It's Me Tinx Live: My Boyfriend Wouldn't Let Me Eat the Leftovers

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Good morning. Happy Wednesday. My heart is full. Everyone is back in the studio. You know

when moms are like, I love when all my kids are under the roof again. You know, that's

how I feel when everybody's back in the studio. We have Chris. We have Steve back from being

parent of the year at Disney for a week. We're all here and it's good. And I worked out

this morning. So I have the endorphins. I worked out yesterday too. And it's scary.

Endorphins make you happy. Endorphins make you happy. People don't kill their husbands.

Speaking of Brook Windom, she looked so good at the Actors Choice Award. I just need

to take a minute to say that. She looked incredible. Allie Larder. I was like, what's her

real name, Allie Larder? I was thinking of Brook Windom. She's so beautiful. She's gorgeous.

Anyway, I think reverse agent. She's reverse agent. That really suited her that color. I love

her. I'm obsessed with her. My biggest flex is that she follows me on Instagram. I know

I saw you commented on her. Yeah. Something I was like, oh, yeah, I love it. I feel like

you work out before work. She works out for work. 100%. No, for sure. No, I love it. I'm

back to working out. I'm not going to lie. I thought it would be a little easier. It does

as of here, we are starting from square one. It's really uncomfortable to do some arm

movement. I'm like, oh, is that shit moving around under there? Rework that muscle,

like that armpit muscle. I don't want them to be falling out under there. Pop, pops.

It's less my fear of popping. It's more than I'm worried. My irrational fear is it's

going to slide down my stomach. I don't think so. I think that it's so dead or something.

Just get a lymphatic massage and they could just work it back up. You got people to do

that. I've got people to do that. It's probably fine. I don't know, but it was good. It

was good to work out. So I'm in a really good mood again. And I'm just so happy. Everybody's

back and it does feel like a teeny bit more spring like because it's March. I'm wearing

low first today. That's kind of a big size. That's huge. It's, I mean, it's still absolutely

freezing, but it's a bit, it's a bit better. Yesterday was grim. It was absolutely freezing

and it was raining. It was bleeding in New York. So that wasn't the best. And I'm just

looking forward to a time when I don't have to spend at least three minutes of show talking

about the weather out of compulsion because it is a compulsion. And I know it's boring

to speak about, but Jesus Christ is a difficult. What did I miss while I was gone? I heard

the phones. The phones. Well, Steve, it's Mercury and retrograde, which you fully believe

in, which you believe in. And it was also a blood moon on Monday. And so the phones

didn't, it was just me. It was the, it was the tiny little family of me, Lauren and

Jesse. Something about like 333 AM on March 3333 is just like a really cosmic crazy time.

And we were scared. Jesse texted me today. And I quote, are you here? And I said, yeah,

he's like, okay, just checking. Do you think that I just wouldn't just show up for work

when it's allowed my good morning text? I don't always respond. He's also Steve was out

for like a week. So he probably had some catching up to do this morning when he got to the

office. Yeah, Steve decided not to come back. I laptop to publish the episodes like we need

you like literally like my kids depend on this job for like health care. Do you think I just

wouldn't show up to it? No, Steve, Steve decided to be a performer at Disney. And he's like,

this is my life now. I want to be at Disney the whole time. We talked about this at Disney,

my wife and I, if we got, if we had to run away to Disney and this was our lives, what

performer would you be? And we talked a long, long and hard about it. And my wife's choice

was Rapunzel. Okay. And she said because Rapunzel's popular enough where you get a little

bit of a line and people want to see, but like you're not like Ariel where there's 1,000

kids waiting all day. Yes. I feel like Rapunzel knocks off a little early or like, hey, we're

going to send you home now Rapunzel. Yeah. Go take a breather. We'd actually have a Disney

Princess question. Are the Disney princesses who are most popular? Who's Blake's favorite

princess? Ariel. Ariel. I'm actually happy to hear that because I would have thought that

it would be all the new ones. But I'm glad that the old ones still get love. And they

redid Ariel, like within the last four years or five years, right? They've all kind

of just days. They even know who Bell is. No. They don't know who Bell is. They definitely

don't know who Cinderella is. They know who all of them are. Okay. They watch it all.

They she watches shitty 1939 animation. That makes me last time. She watches it all. I

will say this Disney is was amazing watching my daughter there. The princesses like we

waited on the lines. We met all the princesses. We got autographs. It's one of the most

frightening places on earth. Yeah. To see people without children. Did you see the adults?

It's all the adults. They're going to get canceled for the big like you're going to get

the raft. No, no, no, yeah. That's where that's where it's getting canceled or that's

crazy. We were literally waiting for Pluto to come over to our table to meet our daughter.

That's some 45 year old woman. No, that's scary. And she was like kind of flirting

with Pluto. I was like, she was doing, if you can't see, but she was, what do you call

that move? It's like, oh, stop. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No. That's that time. It

is a bit scary. I mean, I will say, you know, who else was that Disney this weekend is

big because our friend is really, really loves it. And I don't think they only go on the

rides. They don't go. They don't go to meet the people. They go on the rides because I

think the rides are really fun. The rides. We went on all the rides that they had there

and like, you know, we didn't go to Universal, but like we made our daughter go on every ride

and lied to her about like how fast. How scary they were. How scary they were. But like,

yeah, the rides are fun. The rides are fun. We had some fun there. But it's like the pageantry

and it's like, you know, I do like the walking on the main street and getting all the candy

and stuff. It's fun. If you go around like the holidays or something, it's kind of nice

to see all the setup they had. Did you have any like funnel cake, any like big drumstick?

So no, no drumsticks, Mickey pretzels. They take the soft pretzels and they under bake them

so perfectly that they're like more doughy on. I don't know what crack is in it. She's

almost. Honey mustard. Honey mustard. Honey mustard. I lived off of Mickey pretzels. I couldn't

have cared less about any of the other food there. I just kept eating Mickey pretzels, had

an occasional coke until it was time to start drinking. Yeah, which was like 11. I was going

to say, no, no, they don't make a martiniate. No, no, no, no, no, no. Send it to the marketing

team. Yes, we went to Epcot and you can drink around the world. So we did a lot of that.

We stopped off. I had like a, I had like a frozen lemonade vodka situation. Oh, my wife

had like a mango margarita, but like the lines get so long. Yeah. That you're like, I'd

rather just wait till we get back to that. That's fair. But it's in relaxed. Greatest place.

My wife planned it all. We spent money on every VIP section we could get into, which

bless our soul. It was worth it to get it. Yeah. Well, no, because remember when we went,

yeah, like not so not so long ago. And we went, I was so excited. And we went on one ride.

Like I literally went on that's not how I don't believe we went on space mountain. And

that's it. Because it was just like maybe Indiana Jones or like one of those. And then

I got an offender vendor. No, I'm not kidding. It was horrible. It was horrible. It was

like a horrible day. Yeah, they do it all different. Now I hadn't been in years. We had to

get these passes. Yeah. And then you pay for them, which is fine. But they only get you

like one. I don't know what we didn't know. We didn't know what we were doing. My wife

went in with a bachelor's in Disney and came out with like a double fucking. Like she

knows everything now about Disney. We used like a Disney concierge. I was like, you should

become that. Like these people for a living plan your Disney trip. That's insane. And

it was down to the tea. Like no lines. 85 minute line to get on a roller coaster. We were

on in four minutes. That's what you want. And like people hate you as you walk. Of course.

Oh, you're just like booking it. And I was like, I'm sorry. But this was money we made

to spend. Yeah. Like it was, it was, you can throw all the money at the problem of Disney

and make it so much more bearable. Yeah. I couldn't imagine waiting on a 85 minute line

with a four year old. No, I mean, what do you do? It's not possible. I mean, my phone

would be dead one and a half lines in of like letting her run the mean streets of kids

YouTube. Yeah. Just letting her find different, you know, Russian kids playing with Barbie

dolls. Yeah, exactly, exactly. Can we pick a Disney character for Steve? Oh, who would

it be? Well, I mean, listen, he's not a Disney character, but I get Fred Flintstone a

lot. I said that I would want to be, I would want to be in the one of the costumes where

you don't speak. Right. You would be a little hot. I don't want to be like a goofy or

a Mickey. Yeah. I was going to go goofy. These, these, these princes and princesses have

to come up with so much banter. Yeah. To like go back and forth. And like, my daughter's

the worst conversation she's freezing. And they're like, what are you like about? The seven

dwarves and my daughter is just staring at them with her finger in her mouth. I was like,

this is like a bad first date every time for a princess with my daughter. No, that I would

love to see behind the scenes on the training of like what they're allowed to say, what they're

allowed to, you know, that, you know, how to act like a princess, because there's a lot

of acting involved. Yeah. And they take it very seriously. It's like a form and musical

theater background. Yeah. I bet you like, there's people in your audience that have worked

at it. Like there's so many kids at Disney that like are interning there. All their badges

have like their colleges on them. So like, there's people that have seen behind the scenes.

And I'm fascinated when I meet those people. A woman used to work here that worked at Disney

and like was just telling me about it. No, it's very interesting. But so happy it's done.

Yeah. Yeah. So happy. It's done and you're good for another year now. My wife is

parent in the year. I just, and my wife was like, you were only not tolerable like twice.

That's pretty good for me. Hey, that's pretty good for me. I love it. Oh my God. Okay.

Well, I could yap forever, but we have full line. So let's get to some beautiful collars.

Let's go to Bury. Hi, Bury. How are you? Hi. What's up? Welcome to the show. Hi, so I'm

a first time caller, longtime listener. Welcome shift and hotter in the Hamptons. Can't wait

to finish reading. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. What's going on? Two quick things. One,

I'm leaving for LA today on a girl's trip. So I need like the must go to restaurants or beaches

that like we cannot skip. But number two, the meat of why I'm calling is because I recently

started seeing a new guy. Okay. We're obsessed with each other. We have not done the deed

yet though. Okay. I'm just like so in my head chronically like anxiety, you know, eldest

daughter syndrome, all the things like. So I'm, we talked about like what we're into per se

and he said that he's like really into going down on women. Oh, so you're at the jackpot.

Oh, so he's a king. We love that. Like good for me, but also like I'm just so in my

head because I haven't had sex in so long that I'm like, how do I make sure it's fresh

down there? Like how do I make sure I feel good? How do I make sure like I just want it

to be amazing? And I just need like all the tips. Yeah. Well, I don't know if you listened

to my episode a couple of Fridays ago when I was talking about how, you know, there is

obviously like this huge industry for, you know, women's like, what's that the aisle

called like women's hygiene or whatever, feminine hygiene and you know, well, it's obviously

good to, you know, be healthy and make sure everything's good. You know, there's no, you

don't need to make your vagina smell like flowers just to have a guy, just to be worthy

of a guy going down on you. And the thing you can do to make it good is to be comfortable

in yourself and to enjoy it because if he's like an eater, then all he wants to do is

like give you pleasure. So the number one thing you can do is be comfortable and confident

and just allow yourself to receive. And obviously, that's difficult. It's a tall order

because we've been messaged throughout our lives that we have something to be ashamed

about that our vaginas need to look a certain way that we need to smell and taste a certain

way. And that's literally just not true. Most red blooded straight men love eating pussy

and they want to do it and it feels good for them to and it turns them on. So just allow

yourself to feel pleasure. Like that will be the best thing for him, honestly, is if you're

like confident, you own it and you just allow yourself to experience that special thing with him.

Okay, yeah, I'm just so in my head because like I said, I haven't had sex in a while and the

sexual experiences I have had were like, okay, and especially when it came down to oral,

like it wasn't like, it didn't get me there personally, right? And like, but I want to work

on that and I like want to feel more secure. Definitely, especially if I really, really

like this guy, right? Yeah, of course. And you can, you know, the thing is like as long as

you're being safe when you're having sex with people, that's the great part about, you

know, dating and and having different sexual experiences is that you can figure out what

you're like again, as long as you're safe, which I'm sure you are, like the whole point

of dating people is to experiment and to learn what feels good and what doesn't feel good.

And it sounds like this guy is a king, like I said, and he's super communicative and and you

have, you can be excited. And this is going to be awesome. Again, just like allow yourself

to feel the pleasure. I think a lot of women think that they don't like receiving oral sex

because they have so much deep shame about it. I know that when I was way younger, that's

how I felt. Like I used to be one of those, like girls who was like, Oh, I don't really

like it. And I was like, because I was so ashamed. And then I was like, wait, actually,

my pussy's gorgeous. Actually, this feels incredible. Actually, I love this. And it literally

was just flipping off the shame switch because of all the bullshit that we've been told

and you need to shut that out. It's literally the best thing in the world. So just allow

yourself to have like a blank slate with this guy and and really experience all that he

has to offer. Okay, I will try that. Thank you. I hope it's everything and more. And enjoy

LA. Go to fun places. I can't think of the top of my head. But where are you guys saying?

We're in like the Hawthorne area. So, but we definitely want to go to maybe like a day

trip to Malibu or something. Definitely go to Malibu. Head up to Verna Tony. Head up

to Nobu Malibu for a cocktail. It's on set. It's going to be fabulous. I have the

best time. Enjoy. Okay. Hopefully I can call back in and give an update on how it went

and I can get out of my head. I hope so. You will. You will. It's going to be awesome.

Lots of love. Bye, baby. Bye, baby. Bye, baby. Yeah. I'm glad that call was in such short

success. Succession. Are you okay? I had a stroke. Sorry. Um, it's from the follow-up

of that episode. That was good timing. That was good timing. If you don't know what I'm

talking about. I think it's too bright. Maybe one. Maybe last Friday. Just talking about,

you know, the fallacy that you need to buy something or take something in order to be

worthy of oral sex. You really don't. And any shame that you feel about getting oral

sex or your lady parts is completely manufactured by the patriarchy to a make you buy things and

b make you feel so bad about yourself that you settle for the first guy that talks to

you. Oh, sorry. That was just my little, you know, crazy, crazy soapbox this morning.

But it's true. You know it. All right. Let's go to Larissa. Hi, Larissa. How are you?

Hi. I'm good. Hi, guys. Good. Welcome to the show. What's going on? Oh, wait. I can hear

my echo. Babe, can you take me off speaker if I'm on speaker? Oh, yes. Absolutely. Thank

you. Um, so I have, um, I'm 29 and I went back to college. Okay. And I didn't expect

to really deal with this. But just see people are very different from the lenient people

Oh, I know. I try to work with them too. I feel bad for you. I'm just kidding. Sorry.

Well, I was going to say, like, I, I'm so convinced that they're rage reading me because

like, it kind of reminds me of toddlers. Like, you know, when, like, little kids can like

manipulate you and you can even like notice that. So like, I sense them doing that. And

they also like, since I work with them, they have like zero work ethic. So like, how do I,

how do I handle you guys? Like, do I just pull the Gen Z card and just

behave the same way instead of like not trying to take my job seriously? Like, it's just,

yeah, a real struggle. That is a struggle. And I feel your pain because as someone who spends

a lot of time online for their job, I'm also around a lot of Gen Z people, a lot of Gen Z people

comment on my videos. And it is in a word exhausting. And is that a generalization? Yes, it is.

That's, that's what we're doing. This is a generalization, but it's true. Um, and it,

it's just exhausting because it's such a waste of energy. So much of their fake outrage,

so much of their like, I mean, everything is embarrassing. It's just a waste of energy.

And I know that for me, I just feel like that energy would be better spent elsewhere. But look,

they're, they're in the world too. We have to deal with them. Um, I think everyone's kind of

waking up. Like, I've seen a couple of videos recently where it's like, wait, millennials are

kind of like low key cool. And like, actually, they did a lot for us. And I'm like, yeah, in

millennial era, we had like a progressive politics. And we did a lot of cool shit. And we

invented a lot of cool shit. And everyone was happy. And we had good music. And now look,

no offense, Gen Z, but just now look. Um, and at least we vote on like Gen Z. Oh, there is

that it again. Anyway, um, I think you should, I don't know, let's talk through the option. So

you have fight fire with fire, which is just like act like a Gen Z yourself and just be offended

everything and don't really work that hard. And um, just kind of like see how they deal with that.

Or you could just be yourself. And I think that's honestly a better, I think that's a better

option. I think leading by example is never wrong. And also doing the right thing is never wrong.

And that might be outdated into today's society. But I think I do think that especially in this

coming era where we have AI, which is going to be increasingly powerful in our world. And there's

going to be less jobs for humans. I think that the people who show up and have a good attitude

who are friendly and who work hard and play well with others, I think those are the people who are

going to keep their jobs quite frankly. So I don't think it hurts for you to stand out. And for you

to set an example and you don't know, you might inspire one of them. You might, you know, maybe

there's someone younger and they, they see you and they're like, wow, it's, it's pretty cool how

she is nice to everybody and shows up and she works really hard even when she doesn't like the

projects that she's working on. Like that's pretty cool. So I would do that. I think how you do

anything is how you do everything. And I also love this saying that's like do everything is if

your favorite person was watching. Like and I really love that. I always think about that like even

when it's something stupid that I have to do and I'm like, fuck, I want to do a bad job of this.

I'm like, wow, imagine my favorite person was watching me do this. And it boosts me up. So I think

you want to be, you know, this is a case where when, when they're going low, you go high. And if

they're rude to you or mean to you, just know that you are shining and you're doing the right

thing and you're working hard. Okay. Well, thank you. That kind of like is very, you know, reassuring

because like, it's so hard to be like them to in a way of like, I'm not like, again, you said,

it's a generalization. There are some really great people. Of course there are. Yes, of course.

But I'm saying as a whole as a whole. This is not, this is not like, this, you know, this is a

common thread of like, they're the younger people are just they have a different attitude. And

you know, like you said, there are some incredible Gen Zs out there. And but for the most part,

their collective attitude as a generation is quite at odds with millennials. I mean, I think you're

kind of like more of a cusper. If you're if you're, are you 29 now? Yeah. So you're like a cusper

anyway. Yeah. So, um, but yeah, be who you are and do the right thing. And I, I do think that

always pays off in the end. Okay. Thank you. Good luck. Good. I'm glad. Good luck. Good luck with

them. Thank you. Bye. I know people are going to be upset with me because of what I said about Gen Z.

But the truth is it's true. Sorry it is. There are some amazing Gen Zs out there. But on the whole,

that is the collective thing of like the not working hard and and and and you know, just being

offended about everything like, I'm sorry, that that is the truth. So don't be offended if you're

a Gen Z. I if you're listening to this show, you're not part of the people that I'm talking about.

This is the same thing as we were talking about on Monday. We're like, you're listening to it and

you're thinking and you're getting offended. It's because it applies to you. Oh, 100% on Monday.

You're listening to it and you're like, oh, that's not me. Then obviously we're not talking about you.

Sometimes I think about the things that would actually offend me. Like you could say like, I hate

Virgos with brown hair who grew up in London and were 35 and I wouldn't be offended.

Yeah. Like, honestly, and it's a way better way to be. Like, it's quite hard to personally

offend me. Like, I think, yeah, like they said, oh, I hate people that do this and it's something

that you know you do that bothers you yourself for sure. It would really would really trigger me.

Yeah. Yes. 100%. Like, yeah, I completely, I'm trying to think of what bothers me about myself.

Unfortunately, my self-esteem is so robust. There's not really much like, I'm at a point in my life

where I'm like, I don't, I'm think I'm perfect. So, I don't, we got to bottle it and sell it.

Like, no, literally, my self-esteem is like, even when I look ugly, I'm like, I'm still the

best person alive. Like, it's really, it's really crazy. I have very solid self-esteem. I highly

recommend it. Life is a lot better this way. All right. Let's go to Sue really quickly. Hey, Sue,

how are you? I'm great. How are you guys? I'm good. Thanks for calling. Welcome to the show. What's

going on? Thanks. So, I was just listening to you guys and you guys are talking about your

Disney trip. Yeah. I have like the craziest story because it's Disney's like the happiest place on

earth. Right. So, we were there. I was there with my husband and my sister-in-law and brother-in-law.

No kids. We were there on a conference and we were literally there all day riding the ride

to having the best time ever and we were at the very, very end of the day after the fireworks.

They all, you know, hurt them out like cattle when you leave for the night to go

to get your ferry or a train. Right. And we're standing there kind of like, I don't know,

maybe a few feet in from the opening of the gate. As these two women, one of them with a

stroller and a baby, they started fighting, like all out fighting, pulling their hair. What?

It was unbelievable. I was, I literally was standing there and I just couldn't even believe that

I was at Disney watching these two women with a baby there fighting. I don't even know what they

were fighting about, maybe getting through the gate. I don't know. And then the husband jumped in

and then one of the girls swung and hit like a security car. I was shocked. I've never

in my life anything like that at Disney. At Disney. Was it, was this in California or in Florida?

Nope. This was in Florida. Yeah. That's crazy. I mean, I feel like, I feel like parents at the end

of a really long day are just like, this is not excusing fighting in public at all, but I feel like

after a really long day waiting in line with your kids, you're just like at your withs end.

Patience is, you are on the razor's edge. You could go to like, let's all have some fun

kumbaya cuddle time after a great day or let's just start swinging on any stranger that we

perceive to have wronged us anyway. It's a high tension day. It's a long day. I mean, I get,

I'm not excusing fighting in public, especially not with a baby nearby, but it's, I feel like it

probably happens from time to time at Disney. Isn't there Disney jail too? Like, you can go to

Jailies. They claim, they claim they have one in the bags of Disney. Yeah. Oh my god. Like,

like a drunk tank or something like that. I can't imagine how, I bet Disney Jail is kind of nice.

In my head, there's like, definitely, definitely nicer than other Jails. I would, we have one princess

left to me. Could you just bring her down so my daughter can get one last autograph. Oh my god,

that's funny. All right. So everyone's flooded on. There was people that was looking for them,

but I don't think that they everyone just chattled in and everyone got lost. Yeah. Oh my god.

I hope you guys have a great day. Thank you for calling. Thank you so much. I like that story.

Have a great one. Have a great one. Bye. Yeah. I feel like I am so impatient. If I had to take

my kids to Disney, I would be like pretty tired. I would be pretty like afraid at the end of the day.

Yeah. It's a long day. I mean, I'd, you know, that's a lot. I, you would,

I was about to be like, no, you could do it. No, you would. No, you would. You send your

I'll make Lauren do it. Send Mama Mia with her dad and Lauren.

All right. You guys really super quick break. More calls right after this. Don't go anywhere.

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I can't lie. I'm back to drinking in a big way. Woo. Yeah. Woo. Yeah. Whoa. I know. It lasted all

of like two weeks, me being like, I just didn't like it. Did you, did you take the soapbox?

You were on and put it in the flooded basement of your apartment building the store?

That was it. Oh, wait. No, my new thing is the, the, the, the manager of my apartment building is

ghosting me. And he, I've, oh, you know who I'm talking. Yeah. And he, when I, when I,

he might listen to the show, he does, because he's like kind of, he was like, when he first

started working for the apartment building, because no one stays for longer than two months,

because the apartment building is such a fucking mess. So when he started, he was like, oh,

you know, I listened to your podcast. You think that maybe I could get a shout out if I, you know,

and I was like, it may be if you help me. He hasn't helped me at all. And in fact, and now he's

ghosting me. He's ghosted me for four different texts over the course of a week. That's not okay.

Who'd you get a call? We got to clip this. What? Okay. I mean, we were talking about a Monday,

nobody wants to work these days. Nobody wants to work these days. Wait, were you talking about

me? Because I was out and me. What were we talking about that nobody wants to make? I'm making money,

money, manifestation, and man done. I think you have to make money. And then things like,

you're going to get canceled. And then I almost had a panic attack on air. And then Steve will

like this. No, sorry. Are you caught up on Beverly Hills? I'm not a spoiler. It's fine.

No, but I was saying, I think it's insane that enough people bought Amanda's course and book

that she could buy Kyle's house. I agree. Not to be crossed, but that house is millions of dollars.

And it's beautiful. And it's beautiful. And then she overhauled it with her tacky style.

She got it in and put in like the worst, like, interiors of all time. That's millions and millions

of dollars. And she keeps doing like, and my husband doesn't make any money or whatever

her man is, you know? So that many people bought the course. I mean, you are not having seen it.

I agree. She has made a shit ton of money off what I deemed to be a wild premise of a career.

Yeah. And we were just saying there's something really that feels really dark about asking people

to pay money in if they're already in a vulnerable spot with money because the only reason why you

would do a money manifesting course is if you were, you know, hard pressed, right? And there's

just something so dark about being like, no, no, no, no, pay money. And I'm going to tell you how to

man manifesting is free. First of all, I just want to say that it is, it is a free practice.

I really want to get Kathy Hilton on this show just to ask her about the manifestation lunch they

had with that Amanda was one of the best, the best part is they just like that she's like,

write a down what you manifest and Kathy and Sutton just blankly stare because they're like,

I have everything I want. They're like, what could I want? Like, I have a dream life. Like,

I'm good. My wife turned around and goes, do you think Kathy wrote down the largest hotel empire

in the universe? Like she's already succeeded. Yeah, like she's already got her. She is successful.

Yeah. Anyway, was that last night? I need to watch. No, last night was summer house last night.

And something else premiered last night. There's a lot of broth I want right now.

Beverly Hills is tomorrow Thursday. Okay. Very quickly. And did you guys finish traders?

Because I was out. Yeah. Oh, no. You dropped. You dropped off on that. Yeah. You dropped. It is

good till the end. I highly recommend. But like, do not waste your time on the reunion. Andy,

for the love of God was trying. Yeah. It was not Andy. He was trying. Just this group of people

just were not interesting enough to bring the reunion. Yeah, you just needed like Lisa and Rob.

And they're doing press together. And that's all you need. That's all you need. That's all you need.

Fair enough. Okay. Let's go to Ali. Hey, Ali. How are you? Welcome to the show.

Hi, baby. Hi, baby. What's up?

Tell me about a steak dinner. I had with my boyfriend the other night. Oh,

and it took a little sour turn. So I'm calling it steak gate. Okay. Tell us about steak gate.

So we've been dating for six months. We've been like really good friends for three years. Okay.

This is only like our second steakhouse. Nice dinner. Like, he's pretty wealthy. And like,

I'm really chill about food. And like, we go to in and out. We go to McDonald's. Like,

we'll go to nice restaurants in LA, but nothing crazy. So we celebrated his new job on Monday.

He wanted to go to ocean 48 and Newport. Okay. I'm like, yes, book it. Let's do it. Great.

We get there. It's pretty early. My stomach's hurting. And like, I can't really stomach the food

in front of me. Like, there's too much food. We ordered so much. And my stomach was hurting.

Like, I couldn't really put anything down. She kind of knows this. Like, when my stomach hurts,

like, I got to go home a little later on. Like, chill for a little bit. Then I normally eat my

leftovers. Sure. The steak comes out on like a 500 degree plate. Like, everything's done well

by the restaurant. But then when we box it up and take it back to mine, I start to like,

chill for a little bit. I take it out of the fridge. I start to cut it up. And he's like,

what are you doing? I'm like, what do you mean? What am I doing? And he's like, no, like,

I want to take the steak for lunch tomorrow. And he's like, are the scraps still in there?

Like, there were like burnt scraps that like came out on the plate because the plate was so hot.

And he was like, eat those. And I was like, wait, what? Like, what do you mean? And he's like,

yeah, eat those. And then I open up the other boxes. And like, the mac and cheese is there again.

It came out on a 500 degree plate. And then he peers over my shoulder. And he's like, you can get

those two pieces, the two burnt pieces. Like, we had so much food. And I have never seen this

side of him before. I feel like it's a big red flag. And I definitely like, I need to break

up with him. But I don't know if I should be honest about like, hey, it's because of

steakie. Or if I should just like, weasel my way out of it.

Whoa. Whoa. Whoa. I'm digesting. I'm digesting. I have no advice. Not my job here. But

she instantly, you instantly know you want to break up. You know, you want to break up.

Well, I just feel like if someone can't be like, like, we went to this dinner for to celebrate him.

Yeah. Yeah. But it's like, how? Like, I don't get what I did wrong. Or like, why you're making me feel

like that? Like, no, no, no, no, we're back out in mind. Like, I can't eat the steak. Right. No,

no, no, no. So just so I'm clear. Like, when you were at the restaurant, he ate the food and you

didn't. So really, it was like more like your food that you brought home, correct? Because you

didn't, you weren't eating because your stomach hurt, right? Right. Yeah. I, you know, when I first

heard you say, I want to break up with him. I was kind of like, whoa, but I understand where you're

coming from. And I know people out there listening might think, wow, this is jumping to conclusions.

Maybe he was a little bit pissed that your stomach hurt and you couldn't eat. I mean,

even though that's nonsensical, because it's not in your control, like, you know, whatever.

But I know what you mean, because it's kind of like a very acute cruelty for no reason. And I'm just

like, I don't know. I don't know. This is complicated. I definitely know what you mean, that

it's incredibly mean and selfish, especially to say, you know, say it in that way. Like, you can have

the burned pieces. Like, what are you fricking Cinderella? Like, that's insane.

And it doesn't really matter what the root causes. Like I, in my head, my, the where my head goes is

like, he was, you know, you guys were going out for dinner to celebrate him. You had a stomachache.

You couldn't really eat. He kind of felt like, oh, this kind of ruined the night or whatever. And

that puts me in a bad mood. And then he was like, well, I want to get the food because, you know,

whatever. That's what I'm assuming happened. Now, is that right? No, a great guy would say, oh,

babe, like, you know, your stomach hurts. Do you want to go home right now? Like, what can I get

you? Are you feeling okay? Whatever, whatever. But in my head, that's kind of what happened.

Now, is that enough to break up with him? That's a million dollar question. I can't, yeah,

I imagine if he's like that with your kids one day. Yeah, exactly. It's like, you can't punish

someone. It's like control underlying, like control. It's selfish though. It's selfish. And you

can't punish someone for feeling sick. To me, that's the way, like, siblings would fight.

Right. I paid for the bill. Like, I'm eating that steak tomorrow. Don't touch it.

Or like a old married couple or something. I don't know. It's true. It's true. But that is

genuinely my read is that he was pissed that she was sick. And then she felt like, but also,

that's resentment. I agree. And also, it's like one thing if they had a nice dinner and there

was some leftovers. And he goes to her and he's like, babe, like, please can I have the rest for

lunch tomorrow? It would mean a lot to me. That's a different thing. But I genuinely think he was

being pissy and wanted to like punish her, which is crazy. So should we tell, should she tell him,

why she's breaking up with him or just break up with him? I don't know. I say tell him,

tell him and tell him why it's like this is for this is for state gate. It's this is for state

gate. No, I agree with Chris. I think it's like, I think why not? Because there is probably a 10%

chance that he might explain it in a way that's interesting. 90% of the way he's going to go, oh,

blah, blah, blah, whatever. And like storm off. But there's a 10% chance. He goes, well,

XYZ. This is how I saw it. And not to say that it would ever be excusable. But what did you say in

the moment when he said that? Yeah. So true. What did you say in the moment? I said I was like, okay,

you're being a little bit rude. Like I'm hungry. Now like I wanted to eat some of it. And he didn't

really say much. Once we opened up that second box and he said the burnt mac and cheating,

like I was really over it. Yeah. And I called him later that night because like funny story,

he wanted to take the steak from Newport to LA and then the next morning back from LA to Newport

for work. So like this so-called great steak was going to travel like hours in a cart.

He was punishing you. It's so clear to me that he was punishing you. And it's really

petty. It's really petty. And it's really scary that it was over such a small thing because I have

to assume it was because you were feeling ill, which is an insane thing to punish someone for.

People get ill all the time. Like that's fucking crazy. Like that's just so wild.

I think you're right. I think it ruined the vibe in the moment. And when I told him about it later,

he was like, I don't have time to deal with this right now. Like I have to work. And it was like

9 p.m. at night and it was his first day at his new job. Like the only thing he needs to set up

is his email password. Right. Like he was like, no, I don't have time to deal with this.

I think go for it. I think tell him, look, I just feel like you handled this with such cruelty.

And the way that you were telling me to eat burned food is really twisted to be quite frank.

And I can't be with someone that punishes me for feeling sick because life is long. People

get sick. People fuck up. And you know, there's a lot of different circumstances. And if you are

going to say that I should eat burnt food and that you should get the good one just because of

that, I can't imagine how you'll react to other situations. So this is where it ends. That's insane.

No, thanks. I appreciate it. Yeah. Wild. Good luck. Call us back next week and tell us how it

goes. Please, I'm really, really interested to hear. Good luck. Stakegate. Stakegate. Wow.

All right. Thanks for calling. Good luck. Bye, babe. She's gone.

That's insane. Yeah. We've never had a caller call in with a wild red flag story.

And before they turn it over, they're like, so obviously I have to break up. I think that was

the most shocking part to me. Yeah. Yeah. She was already there. She said that he's never done

anything like that before. But like it's not about this day. It's about the way he was acting.

And I feel like maybe there's been other little things that he's done. It's like that of a miscarriage.

Or manipulative, or just like passive that like made her this is like this is maybe the last straw.

Or it's like, yeah, it's been boiling. It's one of those things where, you know, I always say like

when a man loses something or like, you know, loses a game or he, you know, gets fired.

That's when you really see who a man is. And this is kind of in the same vein because it's like

when the vibe is ruined, it's not her fault. She felt sick. But like that's an annoying situation.

When you want to go out to celebrate whatever you're all dressed up, you're going to a nice restaurant.

Someone feels sick. It does ruin the vibe. So how does he manage a true masculinity would be,

you know what, babe, let's get the bill right now. We'll take all the food to go. You can rest at

home. We'll eat at home. It's not a big deal. Was he gonna portion control her or what she was

able to eat while at the restaurant if her stomach didn't hurt? No, that's like another question

that was about is about controlling what she's eating. Like there's so many. I think it was that he

felt like you didn't participate in the dinner in the moment. And now you don't get the food,

which is like beyond. Yeah. So fucked. Wow. That is fucked. No, it's subtle. But I'm so proud of

her because a lot of women would just go, oh, you know, whatever. Like it's like an early sign.

It's like an early sign. It's an early sign. It's an early sign. It's your man, right? Like

nothing more dangerous than an insecure man. I think that's weird and controlling. But every call

you've ever had wants you to tell them like, no, we can look past it. It's the first time. And

she did it. I was proud of blown away. She's already there. Stake it. All right. Quick, quick break.

We'll be taking more calls right after this. Do not go anywhere.

Welcome back to three things live exclusively on an radio. Andy, oh, that made me want to stake.

It really made me crazy on air meeting. On air. Oh, yeah. You're taking us some,

I leave. And now we have a new steakhouse. We already agreed on one day. We're going to the golden

steer for our mid-year check-in. And then we will keep strip house. Check-in. As for tradition.

Guys, I'm not a voting member of this board anymore. No, I guess this is a dictatorship.

None of us everywhere. There's never any guys of democracy in this world.

Are we supposed to, are we supposed to like, we're on a first date with Ting's Reach for our

wallet when she takes us to a steakhouse? I did the reach. You did? Oh, yeah. Oh, just a

sweetie. I started a fan. Ting's got very mad at me because we got there first and we're

getting having drinks. Yeah, she is. Chris actually bought me some martini. I didn't do the

reach. It's the least that I can do. I was going to yell and wrap up these burnt ends so I could

throw my wife when I get home. Wrap these up. There's some scraps. Lauren, you can have the scraps

that I have brought home from Ting's page. That steak gate is going to stay with me. That's

going to stay with me. That's going to stay with me. All right, let's go to Camille. Hey, Camille,

how are you? Hi, is it me? Yes, hi. Welcome to the show. What's going on?

Okay. Hi. I'm happy to be here, but not happy with the circumstances. Oh, no. Tell me.

My friend is seven months pregnant. Okay. And she's been with this guy for like three,

four years, whatever. They got married because she was pregnant pretty much.

It's a kind of like shotgun wedding ride. And she called me last week and told me that she's just

like struggling. She feels alone. He is like not really talking to her. They're at the stage where

they're like roommates now. They got married like three months ago. And she feels alone. He's like

smoking weed all day, like getting hot on the work days, like not speaking to her,

just like playing computer games and like doing whatever. They haven't gone to dinner together,

just them to in months. They are always, he's always bringing along somebody from his family

because they are in his hometown. And she's hours away from her family. We're sitting here. Oh, my

god, I haven't had sex in months. Oh, my god. She's even, I mean, like, yeah, she's seven months

pregnant, but like she's even like instigating. And he just like, oh, god, nightmare, legit nightmare,

nightmares. And she is also cooking and cleaning and taking care of the dogs. And she says that

while he pays for it also, she's like the least she could do. Like, she doesn't mind. Like, girl.

Has she, has she come out and said, I'm unhappy? Or is she just kind of like, like, you know,

kind of talking about it? It's edges. Yeah, she like dances around it. So she'll say all of these

things and tell me about all of his behavior. But then it's never like a, it's never like a, yeah,

maybe I could leave. Like she even alluded to feeling like stuck. And I'm like, god, this is not.

I mean, seven months. No, it's not. And I mean, the problem is seven months pregnant is like an

incredibly vulnerable time. And unless you have extreme conviction, which if I were in her situation,

you know, it's easy to, it's easy to say, look, if we were in her situation, we'd pick up and

leave because, but we're not in her situation. And she feels incredibly vulnerable. She's, you

know, with this guy that she knows on some level, probably multiple levels is like, you know,

a piece of shit and like, not her guy. And she's having a baby with him. Like, it's a very,

it's an impossible situation. Like, it's very difficult. And she's probably feeling super anxious

about the arrival of her baby. And, you know, being pregnant is isolating. But honestly, from

what I can tell, I understand that I'm not a mother. Having a newborn is seems even more

isolating than being pregnant. And, and, and I'm concerned for her because this is only going to

feel worse when she's like nursing. And he won't even like bring her a cup of tea or whatever

because he's so checked out or high on the couch. Um, so you're asking how to support her as a friend.

Yeah, I just like, I had a, we have a little girl's night last weekend just to get her out of

her house. And I'll go, I'll remind her of what life is like when you don't live with that

type of person. But I just don't know how else to, how else to be there other than to just be

there because I don't want to tell her you're already doing it. You're already doing it. I think

being there and just not shying away from her situation is so helpful. And be there for her.

There is a good chance that after this baby is born after, you know, a while she will leave him

because it's like, it sounds like an unbearable situation. It sounds absolutely fucking awful. And

I think you can just be there for her. And it's, I really do, unfortunately, I think it's going to

get worse after the baby is born. It is the single biggest hormonal drop that a, and a human can

experience is going from pregnant to having a baby. It's the single biggest hormonal drop that

that one can have. So she's got that to contend with on top of, you know, potentially being

postpartum. And I mean, as in getting postpartum depression, she is going to have a tiny baby. And

I think just showing up and being like, Hey, I'm coming over. I'm bringing coffee. What can I get you?

Like that stuff goes a long way or going, Oh, why don't we take the baby for a walk? Let's go

meet you and I'll get you a coffee. I'll treat you or whatever. Or, you know, when the baby's a

little bit older and she feels comfortable saying, I'll take the baby for an hour. Why don't you go

get your nails done? That stuff will be so helpful because guess what? He's not going to do it.

He's just going to sit there and smoke weed and be disgusting. So, so I think that kind of stuff

will go a long way. And I wouldn't push it. Like she probably knows, I mean, she definitely knows.

So, you know, you don't need to say, Oh, by the way, your husband's a complete like idiot and he's

a waste of space. She knows she's panicking. She's like, I'm about to have a child with like this

dummy. So, you know, just be there. Support her. You're doing it. You're a great friend. Just keep

doing what you're doing. Seriously, she's going to she's going to be so appreciative of you.

She's one of those people that's like wildly strong and knows that and like to lean into that.

But women can't, but like this is like how women have gotten to this place in the society. We've

we've gotten to this place by being like, Oh, well, I'm really strong and like all of our

all of our stories are like, well, my grandma had five kids and like she did it all herself and she

would strap the baby to her back and walk to work and do all this stuff by like that's how we've

gone to this place is by thinking that like we have to be like strong in the face of like men

being completely idiotic to us and we don't like that's not how it should be. He should be

treating her like a queen. He should be bringing her treats and taking her on dates and having

sex with her and telling her she's beautiful and all that stuff. And we should not be having babies

with men until they treat us like that and they are committed to treating us like that because

it's just it's an unfair situation for women otherwise. It just is. Exactly. Okay.

Good luck. You're a good friend. Keep the path. Keep the port. Keep stay the course. Lots of love.

Thanks for calling. Lots of love. Bye. Bye, baby. I want to go to Crystal really quickly. Hi,

Crystal. How are you? We've got a few minutes, but I want to hear what you have to say.

Hi there. I couldn't help but call in. I am a family law attorney and were the last

colors friend my client and not stopping for a client. But I would advise her of several

different things. One, she absolutely must start keeping a log of what she's going through.

Good. She needs to have a conversation with her OBGYN to talk about what she is going through

and also talk about what her feelings are. Yeah. Because the physician needs to be very

much aware of what whether or not there might be some depression going on as well. Sure.

And to prepare in case there is a pregnancy related depression or if postpartum depression

can come about, I would also encourage her to explore what her options are. If she's this set up

and she's discouraged and doesn't feel like this is going to work, well then she needs to lay

a framework to an exit plan. Yeah. What does that look like? And I would also, on a lower level,

if she doesn't want an exit plan, encourage the father of her child to go with her

parenting classes. Yes. And what does that look like? Well, it's everything from

the, it's not just Le Mans, you know, our birth preparation. It's what to do after the baby.

Right. And sum up with some solid co-parenting plans without even calling it a co-parenting

plan. Exactly. And I would, I would also encourage them to go to communication classes,

as well as him to start going to, at least here in my state, it's really prevalent where there

are fathers only parenting classes. Would be great. That would be great to get him to go to that.

Unfortunately, it doesn't sound like this is the type of guy to do that. But you are absolutely

right. Thank you for calling. I appreciate your professional opinion. And I hope that our last

caller hears it and passes it on to her friend. I value you. Thank you for calling. I have to wrap

the show. Okay, you guys, that was our show. It was a fantastic show. I really want to talk,

remind me to talk more about this. This is why it's so, like, this is just that call broke my

heart. And I really feel for that pregnant woman out there who is just dealing with this. But I

will be back on Friday with an episode about love story. And until then, be good. Bye.