Do THIS to Attract an Empathetic Man

0:00Do you want to attract an empathetic man or a man who's a complete jerk and asshole? Well, the answer is very obvious. However, do you also know how to attract an empathetic man? And what happens when you do certain things with him that pull him away without you actually being aware of it? That's what I want to share with you today. I want to show you how to attract an empathetic man. Because an empathetic man can be a great partner in a relationship. He absorbs other people's emotions as if they were his own. And he's a highly sensitive person who does his best to understand others, to understand their point of views, and to truly understand how they feel and how they think. And I would describe myself as such a man. I am a very highly empathetic man and I'm also a highly sensitive person. And this brought a lot of challenges for me when it comes to relationships. But thankfully, I'm now in a very fulfilling relationship with a woman who's also a very

1:01sensitive person who's also highly empathetic and we are a perfect match. However, if you're dating a highly empathetic man, you have to know how to attract him and what you might want to avoid unless you want to lose him. And when it comes to attracting such a guy, you always have to remember that you need to allow him to comfort you and you also need to allow him to recharge every now and then. Because when it comes to highly sensitive people and you could describe very empathetic people as highly sensitive people, there's a lot of overlap when it comes to that. I've never met a highly sensitive person who was not also highly empathetic and I've also never met a highly empathetic person who was not more sensitive than you can say the average when it comes to our society. I mean, nowadays in our materialistic and attention obsessed society, empathetic people are quite rare. And our society does a good job to reward people who are not empathetic and to make

2:03the life for empathetic people quite hard. But I don't want to focus on criticizing our society in this episode. I want to give you the step by step instructions that can help you to attract the highly empathetic man and to then establish a fulfilling relationship with him. So if you allow him to comfort you when you feel down, when you don't feel on top of the world, this can mean a lot to him. And if you then also allow him to recharge every now and then because remember he needs his alone time being highly sensitive and also very empathetic can be draining. I mean, I have the helper syndrome so many people have told me I have a helper syndrome. I love to help people. I mean, why do you think I offer coaching sessions? I do that because I want to help you. I know that I could make way more money if I would only focus on selling products. But if you go to gethimkeepim.com stash coaching, you will see that I offer a variety of coaching sessions. I'm a certified coach and I'm a certified hypnotist and I love nothing more than to help people in a one-on-one setting. In this case to help you to attract the right man to get over a

3:08breakup or to also get out of a toxic relationship. And I do that because I want to help people. But of course, when you are always wanting to help people, you often fall into the trap of neglect in yourself. And that's why a lot of highly sensitive men and very empathetic men need their alone time to recharge and to heal themselves. And listen to him. I mean, really listen to him. Listen to him with your heart. Listen to him with your soul because he will do the same. And one thing you always have to keep in mind, which might be the most important element of attracting a highly sensitive man who is a very empathetic man and also keeping this man. And of helping him to truly and fully love himself is to understand that he's struggling with his self-image as a man. For me, that was a big struggle for a very long time because when you look at most advice out there for men, especially on YouTube, especially in communities, for example, such as the red pill. A lot of the advises basically don't ever show emotions,

4:14be a stoic man, don't have any emotions. And if you show any emotions, every woman will automatically leave you and think that you're worthless. And I mean, yes, this already is toxic advice. But for a highly empathetic man, this can lead to an identity crisis because he looks at these guys who are sitting there with their cigars and their sunglasses going, you should never show emotions to a woman if you do you a week. And inside they want to show their emotions, they want to be emotionally available, they want to give their empathy as a gift to the world. But everyone around them, and especially on the internet, tells them that they are less of a man if they do so. So when you want to attract a very empathetic man, communicate to him that you don't give a flying beep about the traditional idea of masculinity, especially in this totally over exaggerated stoic alpha kind of way, and that you encourage him to share his emotions, you encourage him to see his empathy as a gift. This man will fall in love with you if you do that.

5:18And of course, you also want to make him devoted to you. And if you want to have the power to make the man of your dreams, this very empathetic man devoted to you, you can go to get him, keep him.com slash devoted to find out more about how you can do that step by step. And by watching this video, you will already discover a lot about how you can make him devoted to you. But of course, you also have the opportunity to then invest in an incredible program that I recommend to each and every one of my clients who want to have this ability to make their man devoted to them. Alternatively, you can also click on the second link in the description or go to get him keep him.com slash system if you prefer to read about this method instead of watching the video and show how empathetic and altruistic you are. One of the reasons why I love my girlfriend so so so so much is because we have the same attitude to altruism. I for example support a lot of children in different countries. I support their education. I give money to charities because I truly love helping

6:18people. And she does the same in her community. And I still remember it was on the third date when she told me about that and my eyes were lighting up and I was like, whoa, this woman thinks like me, she feels like me, that's amazing. I want to get to know her and getting to know her I did. And now we are in a fulfilling relationship and I've never been happy in a relationship than with her. And when it comes to you showing him that you are this empathetic and altruistic person, of course I don't want you to lie to him. However, you might want to ask yourself would it make me feel better if I would become this person? And then you might not only help people in the process but you make it so much easier for you to attract this kind of guy and be patient and provide a safe space for him to open up. Always remember that for a highly empathetic man, the biggest fear that he has is that you leave him or lose interest or both of that when he shows you how empathetic he

7:20truly is because remember he's been conditioned from the media, from YouTube channels, from podcasts, from blogs, from TV shows that he has to be the stoic alpha guy who never shows any emotions because we all know that women don't respect men who have emotions. I mean, that's the kind of that men are fat nowadays. So please keep that in mind. And the more you encourage him to be his natural self, the more he will fall in love with you and be gentle and kind because helping others can be exhausting. So always remember he might be exhausted from being so empathetic from having all these feelings. And if you give him this beautiful, yeah, you can say this beautiful safe space of a harmonic, drama-free, gentle and kind relationship and that's exactly what I experience with my girlfriend and my relationship. This feeling of yes, I belong here, everything is okay, I'm safe and that's a beautiful feeling that you can give him. And remember that empathetic man

8:20avoid conflicts because it hurts them too much and they are also afraid that they might hurt you. Even though it's very unlikely that a very empathetic man will hurt you, but well he's very empathetic and even the slightest conflict triggers the fear in him that he might hurt you. And I have to admit it, it's not my biggest strength, I really have to admit it right now, I have to be open and vulnerable with you. One of my biggest weakness is that I avoid conflict, sometimes a little bit too much. That's why I was never cut out for a corporate career and that's why I always wanted to work for myself because I'm not the kind of guy who pushes other people away with his elbows, both in a physical sense and a metaphorical sense, I'm the kind of guy who wants to cooperate, I'm the kind of guy who wants to help others. And one of the biggest, yeah you could say weaknesses of highly empathetic man that I also have is that we avoid conflicts, so always keep that in mind. And prepare yourself for a lot of physical affection in the form of hugging and kissing and

9:22cuddling and snuggling because a highly empathetic man wants that in a relationship, he needs that in a relationship and that's also something that I do with my girlfriend, I kiss her all the time, I cuddle her all the time and she absolutely loves it. And he wants to learn self-care and self-love from you. Because like I said, one of the biggest problems that highly empathetic man have is that they feel their emotions very intensely and they also feel the emotions of other people and they often in that process of trying to help everyone neglect themselves. So if you help them to not only overcome this stupid idea of this is what a man has to be like and you allow them to fully embrace themselves and fall in love with themselves in the process, then this man will be committed to you, loyal to you and in love with you. And if you now say yes, I'm in love with this episode and then I would really appreciate it. If you could share your appreciation for the Get Him Keepin podcast

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