
About this episode
Our exes can only have as much power and access as we give them. Iyanla explains how the stories we tell ourselves contribute to that dynamic. In the second installment of our Relationship with Our Exes series, Iyanla guides a caller through reclaiming her power after a tumultuous relationship.
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- National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit their website at www.thehotline.org
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