Cry Me A River

0:00All right, Windsor is where we're going. Yeah, my hometown. Jake is on the line. That goes to after our first date and needs answers. Good morning, Jake. Good morning. Hey, welcome to the show. Tell us about this first date you went on. Yeah, thanks. It's very confused. The date went great. OK. There was, I would say like an immediate attraction that we had. And I took it to this winery. This we had wine and chatted for hours. And then we went back to her place. We watched a movie. You know, it was just like a great time. I don't really, I keep looking back and thinking like, how could it have gone any better? How so, Jake, the date. So you're telling me the date was so good that you end of the day back at her place. In fact, what do you guys hope up? Jack. Stop. It's actually good question. Do a little dance to the Hoki Poki. Jack. Well, well, a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. OK.

1:00All right. I like that. Congratulations. When you say that, everyone knows. Still, I mean, you can read between the lines if you'd like, but I just thought, I don't want to get into details. I think it's best to leave it at that. OK. You have a great date. You end the night at her place. Do you send her a text or call her after the date? Well, they texted her the next morning. And this was a few days ago. She didn't respond. So, I think it's a good question. Did you go through her drawers? Because I had a friend that that happened too. Which drawers? Oh, like, dresser drawers. Yeah, like he went through her stuff. Once? Yeah. No. OK. Just a little bit more. Just a little bit more. All right. Sorry, Jake. OK. So you did reach out to her and you got ghosted. Exactly. She didn't respond. And it was just such a perfect evening. I just don't understand what happened. I really can't even speculate. OK. What we're going to do is put you on hold. You're going to be listening in. We're going to call up Hannah. And we're going to ask her how the date was. At any point, if you want to jump in, you can, OK?

2:01OK. OK. Let's do it. Keep it clean, Jeff. I mean, you don't have to, like, ooh, go into Pound Town on that stuff you say. Stop. I mean, you just said it. You didn't need to. I know. What was that? Because I know it's coming out of your mouth. Hello. Hi, is Hannah there? This is Hannah. Hi, Hannah. It's Courtney. Hannah, it's Walmart Jeff. Hey, Hannah. It's Savannah. How are you? I'm fine. That was really cute. Thanks, I tried. Hannah, we're calling from Kiss 957. You're on the radio this morning. OK. Yeah, you're on something called Second Date Update. I'm sure you're familiar with it. If somebody goes on a first date, they get ghosted after a great first date. We try to get the answer. And we just want you to be honest with us. Is honest. All right. Is honest as you can be. Let me refresh your memory. Jake called us. You guys went out to dinner. It was a fabulous date. It was such a good date that he ended up back at your place watching movies. Yeah, where you guys may or may not have hooked up.

3:02We didn't get a straight answer. Yeah, we didn't get a straight answer as to what you actually did at your house. But he says he's reached out to you the next day and stuff and you're totally ghosting himself. How was the date for you? The day was great. I, you know, the attraction was there. We had a great time. We had some wine. OK. We we chatted a lot. We were really vibing. And I just feel like once we spent more time together, he just doesn't seem like my type of guy. Like he, I'm looking for someone that's a little more confident. Confident. OK. All right. So the day was great wine vibing, but he wasn't confident. Like when you got back to your house, he wasn't confident. Yeah. Can we clarify a little bit here? He just doesn't like a take charge kind of guy like that. Confident. He's smooth. He's got swagger. Yeah, like the swag. He wasn't a guy that I would normally go for.

4:03OK. Did you guys hook up? I mean, I hate to ask the question, but it needs to be asked. Was he not good? Was he not good in bed? Did he cry at the movie? Oh my god. Girl, worst. He cried after we hooked up. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. So he didn't cry the movie. Savannah. So he did cry. Oh my god. So you guys were intimate and then he cried? Yeah, and I couldn't shake that. It's like all I kept thinking about. And I was like, I can't do this. I mean, who cries after? You know how that made me feel like what was it? Like that? Right. Yeah. Were there were they tears of joy or? Yes. Why? Yes. Why did he cry after sex? I don't know. He was just really emotional and it just made me uncomfortable. You know, like he wasn't manly. I don't know. It was so weird. Can we just? Hey, Jake, why are you crying after sex? What's up with that? Oh, I'm doing crying.

5:04I'm crying. Well, first of all, I'm very disappointed to hear her going into details like this. It was a magical evening for me. It meant a lot to me. Oh. So yeah, they were tears of joy. I would say the fact that we're even talking about this is just. It's embarrassing. Honestly, like a lady shouldn't kiss and tell you there. This is like kind of what? This isn't someone I'm looking to see anyway. I'm kind of glad this all came out now because you just not have to type of person. I'm looking for. You're more of a lady than I am. What are you talking about? Exactly. Who cries after doing it? Right. I just was sitting like at the edge of the bed. I'm recording the bed. Or like, maybe I triggered some trauma or something, but it was like he just saw the notebook. You know what I mean?

6:04It was just crying. Okay. All right. So we got to the bottom of it. Jake, I feel like you guys just you made a connection at some point and then it went south just because he shed a couple of tears. Well, hold on. Was it a couple of tears? Who was he balling? There was a, it was water works. And keep in mind it was after we did it. Yeah. Okay. That's the worst time to cry. You should ask him if he wanted some cheese with that wine. Stop. Stop shaming him. All right. Well, listen, we usually offer to pay for another date if you guys can work through things. But I feel like it's just not a match. You know what I mean? No. Jake, maybe. Absolutely not. I feel like it's a little more sensitive and Hannah, you want somebody a little less cry. Yeah. Yeah. Listen, you got your answer. Hannah, I appreciate you being honest. And I wish you guys both well in the dating world. Thanks.