Bobby & Mila: He Got Ghosted After a Potluck… Then the Fire Alarm Wasn’t Even the Problem 🔥😬

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Bobby is on the phone today for a first date follow up and he's getting ghosted by Mela.

So in a second, we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

him and hopefully get him another date.

But first, Bobby, how long has it been since you heard from Mela?

There.

It's been about 10 days.

Have you tried to reach out to her in those 10 days?

Yeah, I've texted her like twice.

I sent her a meme or two, but it's been nothing.

Okay.

Well, why don't you tell us about the date?

Sure.

Yeah.

So we met at a hot walk that a mutual friend was growing and it was her idea to make

this, you know, everyone to bring like homemade dish thing and I love to cook.

I love being in the kitchen.

So I brought my mom's like famous and casserole and I might have been slightly overcooked,

but it was still edible and I think really good.

And Mela showed up with like this like amazing like professional secretary board.

Like so many different cheeses I could not stop eating it and then talked for like the

entire night.

Like for so long, you know, it was like it was a really good buy.

That's great.

So did you feel like Mela was into the vibe?

Does she love that you're eating her cheese?

Yeah, absolutely.

Like we were talking to like a group outside and it felt like it was just us because like

we were just talking between us like the entire time back and forth.

And like we were talking about like cooking too, like the best way to make guac, but you

know, I have some very strong feelings about so I mean, it felt really natural and good.

Um, and why do you think she might be ghosting you?

Okay, well, the only thing I can think is that I might have like overdone it at the potluck.

Like we, I think I tried to impress her too much, but basically she mentioned that how

much she loves flan.

Um, and I tried to like whip one up from scratch just like using whatever I could find

in the kitchen.

Uh-huh.

Um, I thought it would be like really cute and romantic, but it did not go very well.

Like I set off the smoke alarm and the flan turned out more like like a, uh, stupid, pretty

impressive.

You were able to make an impromptu flan.

Yeah, I'm just trying to picture it.

She's like, I love flan and you go bet what's this?

Yeah, I might have, I might have been feeling a little too confident.

Yeah.

Okay.

And did the flan taste any good?

You know, it tasted fine, the consistency was a little weird, um, but she like lasted

off, you know, but then she got like kind of quiet after that.

So I don't know.

It's like, I don't know if I did give her the answer or I don't know how do you recover

from a fire alarm?

I mean, that's quite a like, I mean, the whole party's got to stop for a second and then

restart up again.

Yeah.

I mean, it was quick.

Maybe we just worked the smoke alarm out of the ceiling.

It was no big deal.

All right.

And so the flan or the failed flan, I guess is the only thing you can think of that might

be the reason that she's ghosting you.

Yeah, because like everything else went like stone actually at the party.

So I don't know.

Tell us what happened with Milo again.

Yeah.

So we met at a, a pop lot, um, but I meet two friends put together and, um, we really

hit it off.

You're like talking all night and then I tried to impress her by like making a flan

from scratch and it did not go very well, um, but it's not like anyone got hurt or anything,

but you know, I think I might have just turned her off.

I don't know.

I've never known anybody that's gotten injured from a flan, but it happened.

It's possible.

Well, we'll see.

Are you ready for us to call her?

Yes.

Okay.

Here we go.

I'm going to dial her phone number right now.

Hello.

Hi, man.

Speak to Milo, please.

This is she.

Milo, how are you?

This is the Jubal Show.

It's a radio show.

Hi, Milo.

I'm Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria.

And I'm Jubal.

How are you doing?

Oh, my God.

Are you serious?

Yeah.

Do you listen to a show ever?

I have heard you guys before.

This is wild.

Thank you.

Well, you've never heard of first date follow up what you do on the show.

That's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody, you can email us and then we call

that person and see if they'll tell us why you're ghosting them.

So we got an email about you from somebody.

Do you know who would email us?

Is it about Bobby?

Yes.

It is about Bobby.

He told us all about meeting you at the party and said it's been about 10 days that you

guys really hit it off like you a lot, but doesn't know why you're not calling him

back.

Would you mind telling us?

Sure.

So, okay, first off, Bobby is sweet, really sweet, but he's kind of chaotic, okay?

The pond luck was fun, but I've never seen someone try to make a flaw out of nothing.

He talks about that.

He thinks that him trying to make a flaw and then setting out the fire alarm and all that

stuff might be the reason that you're ghosting him.

Oh, no.

I mean, it was, it was very sweet, it was kind of insane, but it was very sweet, but there

was this girl there, Emily, who would not stop flirting with him.

She was trying to help him.

She was like, oh my God, you're so brave for making this flaw.

It's amazing.

What?

It was not an amazing flaw, you know, and I'm just, I'm not interested in chasing anyone.

That's not how you define bravery.

Well, I mean, the fire alarm did go off though, you know, I'm just, I'm not interested

in like fighting over some guy, you know, he's nice, but he said he texted you a couple

times.

I, yeah, but I mean, I just, it seems messy and chaotic and not for me.

Like you think that the other girl that was flirting with him, he's also interested

in her?

I mean, I assume so because she was so flirty.

So I'm just kind of like, that's cool to your thing, you know?

Did he flirt back though?

Was he given her the time of day?

I mean, he was so excited about the flon that I'm not sure.

He just seemed really, really excited about everything, so it's hard to tell.

He's like, someone who's a little less excited about life.

There was just a chaotic element to it that I'm just not sure about, you know?

Okay.

Okay.

Well, thank you for telling us why you're not calling him back.

Speaking of chaos, Meela, I don't know if you know this or not, but Bobby is actually

on the phone and wants to talk to you.

I got this.

Even listening.

Hey, Meela.

What's up?

Hi.

Wait, wait.

Meela, you really think Emily was flirting with me?

Really?

Yeah.

She ate two pieces of that flon.

Like, nobody wanted to eat that flon.

No.

Well, I thought she was just being nice.

I mean, she was.

She was being nice, but like, Anna, get into your pants kind of way.

Oh.

I mean, she was like grabbing your arm while you were cooking and she kept like laughing

at literally everything that I mean, Bobby, this is what women do when they're in to

you.

I guess I didn't notice.

I honestly, I was really just trying to make sure I didn't like burn up the kitchen.

You walk out.

You walk out.

You walk out.

Meela, where were you this whole time?

Like, were you off in a corner watching him make it while Emily was flirting with him?

Or were you standing there trying to like still get attention?

No, I was kind of off in the corner at that point.

Like, I sensed it and I just was like, you know, like, it's just, I don't know.

Maybe it's like self-defense.

I'm just not interested in getting in the middle of like something that was clearly happening.

You know?

Yeah.

No, I get that.

Sometimes you're just too tired.

Like, to like fight for it and be like, look at me.

I'm so cute.

Like, it's exhausting.

Yeah.

You don't really do that.

You know, I was just kind of like, you're sweet.

Go have fun.

She's all over you.

Like, I'm trying not to burn anything down.

Well, Meela, would you like to go on another date with Bobby?

We'll pay for it.

I mean, I guess I miss Reddit because I thought you were into Emily.

But if she's not in the picture, I would be open to that.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Not cooking though.

There you go, Bobby.

You got another date with Meela.

Well, actually now that I, like,

know this about Emily, I think I kind of want to text her.

What?

What?

Wow.

I thought you were in Emily.

Shameless.

Well, I mean, she's like really into me like that.

And like, I kind of need to keep it not to go for it.

What?

Oh, my goodness.

Well, I guess I did read it, right?

Oh.

Um, I don't know what to do now.

I feel really weird.

Yeah.

I mean, Meela, like, no offense.

But like, thanks for telling me, like, you're, you're awesome.

You're really cool.

Like, like, you're go across if you sound awesome.

But, um, I mean, Emily's like really pretty.

Oh, wow.

I know.

Interesting.

All right.

Wow.

Back to that chaotic thing.

Meela, thank you for your time.

And Bobby, good luck with Emily, I guess.

Meela, I'm sorry.

Wow.

That's okay.

Um, kind of what I expected to be honest, so there you go.

Wow.

Guys, thanks so much for doing this.

This is so cool.

This is so cool.

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