Do It Tired: Coach Pain’s Relentless Mindset

I can't give up, I will not give up, I will do my best to bring out the best in me.

I will come to a conclusion and understand that if it's meant to be, it's up to me.

I have to be the one to take action. I have to be the one to believe in myself.

I have to know that it's not over yet. I have to believe in myself.

When the world looks at me differently and I'm not satisfied on how they see me, I have to believe in myself.

With certain things just don't work out the way I want them to, I have to believe in myself.

When others say that you're done, you have nothing to give, you weak, you don't have anything that is worthy of yourself.

I still have to believe in myself.

Throughout life, so many things are going to happen to you.

So many things are going to come after you and you won't even understand it.

You're going to question over and over again, why me? What have I done?

Why is this all happening to me?

Ladies and gentlemen, throughout life, you are going to be tested.

And someday you will learn to understand that you are a living, breathing testimony now.

You can tell your story because you believe in you.

You have to know that with faith, all things are possible.

Do not think for one moment that in your life that there will not be anything coming after you that will knock you down from time to time.

Do not live your life and think all it is is milk and honey.

I assure you you are going to drink from the well of misery from time to time.

But you got to believe in yourself.

When life shows you what it is, when it ultimately reveals itself, when you start to see that every day is not going to always go the way you want it.

When you go outside that door and you are challenged with so many obstacles and you get so frustrated and you don't know which way you're going.

You still got to believe in yourself.

Your emotions have to be controlled. You have to have the ability to turn those emotions down from time to time.

And then you have to step up and you have to have thicker skin and you have to know that hey, this is life.

Maybe you didn't sign up for it. Maybe this is what you didn't expect out of life.

But as you get older, you began to understand that this is just what it is, a part of life.

But you still got to believe in yourself.

If you allow so many things to hold you down and to push you down and to make you think that you're less of yourself, then your faith will surely die.

Say, I believe in faith. I know that faith works. I know that you need it every day of your life.

Because when you are faced with unforeseen obstacles, you may scratch your head, you may question yourself, you may even overthink it.

But you have to have just enough faith to go through it.

Now that doesn't mean that you're going to win, it doesn't mean that you're going to lose either.

This is what I mean about believing in yourself.

Because nobody can do you better than you. Nobody can be you.

Who you are and what you are will become a reality and you will understand what this life you have really means.

Don't look at yourself and think that you don't belong here. Don't look at yourself and think you shouldn't be doing this or you shouldn't be doing that.

Maybe this is not for me. How do you know that?

If you don't put your heart into it, then you get nothing out of it.

If it's challenging you, then it's making you.

And that's what you have to look at, ladies and gentlemen. Don't look at it as if it's the end of the world for you.

You don't want it to be perfect. As much as we want perfection, perfection is false. It doesn't work under the sun.

As long as you are human, you are never going to be picture perfect. But you can work towards it.

And that's what makes the journey beautiful. But you got to believe in yourself. Don't worry about it. Don't stress so much about it.

Just go after it and see what happens. Don't go unprepared. Be prepared. Be prepared for the setbacks. Be prepared for the failures. But believe in yourself.

No human being can make it in this world without getting not down from time to time.

You may look at someone that is already in a better place than you. And you're asking yourself how and what did they do to get there?

They did and how they did it. You may not ever understand or ever know them.

So don't put so much energy in what other people are doing. Why not put that energy into yourself?

Stop believing in everyone else and what they're doing and stop believing in what you are doing and what you're doing right now.

Because if it's not getting you to the place you want to be, you're never going to see it. You're too busy thinking about the things that are not working.

You're too busy thinking about what others are saying about you and the dark. You can't sleep at night. You're stressing about it.

I understand ladies and gentlemen. Trust me. I've been there. I get it. But I started to realize that no matter how much I stress, what is it going to do for me? How is it going to make me better?

What can it possibly do for me in my life? I need to give myself peace. That's what you have to do. You have to give yourself some peace, a peace of mind.

To say you know, I made it through this day. I don't know what tomorrow is going to do. I'm not even expecting what may happen tomorrow.

If I'm a part of that day, then I'm going to make that day possible for me. Believe in yourself. If no one else is believing in you, believe in yourself.

You were created for a reason. You are living in this world for a reason. You are not designed to be nothing. You are something. You are somebody.

Now do something with it. The journey, the life, what you're doing today in this world, it is being recorded. You're going to think about your past. You're going to hope for a better future.

But then you're going to look at what you're doing right now. And this is the mistake that many people make. You too busy worrying about what happened yesterday. You're thinking too much about tomorrow. But you're doing nothing with your life right now.

Except having this mindset of thinking, you can't do it. I don't know what I'm doing. I don't know where to go. I'm at the end of my rope.

What are you going to do, ladies and gentlemen? Are you going to just quit? Are you going to give up? Or are you going to climb up that rope? Because that's all you can do. That's all that can be done right now is you getting up and climbing up. Believe in what you are doing. Create something. Make something. Do something.

Don't hold back. Don't worry about what people are going to say because they're going to say it anyway. Doesn't matter what you think you know. But maybe you just don't know enough. Maybe you don't know enough about yourself.

Maybe you haven't tapped within your spirit and say, you know, I'm alive. I got something that is great within me. Why am I waiting on nothing if I'm getting nothing?

I can't just get up and believe in myself. Today, do something with your life. Today, believe in your actions because of their productive and their honest.

And you have passion behind it and you're not hurting anybody. But you will hurt yourself if you give up today. I believe in me. It's time for you to believe in you. Do something. Today, do something right now.

You are alive. Look in the mirror. See yourself. You are alive. Come on, ladies and gentlemen. We got this. This is what we do. We don't quit.

We don't say we're done. We do work. And that's what you're doing. You're working towards your best. The best makeup for yourself. Don't let nothing hold you back.

Stand on what you do. Believe in what you do. Believe in yourself. Stop cheating yourself out of your life. No way you're going to get far in life if you don't have faith in you. There is nothing can be accomplished if you don't believe in yourself.

So whenever you got going on in your life right now, if you have the ability to push through it, if it's holding you back, push back and say not today.

You don't own me. You're not a part of this journey with me. And I give you no power over me. Believe, ladies and gentlemen. Believe today. And just keep moving forward.

I promise you it is not going to be easy. It is not going to go always the way you want it to go. But I promise you you are going to keep going if you believe in yourself.

Now get to work. Get to work today. And know who you are inside because there's no one like you. Be productive. Be strong. Believe in yourself. And from the bottom of my heart, ladies and gentlemen, conduct your business.

How long will it take for you to wake up to get to a point in your life where you realize that if you truly want to get to a place that you never been, you have to get to that mindset and understand that it's all up to you.

You have no time to be sitting around waiting for someone to save you. You have to be the hero in this life right now.

You have to be the one to take a chance and to make a stand because we're talking about your life. And you are the only one at this point right now that has complete control of your destiny.

Do not wait for someone to step up to the plate for you. You're sitting around and if someone owes you something, no one owes you anything.

Get to a point in your life where you have the courage to get out there and live. Believe and trust that you can do better each step of the way.

No matter what you are dealing with right now in your life, keep in mind there's still life and it's always under construction. But you are responsible for getting to the place you want to be in your life.

But you cannot wait for someone to rescue you from the things that you know you can save yourself from.

It's time to stop blaming others for your mistakes. It's time for you to stop looking down on yourself.

This, my friends, is the chance that you must take. And regardless of the outcome, if you apply yourself and you have the willpower to push through the circumstances and not allow yourself to give up or give in.

Get to the point where you need to be in this life that has been given to you.

Ladies and gentlemen, feeling sorry won't save you. Be and down on yourself each and every day that you breathe won't get you there.

Be accountable for your actions. Take a stand right now and do better while there's opportunities right there waiting for you.

When they make no mistake, ladies and gentlemen, those opportunities won't stand around for long. They are there for a reason, you are living for a reason.

So grab a hold to it right now and do what must be done.

Because when it's all set and done, ladies and gentlemen, you have to be willing to make the sacrifices.

You have to be willing to work a little bit harder. You got to wake up from your slumber and sleep.

You got to say enough is enough. It is up to me. And right now, I must be willing to fight and get through whatever I'm dealing with in my life.

Because there's no time for pity. There's no time to worry. There's no time to say that I don't have it.

I have it. It is in me. I will attack and I will win that victory.

Victory is to not come easy. Sometimes you will lose. Sometimes you will not go the way you always wanted to go.

Sometimes you have to humble yourself. Sometimes you have to be willing to know.

There's just not for you at this moment.

And maybe you'll never see what you are seeking right now. It's probably just not for you.

So don't feel bad. Don't worry about it. It's not your season. It was never meant for you.

Don't expect someone to say. From your misery. From your doubts. From your fears.

There has to come a point in time in your life where you have to have the mindset, the faith, and the strength to carry on a good fight.

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, you have to be the one to make the opportunities become a reality.

Because if you don't have faith in yourself, how can you expect someone else to have faith in you?

Save yourself. Stand on what you believe. And if it doesn't happen tomorrow, maybe it would happen the next day or the day after or the next year.

But no one really knows what the future holds. But if you're taking your time and moving in the right direction, and you have your faith in the right place, and you have the mindset to know that you're not done and there's no time for pity.

That's right, ladies and gentlemen. Pity won't save you. And no one is celebrating pity. Save yourself. Save yourself from the agony. Save yourself from the misery. Save yourself from depending on others to elevate you.

Make your peace within yourself. You have an opportunity. You have a chance. You are alive. You got breath in your body.

So why are you wasting time? Save who you are. Save the best of you. Save your purpose. Because that is your responsibility.

Don't hold back, ladies and gentlemen. Don't say you don't have it within you. I know you can do this. You must do this. Because if you don't, you will be alone for the rest of your life within yourself.

No one is responsible for you. You are responsible. So get busy. Get busy about your business. Your life depends on you. Your actions depends on you. Save yourself. Save yourself right now.

Stop saying what you cannot do. Stop believing in the nonsense. Stop saying that you're dead inside. Stop saying that you can't carry on. Stop saying that you are at the end of your rope.

Ladies and gentlemen, there's nothing. And I mean nothing in this world that can stop you or stand in your way. You, my friend, are in your own way.

If you believe that negativity is all you need to make it, you are the one that is in your own way. If you believe that a lie means more to you than the truth. Make your mark on this day.

Do what you have to do. But you've got to save yourself. Stop depending on everyone else to feel bad. Stop depending on everyone else to give you more strength that you already know you have.

It's okay to have support. But don't let the support run out. Stop allowing the things that are killing you to destroy you forever. You make it push back. You may feel down. You may cry at night.

But soon or later.

It doesn't mean we stop living. It doesn't mean we stop living our best days even through our hard times. It doesn't mean that we give up.

We are something. All of us. We are better. If we really want to be better. We can be strong. Even through ourversities. We can show up when others think that we don't have it anymore.

It's you, you, the individual that has everything that you need right now. So stand up today and save yourself. No matter what the world throws at you, save yourself.

No matter how many times you've been knocked down, get up and save yourself. Make each day that you breathe. Count. Keep it moving, ladies and gentlemen. Be strong. Save yourself. And from the bottom of my heart, conduct your business.

Have you ever been put in a position where you thought your worthiness was not worth anything? Did it ever cross your mind that others look down on you so much to where you decided maybe they're right?

Maybe I'm not good enough. Maybe there's something about me that's not worth anything anymore. Have you ever got to that point where you honestly believed that your life had nothing to give?

And you really started to believe that. You believed that you wasn't worth anything. But here today, you are walking this earth and you're scratching your head.

And you just want to find your place in this society today. You seem to envy or maybe even admire others that are going to buck their lives.

They seem to be in a good place. They're successful. They have a nice home. They have a nice job. They have a beautiful family. But yet, here you are. Yet scratching your head.

Walking the earth as if it's just all you're good for. Nobody sees you. Nobody loves you. In fact, some may not even respect you.

You have lived this life as if you don't exist anymore. Now, why is that? Why is it that you honestly believe that you're not worth anything?

Why do you believe that you have to walk in the same shoes as everyone else? Why do you believe you don't belong here today?

Listen to me. I want you to pay attention to what's happening to your life today. I want you to pay attention to who you really are inside.

Because what you're doubting, what you're thinking less of, that is not who you are. That is not your makeup. That is not where you come from.

You're bigger. You're better. You're stronger. You are unique. You just don't know it yet.

So let me remind you of what your capabilities truly are. Number one, nobody. And I mean nobody can be like you.

Number two, you are unique and special. And when you are created, there was no one like you. Number three, you have the capabilities to do things like no other.

Now that I have given you this information, it's time for you to show up and do your job. It's time for you to show up and be the person you were meant to be. It's time for you to show up and let the world know that you are here.

So what? Not everybody is going to agree with you. So what? Nobody is going to stand with you. Big deal. Don't look for them. Don't look for someone to put a pat on your back. Remember, it's up to you. You have a gift.

You just got to put it to work. Put your gift and to good use and be productive with it. Start it up today. Start it up right now. Don't sit around and wait for it to work on its own.

Be the person you were meant to be.

What's for you belongs to you. No one could take it away. What do you do from this point on depends on you.

Life itself will always move in many different directions. But the question is, what direction are you going? What direction are you heading to?

Do you know who you are? Do you know what you are? Where do you come from? I'm not talking about birth. I'm talking about your mindset. Where do you come from?

What are you prepared to do? Where is your willpower? When are you going to say I'm ready? When are you going to stop being lazy? When are you going to stop saying that this is not for me?

Don't you realize that a good struggle creates a great human being? Don't you know that when you struggle, you're getting better along the way just because it's challenging. You don't want to be challenged. You are afraid to fail.

You are afraid that others are going to look at you because you didn't make it. You should be more afraid of yourself because if you give up today, that's nobody's fault but yours.

If you quit, that's your fault. Now what are you going to do? Blame the world because you feel like it's old to you. Blame your friend. Blame your mother. Blame your father. Blame your brother. Blame your sister. Blame the job that you have.

Because you allowed everything around you to bring you down to nothing. You needed a cushion to satisfy your excuses.

I'm here to let you know that won't work. Not in this lifetime. Reality check. Here's how life goes. Each day that you start your day, many things are happening all around us.

Sometimes there are going to be days where you don't even feel like doing things but you know it has to be done.

Sometimes you're going to just fall back and relax but the next door neighbor is going through some kind of hell that you know nothing about.

But yet they have to go through it. See what I'm saying to you ladies and gentlemen, is that your path that is before you requires your undivided attention.

That means you cannot be distracted from doing what you must do to bring out the best in you.

So even when you're struggling, even when you're having a so-called bad day, you still got a day right in front of you.

Yet the sun shines and you yet are above ground. And when the sun sets, you witness it. But you still had an obligation to your life.

An obligation and a responsibility to your life. Now live and pressure and breathing and working and driving and giving it everything you have.

I'm talking ladies and gentlemen, a hundred and ten percent, tenacity, grit, you, the individual, the one that is behind the wheel.

All you got to do is go in a direction. You must go.

They're going to be bumps along the way. I promise you that. But when it's all saying done, ladies and gentlemen, you got to bring out the best in you.

Become that person that you must be. Bring it out. Don't let it rest forever. Don't let it sleep forever. Wake it up and wake it up today.

What do you have left to do except say that you don't want to do it? And when you say you don't want to do it, that's when you know you have allowed it to manifest itself.

And everything negative will bring you down. And you will have nothing to give of yourself. Ladies and gentlemen, you only have a little time left in this world.

Don't waste it without revealing your true nature. Don't waste it without others knowing that you made it. You're here. You're on this earth and you are able to do great things.

Don't let your greatness die. Don't let what's inside of you not be seen. Please, ladies and gentlemen, take a hold of your life. Take a hold of who you are. Become more than less of yourself.

Be the person that you are ought to be meant to be. Keep it moving. Never give up. And from the bottom of my heart, ladies and gentlemen, conduct your business.

When you woke up this morning and you were preparing yourself to embark on this day, where was your mind? How were you feeling and what were you prepared to do?

The savage mindset is what we are working towards on this day. Now, what does that mean? That means you got to go above and beyond. Just being an ordinary individual.

You have to be a savage. You have to be on the hunt. And you got to be ready to eat. That's right. You got to be ready to devour your destiny, your success.

Nothing can stand in your way right now. On this journey in your life, you have to be prepared to do all the things that you need to do. But you got to be a savage.

I'm not saying that you got to go out there and hurt someone to get what you're seeking. I'm not saying that you got to go out there and step over someone to get what you need.

What I'm saying to you is, don't be the victim. Be victorious. And just be the savage on what you need to be in your life today.

The work at it is what's going to get you there. The mindset is how you win. Throughout the significant challenges that you face day in and day out, you can't afford to give up now.

You never have time to feel sorry. You never have time to give up. You got to go out and go out swinging. Go out there and let your heart's desire manifest itself.

Be something that the world has never seen before. Know your value and stand on it. Do not think that you don't have the abilities to excel in your life.

A savage mentality is what you must have. When they say no, you find a way to make them say yes. When they say that you don't have it, you turn it around and say, watch me.

A savage, respectable, savage, hungry, savage. Ladies and gentlemen, there's not much time that you have in this world.

But while you are living in it and you are a part of it, make something happen each and every day that you are breathing. Do not have a weak mentality.

A predator only does what it needs to do. A predator hunts when it's hungry. It will eat. So what are you? What are you today? Are you going to show them? Are you going to show yourself?

Are you going to turn down and look down and say you're nothing? My friend, hear me. Listen and know your purpose. Know that you have something that is buried so deep within you.

All you got to do is wake it up. Become a beast at what you do. Become a weapon of success. Do not say you're not worthy. Do not say you don't have it.

Know that you have all that you need. But you got to stand on it. The attack is going to come in all directions. Many people are going to come at you. Some will lift you up and many will tell you down.

And when you are wounded, you will rise up again because the most dangerous animal in the world is a wounded one. If that heart is beating and those lungs are working and you are functional, you're not dead.

There's still life. And when there's life, there comes a savage. A savage of prosperity. A savage of victory. A savage within you. Don't ever think that you don't have it. Know that you got it.

All you got to do is attack. Don't even think about it. Just do it. Don't have doubt. Don't have fear. And when these things start to show up, devour them. But don't hold on to them. Don't let these things that you hold on so much.

Put you in a position to make you think that you don't have the power and the ideas within yourself to make you a better individual.

Ladies and gentlemen, everything you do in your life has something that is attached to it.

Whether you are making mistakes along the way or you're failing more than you ever felt in your life along the way. But don't you give up on yourself. Success does not come easy.

It will challenge you. It will put you in a position to make you think that you don't have it. But you do. You must and you will. But you got to have the savage mentality.

You got to take no prisoners. You got to let the world know and let yourself know. Here I am. Here I stand and I am going in and I will attack.

If I lose, you will remember me. The world will remember me. But I haven't written myself off yet. I have not written myself off yet.

So therefore I will carry on. I will carry this torch and I will stand on top of that mountain and I will raise it up high and say I am here.

But oh no, my work is not done yet. I still got more to do. That's being a savage. That is what you need to do.

That is what we all need to be focusing on. Not giving up. Not allowing excuses to design our path.

To say that you can't do something. Shame on you. To say that you don't have the ability to push through. Shame on you.

Why are you living this life? If you don't believe in your life, how can you get more out of life? If you don't give more of yourself, don't let the outsiders come into your life and tear you down.

Nothing that did not create you, I should have that much power over you.

Why don't you just realize that you have a chance right now. Just do something with your life today. Maybe certain things didn't work out the way you wanted them to work out.

But you're still working and that's important. As long as you're still working, that's important.

Being down doesn't mean you stay down. Get up and be a savage. Get up and live your life. Get up and fight for the light that you have right now in your hands.

It is yours. It belongs to you, even if it is for a short time. But why you got that life that you're holding on to. Get out there and direct your path.

Get out there and don't be the prey. Don't be the one that is being preyed upon. Be the predator and don't let the weakness and the fear and the doubt and the excuses take you out.

Keep moving, keep growing, keep learning, savage, hunt, eat, grow, because without food, that can be no growth.

So feed your mind, feed your body, feed your soul, be productive, be a savage. And from the bottom of my heart, ladies and gentlemen, conduct your business.