Ep.85 If You Keep Attracting The Wrong People - WATCH THIS

Welcome everyone to episode 85 of the David Gam podcast where we discuss about the energy

of the week and different forces that are influencing our soul and the energy of this world

so that we can see miracles in our lives.

This week, and especially this month, there is a very powerful energy available to all

to get to the root of what is causing us anxiety and stress, and especially what's making

us think and feel small.

You know, one of the things that we always talk about is what is the purpose of why your soul

came to this world? Because we all get so caught up and wrapped up in the different responsibilities

in taking care of children, in trying to get ahead in our career, making money,

what's going on in the world with all the noise that is in the news.

And what that does is it takes up very delicate and special real estate that's in our mind and

our consciousness. And your soul came to this world for really one objective to achieve a

similarity of form with the attributes of the creator and as a result, to become the vessel

that can hold the creator's light. And what that means practically when you hold the creator's light,

then you have access to a very divine realm where the thoughts are the most pure thoughts that

will help you bring the right wealth, that will help you bring love, that will help you bring

miracles into your life, all that you are looking to receive. And you don't know how.

And everyone has an opinion of how. Kabbalah is helping us rise above all of that to understand,

wait, there's a system that I don't need to understand the details of how it works. I just need

to know how to live by the system. And when my soul becomes one with the light of the creator,

then all the other things in this world begin to manifest in the right way and the right time,

the right people come so on and so forth. And I cannot tell you how I've seen this to be true

for thousands and thousands of people, but also in my own life. There's not a decision that I make

in my life, in any category of life, that I do not first look at it from the realm or the lens

of deep Kabbalistic wisdom. And you should know that my logic often tells me to do one thing,

but the wisdom will tell me to do something else. And this is why trusting our feelings or emotions,

our logic often is very limited because feelings come from the realm of Tikun,

from the negative attributes that our soul came to this world to cleanse and transform.

So for example, if one of your Tikun's is control, they need to control probably because of another

deeper Tikun, which is the fear of being alone or the fear of not being good enough. And so you

need to control everything around you so that you never have to deal with this potential abandonment.

Then all the thoughts you have, all the feelings you have will always come from that fear,

not from your soul. So we're always being misguided if we're listening to our first logical thought

or feeling that comes. Kabbalah says, when challenges occur, you pause. You do not react

because the first desire is always going to be coming from your soul's correction. And by not

reacting, you bypass that and you access a more divine realm. And this is why you should never

make a decision from fear or lack ever. Even something that seems so positive, so good,

helping so many people, it's good for my life. It's something you've been waiting for. Do not

make a decision from fear or lack. If you are not sure, then you pause and you wait,

and you ask the creator for greater guidance and certainty, but do not make decisions from fear

or lack. It means there is no vessel to hold that light. And so in this month, you have the ability

to go to the seed level, what the sages call the energy intelligence of Amalek. Amalek was actually

the name of a tribe in the Bible. They used to always attack the Israelites. And even the word

Israelite do not confuse it for the country or a nation today. The Israelite is a code when you

rearrange the letter as it means Yashar El or Lerosh. All of it energetically means a person who is

directly connected to the light of the creator. It's above a religion. It is above a country.

It is above politics. If you are a person who's developing the relationship straight with the

creator, not through a medium, not through people, not even through astrology, even when we talk about

astrology, to know that everything is about you and the light of the creator, this is what the

codename of Israelite means in the Bible. And so these stories of these wars that happen within

the Bible was one where the tribe of Amalek would continually attack the Israelites right before they

got to a new level, a new level of fulfillment, a new level of power of wealth, this tribe would

attack them. They say just say that the tribe of Amalek is a code. The numerology of these letters

is the same numerology as the word for doubts, Suffek. So when it says that Amalek was attacking,

what it really means is the times in our lives when our doubts are attacking us, when our fear is

attacking us. And so you must know that every time, every single time before you are about to elevate,

before you are about to experience a new destiny of love, a new destiny of sustenance, a new destiny of

wisdom, a new destiny of fulfillment, the things that we crave, the things that we're asking for

all the time, you crave it, you want it, the light sends it, it stares at what's called your

surrounding light, it surrounds you in a state of potential, but it cannot become revealed

until we transform our nature. And what's powerful is the more you desire, the more the light wants to

be revealed, and then it forces that negativity to come out to the surface. And that's why you feel

pain and darkness right before the revelation, right before the revelation. So we will always have doubts

doubts about ourselves, doubts about our relationship, doubts about people in our lives, doubts about

the creator, doubts if any of this system works, you'll probably be hearing this podcast is saying,

I don't want to listen to this, you'll have doubts about the wisdom, you'll have doubts.

Just know that that will always come right before the revelation. And in this month,

we have the opportunity, and this is probably why there is so much instability in the world at this

moment, because instability creates doubt, instability is not bad. And we have the opportunity this

month to see those doubts and to rise above them at a seed level. So much so that if you do the work

this month, the work of having certainty beyond logic, the work of being able to feel fear,

feel pain, feel anxiety and say, I'm okay. I am whole and I am complete. I have complete certainty

in the light of the creator. This is exactly as life is supposed to be right now. And we're not going

to react. I'm not going to do anything that I usually would do to connect to instant gratification

or escape this pain. I'm going to instead feel the pain. You do that this month. You are going to

the belly of the beast. You're going to the seed level of all negativity that is called Amalek.

And I use the actual original term that was given to us over 3,000 years ago,

because I want us to connect in energy intelligence, because when we're using this language and

using the original terminology that the stages gave us, which the creator gave them,

we're actually creating the antidote for the soul to overcome. And this is our goal. This is our

destiny. Can you have, and can you live a true certainty in your life? You know, everything

else that we're trying to do is really to get to the place of certainty. Why do we all work so

hard? They try to make so much money, more money, more money. And even when you have a lot of money,

you need more money, more money, more love, more respect, more admiration. How much admiration is

enough? For a million people follow you and tell you how amazing you are. If a hundred million

people imagine these celebrities, or in these movies, hundreds of millions of people follow them

and love them. Are they truly at peace? Or when one person comes out and says something negative,

they can ruin their entire week, month, even their whole life, we always think about the ones who

don't like us, not the ones who do. And why do you want so many people to like you? Because we

believe that if the whole world likes us, and we have more stability, we have more certainty.

So we actually want money, power, fame, admiration. The reason why we want all these things is

because we want to feel certainty. Because when you don't have money, you have doubts. And when you

don't have a relationship and you feel lonely, you have doubts. And when people don't like you,

you have doubts. And nobody wants to live in a state of doubt. Our soul wasn't meant to live in a

state of doubt. Our soul came to this world to be with the light, which is the force of certainty.

So what's happening is that the negative side has tricked us by using a little bit of truth mixed

with a lie. What's the truth? The negative side says, hey, the purpose of life is to have certainty.

The lie is, okay, let's go make a lot of money and get a lot of people to like us and get all this

power and get the nicest home and the nicest this and the nicest that everyone's going to like,

you're going to have certainty. But we see actually people who have more physicality in their life,

they have more stress, more anxiety, more fear. Because the way this world was designed is you cannot

rely on the physical world to give you certainty. Certainty is something that is built from within

us. And the only way you can build it is when you're facing a difficult scenario that makes no

sense, that is hurtful, that is, that you feel betrayed, that you feel someone speaking bad about

you, that you feel you work so hard on invested so much energy and then they left or the project

fell apart and you're angry, you're angry with people, you're angry with God and you're angry with

yourself. Now, finally, you have been facing the opportunity to build true certainty.

You cannot build certainty when you have something in the external world you can point to as your

savior, as your buffer, as your crutch. When a person has a hundred million dollars and it drops

down to 50 million, they're practically suicidal. I have so many dollars but you still got 50 million

dollars. No, because they're focused on what they lost, not what they have. Percent is $5,000. And now they

have ten, they're elated, they have so much certainty. See how so much of our certainty is not

even ours, it's all dependent on, hey, the stock market went up, stock market went out. Hey, there's

war, there's nowhere. Everything is based on what I see, what I see on the news, what I hear from

people, what I see in my bank account, all of that is an illusion. We came to this world,

such a beautiful power. And it's within each one of us and you don't have to wait for chaos to

access it. Still little things. It's just when you feel annoyed, tell yourself, everything's good,

I have certainty. Build the muscle of certainty with the smaller things in life. It's when you spill

something on your shirt. It's when the schedule gets rearranged, when somebody cancels on you.

And it's tough because you may be thinking, oh, I'm going to come home now to a relationship and

this relationship is draining me. He's going to say something hurtful, it's somewhat abusive,

the passion is gone and you're telling me, okay, just have certainty, just have certainty.

What are we saying here? I'm not saying you need to stay in your relationship.

I'm not saying you need to stay in a bad situation, in a bad business. I'm saying

the way to speed up the process, to at least get the clarity of how to deal with it,

or at least the rage of vibration, we're going to track the better person in your life.

Attract better financial opportunities is to live at certainty.

And so yes, when you come home and you're facing this negative situation,

close your eyes and say I have certainty that even though I feel bad, I know things are good.

The second part of certainty is then you pray. People often pray from the place of lack.

I want you to pray from the place of certainty. I want you to feel whole and then pray.

Not feel lack, feel needy, feel like I just need to pray because I need to get something

and I'm just getting comfortable now because I'm uncomfortable.

When you're praying from a place of certainty, now you're praying because it's not even about you

anymore. Let's do the relationship example. If you're in a relationship that is not fulfilling you,

or at least doesn't feel something doesn't feel right, you're not meant to be stuck in the middle

here. It was a way to elevate to your true destiny which is to truly feel fulfilled.

The way you would do so is first you would accept fully the situation that you were in

to know that you're so brought here, to know that there's parts of you that are gravitating

towards this relationship because it's feeding these limited parts of you.

Take full responsibility of the fact that you brought yourself here. This wasn't God.

This wasn't some random external act that you find yourself in. You're a soul brought

here to this moment. Accept that first. And then tell yourself, I have completed certainty that

even this situation is good. It is good because it's trying to teach me something. It is good

because it's trying to elevate me in some way. It is good because there's something that my soul

needs to learn. And then you pray. What do you pray for? You would just say, hey, give me a better

guy. Give me a better woman. Why should you get a better guy or woman? You have exactly what your

frequency is. There's no mistake. The universe didn't make a mistake. If you are a 7 out of 10,

you're getting a 7 out of 10. Oh no, but she's a or he's a 4 out of 10. I'm a 7. But that's not how that

works. 4 is don't come to 7s. There's parts of yourself that you're just not in touch with that

makes you a 4. And that's the heart. By the way, that's a very hard thing to hear. All of us have

to look inside of ourselves. And it doesn't mean you're a bad person, but there is parts of you that

you have not seen that is dragging your overall score down. It could just be a belief system you have.

That you're not good enough. That will take you. You could be perfect at everything you will do

in life. You could check every box that someone's looking for in a relationship. You could be kind

and funny and wonderful and successful. But and you have a 10 in every category. But if you believe

that you don't deserve love. And that one out of 10 drags the entire average down to four.

There's a lot of weight on the belief systems of what we deserve. A lot of people deserve

believe very subconsciously deserve to be abused. A lot of people believe very subconsciously

that they don't deserve to have money or they don't deserve to have wealth or that wealth and

spirituality don't mix or that wealth and health don't mix or whether we all have these limited

belief systems and it drags the entire score down from a 10 to a 7 to a 5 to a 3 to a 2. And then

we attract people who are of the same score and we're like, wait, I don't deserve this. And so

then you pray to the creator and say, get these twos away from me. The creator's like, what are

you talking about? You can't just you pray for the two to change to an eight. You have to change

from a two to an eight. And you say, well, I'm not a two, but you are. There's some part of each one

of us that is dragging the whole score down. And if I find myself in a situation that I don't like

over and over again, it is because there is some part of me, conscious or unconsciously,

that believes that I don't deserve to receive or maybe I'm I secretly want this to happen.

A person who secretly wants to have freedom in their life, once people not to bother them,

once people to give them their privacy. And all of a sudden they walk out in the streets or they

walk out to they go to family events and they go, but no one talks to them. Like imagine you go

to a networking event and nobody's coming up to nobody's talking to you. No one's asking you for

anything. No one wants to even speak to you. You're like, wait, what's going on? And you feel bad.

Hey, you just prayed earlier in the day that you want more privacy. You want more alone time.

You don't want people to bother you all the time. Did you forget that you just prayed for that?

But celebrities are always asking, somebody was telling me recently, one of my mentors,

who also happens to mentor a few of the bigger celebrities in this world. And she said, you know,

they come to me and they're just always complaining about the paparazzi and everyone's chasing and

they have no privacy. And she said, listen, the day that they stop chasing you is the day you're

really going to be sad and depressed. You're going to come to my office and say, oh, what do I

got to do to become relevant again? So we are all consciously or unconsciously praying for things.

And then not realizing why our vibration has dropped and there's certain people in our lives

that we don't want them there. So prayer is not about changing our external reality. I want you

to pray to show you how to elevate yourself. This relationship that you are experiencing is

just an illusion. It is just a reflection of what's going on inside of you. So do not pray for the

relationship to change. Pray that the creative will show you what's dragging down your overall score.

Pray to the creator to give you more certainty. Pray to the creator to give you a greater understanding

of your power and your worth. Say to the creator, I desire to know how powerful I am. Show me.

Show me my past life. Show me in a dream. Show me where my soul is cut from. Show me how divine I

am. Make me feel it. Because then when you do, you'll elevate to a new destiny where either your

partner has to change or they're going to leave. But the point is, do not pray for your partner to

change. Do not pray for your financial situation to change. Pray to receive the consciousness

and the wisdom that other very successful people might have that you don't. Because something needs

to change vibrationally inside of you. As I thinking right after this, I want to go for a walk and

I want to talk to the creator and say, show me what more I can do. I can change. I can elevate

in order to reach the goals that I haven't yet hit. We look at the world today and how much

death pain and suffering exists. So many of us are focused on just shouting and yelling at

everyone else to change. We're yelling at the politicians to change. We're yelling at these other

countries to change. We're yelling at these different religions and telling them that they got

to change their religion and they got to change the way they practice their religion. Everyone's

yelling at us, telling us we got to change our diet. We have to stop eating plastics. We have to

stop using plastics. We have to stop eating these. We have to stop. Everyone's telling us,

everyone's telling everyone else what to do. Or there is no other people in this world. There's

no other people in this world. The sage is saying, it is just you and the light of the creator,

who are you yelling at? Even as I am talking to you. I have to know there is no you. There's no

one I'm talking to and just talking to myself. In fact, the only reason I'm doing this podcast is

because somehow by me doing it, it needs to help me grow and change to become closer to the light

of the creator. It's the only thing that matters. Even if billions of people heard my podcast,

this actually doesn't bring more or less light to the world. The only thing that brings more or less

light to my life is my transformation. It does not matter how much money I give or what I create in

this world or how much wisdom I spread. I'm only doing this because it is helping me understand

what I need to change about myself. It's giving me the strength to elevate. In fact, I see my soul

correction, my tukkun better by being put in these types of positions. As my platform might grow

and more people might know who I am and there may be there's more respect, there's more potential for

ego, there's more potential for all these things to happen, then that is my opportunity,

which by the way, nine out of ten times everybody fails anyways. But that will be my opportunity

to do my soul correction. It is not about the people. It's not about who you help or what you do or

what you create. That is the biggest test and it's the biggest test. So in summary for all of us,

this is the month that we can ask the creator to show us the seed level of anything that is

limiting us, where our doubts are coming from, where our fears are coming from, where our anxiety

is coming from, we can ask the creator, show it to me, give me the strength to transform it,

and to know that everything that is happening in this world that we are trying to change,

people we're trying to change, wars that we're trying to solve, all of these external things,

they will change as soon as you elevate yourself. Do not mistake how powerful you are

and how great your light is when you reveal it. Just one drop of your light can remove the darkness

of hundreds of millions of people. You must have certainty in that you must have the belief system

without that belief system. You're keeping your vessel limited. So elevate yourself.

Know that your soul shines brighter than all the souls combined in this world.

And the creator wants you to win. This game is engineered to allow you to win.

It's doing meditation together. I want you to sit comfortably now, take a deep breath in,

hold it for a moment and feel the oxygen as the light of the creator is expanding through your

lungs and through your body and entering your soul. The next step.

I want you to see this wall for what it really is. And there is only you

and the light of the creator. What about all these people? All these structures and institutions?

All of these things that we think are so important that define us.

Imagine that they all go away. Imagine we go back into a time where it was just souls.

And there was only one soul. One combined soul receiving the light of the creator.

And our minds. We must always hold this vision and hold this consciousness.

We take life so seriously. We take what people say so seriously. We take our relationships so

seriously. It is painful when someone dies. It is painful when someone or something close to

lives. Why is it so painful? It is painful because we give it so much power.

We receive so much from it because we forget that everything is being given to us from the light

of the creator. Even if you've had a pet die or someone close to you die,

what was it about them that you loved so much? The safety, the security, the affection they gave

you, someone to talk to, someone who understood you. It is not easy to lose someone or something that

was close to you. However, if you knew that everything they gave you was something that was

channeled through them from the creator. And now you can receive directly from the source.

And you must trust the source. You must trust that the source will bring you.

Everything you once had plus more. That is hard to know and that is hard to understand.

And this is what true certainty is. No one can take the energy away from you. No one can take what

you are. Everything that you are lacking is about from moment and time is an illusion. So if you

are fulfilled in the future, you are fulfilled now. Do you want to live in a world

where you are in complete control? What if somebody just broke up with you?

What if you just made a financial decision that was very bad but you lost a lot of money?

And if you are struggling right now, you are in pain, you are single, you are getting older.

What if there is something that is weighing heavy on your heart?

All you want is for that to be fulfilled. Do not wait for something to come to. I want you right

now to feel that feeling as if it has already happened. I want you to know that you are in that

space of energy already. I want you to live your life that way. Stop walking this earth,

looking for your other half. Stop advertising to the world that you are incomplete.

Stop letting the world know that you need something or that you are needy of something.

As soon as you feel that pit in your stomach, which causes you to want to show off,

ask, take, manipulate. Just pause. There is nothing you need to do.

The creator is a force that has never changed and never will change.

King David said, quote from the creator, I the creator do not change, meaning,

if you want to be aligned with the realm of miracles, just realize you are perfect exactly the way

you are. From this place of perfection, from this place of certainty, see what comes out of your

mouth, see the motions and movement that come from your body. It is not you anymore. Now it is the

creator that is guiding you through life and guiding you through everything. It is not your selfish

desire, it is not your fear, it is not your past life trauma that is guiding you anymore,

do not be guided by your trauma. You know what that feels like?

You know when your body is out of control, that is your trauma guiding you. Your mouth is moving

and you don't even have control over it. You just spewing venom or hate or criticism,

evil speech, that is your trauma talking. It is not really you. It is not the perfect hole you.

Do not advertise that you are missing something or lacking something because you are not.

The world needs us now more than ever to elevate who we are and raise our consciousness

to a place of certainty. Let's stop putting people down. It is very draining to create separation.

When you are hurting someone else's character,

you're speaking badly about them. It is the equivalent of poisoning one of your own organs.

You can't see it in the moment, but when you speak badly about someone else,

at that moment, something is going to happen to your own children, something is going to happen

to your own body, something happens to your own business because everything is one.

Let's treat everything as one. There is only one soul and there is only one creator.

It looks like we are figmented, but we are not.

And together, even with the smallest transformations, even with the smallest bit of effort for

certainty beyond logic, we will bring light to the entire world and we are raising the vibration

of the world and just one person is all that's needed and you are that person.

You must believe that you are that person. You must be delusional about it

and you will see miracles and you will tell the world about those miracles.

We are one soul.

We are sharing in that certainty above our feelings, above our past life.

And I ask you now to just visualize the world surrounded by light

so that all people in the world can feel the wholeness and certainty that is inside of them.

The world needs it now more than ever.

Thank you.