Cole & Aria - He Got Ghosted After a Perfect Date… Then She Revealed the One Thing That Scared Her Off 🎶💔

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The poll is on the phone today for a first date follow-up.

And he's getting ghosted by a woman named Arya.

So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

get him a second date.

But first, call how long has it been since he talked to Arya?

Hey, guys.

It's been a few weeks.

Enough to wear, you know, something's up for sure.

And I'd like to know what's going on.

Are you still thinking you like Arya?

Or you just want to know what's up?

No, I mean, I definitely like her.

I thought there was a vibe and, you know, it was a good night.

I just, I don't know what's like that.

Do something to this.

Do something to that.

You know, I don't know.

I was trying to figure this out.

Why don't you just tell us about the date then?

Sure.

Yeah.

So we started at this wine bar.

And it wasn't one of those pretentious places.

Like it actually was super chill and vibey.

It had string lights on the ceiling and shelves of books everywhere.

And it's a little stage in the corner.

And there was actually a guy there playing acoustic covers, which is perfect.

Because he was just my kind of thing.

That's sort of what I do.

And so anyway, we ordered a flight.

And Arya didn't pretend to know all the wine turns, which is cute and fun.

And she took a sip and said, you know, this one tastes like sadness.

And I started laughing because that's funny.

And, you know, she's funny like that.

It doesn't try too hard.

And it was just like Mr. Freeflow and sort of vibe.

And then we get into like one of those conversations when you kind of don't expect on a first date.

You know, we talked about our parents, about how we grew up, what we want out of our life.

You know, kind of deep stuff.

She told me about traveling solo and how she's addicted to books.

She can't finish.

And I admitted I still write songs and I know books like a teenager because I'm a musician.

And I didn't laugh at that.

The bartender on his book, Cousin Tabs, and neither of them was pretty much moving.

Like we were just kind of like just gazing.

You know, kept talking to each other and leaning in.

Like there was no one around us.

So here, there's really sweet.

She had this way of looking at me where, you know, I felt mean.

You know, you don't get back too often.

You know, if you're getting your best date, but like it's not easy out there.

Do you think she felt the same way?

I think so.

For sure.

There was an energy there.

If she wasn't liking it or feeling it, I assume she would have sort of sat away.

I'm going to get going.

She didn't say that at all.

Yeah.

You know, she's different.

She's sharp.

You know, she challenges me.

But she also has like this amazing stuff that I do.

The way she listened, there wasn't just small talk.

You know what I mean?

I don't know.

I just felt real.

You like her.

Yeah.

What could have gone wrong then?

It's a great question.

I don't know.

At the end of the day, she suggested, I don't know, maybe heading back to my place, which

okay.

I wanted to, which she had a few glasses of wine.

And I didn't want anything to happen when we were both totally clearheaded.

You know what I mean?

We weren't very much like we weren't.

We had a few drinks.

So we were like, we were just kind of buzzing.

We had a nice time.

My mom raised me to respect women.

So for me, I called it a night right there.

You know?

So maybe, I don't know if she thinks I'm not really into her by doing that.

Or if she's embarrassed that I said no, I don't know.

Women don't take it very well when they get turned down after asserting themselves kind

of like, but we do love a respectful man.

We do love a respectful man.

So don't change that.

But if she didn't understand, that's what was happening.

Did you explain it to her?

Did you say sorry?

I'm a respectful man.

Yeah.

I didn't say that.

I texted her the next day to see how she was feeling and that's when she didn't respond.

Cole is on the phone and Cole is getting ghosted by Arya.

So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get

him a second date.

But first, Cole, why don't you break down your date again for us one more time real quick?

Yeah.

So real quick.

I mean, we went to this really cool wine bar.

We were vibing.

We spent a couple hours there, you know, the bartender for the start check.

We were still sort of gazing at each other just having a great time, not going to rush

to get out of there.

And then she sort of suggested head back to her plate, but we would drink in.

I wanted to be respectful.

And I said, no, that's okay.

I'm going to call it a night here.

And so to me, maybe think she thinks I'm not in her or she's embarrassed or whatever.

But I texted her the day after and she didn't respond.

And it's been like ghost town.

Never since.

Hmm.

Okay.

Well, are you ready for us to call her and see if she'll tell us why?

Yes.

All right.

Here we go.

Hello.

Hi, man.

Speak to Arya, please.

Yes, the fishy.

Hey, Arya.

How are you?

This is a radio show.

It's called the Jubal Show.

Hi, Arya.

My name is Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria.

And my name is Jubal.

How are you?

I'm a little confused.

It's a radio show.

It's called the Jubal Show.

Hi, Arya.

My name is Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria.

And my name is Jubal.

How are you?

I'm a little confused.

The radio show.

It's called the Jubal Show.

Have you ever listened to it?

I think I've heard of it.

Yeah.

Okay.

Well, we do a segment on the show that's called the first date follow up.

That's where if you go on a date with someone and you ghost them, that person can email

us to ask you why you're ghosting them.

And we got an email about you from somebody.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Any idea?

You ghosted somebody, Arya?

Is it cold?

Yes.

It is cold.

Okay.

Yes, it is cool.

I go so cool.

From Tia, do you mind telling us why?

Sure, this is so strange.

He sent me a song that I felt like with a trap.

He wrote me a whole song about how he felt

seeing me for the very first time.

And he told you that we'd been on one date, right?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah, it was way too much.

It's like very loved, bombing thing, all the right things,

like everything that you should say to get someone to fall

fast.

And it just felt so manipulative.

It felt so loved, bombing.

You didn't think it was sweet, but somebody

wrote you a song after meeting you?

OK, wait, hold on.

Let me pull this up for you for a second.

I'm going to listen to this.

OK.

It's weird, but he wrote for me.

OK.

Your last lit the room, like a spark in the night,

one glass of red wine and everything felt right.

I don't need forever to know what I've

found with you, Arya, my favorite ever touched the ground.

My favorite, my favorite.

That's so loved, bombing.

And it's kind of just like, Ike, that's insane.

After like a couple hours together.

Did you see he sounds like an artist?

Like he was just inspired by you.

Have you been loved, bombed before?

Arya, do you feel like you're cautious about that type

of behavior for a reason?

I've definitely been loved, bombed before.

And so I know I'm very cautious.

But I think I'm cautious for a reason,

because I think it's so easy to fall for love bombing

because it just feels good.

And it feels like without feeling like a self-obsessed,

it's like, yeah, of course you'd like me.

Of course, I'm really great.

OK.

But you know, I think it was like, it was very strong,

very like head over heels.

My feet never touched the ground.

Like, the good first day, but damn.

Yeah.

Yeah.

You're funny.

Are we out?

Can I jump in?

Arya, Cole's on the phone listing and wants to talk to you.

Oh my god.

What, hey, the phone was me being honest.

My mom raised me to believe women are goddesses.

Like, I don't think that stuff.

You're doing it right now, though,

like you're saying exactly what I'm supposed to want to hear

to make me think that you're head over heels crazy about me.

And maybe he is, though, right now.

Yeah, so wait, so it's greeting you with respect

is a problem, but I didn't take you home

because I didn't want to cross the line.

That's not being, you know, manipular love.

I just, it's basic decency, I thought.

But it's not just, you think that makes you the stately person.

I just suggested that we go back to yours

because honestly, it was like in the moment,

it's all right.

I felt like continuing the night.

But that's just physical cool.

That's not like love.

That's not like love at first sight.

And what you did with this song, it's so loaded.

It's like so feeling heavy.

Does that make sense?

I mean, yeah, I don't, someone heard you obviously

and someone must have think a love song

is turning you in a different direction or something.

Like, that's not what this was about.

Like, this is me being open and kind and vulnerable.

Well, guys, I read you the short version.

I read you verse one.

Okay, that's more than that.

Do you think you would have been more comfortable

if he dedicated a song to you that already exists

versus like writing one?

I don't know.

Like, maybe write the song, but then maybe don't like,

give it to me until maybe we've seen each other

a few more times and it's like, I have to confess

I wrote this song about the way that I felt

about you after our first date.

Like, that's a good idea.

I would have been so romantic.

Then let me prove that.

Let me prove that all men are the same.

Let me, I'm not asking for forever here.

I just want a second date.

No songs this time just off.

Oh my God, you know, just did it again.

Would you like to go, let's call again?

We'll pay for it.

I mean, I like to hear that, are you?

Oh God, you just don't quit.

But can you hear the way?

And I'm, it's not even your fault.

Like, you're an artist.

Like, I get it.

It's not happy for forever.

Yeah, I think that

if he can kind of like just dial it back a little bit

and not be so lacking poetic, I could.

I mean, you're asking me to change.

Like who I am, you're asking me to change

this core value of who I am.

I can't do that, you know what I'm saying?

This is who I am.

I mean, here's a thing, if I'm into you,

then I'm into you.

And I'm not going to be bashful about it.

I'm going to let you know, you know,

and we had a moment that night and it was sweet.

It was tender, it was fine.

You know, I didn't want to go home with you.

Obviously, I want to be respectful and I don't,

you know what I mean?

Like, this is what a gentleman does.

And I think your smile is a scot sense

and the sun sets with that thing is beaming.

And I, you know, there's something here

that makes you pull out this poetry

and motion type stuff and you should be here.

You should know about it.

Huh.

Right.

Maybe this is who he is.

I mean, I think that this is who he is through and through.

It's hard to not, hard to wonder if, you know,

has he sent that exact song to another girl

and swapped out the name in this a move,

but like it just feels so transformative,

but maybe it's genuine.

I've written songs, but this one is specifically for you.

This isn't for anybody else.

This is what inspired me to write.

I shared it with you.

I'm not your typical, you know, musician.

You see on the corner of your street

or playing at the bar.

This is something awesome.

And I don't know how I want to prove it to you.

But let me go it again.

Let's try it again.

Let's do a second day.

And I'm not going to bring my guitar.

These, this is real.

At least given all the chance,

what do you have to lose?

These guys are going to pay for it.

Come on.

Good point.

Very good point.

Sure.

Yeah, I think you can just kind of get to know each other

on some real, on a real level.

No guitar.

No notebooks.

Don't write a poetic and epic poem about,

you know, like parking skills.

I would like that.

I would love to even congratulations.

Call you got another date.

Yeah.

Amazing, amazing.

This is, it's actually was worth it.

Thank you guys.

It's good.

And Arya, this is, this is wonderful.

I'm excited to see you again.

And, you know, there is no flower in this world

that is as budding as you are.

Just know that.

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