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About this episode
What if the things that happened to you weren't about you?
In this beloved conversation, astrologer Chani Nicholas helps us understand why we react the way we do, how childhood survival strategies shape our adult lives, and what it takes to become better partners to ourselves. Together, we explore dysregulation, boundaries, healing, and the liberating possibility that self-awareness can set us free.
- How to recognize when you're dysregulated—and help yourself in the moment
- The freeing truth that "the things that happened to me weren't about me"
- Why the rules that kept you safe as a child may be keeping you stuck as an adult
- How to set boundaries, trust yourself, and finally rest
- What astrology can reveal about your relationships and patterns
About Chani:
Chani Nicholas is a Los Angeles-based New York Times bestselling author of You Were Born For This: Astrology for Radical Self-Acceptance.
She has been a counseling astrologer for more than 20 years, guiding her community of over 1 million monthly readers to discover and live out their life’s purpose through understanding their birth chart.
Chani runs her company with her wife and business partner, Sonya Passi. Together they launched the CHANI app, which offers a personalized, daily understanding of their birth chart.
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