I walked into Tom's office as a Tom, I have something to tell you and he seemed like
he was already having like a bad day, like he was just low energy and lethargic and we
sat down and I said, Tom, I've learned that the school district is starting an investigation.
And I think they're going to look into how you've been interacting with us students.
And he looked at me and just some of the color went out of his face and he slowly closed
his eyes and then he slowly said, I want to keep these eyes closed and never open them
again.
Even through school records from that time, I found a letter from the district to Mr.
Hudson dated just before Thanksgiving.
It broke the same news that Jonathan felt compelled to share with him.
Mr. Hudson already knew he was in trouble.
After Thanksgiving, Mr. Hudson didn't return to school.
Jonathan kept thinking about how to feed it his teacher seemed when they talked about
the investigation a week earlier.
So he and a friend from post-84 went to check on him at the Marina and Seattle's Ballard
neighborhood where Mr. Hudson wore his boat.
They saw his truck in the parking lot and headed for the dock.
As they climbed on board, they noticed three empty beer cans on a table next to Mr. Hudson.
He had another beer open.
Mr. Hudson was married, but it was evident to Jonathan that he'd been living alone on
the boat.
Without hesitation, he started talking about his previous 24 hours and he said, you know,
last night he was feeling so lost that he was going to kill himself.
And now I'm going to speak in the first person as he was saying to us and, you know, I wanted
to make plan for how to do it and I just thought, I'm going to take my boat out on the
Puget Sound, put the gas pedal up to the top notch and then put on a scuba diving weight
belt that he had on and drink more alcohol and then just fall off the boat and let the
boat go.
Keep going until it ends until it sinks until it hits something and then I would drown and
that would be that.
And he said to us, you know, while I was ready to end it, I thought about you, I thought
about the other students, I thought about other people in my life and that you all want
me to stay alive.
So here I am because of you.
Jonathan went to Mr. Hudson's boat, planning to maintain their quote unquote business relationship.
But during the visit, he felt a shift.
I felt like I was someone and my friend was someone he was comfortable talking to and
he needed to talk to people and he wanted to share this and we were there for him.
He had been there for us for many years and this was an opportunity for me to be there
for him.
After that encounter, Jonathan and the other post 84 kids closed ranks around Mr. Hudson.
They stopped talking to Eddie Hill senior, the former cop, the district hired to investigate
their teacher and they tried to get others to join their campaign.
A former post 84 leader called from college to persuade Rosie to stay quiet and Jonathan
even phoned me one night asking me to stop talking about Mr. Hudson.
Mr. Hudson wasn't allowed to speak with students while he was under investigation but Jonathan
went to the marina twice.
He has a clear memory of the second visit about two weeks after Mr. Hudson first told
him his suicide plan.
It was at night maybe 7 pm 8 pm and this time whereas before there was a 6 pack of beer
now there was a 24 pack of beer and he told me that he can't eat food, he's not hungry
but even when he tries to eat it won't stay down.
The only thing he can consume is beer.
Jonathan recalls a bleak scene and more raw honesty from his teacher.
Mr. Hudson let down his guard revealing that in the past he'd wandered if he was gay.
He shared with me that when he was young he was having confusing feelings towards other
boys and men but he didn't tell me he was gay but he told me that he questioned back
when he was younger and that he tried different things including joining the army but those
feelings didn't go away.
It was the only time I'd ever seen him vulnerable and allowing himself to share his doubts,
his insecurities, his hurt.
What was going through your head as he was telling you all this?
I was basically just listening but I remember feeling connected.
I could tell that he felt that he was being heard without judgment, that he was able
to do this safely and say things and tell somebody things that he wanted to say out loud
for a long time.
Jonathan why does this get you like this one memory?
I think it's because it was the first and probably the only time like he was ever his
true self around me.
It also I'm feeling a little emotional now because I was able to make him feel okay for
just at least a little while.
I don't know how long I was there, maybe 30 minutes, maybe an hour, maybe longer.
I don't know but at a certain point I was like okay I gotta go home and he just said okay.
He said thank you for coming and then we had a spontaneous hug.
I don't know if he put his arms out first, I don't know if I put my arms out but we just
had a hug and it was despite everything how uncomfortable he made me feel in the past.
It was so authentic and safe and real and then I said bye and he said bye and that ended
up being the last time I ever saw him.
But that wasn't the last time Jonathan and Mr. Hudson would talk or the last time Mr.
Hudson would lean on Jonathan for support.
A couple of hours after Jonathan got home from visiting Mr. Hudson on his boat, the phone
rang.
It was Mr. Hudson calling.
Their earlier conversation on the boat had felt raw and vulnerable but this was different.
He was just like a shell of himself.
There wasn't inflection in his voice, it's kind of like a dead man walking kind of thing.
It's a Jonathan I'm calling you so you can say bye to me.
Unlike before where he was just like here's my plan to commit suicide, he was using a euphemism.
I'm going south, I'm heading south.
I inferred that he was going to kill himself and that he wanted to give me an opportunity
to say bye to him and he wanted me to tell these other people who cared about him that
he wanted to say bye but couldn't.
Jonathan was a lifeguard trained in emergency search and rescue.
He kept a pager by his bed when he slept.
He was oriented toward keeping people alive.
It felt like Jonathan was digging into his soul to keep Mr. Hudson from heading south.
My reaction to that was no, I'm not going to say bye to you, no I'm not going to do these
other things for you.
I'm not going to say bye to other people for you because you're going to call me tomorrow
because you're not going to do this and you're going to commit to me that you're going
to call me tomorrow.
But Mr. Hudson pushed back.
He went into like talking about how worthless he was, how he doesn't deserve to stay with
all these people, how he doesn't deserve to have me in his life and so my kind of assertiveness
and directiveness that wasn't working anymore.
I went for my brain to my heart and I was like, I got emotional, I was like, no Tom,
you mean so much to me, you mean so much to everyone else.
You are a good person, you do matter and at that point, I think I kind of wore him out
and he said, okay, Jonathan, I'll call you tomorrow, it's okay, bye.
When they hung up, Jonathan hyperventilated.
It was a panic attack.
He'd never had one before.
He didn't want Mr. Hudson to die and now he felt like he was the only one who could
keep that from happening.
Jonathan fell asleep that night, not knowing if he'd talk to his teacher ever again.
Mr. Hudson didn't call the next day, but at school, Jonathan heard that someone had spoken
to him, so Jonathan's gambit on the phone had worked, Mr. Hudson was still alive.
A week or two later, he called Jonathan.
It was basically the same talk, except this time he was much more stubborn and just, you
know, Jonathan now is the time to say bye to me, you're not going to see me again.
I did my same tactics and it just didn't work.
The way I describe it is it, I mean, this might sound weird, but my life energy I tried
to transfer into him through my words and sentiment and energy to try and, you know,
like, resuscitate his soul because that's what it seemed like.
It wasn't his mind or even his brain, he had lost just the grace to live, but he wouldn't
give up, he wouldn't give up, and I was just getting physically weaker on this call.
And I just, my mind clicked on as like Jonathan, now's your time to say goodbye.
So I said, thank you, Tom, for everything.
I'm so sad that you're doing this, and I'm going to really, really miss you.
And he said, okay, bye, and I said bye.
And I subsequently learned he did not kill himself that night.
And then I heard that he didn't even remember calling me because he was so drunk.
And how could that be, like, how could destroying me not even be a memory for him?
Mr. Hudson cast Jonathan, a 17 year old high school student, into the role of counselor,
therapist, and crisis responder.
At Garfield, the lines between teachers and students, adults and children had always
been blurry, but for Jonathan, they'd now disappeared completely.
Jonathan had two of these heavy phone conversations with Mr. Hudson.
He told me he lived with a constant fear that the phone would ring again, or that worse,
Mr. Hudson would find him in person.
Jonathan, already an apprehensive teen, was wound so tight during this time that he'd
erupt in anger over small things.
One day, after an argument with his brother, Jonathan jumped in his car and just kept driving.
I just like balled in my car for like 20 minutes.
I remember I was overlooking Lake Washington on a hill, and I was just like, I can't do this
anymore.
I didn't seek out help.
I did talk to a few of my friends, my peers, that was helpful, but they were 17 year olds
too.
Also children.
Yeah.
Jonathan would call me in just a state of like, what I don't know what to do with this.
Rosie Bancraft was one of Jonathan's good friends.
She remembers how distraught he was.
Now that I know about this, I have to do something.
I have no idea what to do.
I have no idea if he's really going to do it.
I feel like now that I know about it, it's on me, if he kills himself.
Jonathan was drained.
He couldn't take it anymore.
He had to stop talking to Mr. Hudson, regardless of the outcome.
I decided, you know, I needed to tell Tom not to contact me again.
So I called him one day in the afternoon.
He was sober, or at least he sure sounded.
He sounded pretty normal.
And I just said, Tom, I can't be there for you like you want me to be there for you.
I can't have you call me anymore.
He sounded so sad to hear that and abandoned, but understanding.
And he said, OK, Jonathan, I won't call you anymore.
Mr. Hudson kept his word.
He stopped calling.
After a few weeks, Jonathan felt better.
Another teacher and some parents stepped in to help manage post 84
while Mr. Hudson was suspended.
And Jonathan had an epiphany.
Maybe Mr. Hudson was a danger to his students, he thought.
And the investigation was the right thing to do.
But soon after, during a post 84 meeting,
a parent who attended said nobody had seen or heard
from Mr. Hudson for a few days.
Well aware of Mr. Hudson's suicidal thoughts, Jonathan
wondered if he'd followed through.
He felt a flicker of emotion and then
returned to his autopilot state of avoidance.
Don't think about Tom.
Keep the post afloat.
Graduate.
A day or two later, Garfield Principal Cheryl Chow
called the post 84 leaders to her office.
She told the Mr. Hudson had died by suicide in a motel
room north of Seattle.
I don't really remember what the principal said after that.
You know, maybe I'm sorry.
But I felt like less than a minute later,
Principal says, so I need your help.
I need, I need your help now.
And I think she looked at me, maybe it was all of us.
And was like, I need to know which students need to be
gathered up to be told.
And so, you know, I had 30 seconds to process this before
this adult needed me to to step up and get back in the
management mode.
Jonathan and the other core post 84 members walked around
the school telling about 20 students from the program to
meet in Garfield's career center, a big room with clunky
computers.
Jonathan had been instructed to wait for a counselor or the
principal to join them.
The adults would break the news to everyone.
They waited and waited some more.
Clock was taken by known as there.
We were just like, there were no adults in the room.
And I was like, this is not right.
Most of the people in here had not been told formally.
So I was like, quote, quote, an adult now.
And so I then said, everybody like as, you know, I think
some of you already know Tom committed suicide.
And he's gone.
After Jonathan shared the news, he watched his classmates
deflate.
Some kids went quiet and still.
Others started crying.
Eventually, a few adults did show up.
I told myself, be strong.
Hold it together.
You can feel your feelings when you get home.
But be strong for your friends.
Be strong for your classmates.
And I did for a little while, but then I think the
principal offered me to call my parents to let them know.
And so I was like, yeah, I think I should.
So I called my mom and I told her what happened.
And then I broke down.
Mr. Hudson's death changed everything at Garfield.
It ended the district investigation into his behavior
with students.
And it let loose a flood of vocal support
from parents, students, and the outdoor community
that revered him.
Tom Hudson, the 58-year-old man facing allegations
of sexual abuse had died.
But Tom Hudson, the legendary teacher, mentor, and leader
was reborn.
And Jonathan promoted that narrative.
Under Jonathan's leadership, post-84 celebrated
Mr. Hudson's legacy.
Jonathan wrote an obituary for Mr. Hudson in the messenger.
And at the huge public memorial at the Hudson Family's request,
he delivered a eulogy for the man who changed his life.
Jonathan didn't mention what he now calls the suicide talks,
conversations that have made him feel guilty
for a lot of his adult life.
All the pain, the confusion, the shame, the hurt,
the harm, the trauma that Tom caused in me,
I put that into a box deep inside me.
Then in my college years and in my 20s,
my priority was to keep all that in that box.
So while I say all of these emotions, feelings,
and confusion, down in the box, I did have a narrative
in my mind.
And it was a very brief, concise narrative.
And it was Tom told me he wanted to kill himself,
and he was going to kill himself.
He did not kill himself because I was there for him.
I told him, I couldn't be there for him.
He killed himself.
A couple of weeks ago, Jonathan called me.
He'd just listened to episode two of this podcast.
He'd heard our former classmate, Christina Mitchell,
tell the story of how Garfield's principal at the time,
Al Jones, took advantage of her.
And it made him reconsider our earlier conversations.
Jonathan said that when we first talked,
he didn't tell me the whole story about the shower
with Mr. Hudson.
He'd been too ashamed to give me all the details.
The truth was he said Mr. Hudson was fully erect
and staring at him.
Jonathan said that was the first time he'd
seen a man turned on.
He was 15 years old.
An alarm sounded in his brain at that moment, telling him
he wasn't safe.
It's the real reason why Jonathan
kept his distance from Mr. Hudson after that.
Why he intentionally missed the Mount Olympus trip
and steered clear of Mr. Hudson's boat.
But for all the space he put between them,
Mr. Hudson still managed to dig deep into the psyche
of this sweet boy, burdening him
with the gut-wrenching responsibility
of believing he was the only one who
could prevent his teacher from killing himself.
Today, Jonathan says he feels kinship with Christina.
He is healing and thriving.
Jonathan wants other survivors of abuse
to hear this experience that life can get better.
Through therapy, through friends, through family,
and work, work, and more work, I've
been able to work through a lot of that
and understand a lot more about what happened
and that it was a really, really hard situation
that I did my best in and that I actually
have a lot to be proud of and that it was not my fault.
Jonathan never told anyone about the shower with Mr. Hudson.
But his story confirmed part of what
my best friend Ella and I had heard
at the start of the investigation back in 1999
that Mr. Hudson sometimes got aroused in the shower
with his teenage students.
Ella and I believed then and now that Mr. Hudson
had been a serial abuser, a predator, hiding in plain sight.
He hurt Jonathan.
How many others were there?
And did any adults try to stop him?
That's on the next episode of Adults in the Room.
In episode five of Adults in the Room,
Ella and I had a mission for this podcast
to prove the extent of Tom Hudson's abuse.
So we found the man who led the school's
original investigation to help us finish what he started.
I wanted to try to get that out of the way
to figure out what his interpretation of what was happening.
And his answers, as I remember, did not say answer on me.
But after hitting dead ends, we realized
that part of the truth had been sitting right in front of us
the entire time.
This is why I wanted to talk to you
because nobody needs to do this alone.
And I have felt so alone in this for so long.
That's coming up next.
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