Ep 116: Tiny Clarity Moments 2 | Alcohol Coaching |

Why do we agonise over disrupting the social flow by saying “no thanks” to a drink, even when alcohol is quietly disrupting so much more in our lives? In this thought-provoking solo episode, Anna Donaghey explores the micro-moments of clarity that often crop up when we consider changing our drinking habits. Drawing from a recent conversation with Ry Gavan, Anna explores how alcohol quietly sits behind so many social occasions, becoming a synchronised ritual, yet the real disruptions to our wellbeing are often overlooked, minimised, or accepted as “just life.”

She examines the tension between the fear of social awkwardness and the reality of how quickly our circles adapt, and offers practical tools to handle that brief moment of discomfort.

This episode is for anyone ready to question the script, trust those quiet nudges, and make choices around alcohol that genuinely align with who they are.

Here are the Highlights:

00:00 Welcome to “Tiny Clarity Moments 2”

01:06 Wanting better sleep, energy, patience, but fearing social awkwardness

03:20 The imagined disruption versus reality

04:26 Ry’s true story: friends adjust, little actually changes

05:01 The disruptions we tolerate: poor sleep, lost weekends, tension

07:16 A question to ask: what disruptions am I already accepting?

07:47 How do you make it easier to say no?

09:41 Why you don’t owe an explanation

10:44 Changing the subject and shifting the conversation

11:04 The power of holding an alcohol-free drink in your hand

11:33 Reframing: you’re just doing something different tonight

13:31 Embracing quiet confidence, normalising intentional choices

14:23 What disruption is really worth worrying about?

15:22 Creating space for others by asking honest questions

The first part of this mini-series on Tiny Clarity Moments can be found here on Apple or here on Spotify.

Anna’s book "What Are You Thirsty For? Rethinking Alcohol and The Life You Want", is now out in the world for you to buy!

Order your copy, access her free tools and explore her coaching programmes at: https://thebigdrinkrethink.com/

The Thirsty For More Mindset Lab is Anna’s ‘inner circle’ - a calm, thoughtful space where conversations continue, patterns are explored, and things begin to make sense. Find out more at: https://thirstyformore.substack.com/

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About the host Anna:

Anna is a certified Alcohol Mindset Coach, trained by Annie Grace of This Naked Mind. Drawing on her own journey out of alcohol addiction, she now helps others explore and control their drinking. With a career spanning 25 years as a Strategist in the Advertising industry, she combines her own lived experiences, with great insight into what makes us tick and what influences us to behave the way we do.

Connect with Anna:

Website: thebigdrinkrethink.com

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/annadonaghey

Instagram: instagram.com/bigdrinkrethink

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