Advice: How Do I Approach Sex After 33 Years With My Ex-Husband? With Dr. Juliana Hauser

Nothing gets us more excited than witnessing one of our listeners burst back onto the dating scene after a long marriage. Yet, as thrilling as this new chapter may be, it can also come riddled with uncertainties. How can I ensure my safety while exploring new sexual partners? How can I feel confident in my body as an older woman? Join us as we welcome back marriage and family therapist, and sex educator Dr. Juliana Hauser, to help Erin shed light on these vital topics.

In this episode, Erin and Dr. J delve into a question from Amy, a 63-year-old woman venturing back into the dating scene after 33 years of marriage. We uncover practical advice that any woman can embrace to embark on her sexual journey with confidence and enthusiasm, including:

1. Self-Perception Matters: Why confidence in your worth and sexiness is your greatest asset in the dating world.
2. Trust Your Instincts: Engage in texts and phone calls before meeting in person to identify any potential red flags.
3. Set Boundaries Early: Understand the importance of setting boundaries and how to gauge a partner's respect for consent
4. Safety First: Strategies for meeting in public places, sharing plans with friends, and utilizing video calls for added security.
5. Embrace Your Body: Prioritize connection and pleasure over societal standards of what’s hot
6. Normalize Playfulness: Embrace a lighthearted approach to sex to alleviate pressure and tension in your sexual journey.

Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show!

OUR GUEST: Dr. Juliana Hauser, is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT), licensed professional counselor (LPC), and holds a PhD in Counseling Education. As a seasoned therapist and educator with a focus on sex positivity, she's authored sex-positive programs for Planned Parenthood, managed a halfway house, and worked with sexual abuse survivors and abusers. Her conversational therapy style has earned her the nickname 'you’re like my best girlfriend…with a PhD.' Join Dr. Hauser in her mission to spread holistic, non-intimidating sex positivity worldwide.

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