I Thought My Husband Made A "Mistake" Then He Got Suspended For Doing It AGAIN!

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2:21Love guys now today's first story comes from full act 7668 from the relationship advice subreddit and it says my 37 female husband 38 male was fired a sexual harassment. I 37 female have been married for 8 years to my husband 38 male who we have two kids together. Last week my husband was fired for sexual harassment. He told me that he was flirting with a coworker who is not his direct report but is lower on the hierarchy than he is. He says that she initiated the first flirtation but after then he found her on Facebook and started messaging her. She ended up showing the messages to HR and he was fired. He deleted the messages so I don't know what was said but he claims he asked her to send a clothes picture. I am at a loss for what to do here. Will I stay with him and try to move past this or is it a big enough deal to leave him? Other potentially relevant information. I know he has messages at least one other woman. I saw those messages and they were not sexual but they were flirtatious.

3:23Only work part time so leaving him is complicated by the fact that I would also need to find a job. He doesn't have anywhere else to stay so you have to keep living together at least until the job situation is resolved. Edit to add because so many comments have brought up the closed part. I asked him about it. He claims they were talking about Halloween and he asked her to send a picture in her costume. It may be the reddit in me with these stories but the first thought that always comes into my mind when I see stuff like this is trick or true. I am clearly because of the edit. I hope you are mentioning people commenting on the closed part and that stood out to me as well. He is asking for a picture of her clothed. Yeah, righty. I am talking to a lot more to the story that you don't know yet. I hope he says that is one of my concerns. I don't think I have the whole story and I really don't think I ever will. Blue says this is serious because it wasn't simply online and online cheating is serious enough especially after a marriage commitment. Okay. So he was trying to have sex with somebody else that he works with which is a complete betrayal of your marriage.

4:25It wasn't quote just flirting. Unquote. And now he has a poor job history. Stay with friends, stay with family. Hopefully no children are involved. Please get away from him. I hope you trolled the B word that was flirting with him because I don't believe that she was innocent at all either. If she was innocent it would have been one message from him and she would have immediately gone to human resources. She probably told her it wasn't going to end the marriage or decided her job was not worth risking. This is not a salvageable situation and you deserve so much better and will be so much happier without this horrible betrayal. Hope you are applying. Unfortunately, I don't know who the other woman is. He deleted all the messages and has always deleted every message in text since I met him. I definitely see this as a red flag now but because you always did it, I didn't think much of it until now. One voted Commodore says to OP, why do you only work part time? That's your first mistake to be honest. Staying with him is your second. Never let yourself become dependent on a man. Much less a bad one. Hope he says I only work part time because my full time salary was less than the cost of

5:28our child care. So I work outside of normal business hours so we don't have to pay for child care. Another Commodore says, erm, it's interesting that his work thinks is inappropriate enough to fire him. But you don't think it's a big enough problem to divorce him. Plus no man in life has ever asked a girl for a closed photo. Think about it. She would have had those posted on the Facebook he went looking for. OP says that's actually a really good point. I guess he would not need to ask for a close fix if he could see her social media. A commenter says, ask her what was said or talked to HR directly. Your husband cheated on you and she gets tested since you know he can't be trusted to tell the truth. OP says, I don't know who the woman is and I read what HR gave him but it was just information regarding unemployment and benefits. The commenter says, yeah, he didn't get fired for flirting or asking for a close photo. As a reason he deleted those messages before he told you. Even hypothetically if she told him you'd go to report him, he would have known that she could just show HR her logs. The only person he could have conceivably deleted them to hide them from is you.

6:28And then take it further. He didn't think to delete the other flirty messages with a woman so they definitely weren't on the same scale as what I've always been on with her otherwise it would still exist. OP says he did delete the other flirty messages. He's deleted every message and text since before we started dating. I know about the other messages because the woman sent me screenshots. Another commenter says, he's the primary breadwinner in your house and he risked and lost his job over another woman. That to me is just as bad as if he actually cheated. He didn't say if you have children. Is that why you work part time? If you do, that's even worse. He destroyed your family's financial stability. You have family you can go to until you get on your feet. OP says we have two kids. Yes, that is the reason I work part time. I work outside of normal business hours to avoid paying for childcare. Odd setting quotes OP saying he doesn't have anywhere else to stay so we have to keep living together at least until the job situation is resolved. Then says don't have to house him. OP replies him both of our names are on the house. Can I just really kick him out of his own house?

7:315 and a half months later, OP comes in and says we are getting divorced. I decided to end the marriage shortly after making this post. However, he had a pretty intense mental health crisis for him to continue to live in our house until the situation was more stable. He ended up getting a job after a few months but he is now suspended from that job for once again sexually harassing someone. We will find out within the next couple of days if he still has a job or not but I know he will very likely be fired. I told him it's time for him to find somewhere else to live even if he doesn't have a job. Well I hope he is able to work on his mental health. I don't believe it is my problem anymore. I am currently getting ready to sell the house while the kids and I will probably move him with my parents while we get back on our feet. Thank you all for your advice. I think when I made this post I knew deep down what I needed to do and I just hadn't come to terms with the fact that my life was going to change so quickly and completely. A commenter says he needs inpatient care if he is so stupid as to lose two jobs for sexual harassment, a complete lack of self preservation.

8:32Hope he says yes I very much agree. Unfortunately he is pretty resistant to seeking any kind of treatment. Before the second incident occurred I was able to convince him to see a therapist but if he loses his insurance and I'm not sure he will be able to continue with that. A commenter says does he have bipolar or brain tumor or some kind of dementia? Are these behaviors completely new for him? Makes me wonder if he has a medical condition. Hope he says he definitely has some undiagnosed mental health issues. A therapist suggested that he may have borderline personality disorder but he started seeing a different therapist shortly after that. Quick justice says so he didn't do it before but now can't control himself. Certain personality changes once a visit to a neurologist. It may be nothing, it may be something, something very serious. Hope he responds to it as I suppose it's possible that there is a neurological problem. Unfortunately is pretty resistant to any type of help and is also not very honest with healthcare providers so I doubt he will go to a doctor. Sparky says I'm so happy for you for taking control of your life and getting out. Twice!

9:32One thing I didn't see someone mention, you should seek full custody and supervise visits only if any. This kind of behavior has an insidious way of working itself into the psyche of the kids and you don't want history repeating. If this were me or seek therapy for you and the kids, both to heal and prevent. Hope he says I'm seeking full custody and so far is not fought me on that. And one more comment from Canadian Jedi Council who says, not really your problem anymore, but maybe his parents should take him to a doctor to make sure he doesn't have a tumor or something, unless he's always been a creep. Hope he says he has not, to my knowledge, always been a creep. He is not on good terms with his family. I would suggest to him that he discuss these issues with a doctor. He has always been resistant to any sort of medical help so I don't think he will follow through. And there was lots of people talking about mental health issues, brain tumors etc. Other people saying some people were arseholes and they're just being arseholes. What other commenters were saying, his mental health is his responsibility even while married. But what do you guys make of this situation? Let us know your thoughts down in the comments below and let's move on to another story.

10:37Now our next story comes from a Quesispring 4039 from the Amidea Asal. Would I be the Asal public subreddit? And it says, this hair clip can't be innocent, can it? So this started Friday morning and I still haven't gotten a straight answer or even any real acknowledgement. I30female has been dating my boyfriend, let's call him Dave 31 male for two years. That morning I found a hair clip clip to his dresser. Not mine, definitely not mine. I've blonde straight slash wavy hair. His hair was dark and coarse. The clip had product on it. I don't wear that kind. I didn't bring it and don't wear cream gel slash product. I've never seen it before. I asked him, who's this? His response? Yours? With an angry tone. And I said no. And I guess maybe it belonged to his friend's girlfriend who had been over a long time ago. The caller Emily. I even offered to text her an asker. Who went silent? Then I followed it again and told him it wasn't hers. Still got no real response, just I don't know Alexis.

11:39And that was it. I asked for space because I was confused and felt like this was really shady. Since then, not a single word. Total radio silence. He didn't try to check in. Didn't offer any theories. Didn't defend himself. Didn't say he'd look into it. Nothing. I even called him. I was stranded and needed a ride. And he refused to pick me up. I kept pissed off like I was punishing him. He eventually told me I'd regret this and to get the fuck out and shut the fuck up because he didn't do anything wrong. His one defense fire text after I left and said I'm not letting this go was that it's not in his character to do this. He doesn't have the time or energy. Oh, and this is the second time it's exact thing happened. In October, I found a random pair of panties. Same deal, silence, denial, no explanation. I chose to believe in then after we did a session with my therapist. Now this just feels like deja vu with even less effort on his part to clear things up. It's been 72 hours. If you were innocent, wouldn't he want to clear it up?

12:40Wouldn't he say something? Right now it just feels like he's avoiding it until I either drop it or break up with him. And honestly, I'm not sure which one he wants more. So Reddit is the heck what innocent or for being upset he hasn't addressed this at all. Or is it fair that I give someone a few days of silence when they are processing? Hope also comes in and says this was his exact text. Saying this is clearly as I can. I didn't cheat. Not now, not ever. On everything I love including you, I swear that no one else has been here in my bed or in this house with me like that. I don't have the energy for it and more importantly, I wouldn't do that to you. I spend all my free time gaming and the only reasonable time that could have happened is yesterday when you were gone all day and you saw the state of me when you got here. Greasy, unshoured and not exactly in the state where I'd hang out with someone. I don't know how I can prove this to you, but I will. You've got nothing to worry about. Promise that on God and you're the last person I tried to sneak having someone here by. You're too intelligent and hyper-vigilant and in touch with your intuition

13:41and observant and all other things. You'd feel it to know it even if there was no evidence and I have an unbearably overwhelming guilty conscience so I couldn't lie to you. Just not me. Open your apply to him saying I really just need some space and time to think. I can't think of anyone who is in our circle and has that texture and curl of hair. That clip wasn't there when I tried turning your light on just the other day. I also looked for baseball caps in your dress of the day I wore that bucket hat and it wasn't then either. Time just having a hard time wrapping my head around what's happening here. Now it's not just about the hair clip and this one is the pattern of behaviour. As we see in many of these stories you know one mystery item with zero explanation can be just as weird right even though it's a fucking pair of panties. Two separate incidents panties and now a hair clip plus the silence and hostility the pattern of behaviour again. It's not just as spacious it's just straight up disrespectful. Now if and for me a big if he somehow didn't cheat and innocent person doesn't go completely silent for 72 hours get angry at being asked a reasonable question

14:42refuse to help their partner in a basic situation and then tell you to shut the fuck up. What the hell? At this point I wouldn't even be focusing on solving this mystery if you're like how to be focusing on whether this relationship has actually given you trust and respect and basic support because right now it's not. Every coach says the OP if you use a laundromat the panties could have been left in a washer he used and got into his dryer load but the hair clip on the dresser isn't an accident. My guess is someone left it there for you to find and he's trying to act oblivious about his existence but if he's been in an unstable relationship prior to this where he was constantly accused of cheating without proof I can see why be resistant about wanting to address it at all. This radio silence is a big red flag whether he's guilty or avoiding the subject. If he's not even willing to talk to you about it that would be a deal breaker for me. Is he the caring resentment from a prior relationship into yours or is guilty as fuck? OP says it was my own washer and dryer every relationship in his family dynamic has been beyond unstable. Him not cheating doesn't make sense

15:44because I've only had people over two times in eight weeks I work a lot and they do not have that course of hair and their hair wouldn't fit in the clip too long slash too short though like it came from somewhere in him trying to blame me this morning he literally tried making me believe it's my and I just forgot about it. Ooh guess lighting commenter says ma'am if you don't have a ring cam then I hope you have a neighbour that does or is nozy or observant this is real shady and one move would be to ask to check his phone but if he's slick it could be clean it does sound like the man doesn't care because you sound like you're going through it mind racing trying to find alternative explanations and he's just being dismissive I hope you find answers and peace hope you're replacing he freaking unplugged the kitty cam and the outside cam you never offered it and I never asked but if it was me or to throw my phone at him like check it I'm innocent a commenter who was downvoted says from a dude I would have run from you dudes react just as your ex-boyfriend acts when they're innocent and don't know what's going on we don't know and we don't really care

16:45as far as we're concerned we didn't do it move along if you thought he was guilty the panties should have thrown the house in the disarray but it didn't I get an odd feeling that there's been drama in your relationship for a very long time hope you're responding saying but then there are dudes on here saying that they too would have been mystified and needed to know where it came from too objects don't just randomly appear in a two person ink household out of the blue but having any concern is weird the panties did send the household into disarray but the therapist's advice and how to move forward brought us back I don't nag don't go through his phone don't typically live in a world of untrust however this and the panties is a teetering point how could two random women's objects that are not mine be found within eight months I'm not sure in what reality that can just be ignored or how I'm drama when I just need to understand what the fuck is going on I've asked twice in person once when I found it once this morning and neither time he reacted with anything but I don't know and try blaming me like I forgot I left it there

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19:06he ended up being bullied in that environment too he said his anger is rooted in that same feeling being punished for something he didn't do he admitted he can't prove he didn't cheat but said if I check this gaming activity from that day it would show he was online for nearly 16 hours he even told me to talk to his friends who could vouch for that he said I'd know if something happened but I'd smell the sheets I reminded him that the last time this happened right before my grandma's funeral hadn't changed the sheets then either his response we weren't dating I replied I point his you're capable and he said it's different now as for the cameras being down conveniently during the time I was gone and both items appeared he said the wifi modem was changed because he was setting up the sound bar and didn't realize it disconnected the security system I pushed back he's incredibly smart and strategic he could have even set it up ahead of time insisted it was just poor timing and reminded me that he told me to check the cameras himself I told him again he's asking me to let go of all the logic and just believe him

20:06despite past situation-ship behaviour conflicting stories and too many coincidences I said you're asking me to close my eyes and pretend I didn't find what I found he said he's reached out to a counselor he used to see which I asked him to do earlier in the conversation because his anger response is not normal I told him I still need time to think I can't let the clip and panties go I literally watched crime shows for fun I need evidence to believe someone's innocent when logic and context suggest otherwise I'm not trying to punish him by still having him move out but I just can't silence my instincts either so yeah that's where I'm at still being gasslet? lol I was really starting to question myself because he ignored me for so long and didn't address any direct questions etc and my second thought is the way he reacted should be a deal breaker in itself irregardless of his trauma I commenter points out online gaming with no Wi-Fi is that possible? Oopie says he changed the modem like 48 hours before the clip was found Oopie comes in with what was titled their final update and says

21:06but the last 22 days he's been perfectly pleasant love bombing me give me extra attention sex cuddles going out of his way for me and honestly it almost worked we were fine keeping the peace and all the cameras plugged back in and working again sure he was still gaming basically 24-7 but whatever last forward to me leaving for this trip or hours later boom the front door camera is unplugged I only noticed because I was drunk missing my dog he's babysitting him and I went to check in I called and told him to plug it back in instead of just doing it he argued that he doesn't want to be spied on then throughout I'll just move out now if you can't trust me like sir why would I trust you when this is your move the second I leave town after weeks of the cameras being just fine you unplug one almost immediately anyway I'm honestly blown away but I guess the upside is he'll be gone a few weeks earlier than I planned and I get back the top commenter on the back of this said to Oopie okay when you get back he may try the love bombing thing again when he does do not have sex with him he needs to understand that it's over if your therapist really convinced you'd let it go

22:10that's a bad therapist is on the other hand she simply asks you how you are feeling and and what you plan to do then you talk yourself around in circles until you convince yourself to let it go get a new therapist anyway you need one who's going to guide you in the work you clearly need to do on yourself finally if there is a next time remember if you feel the need to check out on your boyfriend and watch him on camera to convince you that he's not cheating the game is already over trust is gone and it's not going to come back with camera evidence hidden or otherwise Oopie says I deeply regret the sex if that weird post and pre-knut lol he was doing all the work if you know what I mean and I didn't have enough of a backbone to say no because you know the heart isn't as smart of the brain but I knew we're at the end you said gray area and I said how the fuck is this a gray area when these literal black and white panties are in my hand lol and you're absolutely right a commenter says I thought you're already dumped him not gonna lie Oopie says I did but then I fucked up by giving him six weeks to move out so he could save up money or says I'm confused who went back and he tried to kiss you did you leave

23:11again or you both know living in the house if he's still there if you can get some friends or family reverberably men to basically stay over for a few days or at least show up every day and cramp his style you also better officially start the eviction process just in case he tries to fight you on staying and when he finally gets out he will sweep the apartment to make sure he didn't leave any unwanted devices behind he's definitely doing some kind of cheating Oopie says so my sister went back and plugged in the camera and he came home at 1am Thursday night which is probably why one of the that unplugged lol I came back from my work trip and he was still here noticed I was home for a few hours later then tried greeting and kissing me was literally shocked nothing packed he called off work Thursday night to pack and get some things aligned he works super part time one to two days a week my best friend this morning he's keeping to himself and gaming law like do I understand what the fuck he thinks he's going on I mean the guy was just a bunch of red flags right the random panties the random hair clip the cameras accidentally getting unplugged cameras unplugged again the second you leave he's defensive he's angry then

24:14suddenly sweet when he's about to lose you that's a pattern of absolute bullshit hopefully moves himself out soon and Oop doesn't look back because the only thing that's been consistent here is him acting shady as hell right but what do you guys make of this situation let us know your thoughts down in the comments below so our next story comes from sci-fi scroll from the today I messed up subreddit and says today I messed up I thought a cute guy was ghosting me only to find out was actually ghosting him was at a party two weeks ago right only new to people when him walks this guy who immediately gave me this really big smile I thought he was so gorgeous we ended up talking in the same circle and he introduces himself we started chatting then quickly find the circle around us as disappeared it's just us he's so smart his smile is outrageously cute and I love how he seems laser focused on me instead of one of the many attractive women that I've now joined the party and are now talking about their cool rire dates as the night wore on I found myself talking to various different groups but each time this guy would appear again and would end up

25:17just talking to each other again someone who neither of us knew came up and said we made an attractive couple and realized how somehow in the span of two hours were already acting like a couple it wasn't just being sexually attracted to him I felt so comfortable around him it was so attentive to my needs I told him off-handled allergies to the dog at the party I was later when I started sneezing immediately knew why I moved this outside this smile was the thing that immediately caught my attention but it was the thoughtfulness I made it so at the end of the night we catch an Uber home together and end up kissing before the Uber drops him off I give him my number Sunday comes don't hear from him okay okay I get it we both got home at 4am and I too just wanted to sleep the day away Monday comes silence Tuesday even more silence and I've read about how it is uncool to text a girl immediately because you want to seem super cool and wanted but we're both in our mid 30s and I hope realize that these mind games are bullshit if you like someone text them when you can life is too short to be with people half-interested in you

26:19Wednesday comes and I'm a mixture of angry and over it and insecure at the same time how dare you leave me on like this well I guess I'm glad I only wasted one night on this all was I not pretty enough all these thoughts raced through my head and coalesced into me typing his name and workplace into google to see if I can find him turns out it was incredibly easy to find I was planning on just looking at him because I missed his face but I accidentally clicked the link that brought me to his LinkedIn page yikes now he'll know that I stalked him which made me feel even worse probably look crazy well since I was on his page I guess I looked at where he worked maybe he wasn't really interesting and I'd feel better about him ghosting me nope turns out he's not only very smart but also humbled because his resume listed a dozen different cool jobs impressive schools he's attended things he's worked on great I probably wasn't impressive enough for him not 30 minutes later he friends me on LinkedIn but seemed surprised that I was reaching out it evidently text me that night and again the next day

27:20only to not hear anything back I had ghosted him and this is how we found out about my fuckup and I gave him my number turns out I was off by a digit turns out tipsy me isn't so great at typing or proofreading if I hadn't been a creepy LinkedIn stalker it could have been months if ever before we had to see each other again right now we're laughing about it and setting up our first real date wish me luck reddit oh this is cute so a year later opk mim with an update and so the year ago a medic you got a party accidentally gave him the wrong number and found him again on LinkedIn the last post stopped at the point right now given him my correct phone number we decided for our first date to walk around the park near the city they'd grab a drink I was anxious as soon as the date was set besides the normal first date jitters I also carried the secret that I posted the story of how I reconnected with him on reddit some 35,000 people had upvoted it thousands more it's seen it I needed to tell him about the reddit post but I was scared of how he would react you probably already thought I was weird for looking him up on LinkedIn I had no idea if you would

28:23see me posting our story on reddit as a breach of his privacy or attention seeking or just plain weird the day of our date I waited for him by a park fountain when I started walking towards me my heart skipped I made fun of it in my last post for how much I complimented this guy smile and I don't see him smile made me immediately happier it also made me even more worried that I messed up even the possibility of us becoming a thing by posting our story for the world to see we walked around the park and sat to talk under a pair of trees it was a beautiful late summer day I found myself holding his hand slowly we headed to a nearby bar and by this time I was shaking when I got my drink in hand I took a few sips and the words tumbled out I thought our reconnection story was funny so I posted it to reddit I'd got a maybe 20 upvotes on anything I'd ever posted before this so expected much the same and I started to get dozens of notifications from hundreds of people commenting on the post a friend sent me the post because they thought I'd enjoy it I sister called to ask if I'd written it because she recognized my writing style a newspaper wrote an article about

29:27it the post had taken on the life of its own and I showed him the reddit post you read it quietly when he was done he stood up came over gave me a kiss without I'd breathe the biggest sigh of relief I learned he himself uses reddit I thought the post was sweet the rest of the date was read the comments together and laughed about the whole thing later that week he came over to my apartment and we cooked dinner together and talked more a conversation turned to the fact that neither of us liked casually dating multiple people at the same time we didn't know exactly what this was yet but we knew we already liked each other with that it seemed we were dating the first few weeks of dating sped by filled with apple picking hiking and many soup dumplings I learned at late night karaoke that he has a beautiful singing voice I learned that I definitely did not lol I told a friend later that we were dating and she asked yes but is he your boyfriend evidently in this new world of constant casualness you could be monogamously dating just for the fun of it but becoming a boyfriend or girlfriend meant you saw this person as someone really important in

30:30previous relationships I felt like I was supposed to wait until the guy said he wanted to be with me and it would look desperate to say I love you before the guy did this relationship felt different there was no feeling that is waiting to text me back to look cooler and more unavailable there's no avoidance of talk about the future if I like just two people that were enjoying learning about each other which in turn made me feel comfortable being open and honest with him so after six weeks of dating but maybe not being my boyfriend I wrote my feelings down on the card and asked him to be my official boyfriend and he accepted the rest of the year has been filled with adventures to foreign places where I proceeded to get us lost twice and a place after dark with no street lights still sorry about that one babe and many trips to the grocery store that were thankfully a little less tumultuous we've danced late into the night at concerts and cuddled in bed watching tv we just finished avatar the last day of the animated series a fallen asleep on his chest to the sound of hatchering rain while our thoughts at the brink of sleep I never felt so safe I've woken up next

31:31here and looked over at his face that looks so young and relaxed and asleep but the hair that falls over his face already has some gray in it seeing it fills me with sadness that our time together on this planet is finite over the last year he has shown me in a thousand small ways that he is not only a great boyfriend but a thoughtful friend and a caring son my friends and family love him and that makes me love him all the more it makes me feel heard and seen and building me up in a way that makes me feel like the best version of myself around him is brilliant and competent at his job which is sexy as hell he's serious enough to have his finances in order but we'll still let loose and do silly dance moves with me well we're cooking breakfast he's very clean though I've never once felt like I choldered the burden of housekeeping I'm actually messier than him I put a lot of effort into being cleaner at a respect not once as he raised his voice and throughout this whole year I don't think we've gotten into an argument this relationship feels healthy and happy and calm I've got a few comments from my last post that looking up someone on LinkedIn when they haven't text is crazy please know that if you had turned me down on LinkedIn I would have respected this

32:33I'm not contacted him further it is just within a few hours of meeting this man he felt inexplicably important to my life I'm glad I trusted my gut to try and find him this last part is to my boyfriend who wanted to be surprised by what I wrote over the last year you become my favorite person and my best friend I'm so grateful that I met you and grateful for each day I get to wake up next to you I can't wait to see what this next year brings for us I love you very much so two years later opi went into the subreddit engagement rings and said help me find the ring of my dreams since as hey there my fiancee actually really asked the question but we didn't want to tell others until I have a ring it's totally my fault since I'm both picky and indecisive so I'm hoping you'll help me once white gold to a visit preferably with mill grain on the edges three tapered cathedral setting preferably lower set or lab oval diamond around 1.75 carrots excellent card 10 as close to colors as possible 5 1.8 the 2 millimeter band

33:33and six prong style six core style prongs around the diamond there's anyone who a jeweler that can help me in the new york city area I'd ideally love the budget to stick around 3,500 I'd love to work with a smaller jeweler if possible and someone suggest where to go then opi updated in another subreddit which was r-slash name nerds this says my husband and i are expecting a little boy in a few months and the only name we both seem to like is Cassian it seems the only meaning it has is Greek for hollow or vain we just like the way it sounds we both live in america and white in julysian here's chinese commenter says i personally love the name but with it being a main character in sarah j marz book series a quarter thorns and roses i'd be worried that people will only associate the name with that i'm a big fan of the series so i don't think i could do it however it's a real name and has been around longer than the book series opi says i've never heard of the series it sounds nice though commenter says i like it it's the name of the main character in a tv show and or which is in the star wars universe

34:34that character was in one of the big movies too is a great character actually so the association is not bad i also like how it sounds i like the shortened version of shalting across a playfield cast one more commenter says i think it's a handsome name it sounds on trend but isn't too common and has nice nicknames the origin is roman though not greek it says whoops sorry and thank you ending on a wholesome story absolutely love to see it in as one of those ones where they say on reddit time to turn off and go to sleep and let us morning for you of course anyway what do you guys make of this situation just a huge thank you for being here today getting involved in the stories you'll love your support your time it always means the absolute world to me so thank you so so much for being here and hopefully i'm gonna see you in the next one take care and much love

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