Episode 49: Maintenance Begins Before The Tool

We share a health scare that reframes maintenance through kindness and nervous system safety, then walk through ten lessons that make change last. Tools matter, but emotional regulation and the purposeful pause do the heavy lifting.

• plus one theory and mission
• ICU story and why kindness sustains change
• limits of tools for dysregulated wiring
• maintenance before the tool as foundation
• ten core maintenance lessons explained
• action before motivation to build momentum
• purposeful pause to break reflex loops
• identity work and structure over goals
• reassurance that you are rewiring not failing
• holiday stories launch and community invitation

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Delay the Binge™ explores the patterns behind urges, habits, stress patterns, burnout, and Quiet Depletion™ — and what happens in the pause between impulse and action, where real behavior change begins.

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