Caller ID Saved His Life

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We also have accused Binyam of stealing the silver bechers

and he wanted to keep him as a slave

the brothers pleaded for mercy

that told us of Yashlanu of Zakat

we have an elderly father

but Archive Mace, he had only one brother and he died

for other Vahevoi and his father loves him

so please let him go, don't imprison him

Question is how is his father loves him a defense against theft

What does Yashlanu of Zakat love have to do with missing bechers?

So, I heard a powerful answer for my friend Rapsendi Ornstein

He said, the brothers were saying that this child cannot be a criminal

because parents who show genuine love for their child does not grow up to be a thief

A child who is truly loved does not grow around stealing things

What a powerful idea

Let's take this thought to step further

Because I'll tell us a child is born with the Yatsahara

an inclination to misbehave to act impossibly

to seek self gratification

Only when they turn 13, do they receive the Yatsahtov

to be the antidote to counterbalance the Yatsahara

to persuade the child to do the right thing

So if that's the case, how can we blame a child when he acts out

in thus foolish and impulsive things?

The Yatsahara has been living in his mind rent-free

for 13 years before the Yatsahtov even had a chance to state his case

This is equivalent to a prosecutor who is belaying out its case and presenting evidence

and bringing witness after witness for 13 years uncontested

Then suddenly the defense attorney walks in

How can the defendant stand a chance when the jury is already been tainted?

The courtroom is biased in favor of the prosecution

So how can we blame this child when he follows the Yatsahara?

And the answer lies in the words

Venashakashura Venashak

Connect with your child at a young age

Show him with love before the Yatsahara has a chance to get to him

Look about the Akavavino did

He gave you also an extraordinary amount of love

He connected to him in such a profound way

that there was no way that he was swayed by Asya Spatifar

There was no possibility he would be influenced by the decadence of its reign

So the message is, you as a parent, you'll be the one living rent-free in your child's brain

Be close, give them love, be present

Be there before the outside world has a chance to influence your child

Then when all the negative forces try to pull them in, they won't stand a chance

The attorney tells us Asya Spatifar tried to seduce Yatsah

But then he sought the most new connoisseur of love

He saw the image of his father and he remembered the connection

He remembered the love, he remembered the lessons that his father, Yakavavino, taught him

And Asya Spatifar stood no chance

And this is a fundamental principle in Henakh

Be there first, be close, give them love before the forces of evil have room to settle in

Because when a child is filled with appearance love

The voice and pull of temptation dissipate

The pull of the Yatsahara weakens

And he doesn't even think about straying or committing any crimes

And that is why, when you heard this said by Aviva Heva

That was the strongest defense of all

And with that, I'd like to share between an incredible story

There was a Bachar in Yashiva who was having a negative influence on his friends

And there was Yashiva decided he had no choice but to expel him from the Yashiva

After leaving the Yashiva, the Bachar went on a dangerous path

He stopped keeping Shabbos, he drifted further and further away from Torah

Until he abandoned Yidashkite altogether

But slowly something inside him began to change

He began his journey back, he put his Yamaka back on

He began keeping Shabbos again, he started putting on Phil

And eventually he joined another Yashiva

He began learning seriously and over time he became an outstanding student

One day his former Asya Shiva ran into him and he was stunned by the transformation

And he asked him, what brought you back?

And the Bachar told him, I'll tell you something remarkable

One of the rebame in your Yashiva used to call me every single Friday

And I thought to myself, if he cares that much, then I will care too

For his sake, I would come back to Torah Metzes

The next day the Asya Shiva went to that Rabbi and he told him

I met this Bachar and he told me, you called him every Friday

You should know, your calls saved his life

And the Rabbi tells the Asya Shiva, yes, it's true, I did call him every Friday

But you should know, he never even once picked up the phone

The Asya Shiva, just knowing that your father or your rabbi cares about you

Just knowing that you are loved can be enough to bring a person back

Or to keep them on the right path

And now we know, have a wonderful day