Ep 19: When Success Stops Working

What happens when your life looks successful on paper… but feels flat on the inside? In this solo episode, I explore a confusing and deeply common experience among high achievers: the moment when success keeps growing, but meaning quietly fades. I talk about the paradox of “numb success” — how external wins can slowly pull us away from our inner truth, relationships, and sense of being alive. When achievement becomes our identity, the same momentum that once fueled our growth can start to feel like a trap. In this episode, I break down the invisible trade-offs many high achievers make without realizing it: • Safety over truth • Status over meaning • Momentum over reflection • Being admired over being alive I also explore why emptiness isn’t a failure or a sign of ingratitude. It may be a signal that your growth is outpacing the meaning in your life. We look at the ways high performers try to “optimize away” this feeling with productivity, perks, upgrades, and distractions — and why that rarely works. I close with one powerful question to sit with: What metric have you been optimizing at the cost of meaning? If you’ve ever felt confused by your own success, this episode is for you. To learn about what we do, please visit bemorealigned.com.