Feeling Like You Lost Yourself in Motherhood

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In this episode, we talk about something only moms can really understand—feeling like we lost ourselves in motherhood. We share our personal experiences of what it looked like for us in feeling disconnected to who we once were and our journey back to that (that some of us are still on). 

We also talk about the constant tug-of-war between personal identity and societal expectations, and the importance of community and connection among mothers. 

Our conversation highlights the need for social interaction, the significance of building a supportive village, and the understanding that struggles are often temporary. Ultimately, we hope episode serves as a reminder that every mother's journey is unique and worthy of recognition. Thanks for listening!

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose

01:08 Feeling Lost in Motherhood

10:11 The Struggles of Balancing Motherhood and Career

15:53 The Struggles of Motherhood During COVID

19:37 Finding Support and Connection

23:18 Rediscovering Identity and Self-Care

27:40 The Impact of Running on Mental Health

28:00 Navigating Guilt and Societal Expectations

33:02 The Reality of Stay-at-Home Parenting

37:29 The Evolution of Friendships and Identity

45:00 The Power of Social Connection

48:56 Building Your Village

50:48 Finding Hope in Community

51:42 Navigating Motherhood's Challenges

54:19 Engaging with Your Community

57:52 Inspiration Through Shared Experiences

Whitney Heins is a mom of 2, a lifelong runner, a VDOT-certified running coach for moms who run, and founder of the resource, themotherrunners.com. When training for her first marathon as a mom, she found a dearth of information related to running and motherhood. She also felt extremely isolated as a new mom. As a former TV journalist and a freelance writer she decided to use her skills to fill the void with an online resource and community, called The Mother Runners. Whitney also recognized a need for run coaches who understood the demands of motherhood, so she also became a running coach—unearthing a passion for helping moms reap the rewards and empowerment of running. Coming out of a long injury cycle, she ran a 2:54 marathon and 1:20 half marathon in her 40s. She lives in Knoxville, TN with her husband, two kids, and three dogs.

• www.themotherrunners.com
• Instagram: @themotherrunners
• YouTube: The Mother Runners
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