Are Selfish Habits Silently Killing Your Marriage? (How to Identify Them) | S7 E33

If there was a test that measured your selfishness ...what would your score be? 

Most people don't detect their own selfish actions until it's too late - and in a marriage, that can be a death sentence leading to pain and heartbreak. 

To help you build a healthier relationship, Steve and Mary Alessi get brutally honest about attraction, selfishness, and those hidden habits that quietly sabotage marriages. You’ll discover how small, self-focused choices build up walls between couples—and how intentional acts of care, consideration, and vulnerability can break them down.

From tackling the age-old issue of keeping score to revealing the biblical secrets to a selfless marriage, you'll get  practical wisdom that helps you look inward, own your part, and strengthen that all-important “we.”

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