"Fierce Manson's Guide to Unconditional Love and Friendship"

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to the

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host fierce man. So next day is Friday, Friday, Friday, Friday, Friday, Friday,

baby. Listen, we're going to get on down with it. It is Friday night. My

daughter, my daughter is going to get on down with it with it. Listen, it is

January 16th, 2026. It is 9 p.m. on the center standard time zone and 10 p.m.

on the eastern standard time zone. Yeah, but I'm going to stay up in here. The

eastern standard time zone is the time zone. There are rocks, my socks off

honey. You know, I got to push it up to the ETL to my home team. Must give a

shout out to my team, fierce nation, international, the whole. It's working

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They're in East and West Africa. And I really do appreciate everything got one

honor here. Remember in India, Koran, but taught me. So listen, I got some music for

you guys on today. Got some music for you guys. Listen, listen, before I get

started, I got to say this. Got to say this. I got a life lesson for you. You

guys know I am a certified life coach trained by Dr. Mona Keradine. Many years

ago, I'm going to get to life lesson in just one moment, just one moment, just one

month. So listen, a friend of mine called on today just just a little while ago.

And it just really be a whole mess. And you know, it just triggered my

thinking. There's always something that triggers, you know, a thought. And it's

like, well, my goodness. So this person, we're really good friends since childhood,

since childhood, we've been friends since childhood. So he calls and he says, I was

just calling to let you know I'm going to call you. Okay. I'm like, well, you

calling right now. So why do I need a heads up that you're going to call me in a

few minutes? You know, so I kind of scratched my head a little bit. And I was

like, well, I'm trying to follow the thought process process. I'm one of those

persons. I try to follow a person's train of thought. And so I was trying to

figure out, well, how was this making sense? How was this adding up that this

person? And he does this not the first time he does it. And so when he did, I was

like, well, I know he's not going to call. And so I can't understand, well, and

figure out, well, why are you calling to tell me that you are going to call? And I

know that you're not going to call. So it doesn't make any sense to me. But that's

just a person that he has. So listen, listen, the life lesson is this life lesson

looks like this. Sometimes you have people in your circle, you know how they are.

And they've been, you've been friends with them for a mighty long time. And it

doesn't bother that they have little just little things about them, little

quirky things like that. To me, that's just a little quirky thing that I can

live with and it doesn't bother me. It's just a person that he is. He'll call.

He's only really calling to say hello, but he doesn't know how to say, I'm just

saying call and see, say hello. What's up? How you doing? That's it. He doesn't

know how to do that. And that's really simple. And I understand that his logic

doesn't understand how to do that. And he doesn't want to say anything to

hurting body feeling. So it just says, I'm going to call you back, right? It's

just a little thing that he's going to keep you holding on thinking that he's

going to call you back. But I know that he's not. So listen, the life lesson is

this. Sometimes you have people in your circle, right? And you understand how

they are. You love them. You love. This is I'm talking about unconditional love.

This life lesson has to do with unconditional love. When you love your

friends unconditionally, you know how they are. And it doesn't bother you

because you love them unconditionally. So listen, the point of it is this either

you're going to put up with them or you're not. When you have unconditional love

for people, you just accept them how they are. You can't change them unless they

are going to do something to hurt. Now, if they're going to do something to hurt

themselves, that's listen, you're going to tell them, hey, you need to make an

adjustment right here. You need to do that. So listen, the life lesson is this.

When you love somebody, you love your friends. You love people in your circle

without condition. You accept them the way that they are because you love them.

And I've got an I've got another friend, you know, and he called

sometimes and he has this little thing going on. I'm like, oh Lord,

have mercy. So listen, the point is this, I'm going to make this really quick

and fans. The point is this, if they are a real true friend, you accept them all

of you, accept all of them. You don't say, well, I'm going to accept this part of

you today. And I'm not going to accept that part tomorrow. It doesn't blive.

It doesn't work like that. If you've got a friend and they've been your

friend for a long, long time, you're used to how they are. And so that's the

way, you know, and I always think I was sitting here and I was just thinking

about a friend of mine, came across my mind. I've been thinking about him a lot

lately. He was a friend of mine for years and years and years. A family member

introduced me to this person. And we became really tight friends, really tight.

This was many years ago. We became really, really tight. And so we would ride

around stuff like that. And a long story short, a long story short,

then we would go out to lunch, have lunch every now and then we do business.

And so after a while, I didn't see him. Didn't see him. I was like, well,

where is he at? Where's Jack? Where's Jack? Didn't see Jack for months,

for months and almost a year. I'm like, man, what happened? Jack. And so you

know what? When he came around, it was about maybe one o'clock in the morning.

And my mother says, somebody's bringing a dog belt, one o'clock in the

morning. Well, you know, I got up out of bed and went to the door. It was Jack.

And I opened the door and I just had on my PJs. Of course, it's one o'clock

and I just jumped and flung right up in his arms and he just lift me right

up off the ground. And I'm going to say, well, my God, what is going on out there?

And it was nothing, nothing like that. It was just that I was so darn glad to

see that, man, because we were really, really good friends. And he gave me the

biggest squeeze bare hug ever. I was like, don't squeeze all the breath out of

me. And so he came in and sat down. And he gave me the story of what was going

on. He says, man, he sat there and talked about an hour. But that man was my

friend, right? And so, you know, you accept a person how they are. And I love

that guy. I love the guy. And so we always would cruise together and do business

with him. And so, you know, and it is what it is. People that were my friends,

they could come by my house. It doesn't matter. I didn't have no time.

Back now, listen, I'm an old lady now. So they ain't nobody to bring in my

doorbell. Two and three o'clock in the morning. But back then it opened door

policy. You come ring my doorbell. It didn't matter. I'm opening the doorbell.

We're gonna sit down. We're gonna chat chat. It was just like that. And one

other person that I'm gonna get to the music. One other person is still on the

life lesson. Life lesson is about accepting people. Unconditioned when they

are your friends. I remember one time a same thing I was in the bed. This man

rings my doorbell. And my mother, again, she goes and she answers the door.

She's a girl. Somebody has that door for you. And I'm looking out in this big

old pilgrim Drew Belize bus. And I'm like, well, what the family is going on?

This is about, I don't know, 11th or 10th midnight. And he says, I want you to

ride the Minnesota with me. I'm like, go do what? And he says, yeah, I gotta drive

up the Minnesota. And I want you to ride with me. And he says, I don't want to go

by myself. I'm like, you guys to be kidding. And so he says, yeah, come on, come on,

keep, come on, keep me company. I says, okay, give me a minute to put some

clothes on. Got on the bus. He had to take that bus up the Minnesota because it

needed some work. And you know, didn't want the bus to break down. So anyway,

it goes all the way up to Minnesota. We're on this bus just two of us. It's

midnight. We're cruising right on up to Minnesota. And then he goes, he's

we start going up the hill. Then he says to me, well, you know, it's some

bears in this section. I say, wait a minute, some bears. And I'm getting

scared. He busing up laughing. He's laughing as well off. And I'm scared. I'm

sitting there scared. So anyway, long story short, I did that because a friend,

some friend would do those things for you. And I wrote all the way up to Minnesota.

We didn't have no hotel room. We didn't have this. It was crucial. It was

crucial. We didn't have no hotel rooms. We drove all the way to Minnesota. We

didn't have no hotel rooms to go sleep and rest up. They worked on their bus

and y'all know what? We took a nap right there where they were working on their

bus right there on the sofa. And when they got through, we turned around and

drove right back to Chicago. Listen, I was one tad sister, but I did it. So

listen, listen, listen, listen. I got some great music for you. Got some great

music for you. And I'm still just that way. I have not changed. I'm still

like, exact same way. Just like what's his name? Mr.

Schumann. He's Schumann. He's Schumann. And I've got to get with him on Instagram.

He's got Mr. Reaper. Mr. Reaper. Mr. Reaper. So listen. And people probably

wonder, well, why do you do what you do? Because I love what I do. Mr.

Reaper's got some boss bad sneakers, boss bad sneakers. And I'm like, I've

got to call some some stores. Yeah, probably I said, well, why do you mean you've

got to? Because I love what he's doing. And I want to support what he does. And

I want to get his sneakers in a couple of stores here in city of Chicago so

that he can go further with his endeavor and succeed. Even more. He's already

successful. But these sneakers are our boss bad. And so yeah, I've done it

before and I can do it again. And so I don't have any problem with my skill and

talent of getting things in the store. That's just the way it works. So listen,

I got some really bad boss music for you on today, y'all. Y'all call it the

life lesson. Love folks unconditional. Don't just come to people with your

hand. That's the life lesson. Let me say that again. Don't come to people with

your hand out, right? Love folks, you know, love folks, when you love people

because of you just love them. They're gonna love you and stick with you and be

loyal. They ain't coming to you with with a handout. Well, you got $5.

You got $10. Can you do this? Can you do that? No, baby. Just love me

how I am. Except me how I am. That's when you got a true real circle. When

you love folks because you love them. Yeah, come on now. We need more than in the

words because so much is going on in this world. This world is just like it's

rocking and real from the left to the right. You don't know what it's gonna

spit up. Listen, so listen, y'all when y'all find some folks that's true and real

stick with them. Don't give them up. Stick with them. Stick with them. Stick with them.

So listen, I'm gonna give y'all we need a revolution by in there later. Hey, and

that's me. That's we need a revolution. Let me tell you we need a revolution. Let

me tell you we need a revolution. We need an equality. Well, never be. Let me

tell you we need a revolution. We need a revolution. Equality and

restoration is upon me. Let me tell you we need a revolution. Let me tell you we

need a revolution. Hey, crimes and murder lie in our streets. For our boys storm

in the White House. We're no longer free. They tell me Roe v. Wade stood up and

revolted on me. Blood, sand and desperation is running our streets. George Floyd.

Brianna Taylor. Ancestral Drums are calling out to me. Let me tell you we need a

revolution. Let me tell you we need a revolution. We need we need we need we need we need we need we need we need a

revolution fighting dance his back and past falls from above. Let me tell you we

need a revolution. We need a revolution. So all shotguns, pistols and rifles rule our

streets. Let me tell you we need a revolution. Let me tell you we need we need a

revolution. Let me tell you we need a revolution. Oh, wow. Oh, wow. We need a

revolution. When we do, we really do. We need a revolution. I wrote that song a

few years back. But I published it and put it out and recorded it. You know, it was just

really unbelievable. Recorded the song when one of a family members sister passed away.

And it's just still I can never it's just etched by mine. It was March at the

March 20 of 2023 when she when she passed. And I wrote the song way before then. But I

didn't I didn't go in and recorded until afterwards. And so it you know when the

young man called and he says, you know, I said, how you doing? And he said, I ain't

no more good. And I, you know, something just hit me. I knew what had happened because

he had been telling us that she wasn't doing well. I bent all the way over. Sometimes

you just know, you just know, you just know, I had that phone in my hand. He didn't

know that I knew. And I bent all the way over. And I was just like, I couldn't even let

out the emotions that was on the inside of me because that I love that girl. Oh, man,

I love that girl. That girl was full of so much love. I mean, she was, oh, man, she

was one of a cat. She was one of the cats. I love that girl. I tell you, so we need

a revolution. There's a song that I hold dear and true to my heart. The date that

it was recorded. It's attached to when she passed when it's just really, I said, I'm

going to put that date on here because it's really a tribute and memorial to her. And

I just love that sister. That girl was a down sister and she loved the people. She loved

the families. That's it. That's all. And so I got some more music that's coming up

for you. This one is, do you still love me? Do you still love me?

Do you still love me? Do you still love me? Do you still love me? Do you still love me?

Do you still love me? Do you still love me? Do you still love me? Do you still love me?

Do you still love me? Do you still love me? Do you still love me? Do you still love me?

Do you still want to see me?

I've been rather fighting to see the way we go through the years

Now I'm spinning and trying to fool you

Do you still want to be behind all the lies you say to me?

All the dreams I've had

Can't tell these lies are very, very scary

Tell me the truth and I won't do it

Do you still want to be behind all the lies you say to me?

I've been rather fighting to see the way we go through the years

Now I'm spinning and trying to fool you

Do you still want to be behind all the lies you say to me?

I've been rather fighting to see the way we go through the years

Now I'm spinning and trying to fool you

Do you still want to be behind all the lies you say to me?

I've been rather fighting to see the way we go through the years

Now I'm spinning and trying to fool you

Do you still want to be behind all the lies you say to me?

I've been rather fighting to see the way we go through the years

Now I'm spinning and trying to fool you

He's still on me and I'm chasing the stars

Everywhere we stand and come through deep

So do you still love me or was it just a dream?

All right, that's do you still love me?

Do you still love me?

You know, it's interesting.

Every song reminds you of a place or time

or something you did or a person.

You know, and I was listening to the song,

do you still love me?

Do you still love me?

And I was like, I don't remember not one person asking me,

do you still love me?

And that's a good thing.

I'm going somewhere with this.

I'm going somewhere with this.

So listen, when you're in a relationship with somebody

and you've been together for a while,

I've never had one man ever come up to me and say,

Adrian, you still love me.

You know, because once I love you,

I ain't going to never stop loving you.

It doesn't matter if we have broke up now.

It just is what it is.

It doesn't matter if we broke up 10 years ago,

then we come and you see me walking down the street

or you call me or whatever.

They ain't going to get on the phone.

You still love me?

Hell no, they're not going to say that to me

because they already know that I still love them.

So listen, it's just like that.

It's just like that.

And so listen, I'm not a drama woman.

And listen, ladies, let me tell y'all something.

Listen, my beautiful women, my beautiful sisters.

Stop giving me and so much drama.

That's why they being scared to approach your dope

because they be scared you're going to hit them in the head

with a fine pen.

Listen, listen, stop all that foolishness.

You know, I cannot stand foolishness.

So listen, when I have dated a guy

and we have been in love, he ain't going,

if he happened to call me, he ain't going to be saying,

do you still loving all this counsel?

Because he already know.

I ain't got time to be hitting nobody in the head

with no fine pen.

I ain't got time to be throwing those shoes

upside somebody head.

Listen, ladies, stop all that foolishness.

If y'all learn how to be soft female women,

you'll find out what it's like to have men

to really, really, really treat you like a real woman.

That's the what time it is up in here.

So listen, and that's all I got to say.

It's not walking like you a truck driver.

I ain't never seen so many women walking around

in the streets like they a truck driver.

I'm like, let's pull off them temple embers.

I know what's the winner time.

I know what's the winner time.

But you ain't got to be stiff-sloshing all over the place

like you don't know how to be a female.

I'm like, what is going on?

You can't tell the female from the men.

I'm like, learn how to be a little softer.

You know, when you at home, I can't tell you what's going on.

I can't stand no nagging woman.

I'd be wanting to pop them in the mouth

if I'm in somebody's house and in a couple's house

and the woman is screaming, screaming, screaming, screaming.

I'd be wanting to slice her up and pop her in the mouth

and help her loosen up one of her teeth.

Do y'all know a man cannot stand to be nagged all up

and down all day and night?

A man cannot deal with that foolishness

because you know what?

When you got a woman there, oh, Lord, here I go.

When you got a woman that would not stop nagging,

you are emasculating him.

You are taking away his strength.

When you do that to a man, you cause him to do all kinds of things.

I'm not talking about running to other women.

But when you always up and down got something to complain about,

you are taking away his strength.

You are emasculating him.

You don't know what to do with you.

He'd be trying to forget, well, why did I get with you?

Because you won't never close your mouth and shut up.

So listen, ladies, you got to stop playing games like that.

I don't understand that.

So listen, and then you got your sister on these men,

these black men on all these white women.

Well, listen, you might be the droves.

Some of the black men took away women.

If you know how to handle yourself and handle your business,

maybe they won't be running around here till white women.

So listen, say act like a lady.

Know how to wear a dress sometimes when the weather is really nice?

And listen, I'm trying to figure out what's going on on Facebook

and all these other social medias.

All the tie ties out, ladies.

You ain't got to have your boobs hanging out all over the place.

I'm like, what is going on?

So listen, you ain't got to do that.

Listen, a real man won't say real woman.

Come on now.

You got to know how to hold it down in your house

and hold it down in the street.

You ain't got to have everything showing in for advertisement.

For what?

You ain't got to have your butt hanging out.

You ain't got to be seeing something and everything.

That's a free life lesson.

That's a free life lesson.

Y'all know I do dating on purpose.

It's just the case.

You didn't know.

So that's what is coming from dating on purpose.

You got a date with a purpose in mind.

You ain't got to be out here as dating folks and then listen.

People out here, they ain't trying to get folks out

from what I'm understanding.

You got some men coming up to women trying to figure out

what number they own, trying to figure out how much money they got

and see if they can move in with you.

That ain't going to roll either.

So listen.

If you think you're going to move in with a lady,

now you got a lot of fools out here, foolish women

that's going to let somebody come in the house

and stay with them because they just want somebody

in the bed with them.

That ain't it, baby.

So listen, listen.

Let me get to the next song.

That's dating on purpose.

So listen, listen.

Let me get to the next song.

That's a good stuff for you.

This is caused me, friend.

I love this song.

Then I got to get on up out of here.

Man, I'm sweating.

Now I'm sweating.

I was talking so much, I just started sweating.

So listen, listen, listen, listen.

This is caused me, friend.

You got to love this.

I love this song.

It is really spectacular.

I guess that's a great song because that's what I was talking about

is being friends and loving individual unconditionally

without wanting something in return.

When you love somebody, you're not looking for something in return.

You know you got a real true blue friends.

Here is caused me, friend.

It is chemical, something I can't control.

I think that it's medical.

I'm feeling so far from myself.

Baby, something so asymmetrical.

Counting out for medical.

That's why I call it speed and speed.

No, let it start for you.

Baby, it's hard for me to launch going off in my room.

Twenty-four seven.

It's all in my head.

Oh, and he feels just like a friend.

And I want him out.

And just one is too head.

Oh, and I think he's a man.

But he always calls me friend.

It's asymmetrical, something I wish would go.

So how make it a miracle?

I'm feeling a trip in a step of mine.

It says that I ain't that physical.

When I'm at my pinnacle, I wonder if he's really lying though.

I know that it's hard for you.

Baby, it's hard for me to launch going off in my room.

Twenty-four seven.

It's all in my head.

Oh, and he feels just like a friend.

And I want him out.

And just one is too head.

Oh, and I think he's a man.

But he always calls me friend.

But I'm so scared that they might care.

Is he really a friend?

Is he really a friend?

But I'm so scared that they might care.

Is he really a friend?

Is he really a friend?

All right.

That is calls me friend.

That is oh, Sammy.

Oh, Sammy.

That is Sam Anderson.

Uh, stage name is oh, Sammy.

That's calls me friend.

So it's like I get on up out of here.

That they stone cold blasts.

And as always, it is peace, love, and soul.

You motivated.

You motivated.

You winning win.

You motivated.

All of fear.

Fear.

Fear.

Fear.

Fear.

Fear.

Fear.

Fear.

Fear.

Fear.

Fear.

Fear.