God on the Go by AllMomDoes - Siblings in Jesus (Siblings)

It was something she always wanted and it was something that she didn't get to have.

I'm Julie Liles Carr and this has got on the go part of the Purposely Podcast Network.

We've been in a series talking about siblings and it has to be said I recognize that not

everyone has siblings.

My mom was an only child and she truly wanted to have siblings in her life.

That was something she felt like she really missed out on.

But there was something also really cool in her life.

She had a first cousin and her first cousin was just a couple years older and that cousin

was like a sister to her.

They were raised in the same town, their mothers were sisters and that was a relationship

that my mom carried with her her whole life.

She still always wished that she had siblings but she was so grateful for the chosen sister

that she had.

And yes, that cousin was a blood family member but their relationship, the way they

chose to conduct that relationship, well it made them chosen sisters.

Now you've heard me talk about through the course of the series that I have two baby

brothers that I am wild about.

I say baby brothers, they are both six foot five.

They are big strong men and I like to be petite around them even though I'm not really

very petite but I still think of them as my baby brothers.

But I will tell you this, even with two siblings, two brothers, I always wished I had a sister.

I missed that sense that I had with my other friends who had sisters and here's the beautiful

thing.

God has brought friendships into my life in which I feel like I do have sisters.

They're chosen family, they're my chosen sisters.

So even if you've been listening to this series saying, you know what, I don't have siblings

or you might be thinking, well I have brothers but I don't have a sister and I always wanted

a sister or well I have sisters but I don't have a brother and I always wanted a brother.

Here's something that God does that is so cool.

He puts us in faith communities in our churches, in our church families so that we can have

chosen family.

Guess how many people say that they have a chosen family member?

That's someone that they consider an extra sibling, a friend that they have made even closer

than just a typical friend, someone that really has become a sibling, a family member

to them.

87% of people say they have a chosen family member.

That's pretty incredible.

And when you're part of the family of God, that is what he does for us.

There's a reason that in the early church when Paul, say, was writing to the early church

and he would talk about all of those church members as brothers and sisters in Christ,

in Jesus, because Jesus has made us family.

Those of us who follow him, we do have brothers and sisters.

So even if you feel like, well, I don't really have a brother, I don't have a sister, yes,

you do, because you have chosen family through Jesus.

And God has a plan for that for you.

Jesus talked about this, about having chosen family.

There was a situation in which he was preaching.

He was talking about God and teaching the people about God, but you know what?

As much as his mom and his brothers and sisters, his blood family loved him, they didn't

quite get it at first, what he was doing.

And they went to go talk to him.

He was in a house talking and telling the people all about God and all about his ministry.

And people said, hey, your family is outside.

And Jesus said, hey, listen, these people here, the ones listening to me, here are my mother

and my brothers for whoever does the will of my father in heaven is my brother and sister

and mother.

Was he saying this to diss his mom and his brothers who come to check on him?

No, he wasn't.

He was simply showing that within God's family, those people who joined together and say,

we're going to follow God, we're going to do the will of God.

We are going to walk together.

Those people also become your family.

So if you ever find yourself feeling a little lonely, if you find yourself wishing that you

had a brother or a sister and you don't, maybe you're an only child.

Maybe there's a situation in your family in which you don't get to be with your siblings

the way you want to be.

That's what that doesn't mean that you don't have brothers and sisters because when you

follow Jesus, when you follow God, when you are part of his family, you do have mothers,

fathers, brothers, sisters, people, family around you who care about you, who want to see

you do well, who are cheering you on.

And you can do the same thing for them, a brother, a sister.

It's not just about who's born into your family.

It's also about who you choose to live life with, who you choose to walk alongside as you

follow God.

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And I will see you next time at God on the go.

Thanks for listening.

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