Influence: How Persuasion Can Lead to Happiness and the Three Must Haves to Influence Without Manipulation with Legend Brian Ahearn

How Can I help you? Want prospects to become customers and passers-by to become fans? Sign up for Behavior Blueprint, my FREE 7-day email course. In this episode of the Legend Effect Podcast, host Howie Chan interviews Brian Ahearn,  one of only a dozen people in the world certified to teach Dr. Robert Cialdini's method, and who has trained thousands of professionals on how to ethically move people to action. They delve into how to become more persuasive by serving instead of manipulating, as well as the everyday influence that shapes our lives. The discussion emphasizes the importance of not only learning or teaching the principles of ethical influence but also living them out. Brian provides powerful models and frameworks to help you apply the principles of persuasion and influence, such as the T.I.M.E. method, the DEAL Model, and the Core Motive Model. He also shares how all of this can be used in real-life situations with stories of how he has successfully used these principles himself. Episode Breakdown: 03:08 The impact of Brian's personal mission statement 05:58 Brian's journey to learning Cialdini's work and teaching it 11:48  What it takes to be an ethical influencer 14:26 The benefit of establishing genuine relationships 16:02 Don't forget to focus on what actually matters 17:53 How Pre-suasion can make all the difference 22:38 Using the T.I.M.E. framework to set the stage for persuasion 28:01 The seven principles of influence in practice 30:19 Powerful models and frameworks to help you apply the principles 33:00 How using sticky notes can completely change the game 37:39 Combining and amplifying different principles of influence 42:29 The "8th principle": building and leveraging a strong personal brand 50:11 The true power of the relationship part and ways to nurture them 55:22 How Brian lives out his brand and the  principles of influence 57:46  The most powerful principle to influence ourselves 1:00:19 Consistency, belief, identity, and attentiveness 1:05:19 Increase the happiness at home with this advice 1:08:06 A letter to Brian Ahearn’s younger self From Our Guest: Website LinkedIn Youtube Facebook Get the InfluencePEOPLE Books. Watch Brian's TEDxNewAlbany Talk. Catch up with my interview with Will Storr. Also, catch up with my interview with our mutual friend, Steve Martin. Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.