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Happy Monday, everybody, from a very dreary New York.

It is really taking a turn there.

It's raining sideways here, so that's that.

But we have a lot to discuss today

because it was the Oscars last night.

And my take is, it was a little bit dull.

It was a little bit slow.

But I usually disagree with all the winners.

Like I always am like, oh, I wish that would have won

or whatever.

And I have to say I agreed with almost all of them today.

I loved sinners and I loved one battle.

So the fact that they were both the big winners of the night,

I think is great.

I'm personally really happy Michael B. Jordan won.

I thought he deserved it.

I was at you who told me that thing about how he learned,

because he was playing twins.

He learned how to contort his face

so that one twin had a dimple and one didn't.

I mean, it's just like he just got so into the role.

And it was just, I'm so glad to see that sinners

took home so many awards and Ryan Kugler got his flowers.

He's so amazing.

I can't believe he's so young.

I think he's 34 and he's already

like had such an impressive body of work.

And I just loved it.

And I loved this little detail.

He got a guitar braided into his hair,

which looked so sick.

It was so cool.

But I was really happy with it with them winning.

And I loved, oh, he's 39.

I'm sorry.

What do I think he was 34?

I love when people are older than me.

And I thought one battle was amazing

and the fact that they won best picture that's incredible.

And that's my take.

I thought a lot of good dresses.

Tiana Taylor looked incredible.

She was like the hype woman.

And she was, I was like, oh my god, I'll have what she's having.

She was literally like jumping up and down dancing.

And she was so excited when they won best picture.

And she was like, I just, she was so joyful.

She like almost took out Paul Thomas Anderson.

She like put her arm around his neck

and he almost fell over.

It was nice to see.

I think it's so nice.

I mean, she's just clearly so proud of

like their team and the work that they did.

So I loved that.

Timmy, got it.

Just felt so awkward the whole time with Timmy.

I feel like there was a lot of eyes on him,

but I'm glad I feel like they were tasteful

with acknowledging the whole ballet scandal.

Like Conan made like a light hearted joke

about it in the opening.

He took the joke.

He laughed and then they kind of moved on.

I feel, I mean, I know he probably doesn't think this,

but I hope he doesn't think it was because of that comment.

It's obviously clear that Marty Supreme

didn't win any Oscars.

So I think that is a testament to the fact

that it was the movie.

It wasn't his comments.

It's just, I think the reason that it's awkward

is because he has been, Timmy has been campaigning for a year.

Like, it's so hard.

I think way more hard than Michael B. Jordan,

but in a way, I'm like, well, shouldn't the work speak

for itself and we don't have to do,

I don't want celebrities and actors.

They're not celebrities.

He is that they're actors, okay?

That is, they're the best actors in the world.

Why should we force them to do a song and dance for a year?

And I know it's more about the academy

and there's all these, you know, secret things

you have to do and whatnot,

but I would prefer that we just voted based

on their performances, not on who did more talk shows

or whatever.

Right, I mean, he's still like one

several awards for Best Actor.

He's got a award.

So that's true.

He's got his flowers in a way, you know?

And like, people still loved the movie

and spoke really highly of it.

Exactly.

So right now on the internet, about 23 minutes ago,

it's starting to trend.

Someone took a picture of what a mess

all the celebrities and attendees left the theater.

Oh, well, I saw that I, oh my gosh.

Okay, but honestly, that's like what a movie theater

probably looks like.

No, it's not what a movie theater looks like.

It shouldn't be what it looks like.

I always throw my stuff away.

Wait, wait, wait, wait.

Okay, wait, I'm sorry.

You just want an Oscar.

You think you're not gonna walk out of there

with like an empty like popcorn thing.

Okay, fair.

Look at the seats.

They're messy.

No, okay, but look at the,

these are the folding auditorium seats.

That's not the celebrities.

This is the attendees, the editors, the writers,

the like behind the scenes people

that get in the Oscars.

These are the cheap seats.

I agree.

It's not, it's not polite to leave a mess

and the only thing I will say in these people's defenses

is that I think that they are there

for like six or seven hours.

Like I think it is a very long,

but no, that's unacceptable.

That's an insane.

I can't believe that.

I don't know how, I wonder how that picture got out.

It's, maybe they tell them to leave it.

I mean, I'm sure they do, but it's quite messy.

Popcorn is a messy thing.

And you know, they have, looks like there's water

and drinks on the floor.

But when you go to a movie theater,

you throw your stuff away.

Of course.

Okay, I just want to make sure.

Hey, that's, that's one of my new, like that would be

an egg of mine if I was on a date with the girl

and she just left her popcorn.

Yeah, no, I think that's rude.

I agree.

I agree.

I loved, I loved all the looks for the Vanity Fair party.

I thought that there were some really good ones.

I wish we could watch like a live stream of that party

because that's where all the real gossip goes down.

It's so good.

I loved, predictably, I loved Kendall Jenner's baby blue dress.

Yeah, blue was gorgeous stunning and gorgeous.

I mean, I think, okay, my top picks

the night were Tiana Taylor.

I couldn't tell if I liked Chase Infinity's dress

or if I just think she is like the most beautiful woman

of life.

She's so pretty.

She's so scary.

If I feel that if I wore Chase Infinity's purple

custom Louis Vuitton dress, I would look like an idiot.

But she just, it's so beautiful that she,

she just, it really played well for her.

So I thought that was good.

I thought Kristen Wig looks so good.

She looks like she took the substance.

She just looks so incredible recently.

I loved her dress.

She's doing like a more natural hair.

More natural, very tan, very glowy.

I thought Barbie Ferria from Euphoria looked amazing

and she's looking great.

She was wearing Zach Pozen custom for Gap,

which I thought she just looked so,

I loved that bright blue.

Nicole Kidman.

I mean, wow, she is gorgeous.

Insane when she was up there announcing.

I was like, kind of her arms.

No, it's insane.

She looked so beautiful.

Yeah.

It's just her arms.

They're just very strong.

I would like mine to look that way.

She ripped.

Her arms and Tiana's arms are my, my arm goals.

I feel like when I, not to make it about me,

I think when I, when I, when I stopped working out

because of my surgery, like the thing that really fell

off the fastest of my arms, I think it's so,

I think the reason that people are always like,

oh my god, arm goals is like, it is so hard to tone your arms.

It is really so hard.

And both of them have just absolutely gorgeous,

gorgeous arms stunning.

And.

Emma Stone.

She always looks so good.

God, she's, God, she looks amazing.

And like only she could pull off that like white dress

with like her fair skin tone and it looked that good.

She looked amazing.

Oh my gosh.

Yeah, I thought there wasn't any, I don't know.

People were saying that everybody looked quite boring

and I didn't, I didn't find that at all.

I kind of thought, I thought everybody looks good.

I didn't think there was any like, wow moments.

Okay, controversial opinion I really liked

in Half the Ways dress.

A lot of people didn't like it on the internet.

It had flowers on it.

But I liked it and I loved the, I loved their bit.

Me too.

And her and that.

I thought that was so funny.

So good.

And she's like, how's my dress?

And she just doesn't answer.

And she's like, and the Oscar goes too.

Well, at first I thought Anna was disassociating

because she kept looking around when they were presenting

and I was like, oh no, is she okay?

Is she, you know, she never glasses on,

I was like, is she doing okay?

But then I realized it was part of the bit.

So it was good.

Can I say something that I'm going to touch on an area

that is not should never be touched on by me.

Okay.

Oh, yeah.

Okay.

As the human being that crawls up into a ball

and shuts his fucking mouth whenever fashion's

being talking about, I noticed a lot of dresses

had like stuff on them.

Like printed stuff.

Yeah, totally.

Is that a, is that a thing?

Are we on a trend?

Like Roseburn, like her like floral,

like stitching on her dress.

And Half the Ways, I believe there was another woman

with a thing on her dress.

Who had the crazy feathery one?

Why am I escaping it?

Did me more?

She had feathers?

Yeah, she had a lot of feathers.

Dresses.

I didn't care for that.

Orange.

With print.

I liked Roseburn a lot.

I'm kind of sad she didn't win.

Okay, print, you know what, Steve?

You are right on trend.

Okay, you got it.

You Steve Vogue.com says are wrong.

Yep, nope, nope, just they just keep showing

the unathaway dress over and over and over again.

Yeah, it was long.

I, I ate shake chock.

I had a nice time watching it,

but it's quite long.

Not a lot of performances either.

No.

K-pop, Demon Hunters.

Girl, great performance.

Yeah, there's a good.

The center's performance, that's like the coolest scene

from the movie.

And it was like, I'm really glad that they did it live

because it was cool to see,

but it was really difficult for them to like recreate.

It just shows you how good the cinematography was.

It's true.

The editing was when they actually made the movie

because it was a little bit harder to do, it was much.

Are you now aware of K-pop Demon Hunters?

Yes, now I am.

I thought one of the speeches I really liked

from one of their wins.

The lead singer of the K-pop,

I think so.

If I was talking about how like it wasn't cool

to listen to K-pop,

which is growing up.

Yeah, I really like that.

It was really good.

I thought the speeches were actually quite good.

You know, it's funny.

I think someone mentioned it.

They said, it's not interesting to list off all the names,

but you always want to give your team credit.

And it's true,

because when they start listing the names, you zone out.

And I feel like the most memorable speeches

are the ones where they kind of make a point about something.

I remember Matthew McConaughey once

had a really great speech about.

I think it was like his mom or something.

And, but obviously, if you won,

you would want to thank all the people

who helped you get there.

So it's always, you know, you probably have

what, two minutes, three minutes.

Yeah, I forget who it was too.

They said these names mean nothing to you,

but they mean everything to me.

Which is such a nice way to put it.

Yeah.

Did you notice after Michael B. Jordan one,

when he looked at Jesse Plemons and gave them like the,

yeah, you know that they were on,

one of my favorite TV shows ever Friday night lights.

Yes, yes, and I thought that was such a cool moment.

Like, look how young they were in that show together.

I'm so glad he won me too.

And I thought it was so awesome.

Like his speech was really good.

And again, I thought that was like a really cool moment

when he looked at Jesse Plemons.

Yeah, really cool.

If that's with him getting in and out after two,

I'm just like being with fans.

That video is amazing.

I thought he was so humble as well.

I think you could tell that his shock

and his moment of gratitude was 100% genuine.

And I'm just really glad he won.

I have to say he was really well-dressed also.

I like that.

Yeah, I like that as well.

Yeah, it was, it was good.

And that's that.

Oh, Adrian Brody's announcement was funny.

That was making fun of like,

because he gave like the longest Oscar speech

of all time, acceptance speech like a few years ago.

Yeah, for the brutalist.

Yes, I think it was.

Yeah, and that movie was brutal.

And then he had the gum in his mouth,

which I think was making kind of walking Phoenix.

Maybe, I don't know.

He was just on funny things like that.

But I think you're right.

I think that the Oscars is always going to be a bit more serious.

They just can't figure it out.

It is the most serious.

It is a very important moment.

It's the end of award season.

And it's, you know, the most special.

We get the Golden Globes for fun and the Saga Awards,

which is now the Actors Awards, which was very fun.

And then the Oscars is just like the least accessible.

It's just everyone gets excited to watch it.

And then you're watching it like, well, that was boring.

Yeah, it's the Oscar.

Agreed.

All right, let's get to some lovely callers.

Let's go to Caroline.

Hey, Caroline, how are you?

My gosh, hi.

Hi.

Yes, welcome to the show.

What's going on?

My gosh, it's so great to talk to you.

My gosh, my gosh, my gosh.

So my question is around to subway etiquette in general,

which I think has gone into the shitter recently.

I agree.

New York.

I don't know if it's about the weather or something.

So I live in Hoboken.

So I have to take the path and then the subway.

And I just realize like people aren't taking off their backpacks.

They're shoving in, especially getting in the door

before you get on the subway.

You have to move to the side for everybody else gets through.

And I just think it's insane recently.

So just when you get on the subway,

what do you do to make sure everybody has the most respectful

experience?

And I think people need a little lesson.

I mean, I completely agree with you.

I actually had an experience this morning.

I take the, I think something people don't know about me

is I take this subway every single day of my life.

Like all the time I take the train a bunch.

And I have totally noticed the same thing.

I have been very cognizant of it lately.

And it's funny, you called, because this morning

I was watching a TikTok and it was this girl.

And she said, now, please explain to me

why grown men are racing me to get a seat on the subway.

And I laughed and I was just thinking, gosh,

it has gotten so bad.

I agree with you about the backpack thing,

but the thing that I agree with you the most about

is you have to let people get off first.

And I don't shoot the messenger here,

but this morning this woman had a stroller

and I was trying to get off the subway

and she was completely blocking the door with her stroller.

And I get it, she's stressed.

She has a child, 100% mothers take precedence.

But I literally couldn't get off, because she was like,

oh my gosh, excuse me, like it's just gotten out of control.

Like you have to let people get off first

so then you can get on.

Otherwise it creates like this huge,

you know, it's like a tidal wave of people.

And it's nuts.

So what do I do?

I mean, I try to give up my seat to anyone

who I think needs it, needs it.

That's always weird though, because you're like,

oh, am I gonna offend them if I'm giving them my seat?

You know, if they're an older person, I never don't,

but I try.

I also usually stand on the subway just because I'm like,

I don't need to see it, like it's fine.

And I don't wear backpacks,

but I do always take off my bag and I put it on my lap.

I see a lot of people put their stuff next to them

on the subway, and it's, you know,

that's a seat that could be there.

And then of course, the other thing is the man spreading,

the, you know, men's sit, and they,

they're like, I'm like, your dick isn't that big

that your legs need to be split open.

I mean, come on, it's outrageous.

Just put your legs together.

It's not that difficult.

But yeah, I've noticed it's really bad.

Where do you land on eating on this?

Because, and I lived in Hoboke,

and I would ride the path, and I'll always remember

a woman sat next to me at like four o'clock in the afternoon,

and she ate a tuna wrap, but like unfolded the wrap,

and was just eating the tuna out of it.

I guess she was going keto, but like,

I don't think you should be allowed to eat

on public transportation.

Please do not.

I barely take a coffee, because I'm always worried

I'm gonna, it's gonna stop short, and I'm gonna spell.

Yeah.

And I just, I think in general, I just, it's not for me.

I'm worried about the people eating themselves.

Like, it's like, it seems unhygienic to eat on the subway.

I agree.

I just think it kind of goes back to, you know,

the episode I did a while ago about like,

don't be a jerk, but it's just, everybody is so

on the offense these days.

Everybody just assumes everybody around them

is gonna be rude, so they're rude as well.

And it would just all be such a more pleasant place

on the subway if we were just polite.

Let people get off, help the woman with the stroller on,

move to the side, give someone your seat,

if it looks like it, you need it, they need it more than you.

It's not rocket science, but it's gotten really bad.

And the last thing I'll say is,

why, clearly you stark record.

Like the subways themselves have been really bad,

and then I feel like that makes people

very agitated too.

If there's no train for 10 minutes and you're late to work,

well then you're gonna act like an asshole.

So it's a whole big ecosystem,

but I completely agree with you.

I try to be a model citizen on the subway,

but we've all got to do it to make a difference.

Yeah, I feel like it's a physical representation

of your take on nobody wants to be a villager anymore.

Yes.

You can really see everybody piling through,

and I don't know, if I'm ten minutes late to work,

that's fine with me.

So yeah, you totally agree with you.

Yes, well, I hope this inspires everybody.

I do think leading by example is so important

with this kind of thing, because if you see someone,

it's really inspiring.

I always notice when someone will turn around

and help a woman grab her stroller to go down the stairs.

I always am like, wow, that was a great citizen,

and I've got to play it forward and do more stuff like that.

So I do think that we can all lead by example,

and hopefully it will have a knock-on effect.

Hopefully this will start helping people.

I don't know how helpful, but hopefully.

Thank you for taking my call.

Thanks for calling.

Have a good one.

Bye, baby.

Bye, baby.

Bye, baby.

Are you supposed to give, like as a man,

if I'm sitting in a seat, like if I saw a pregnant woman,

an older person, like I would always give up my seat,

or like a mother with a stroller, like, hey, you know,

my seat, but like if I'm sitting in a seat,

and I just see, am I supposed to like offer to any woman

that comes in?

No.

I don't think so.

Is that offensive for me to be like,

or like you're just giving it to me because I'm a woman?

Like I don't, I'm asking the question.

I don't think so.

I wouldn't be offended if someone offered it.

Would you take it?

Maybe.

No, no, no, I would say no, no, no.

It's okay, thank you.

Yeah, no, I don't think it's, I think that's fine.

But sometimes, like people, instead of just being like,

do you want to sit here like men get up

and out of the way, and then they offer the seat,

and that's the actual way to do it.

Just like, because if you just are like saying,

do you want me to get up?

No one's going to say, yeah, get up, you know,

but if you just get up yourself and move,

that's a good move.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's wild, and when it's raining,

it's like, oh my god, the slipping and sliding.

Actually, the one other thing that really pisses me off

is that people, this, okay, actually I can't leave it

until this, they're with stairs.

You should go up on the right side,

and down on the other side, you know,

and people will just walk slowly in the middle of the stairs.

And I'm like, this is a two-way lane.

People are coming up and people are coming down.

So pick your side and then we'll all just stay on the side.

You don't need to walk in the middle of the stairs.

That's fucking insane.

So that's my other property, but anyway, I digress.

Let's go to Lily.

Hey, Lily, how are you?

Hi. Hi.

How are you? Good.

What's going on?

Okay, I'm, when I'm shopping, I've got through,

but I need help dumping someone,

and it's been too many dates to use the,

like anti-ghost text, social context.

We've been on four dates, and we met in the wild,

and he's not my typical type,

but he was charming and nice,

and he came up to me, so I went on a date with him.

It was fine, so we went on a couple more,

and then I was like, okay, he's nice.

Like maybe a fractional grow.

We hooked up this weekend, a traction did not grow.

And I do not want to see him again.

He texted me last night being like,

had a great time with you on Saturday, whatever.

But now I like really, I'm not into it.

There's no like saving it.

So how do I respond?

I think you can say,

I do think you can use a version of the anti-ghost text.

I think you can say, hi, I had a great time with you too.

It's been really cool hanging out with you.

You know, I thought about it,

and I'm just not feeling a spark,

but I think you're great,

and if you want to be friends with him,

you can say I'd love to stay friends,

I'd love to stay in touch,

or if not, you can just be like,

I really respect you when I wanted to be honest,

and I hope you have a great week.

It's not, it feels so scary to do that,

but it will sting him for a minute,

and then he will move on,

and it's not that big a deal.

Honesty is so important,

and it's far better that you do that than ghost him,

or continue seeing him, and just slow fade, whatever.

You don't feel a spark.

There's nothing wrong with that.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

You know, you're not being cruel or unkind to him.

You simply don't want to date him, and that's okay.

Okay, cool.

I was thinking of the anti-ghost text,

and I wasn't sure if it was like,

I'd let him on too much to be like,

actually just kidding,

because I brought him over to my apartment,

and I feel like, you know what I mean?

Like sometimes you're like,

I don't know if we've been together

or been going out too long for that to work,

but I think you're right.

I think it's fine, I really do.

I mean, you're not ghosting him,

you're sending him a text explaining it,

and the truth is, you know, you guys hooked up,

and the chemistry wasn't there, and that's okay.

That's how it goes.

So I would just send it, get on with it,

and don't feel bad.

You're not doing anything wrong.

Okay, thank you so much.

Of course, good luck.

I hope it goes well.

It will.

All right, thanks, bye, thanks.

Bye.

Yeah, I think that women especially have

this incredible emotional guilt

when it comes to dumping someone,

and the truth is, there's nothing evil or wrong about it,

and I think that that emotion

is why a lot of people do end up ghosting,

so we have to kind of change the narrative,

and just reiterate, you know, if it's not there,

it's not there, and there's nothing bad about that,

it's just good that you're honest,

and you do it in a kind and quick way.

It's just not, I just feel like women feel so, so guilty,

and it's, you know, breakups happen.

That's part of life, that's part of dating.

It's no big deal.

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I have been burning the candle at both ends.

I need to cool it a little bit.

We really did a bender.

I was supposed to stay in on Saturday night and I didn't stay in.

You did not.

What did you do?

Yeah, we didn't really hear much about your weekend yet.

I mean, it was just, it's, I just don't know

how to have a chill night out anymore.

Did you have a lot of martini at like noon?

Did I see that on the floor?

I had, I had five lunch martinis.

You had five lunch martinis?

When the weather was nice.

You were you at Emmett?

Yeah, I see, yeah.

When it drove. The weather wasn't that,

it was sunny, it was sunny.

It was windy and she even said on her insta,

like she said, like, don't be fooled by the sun.

It's cold in the wind.

Then all my friends came and we sat

and we had the nicest lunch.

And we had martini, we had lunch martinis.

And then we went and we just kept going.

I just don't know how to have a chill in anymore.

It's not a way.

You don't need to.

How fun is that?

Yeah, having fun is fun.

It's having fun is so fun.

You rested all of January.

That's so true.

And also Emmett said like,

we're in spring training.

We're entering spring training.

It's true.

I called him and I said, I had anxiety on Sunday.

And he said, if it hadn't been fun,

then I understand.

Yesterday was like the best day ever.

And I was like, that's a good point.

What time did you end?

12, 45.

So it was 12 hours.

Oh, just, you just put in a shit.

You put in a shift at the pit.

Shift at the pit, yeah.

Literally you are Dr. Robbie of day drinking.

I am Dr. Robbie.

That's my ideal drinking time.

I'm not a late, I'm not a late night creature.

I always go home.

My friends always make fun of me.

I really turn into a pumpkin.

At 1 a.m., I turn into a pumpkin.

I am not a late girl.

I like to drink in the day.

And then I like to end early

because I do need my sleep.

Even though my sleep score on Saturday was,

they were like 10.

You slept four hours.

So it's like a perfect, nice.

I would divorce my wife for that turkey club

that you put on your Instagram.

Well, it was the, it was, I have actually been thinking

about since you put up a turkey clad.

What did you get it from?

It doesn't even remember.

Oh, she had five martinis with it.

At marks, oh, it didn't look good.

And no, I quite the opposite.

I would end it all.

Yeah, I would end, I would tell my wife

that it's over.

I'm leaving you for the turkey club.

And then it was honestly such a great sandwich.

Yeah.

And we love the food at marks.

It's just kind of in a random neighborhood.

But it is marks used to be the restaurant

on top of Barney's.

May she rest in peace.

And it was me and Pig's favorite place to go to eat

and shop.

And now they have marks off Madison.

And it's the same food.

I went there with you one time.

Yeah, it's really, really good.

Because it's just everything you want to eat

in a really good way.

The pasta is amazing.

The club sandwich is amazing.

We got wavos, we're in cherries that we're amazing.

And what else do we got?

We got a salad that wasn't that good,

but that was, that's his fault.

You put a bunch of vodka soaked olives?

Yes, well, I hadn't even started.

I actually had a Bloody Mary and two mimosas there.

And then I started drinking lunch martinis.

Oh my god.

But now this makes so much more sense.

I thought you walked in at noon and you were like,

guys, we're just going to have a lunch

and one martini at noon.

So you started with standard brunch drinks.

Yeah, okay.

Things just got out of hand.

And then the sun went out.

And it's just so nice to hang out with all your friends

and drinking in the sun, you know?

It really is the best thing in the world.

So did anyone have a drunk sick?

I can't confirm or deny.

I didn't.

Okay.

So I honestly have it.

You're off, you're off, you're off, you're off.

I'm off.

I just, I feel like if you can, if you can not do it,

then what, you know what I mean?

I'm sure this summer something bad will happen.

And I'll have one.

But until then, I'm going to ride my wave

of not having one.

Nice.

Good for you.

I'm proud of you.

By the way, five lunch martinis is nothing to bat your eye out.

That is a professional drinking.

No.

I'm serious.

I'm serious.

But I love it.

Whatever.

Who cares?

This weekend, you'll stay in all weekend.

You won't have a set, right?

I'm going to the ranch in two weeks.

Oh, yeah.

You'll be mine.

I'm putting myself in time out.

Do you guys remember?

Okay.

The first time I did the ranch, if you guys don't know what it is,

it's a, it's a hiking or treat.

You go and you hike for like four hours a day

and you only eat like tiny portions of food

and they massage you every day, whatever.

The first time I went, I went in Italy for eight nights.

And we hiked for four hours each day.

I swear to God, the first time that I went,

I thought I was going to have to quit.

I was so hard for me.

This time, I'm just going with my mom.

We're going for three days.

And now you can, I think, hike for only two hours a day,

which is great.

And they're letting you bring some protein, I think,

into your room.

Oh, how nice of them.

We'll also be, okay, and this is not to encourage you

to break the rules, but they don't give you coffee.

And I've decided for me personally,

since I would never give up coffee anyway,

I'm going to bring my own coffee

because that will make my experience a lot better

if I have my coffee every morning.

How are you going to do that?

Well, I think I'm going to take your hands.

You're going to bring that big.

That would be awesome.

Yeah.

Press the machine yourself, that's right.

My new thing is called, I just, it pisses me off so much.

I've been calling it Christina's cafe.

And yesterday we were being so silly.

We may have had an after all spritz

just to soften the blow of our hangover.

And I was like, please come to Christina's cafe.

And he was like, if you say it one more time,

and I made him drink a cappuccino at Christina's cafe.

So it's good.

No, I'm not going to bring my enormous espresso machine

that I'm in a serious relationship with,

but I'm going to bring, like, Ralph's coffee.

Oh, the cans.

They actually have really good cans that are so good.

So I'm just going to bring them in the cans

because I need my coffee.

And it's fine.

I think, you know what, since I'm being honest,

I'm probably going to pack some meat sticks too.

You know, that's fine.

Speaking of the coffee machine,

when you get a chance, can you just like scroll through all the,

I'm trying to convince my wife why we need to make this investment?

Because I want to buy a brand new machine.

And like, your machine does, like, she drinks flat whites.

I was like, yeah, we can make you a flat white whenever you need.

And you don't really find a lot of machines

that will make a flat white

because it's more of a unique drink.

Yeah.

And you don't have to do any of the measurements

or anything for you to talk about.

Yeah, I don't want to get one where you have to do, like,

you know, the little cup spoon thing and you have to pack it in.

And I just, that's too complicated for me in the morning.

The best thing about this, like Lauren said,

is it is seriously, you just put the beans in,

you press the thing and boom, you're done.

You can also, I mean, I think it's better to use freshly ground beans,

but you can just put in pre-ground beans

and there's like a bypass thing.

You don't even want to be lazier.

What?

But it grinds the beans for you.

Yeah, exactly.

Why wouldn't you?

It just, if you happen to have ground beans,

maybe you know, and I have a problem.

I said, why wouldn't I do it?

Do you have to steam the milk yourself, or is it?

It has a steamer for you.

It does have to be.

So you put the milk in there and I just said that.

It has a separate container.

And then you can, what I do is I put the milk in and then it's so advanced.

Listen to this.

So, okay, this morning I had two flat whites.

So after I was done, I pressed clean.

It cleans the spout of the milk thing,

but it doesn't fuck with the milk in the container.

So then I just take it out and I put that in the fridge

and then it's all good to go.

But with the spout, it's clean.

So it's like, it's just so advanced.

I seriously don't know how I live without this machine

before I'm searched.

I'm currently in the market for a Delongi brand deal

because I love them more than anything.

Like this machinery is perfect.

I got it.

Have you seen found out where the discarded grounds go yet?

I did.

That scared me.

I've just had that thought.

I was like, I should show you where those are

because that's going to be another task.

That's a good job.

And you have to put the water out as well.

It's not good.

You have to pour the, yeah.

What's the ice coffee set, John?

Can you make ice?

OK.

And it doesn't just like say, like, put a cup of ice

under the top coffee.

There's literally a different setting for iced Americano,

iced espresso.

And then it says, put six ice cubes in a cup this big.

It tells you how to do everything, which is really the type

of hand holding that I enjoy.

And because I set it up, I know this.

They give you a hard water testing strip

and you test your water.

So they even know what type of like pressure

for the hard water to put in it.

And Steve, you can set up two separate accounts.

So you and your wife can each have a separate account on it.

And it customizes and saves each of your information.

I think I'm just going to order it.

And then she won't be unhappy with it.

No, she won't be.

Also, I love that you're like, I set up the machine.

Yeah, I wanted to give myself some credit.

Just nagging tinks.

No, I set up the machine.

No, I help set it up.

She did everything.

OK, let's go to Bianca.

Hi, Bianca, how are you?

Yeah, hey, thanks.

How are you?

I'm good.

What's going on?

Yeah, good.

I've been going out with this guy since, like, November.

OK.

And we, you know, we're really, we're really good together.

We've said we love each other and stuff.

Great.

But all I do is like give him a head.

We barely have sex.

He can't keep his bit up.

And I just like, this is getting ridiculous now.

I've talked to him about getting, you know, some sort of medication.

But he has high blood pressure.

OK.

He's not the healthiest.

He drinks a lot.

It's OK.

And on the weekend, like, we sort of party.

OK.

You know what I mean?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Like, what the fuck is this?

Like, I don't know.

Well, what is, yeah, I mean, first of all, totally, second of all, what does he say when

you bring it up to him?

Is he apologetic?

Does he, is he shy to talk about it?

No, it's not like he says, you know, he's got a high blood pressure.

He says he'll go online, but then he says it all next week is, I'm like, well, I think

it makes sort of, I don't know.

I mean, I think if he has high blood pressure, cocaine is probably not the best thing for

him.

Yeah.

That's what I'm saying.

He drinks and does, like, from Friday or Thursday, Tuesday, Sunday, like a big card, maybe

once or twice on a week.

Well, yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And so, wow.

So, I mean, I feel like I think you should talk to him again.

And I think you need to say, look, if you, you're putting, like, you're partying above

our relationship.

And I understand that you guys party together and that's cool and whatnot, but I think

you have to say, sex is really important to me.

And we can't continue if you're going to prioritize party over, partying over our

intimacy.

And if you can't, you know, if you can't see that this is affecting our relationship,

then I don't feel seen because that's messed up, right?

Sex is an important part of a relationship because it's been together for a while.

And it's not fair that you're, you're being robbed of that part of the aspect of the

relationship because he likes to party all the time.

And it's fine if he wants to party, but the fact that it's affecting your guy's intimacy

is not okay.

And it's not fair for you to, to bear the brunt of it.

Yeah.

Like, he's okay with me just giving him head and he comes from that.

But when it comes to like sex, it's hard for him to stay hard.

Wow.

That's, hmm.

I don't love that.

I don't love that.

I mean, does he reciprocate?

Does he go down on you?

Sometimes.

Oh, but like, he's a little bit like he's, you know, he's not the healthiest.

Like he's cute and everything.

He's got that too.

But he's like, he's not the healthiest guy.

He's not a healthy guy.

Right.

We played pickleball yesterday and he nearly died.

Ooh.

That's not good.

Well, he was struggling.

You know?

Yeah.

It's 40 minutes.

Yeah.

I mean, it's, it's a difficult thing.

I, I hear you, I hear you telling me that you really love him, but I just think I don't

know how much longer you can deal with this.

I mean, for me personally, if I was in your situation, I would be extremely upset and

exhausted by this, this dynamic that you have going on.

So I, I mean, I think I would put it to him and say, look, this is not how things are

going to go for the rest of the year.

We need to, we need to change something.

We need to, we do need to fix this.

And you know, what are your ideas for how we can right size this because it's not fair

to me.

And, you know, I, I just don't think that it's fair to you and I don't think that it's

sustainable.

I don't think that you can do it for much longer.

So in that sense, I feel you should chat about it with him now because otherwise, what's

the point?

You're just going to do this for the next six months a year, not having sex, worrying

about his health, and then, you know, then what?

Yeah, I know.

I just, I just made to say something again, I know, I know, but you need to say, but

you can come at it from a point of like, I really care about you, but this is not acceptable

and I want to figure it out together.

And I also think that his response is also very important because if he's dismissive

of you, that's not a good sign either.

You know, you deserve someone who hears you.

Yeah, he says, okay, he'll do it, but he never does it.

Right.

He never goes online to get to either him or whatever those sites are.

He never does it.

Yeah, yeah.

It's like, okay, he's a little bit, it's a little bit selfish, I feel like.

I definitely think he's selfish.

He's the only one getting pleasure in your relationship.

He's not taking account of your feelings and he's not caring for this intimate part of

your relationship.

So I agree with you.

And if he can't even be bothered to go order hymns, which is so easy, they may get so easy

now, then that's just not good.

That's just not fair for you.

So please chat about it with him again and just know that you're not, you're not being

demanding.

You are simply asking your partner to meet you where you are and to discuss this problem

that you guys are having in bed.

And if he doesn't, you really need to consider, do you want to be with someone who doesn't

care about how you feel?

Yeah, you're right.

I'm sorry.

Be strong.

Have another chat with him.

You deserve someone who listens to you and you deserve to have great sex.

Yeah, that would be nice.

All right.

Big hug.

Guys.

Lots of love.

Thank you.

Bye, baby.

Bye, baby.

Yeah, that's a tough one.

I mean, I think, I think that men are, it is obviously a super sensitive topic, but

I think the fact that he's partying so much, you know, if it was just a instance of ED,

you know, that's one thing.

But I think the combination of the partying, unhealthy lifestyle and this, it's, you know,

it's not good.

And I don't like it when men put women in situations where they are forced to become

nags because nobody should feel like a nag in their relationship, especially when it's

about something as important as sex.

So I hope he listens to her.

All right.

Let's go to Lauren.

Hey, Lauren.

How are you?

Hey, how are you?

I'm good.

Thanks for calling.

What's going on?

Okay.

So, first of all, I love your show.

I've been listening to, like, the last two and a half years.

Thank you.

Thank you.

You're insanely smart and intelligent.

Thank you.

That's so nice.

But anyways, there's a situation with a guy I'm seeing.

Okay.

He's nine years older than me.

Okay.

Or eight years.

Eight years.

How old are you?

I'm 23.

Okay.

And we've been on three dates, total.

Okay.

So it's like not anything like a social, like he's not my boyfriend or anything.

Okay.

But for the third day, I texted him and I was out with my friends a couple of weekends,

not two weeks, two weekends ago.

And my friends, like, when they met him and found out when he told them his age,

they, like, attacked him, right?

Like, not like attacked, but, like, they weren't the nicest.

Right.

And so, ever since then, someone brought my attention that they don't, like, how old

he is, just based on our age, and I, not to say that he's immature, but he is 31,

but he's also, sorry, if you just heard my laptop go off.

Okay.

Okay.

Okay.

But anyway, like, yeah, these are up in his age, but he acts more, like, he fits in pretty

well in my opinion.

Like, he's not rude to anybody.

He's not, like, he doesn't, like, treat us like we're younger, like, he treats us, like,

as if we're his own friends.

Right.

So your friends just have a problem with his age on principle?

Yeah.

And, like, I'm not quite sure what to do about it because I don't want to necessarily,

like, stop seeing him, just because of his age when I personally don't have a problem

with that.

Yeah.

I mean, I think the age thing is complicated.

Um, I mean, working backwards, you know your friends want the best for you, and sounds

like they maybe jumped to this conclusion about his age a little fast, but I do believe

they're your friends and they, you know, have your best interests at heart.

If you feel like you want to keep seeing this guy and play it out and, you know, see

where it goes, then I think that's, that's fine.

I, I have always said just to put it out there, I've always said that I think 25 is kind

of my cut off because I think after that you're an adult and you can make your decisions

in whatever that being said, you know, 23 to 31 is not the biggest deal in the world,

especially if, you know, he said he's a little immature, which many men are.

So I, you know, I think talk to your friends and go, guys, I know he's a little older,

but I am going into this with eyes wide open.

I want to keep seeing where it goes and I would appreciate you guys keeping an open mind

because I do like him and we're having fun for now.

So that's what I would do.

Okay.

That sounds actually a good plan because I was talking to my sister about it and my sister

said something very, very similar to that.

Perfect.

Yeah.

Yeah.

See where it goes.

Okay.

But just.

Sorry.

Go ahead.

No, no, go ahead.

It was like, it was like a whole ordeal within like a friend group because it's only like

a couple of my friends.

It's not my entire friend group because a couple of my friends, one, have never met him

because they weren't there that night and two, like just they're dating all their eyes

so they can't really talk to each other.

Right.

Right.

Yeah.

He's with eyes wide open, you know, just keep in mind.

He is a lot older than you.

You guys are definitely in different life stages.

You know, there's a huge difference between early 20s and early 30s.

But if he's treating you well and you feel comfortable with him, then I say, you know, keep

going, you know, and see and see how it plays out.

Okay.

Perfect.

Thank you.

Yeah.

Lots of love.

Have a good one.

Bye, babe.

Bye, baby.

Bye, baby.

Guys in recent times have really agreed with myself about my, my cutoff being 25.

I think 25 is the bottom tier after that, you know, you're an adult and you can make decisions.

But I think below 25 is pretty young.

It's pretty young.

When looking at an age gap.

Yes.

Sorry.

Yes.

Thank you.

When looking at an age gap, I think for men and women, it's just below 25, you are really

a child in my eyes.

You really, really are.

And I just always wonder, like, why is the older person, why, why do they feel the need

to do that, you know?

It's just interesting.

And look, I'm not saying there aren't super successful age gap relationships.

My opinion is just that the youngest person should be 25 or older.

And then after that, how about it?

Woman too.

Like, do you think that?

Yeah.

Like, men are less mature and less ready from 25 and below.

Like, don't you, like, when women that are like 24, 23, they, they blow me away sometimes

of how maturely, much more mature they are than a man that age.

Yes.

Yes.

I mean, I just think that it, it is a generalization, but usually the woman is younger

in these things.

But yeah, I think for both.

I think for both.

I think I just think 25 is, that's until then, just your baby.

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Oh, guys, I'm so excited.

I'm getting a laser today.

I am keeping with my de-uglyification of myself.

It's really great.

I seriously cannot wait to laser.

And also the good thing about getting a laser is I definitely can't go out tonight.

So I'm cock-blocking myself.

I should get one every Monday.

Or you could.

I eat.

My looks.

I would.

On air life meeting, I'm a little worried that you need a cock-block yourself from going

out on a Monday.

I know.

No, that was a joke.

I feel like Monday is an ugliest day to go in.

And I need to cool it.

I just, this is going to be a chill week.

I only have one party to go to on Wednesday and I have a damn brand in our own Friday.

So it's going to be a chill.

And I'm going to be really, really chill this weekend.

I would actually love the stats.

Has anyone ever met another attractive person out on a Monday and picked them up?

I don't think anybody has ever found someone they liked on a Monday.

That's fair, but I think Monday, New York City, there is something fun to do every single

night.

That's a good point, especially when the weather is warm.

You go seven days a week, but like people that are like, hey, let's grab a drink on Monday

and February.

You're like, oh, no, no, no, Monday through Wednesday is my rest time.

Yeah.

That's my enrichment time and my enclosure.

Okay, let's go to Gia.

Hey, Gia, how are you?

Hello.

Hi.

Hey, what's up?

Welcome.

Hi, thanks.

It's so fitting because we were just talking about it, but we have something like a hundred

days left before summer.

And I would like to know from you what are the some glow-up tips before the summer.

Oh, okay.

Maybe some procedures.

They're not so obvious.

Yeah.

Okay.

I love that.

Okay.

Well, let me see.

What is everything that I've done to de-uglyification myself?

First of all, I got my colors done and I have to say that has really transformed my life

and it really helps me pick clothes and it has informed how I dress.

So you, and whatever town you live in, go, you guys go get your colors done.

It actually helped me so much.

The second thing I did is I sorted out my hair.

I've had every color hair under the sun.

And finally, I realized that a more natural look was best and I got highlights.

I got my roots done.

I got a haircut.

I got keratin.

I do the most when it comes to hair.

So I really got that right and tight.

I started working out again and now I have a trainer and if you can do that for yourself,

great.

If not, I think any sort of working out is amazing.

Now everybody has their own thing, but for me, strength training has truly transformed

my body more than anything else in the world.

So I love to lift heavy weights.

In terms of my face, what have I done?

I did.

Tonight, I'm doing clear and brilliant laser.

I have done laser genesis.

I did that two weeks ago.

I also did soft wave, which is quite painful, I will say, but I do like it.

I got my Botox red dot.

I got this board.

I got just my Disport redone.

I got what else, what's a lot?

What else have I done?

Spray tan.

Spray tan's really helped.

It just, I mean, summer is coming and by summer, we don't need them, but I think to get

you through the winter months, I do love a spray tan to just boost you up a little bit.

And you know what, honestly, the best thing to do as well is go through your closet.

And I am like, absolute freak about this.

I go through my closet at the turn of every season and every single piece gets a look.

And I think, is this actually helping me?

Is this flattering to me?

Is this where I want my fashion goals to be or is this dragging me down?

If I haven't worn it in a full calendar year, I get rid of it.

And I really think like, how do I want to look?

Is this a piece of clothing that is adding to my life or is it taking away from my life?

And I really do think that that practice helps me look good all the time because I'm just

cleaning shit out.

Sometimes you just look at something and you're like, this isn't me anymore.

You know, we women, we evolve, we're very cosmic and mystical, we're always changing into

different eras.

And sometimes you're just like, that shit is not me anymore.

So yeah, oh, and I started tretting Owen, but I just started it.

If you guys don't know what it is, it's like a prescription, very strong cream.

I'm actually only doing it on my chest because I'm scared to put it on my face, but I'll

let you guys know how it is.

But people swear by it.

So I'm optimistic.

Okay.

Well, yeah, that's a long list.

That's a long list.

I know you were probably not expecting all that, but listen, take what you like, relieve

the rest.

I think it's just, you know, after you turn 30, there's just a lot of appointments.

Like that's what me and my friends always say.

It's just a lot of appointments after 30, you know, it's like every week.

It's like, oh, I got to get the roots.

I got to get this.

I got to get that.

But I think it's important to maintain, right?

Yeah.

To not let yourself go and even, you know, if the list starts growing and growing, but just

keep doing it.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I agree.

Look, I think it's complicated.

I totally acknowledge more than anyone how difficult it is for women, the, you know, the

amount of money that we spend on ourselves is insane, which is why men should always

pay on dates, by the way, but whatever.

But at the same time, I'm like, well, what's the alternative?

Like I personally like looking good and feeling confident and it makes me feel better when

I look good.

So it is a complex issue, but I'm not going to, I prefer it when I feel like I'm on top

of my look and how I feel good and I feel pretty.

So, you know, we can talk about the morality of how much money women spend on themselves

and the pressure that women have another day.

For me, I like looking hot and, you know, I'm just going to be honest about that.

Yeah.

Well, thank you very much, thanks, and have a good week, I guess.

Love you.

Have a great week.

I hope you enjoy your, your, your dehydration as well.

Thank you.

Bye-bye.

Bye.

I forgot to also say that I did get a different facial, like I got a, just like a moisturizing

facial as well, the granite hotel.

But I spent a lot of money on myself, you guys, and I am totally like, I want to acknowledge

that.

And I absolutely love maintaining myself, I, you know me, I love this ball, I love it

a sick amount.

I absolutely adore the little projects on myself, I love a laser.

I feel excited when I smell the alcohol swab.

You want to know why because it reminds me of getting needles at my face.

It reminds me whenever I smell rubbing alcohol, I'm like, oh, there must be a needle about

to inject my face nearby, I'm so excited.

So, you know, it is who, I am who I am, I'm just, I'm just going to be completely

real with you.

And you're getting ready to spring training.

It's spring training.

You forgot teeth whitening too.

You're so right.

Thank you.

I got my teeth whitened.

Guys, I go, I get zoom white and people always ask me, oh, but don't the zing's hurt.

Guys, I would eat glass if it made me prettier.

A zing?

Oh, oh, wow, you can't handle a zing in your tooth.

It lasts for 24 hours, take an Advil get over it, like it's not that big of a deal.

I'm sorry, what is the alternative that I, that I have yellow teeth?

Like that's not going to work for me either.

So I love zoom white.

I do it.

I usually do it once a year and I think it's great.

I just go in the office to do it because I, I don't know about the, at home stuff.

I don't know if that works.

There might be some that work.

Take touch up as everything.

I did a press strips.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Um, okay.

And when are we doing, again, I'm, yeah, when is that this week?

I think it's, or you think in the week after.

I don't know.

I will confer with myself and get back to you.

You have an off-air meeting with just yourself and then you hit up the text thread when,

you know, you and you agree.

Perfect.

I'll check in with myself.

Make a pitch to yourself.

She's very easy.

She's, I'll be talking to myself on the subway.

That's bad etiquette.

Why don't you go get a, go to Christina's cafe, get a good seat, get a flat white and

pitch yourself on a topic for your podcast.

Perfect.

And when you agree on it, you let Lauren and I and Jesse know perfect day of spring is

Friday.

Oh, well, you know what now what influencing her pitch to herself now she feels obligated

to do this.

Yeah.

Don't sorry.

Christina's cafe cannot be pressured.

Okay.

Um, I love you guys so much.

I will be back on Wednesday with another live show.

Until then, be good.

Bye.

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