Hayden & Elena: The One Mistake That Ruined a Perfect First Date 😬

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injury attorneys online at advocates law dot com Hayden is on the phone today for a first

day follow up he's getting ghosted by Elena so in a minute we'll call her and see if she'll

tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date but first Hayden how long

has it been since you heard from her? It's been about nine days I'd say nine or ten days give

so how many times have you tried to reach out to her?

once every other day you mean the most recent was this morning you know I'm still trying to

you know connect with air if possible okay how was the day? The day was great I mean that's why

I'm so baffled like so you know we we might online and then we met up at this little wine bar

you know in kind of a middle of the neighborhood which was really nice and it was like they had

a little patio out there she brought her dog she had a little baby dog I think it was like a

pomeranian or something which that's cute weird but yeah I guess in a sense she didn't tell you

no no dog on a date that'd be kind of weird I think it's cool okay anyway dog name is biscuit

you didn't mind that she surprised you with the dog on your date? I am a dog lover myself so

like at first it was you know through me by surprise but after a while you know I got adjusted to the

dog I mean I don't know if the dog was getting so he checked it to me he kept trying to like bite

on me and maybe time I tried to pet him he would growl and stuff but the dog was like he was just

he even actually had a little joke saying stuff some like you know if biscuit doesn't bite

if you then that's a red flag or something like that but I think he was just I think he was just

joking I think I hope because the day the day was going great like after a while you know

the dog kind of laid there and just kind of kept to himself and then we started vibing

connecting you know we got a we shared a trick trick hootery trick hootery she actually made fun

of me for not knowing how to say it here I thought that was actually kind of cute but yeah

when those cheese boards after that we went back to her place and you know we were still vibing

everything was good and you know one thing we're doing not there we hooked up you know oh you know

they just like that but yeah yeah yeah we did it happened and we just had something and I just

I want to know why she while sudden she's ghosting me you know what could have gone wrong was

there any other moment aside from biscuit nip and at your ankles that was kind of awkward or

or no I have no no idea I mean I yeah he was nip and at me at first but you know he

he come down after a while and we were having such a great time I mean that's I did a great job

you know performing if you will I don't know maybe I might I might have said something stupid

towards the end of the night you know I had a good buzz on me I was tired dehydrated you know

I've been working a lot lately so you know I haven't been catching up on sleep much

so I might as if I'm stupid Hayden is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Elena so we're about

to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date

but before we do that Hayden why don't you break down your date for us real quick again

made her the wine bar had a great time she brought her dog which was a lot putting at first

is he kept you know nipping at me and growling at me but after a while he calmed down and

we had a great night and even great overnight if you will and ever since then I you know she's

been ghosted me that's why we had a great connection and I try calling her she doesn't call me bad

doesn't text me bad I mean I don't know like I said maybe she is you know serious about

biscuit and you know the vibe because he was growing I mean maybe she's true about like you know

she did call him her his very gay keeper and I guess well maybe okay so maybe her dog didn't like

you that might be the reason you think you're getting ghosted or maybe it wasn't very gay keeper

didn't like it that's all different that are just some stupid in the middle of the night which

I don't recall I was buzzed I'm sorry are you ready for us to call her yes please okay here we go

I'm gonna dial her phone number right now

hi hi I speak to Elena please

Elena how are you this is a radio show it's called the jubal show hi Elena I'm Nina hi

I'm Victoria my name's jubal what's up how are you I'm good great have you ever listened to

the show before I have yeah dope have you ever heard of first date follow up before I have dope

yeah guess what Elena what you're ghosting somebody and they emailed us oh no yeah okay

we do a segment called the first day follow up where if you're ghosting somebody you can email

us and we call that person and see if they'll tell us why they're ghosting you so do you know

who would have emailed us about you yeah I have a speaking description of tape and I guess

yes it is eight in do you have a few minutes to talk to us and tell us why you're ghosting

me said he really liked you and he thought you were into him yeah I mean the date was actually

really fun I mean he's adorable he's cute he made me laugh and he even tried to one of my dogs

which was a big big thing for me um he told us the big guy you brought your dog on the date

and that your dog didn't like him so he thought maybe that was a red flag I mean no that's not

that's not why I've been ghosting him um he is like a bathroom criminal what does that mean

you see called him a criminal a bathroom criminal after we looked up um I went to the bathroom

and he left the toilet seat out which wasn't the worst thing okay but then he also didn't flush

and let's just say hydration is not his strong suit oh no it was disgusting it was like someone

poured beer into like a hot window and you got it everywhere I'm telling you like everywhere

wait can I I can't say quite now okay Elena that's Hayden he's on the phone and

wants to talk to you Elena that's why you ghosted me yeah I wish you get it all over the bathroom

it was an accident it was a complete accident I'm so sorry in my defense it was like 3am I was

half asleep dehydrated and clearly not at my best you know I respect you I swear I let you don't

go someone for that come on we had chemistry right we you even laughed at my dumb jokes

listen I I do love the dumb jokes and but I mean just the bathroom which is out of control like

I didn't even I didn't even know how to deal with that so I don't know Elena listen I really do

like you and you know we just hooked up right after that and it's kind of hard to control after

hooking up I'm sorry if I wasn't really paying attention to where it was I mean I don't know

you know I didn't see it so I'd have to know how bad it was I'm sorry about that but I know we

moved past this you know I think this is hurt like me towards the end of it you know and I'm

willing to give you know a biscuit a bribe I will come in I will clean your bathrooms early I will

bleach it I will yeah I will re-single your tile whatever whatever we're going to do let's

I can get a second day with you please I listen I really do like you but I just don't want to start

this whole thing off with me having to clean up after you and reminding you to drink water like

that does not sound fun for me look if you go on another day with me I promise I will pee straight

hey Elena what do you think would you go on another day with Hayden will pay for it I mean

that's a big promise I've never heard anybody promise that before for somebody

I'll even sit down on the line bye yes we can go on a second date but we're staying out of my

bathroom okay the straight promises was is what did it deal deal and I'm bringing a water bottle

and mint and a bribe for biscuits and bleach for the bathroom oh my god whatever you want

that is so sweet well congratulations Hayden you got another date I couldn't

I don't know without you guys thank you so much this was great all right thank you guys you know

I'm actually pretty excited I'll call you after we get done with this radio thing and I'll

call you on your phone okay okay another wine trip or something awesome thank you guys

appreciate it I'll talk to you soon Elena okay

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