Jennelle Gordon & Keith Mitchell: “If You Can’t Master This, You’ll Struggle in Relationships”

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All right, guys, digital social hour. We are back with Janelle, who's, man,

viral every time on the show. And she brought her friend to that Keith.

All right, pleasure. Y'all been working together for a while now, huh?

Yes, we have. We have, I met Janelle years ago. I introduced her first to my daughter's mother.

I needed some help in our relationship and obviously since it's an ex,

didn't go out so well. Yeah. But that wasn't my fault.

But it wasn't your fault, you know, not me when I was still in tantra school.

Okay. Because he used to work and, and, and was very close with song.

Yeah. Is Adora.

Cool. A lot of people say I resemble when we have some same thing, similar stories.

So that's how we met. And then after he brought his, his daughter's mother,

we said, he said, let's do a retreat, you know? Yeah.

And my son was pretty young too. So we did our first one at Pelican Hill.

No, huh? Which, you know, bringing tantra to like,

Trump land where it's like very conservative was, that was a pretty bold.

Very conservative. But we have the media that you came out, the, the whole newspaper deal.

Guys, nice showing. Yeah.

In such a conservative place like that.

So y'all didn't get arrested like Bonnie Blue?

We did not get arrested like Bonnie Blue.

What? What? What? She's, she's having a time in Bali right now.

You they shall get out because I know you had a little scare.

I've been there, done that.

Yeah, it's such a sad story.

So Bonnie Blue is the media has been reaching out to me.

Actually, since we've been here asking to do some articles with me,

because I, I lived through it.

The funny thing is we had just wrapped a retreat and everyone made it out alive.

But me, yeah.

And for the same reason, it was a, it was rough.

I'm not going to lie.

My son saved me while I swear that if you said that too, he, how did he save me?

If I wasn't there, I would probably seal be there like what they're doing with

Bonnie, because because I had a minor with me, they, they know that that's not a good

look to like, detain me.

And the conditions were awful.

My son heard people screaming and this is hanging on the thing.

And we weren't actually, we were detained, but we were not underneath where I'm sure Bonnie

is right now, with her heart.

Oh my God.

So wild times.

I hope she gets out.

She's been on the show and we had a good conversation on us, you know?

I need to have her on.

We should have her on.

Yeah.

I know she gets a lot of hate, but she owns her, her craft, you know, so you got to respect

it.

That's the one thing I like about Janelle.

She owns her craft.

100%.

And I, I respect it.

Whether you agree with all of it or not, you know, and some of it is out there, but I'm

like, if you stand on it, you stand by your work, I, I, I'm all about it.

And that's the thing I respect so much about Keith.

I think is that, you know, Keith's a huge reason why I'm here today.

Let's just be clear on this because with the same thing you did with Psalm, right?

When I came back, so this is what we talk about, the masculine principles of like divine

masculine, divine feminine.

So the feminine is chaotic and crazy.

And that's why we have so much drama and men don't know how to deal with it.

Men who are not like conscious, right?

And I hate that part.

I can wear it, not conscious, but who are present and who are like Shiva, God, life.

So when I came back, I was like all over the place, right?

I was like, oh, you know, like just I was crazed, not how are you seeing now, right?

And then Keith was like, listen, you got to like, we did a retreat.

I remember the first one we did international.

And I was just like giving them like esoteric theory or you're very like same thing I did.

No.

And Keith's like, you can't do this.

He's like, you're going to lose them.

It's like you got to meet them where they are and do a funny thing.

We're going to talk about this.

He goes, you got to, you got to breastfeed them before you give them state.

And now in the old poster child for breastfeeding on internet too.

And so I changed my whole thinking of like, I can't meet the masses where I am or how

I was trained.

I have to meet them with where they are or what they might be curious to look at and say,

I don't agree with that.

But, huh.

And that's kind of, and he's a part of that.

So.

Dangerous stories.

What's that movie tropic thunder is?

Like you can't go full retard.

You know, you got to go, you got to get your money first and then you can go for it.

Yeah.

That's what I've been trying.

There's no one time as a retreat.

We've gone to this huge fight.

So we have this woman, Andrea, she ran our retreats like she got poached from us, but

she ran our retreats so great.

She ran like company 200 people 20, 20 years.

So we think was just, and we just got to show up and do our craft, which is what we're

get at, right?

So we got into this fight and that fight, but we got into this discussion of what we need

to be doing, right?

And he was like, you know, you can't do this.

And all of our attendees were downstairs waiting on us, right?

And so he's like, no, you got to like give them real shit.

Stop the, stop the esoteric.

And so after that, we went downstairs.

I was like, okay, and keep an office room because we take shifts, you know?

I went downstairs and I was like, you know what?

What's the biggest pain point that's keeping you from having the marriage or the relationship

you want and from that we had the most insane breakthrough as that's a part of our retreat.

And that's because you pushed me.

Yeah.

The esoteric philosophy, you know, it has not the best related ability.

Yeah.

And so people need tools.

This is why, again, I put something out where you can get tools.

No, if I know what to do, how to think, act in all situations, well, what can I not

do soon?

I'll be late.

That's the same thing that happens in relationships.

That makes sense.

What goes down at these retreats?

Because I think a lot of people hear about a sex retreat and their first thought is

giant orgy, right?

It's basically Keith and all seven of his women, no, I'm just playing.

We're going to get into that later.

Don't happen once.

Don't happen once.

He brought all your girls.

He found it.

Because he was going to happen.

But I will just every little day.

One day a week, one girl.

Guys, they're just a little bit of dirty laundry.

We will also peak people's interest to come, right?

Because we have one in Valentine's Day.

What a day to pick for.

We're waiting for you guys to come.

That's my birthday.

You think we need it?

Everybody needs it.

Really?

Even if you're already married?

Yes.

What?

Tell me the percentage of marriages that end in divorce.

Isn't it like 50?

So you're leaving it to chance?

And relationships get worse, not better.

Usually.

Everything in the universe, what?

Atrophies.

So just because you get married and all that, you're in the honeymoon stage and things are blissful.

But you know, money is good for you.

You probably won't have issues with money.

You got to stay growing.

You got to stay growing.

No, I agree with that.

I think relationships always are about growing for sure.

For people to come before they get married.

We think if people come before that they're not going to have these problems and we give you the tools to handle these.

Because we're not therapists.

Therapists, they're basically BS, right?

You just rehearse and regurgitate your problems.

We give you tools from a polarity perspective.

From what everything in the universe is.

Yeah, but to people who do therapy, that is something.

It is something that we don't want to.

Don't do therapy.

But oftentimes it keeps you stuck in your loops.

And you just form a friend who listens to your problems.

But we are giving you hands-on tools from the science of sexual polarity, which is everything in the universe plus and minus.

Yeah.

And you got the male and female perspective, which I like to know.

I like to do this.

This funny thing is for a treat.

So we show up.

It was one of our largest retreats.

We like to keep it small, but it was like 25.

Damn.

For an intimacy retreat.

We like to keep it pretty small.

So I was like, okay, Keith, there's a lot of young, younger, attractive women there.

And I knew Keith had brought them, you know.

And so I typically will bring the couples and some men.

And he would always bring the women.

I mean, can we see, right?

It's pretty obvious to me.

So I said, listen, Keith.

I said, I need to be honest with you.

Like, what's the dynamic with these girls?

Because I need to understand like, hey, what's what's happening?

You know, because we're leading this group together.

He's like, no, no, no.

I said, did you fuck any of these girls?

No, everything's done.

We have to go out.

Just wake up.

That's the end of the retreat.

It was pretty well.

But you're gonna send our retreats, you're opening them up.

It's like, yeah.

So all the things, the dark, the light, all that's in combination.

So all these emotions are happening for people.

So, you know, we're just going deep like that.

So a lot of things happen.

Life happens through a situation.

And my life with me, people knocking on his door because we have like door tags in the room.

room, and so Keith was like, all right, we got to take my tour tag off, is every night

there's like women banging on the floor.

Loody call.

But yeah, no.

And that's a no-go too.

But that is what formed from that retreat is what formed the seven women or six women

that you had living with you, basically.

Living with you.

Whoa.

I'm ambitious.

And the thing is, I'm just, you know, my thing is if I want to know, and so the depths

of relationships, I want to know how they work and what's going to be best suited for

me.

And so I'm, you know, just like I achieved the things like the NFL, I mean, I want to go

to the extremes of life and all factors.

Right.

And that's just how I'm built.

And so that's how that happened.

It wasn't, I was just looking for six or five or many was, they kind of just came and

we organized it to have a business around it.

So we did retreats and so forth as well.

But products and products.

Interesting.

But it was, it, because so, okay, so what happened was from the retreat, that's where they

kind of started coming together, right?

And there was, and Keith was like, hey, you know, I think this is a good look.

And I was like, I don't think this is a good look.

And he was like, no, no, no, like listen, you know, he's like, we have to shut out today,

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These things, these girls, we come together, we work and you can like manage them, you

couldn't run them, and I was like, nope, manage them, but manage the operations, and

I was like, okay, well, let's just see, so then he started, he's like, let me get things

going.

So he started cultivating, this is what, like a year, you lasted about a year?

A little bit more.

But I managed to like, we had a team meeting every week, and it was the things that we're

building, so my idea is not just to be intimate with the person, it's to be in creative

mode.

We wanted to create opportunities, we wanted to build, because we were dealing with it,

you talked about sex magic earlier, we're dealing with the most powerful energy we possess.

So it's more than just getting off on each other, indulging each other as how can we build

something and create something.

So that's the dynamic of here, and this is what makes this alchemy so, so special.

That's powerful.

Yeah, I think when you hear Paulie Amory, it gets portrayed in a negative manner sometimes,

you know, through all these television shows and the traditional media.

Like how many girls, like did girls have each?

People are always thinking, how many girls, what's night, what was happening, how do the

dynamics work?

Yeah.

You know, because people go there immediately, and I think that's because people understand

women, and women were very, women are insecure, and they have a hard time sharing.

Well, but there's a bottom line to that too, though, is like when it comes down to sex,

a lot of people are very immature, the onset.

That's true.

I'm sure you're bobbed around the text, so we can actually expand and take some of this

knowledge and information in, nice to my eye.

Yeah.

Yeah, why do you think people are so immature about it?

I think it's because the exploration of it, you know, it's like it's so taboo, everyone's

kind of, you know, it's like poker, you're kind of holding your hand, you don't show it

right away.

It's like a lot of shame, right?

Yeah, it's like even like breathing.

The basic fundamental you're talking about when intimacy, a lot of people are not even

breathing.

So I know you're really, when you talk about presence, my definition of presence is your

intelligence.

You're not even there.

You're actually with the corpse, and that says when they're not, you know, participating

in the deal.

So it's an awakening to that, and to realize, okay, my body is shut down.

How can I open it?

Yes.

You know?

Yeah.

I think that's a huge part of that is what you said, Keith, is that when you're dealing

with these women, you're dealing with women who are not whole in a sense where they're

shut down in their body because of shame, because of trauma.

And women just feel like, I don't have to deal with that.

I don't even have to, I can't just put a bandaid over it, and it's just going to magically

get better.

But they don't, and then they say they don't trust men.

Well, they don't trust themselves.

Well, they don't, you know, the mishandling of men.

And so that's where they've been and I equates to the trauma you're talking about.

So it's coming into that guidance of, okay, what am I going to do with you?

What are we going to do together?

Having those, what we call in our retreats, having those adult conversations, we ask these

questions and people don't ask that, they'll go meet someone a bar or swipe on them, go

have dinner.

Oh, what was your favorite hot light?

The questions they ask are not fucking important, right?

Surface light.

Surface level, have sex, do roll around for a few times.

No one's orgasming.

He's finishing in three minutes.

He's upset and happy.

You know, she's being prematurely penetrated and then it's over and they swipe again.

Yeah.

We suggest 150 questions before your intimate was someone.

Wow.

150.

And it's not that you have to nail the 150 down, but it's like to the two or three questions

that you do answer or ask, you can reflect from the standpoint of, do you even know the

person?

Yeah.

And so the expectations of not even knowing the person and then the see the result, well,

then there you go.

That's how do you expect more?

I think another thing that's big that people are always asking about Keith and I and

why, like, we, we've worked so well together because we have a conscious understanding of

the dynamics.

Like I create and then he shows up.

I used to joke and be like, I feel like Phil over tree.

I bust my ass and when you go to our tree, everything is thought of head to toe, down

to like, name cars and everything.

She is a Virgo tune.

Oh, yeah.

So I am attention to detail.

I want your pain.

Good money.

I want you to have a great experience and everyone fucking does.

Yeah.

I say he shows up, takes his shirt off, sits there and ever was a Keith, Keith, we love

you.

The women love him.

The men love him.

I'm like, I fucking did all the work.

But no.

No.

No.

I'm being facetized.

But like his, his consciousness, his presence, it is coveted and it, it, it works.

And so we know we play our roles well and we understand those and I'm not like fighting

with him.

And when sometimes we have disagreements and when we do, he's always honestly right.

In the end, he's always right.

But women won't admit that.

Yeah.

I'm shocked.

Oh, and we're, we're in like what you would call like maybe like a spiritual relationship.

I don't really know what you'd call us, but it's like, and I like Pete soulmates.

Oh, in a way, there's, there's something about us that brings us together and that works.

And people are like, what's the extent in the relationship?

Well, you'll never know.

And it's not your business anyway, and I like to keep it that way.

But the bottom line is, a woman will never admit to her husband or a man that she's

wrong.

And no shame in doing it.

Sometimes I might do my little dance, but then I'll come back and I'll be, and we have

this one picture of us hugging after the fire.

Remember?

Yeah.

Because we had a breakthrough and it worked.

And then people want, they want sex.

They want orgasms.

They want money.

They want love.

But they will surrender.

The women won't surrender to get there.

How do you think I have 20, 22 orgasms or eight to 10 minute orgasms?

Because I'm like, fuck you.

I'm right.

I'm doing what I want.

And you serve me.

It's like real.

I say, you know what?

I'm right.

And I tell people sometimes Keith drives me nuts, but he's always right.

He always shows up.

He cares about me.

He loves me.

And he wants the best for me.

Yeah.

Because the body cannot lie.

So when he's in that restriction like that, he's going to be just stuck.

Time.

Sorry.

And there's nothing you can do to penetrate.

If you break down the concept of intimacy is into me, I see it's the low as a view to

come into me.

And so that's what is penetrating the physical to see how it could be verbs.

The mind, the emotions, the spirits and that's the knowledge I like to advocate for men

to get to understand what are we doing together?

You know, what are we creating together?

And that's something that a lot of men are missing that point of thought and that.

They are lost in the sauce.

They're the sheep.

And then they're trying to lead a stallion because women can be stallions.

They're right.

We're crazed.

Like the last night we were watching the rodeo, we were just like enthralled.

And it's like, you can't be a sheep and tame a stallion.

I'm a stallion sometimes.

I need a man to say, no, this is what I think we should do.

We should do.

And take the lead.

And he does that.

And the other thing that you were talking about, the women closing and all this.

How many went, how many ask yourself that a lot of y'all are married, young partners,

you have a lovey.

He buys me this.

He sends me a good morning text.

He tells me he loves you.

He buys me this.

He does.

He takes me on vacation.

That's how I know he loves me.

How many of you can say that you've consciously breathed with your partner?

Just breathed and had an aesthetic orgasmic experience just breathing.

I have that every time we do a retreat.

Just from breathing.

Just from breathing.

What?

You could have an orgasm from breathing.

When you define orgasm, what is orgasm?

It's a dopamine release, right?

It is a dopamine release, but it's also just breathing.

It's just a, it's the sensation after that.

It's an opening up and it's expansion to like what is, you know, it's presence.

It's all these different dynamics that come together to give you that concept of what

you call orgasm.

That's why it doesn't have to stop.

It could be continuous.

Wow.

There it is.

There's multiple types of orgasm.

There's like 12 and then there's another more, but it's like the concept of like presence

is what women really want.

If you can't do that and be vulnerable, if you can't sit and breathe and connect to

hard or in yum yum, that is, that is more pleasurable than sex because sex is just like

he said.

I say it's like two blow up dolls using each other to masturbate and it's like no one's

really fucking there.

It's just genitals rubbing on genitals and like, I don't know why this shit isn't working.

You know, it's a lot of women, they keep their orgasms in their minds and they live in

their heads.

So for the man you have to break through that.

Wow.

Yeah.

There's a lot of stats on how, yeah, women don't orgasm at the same rate as men, right?

Oh, it's 70.

It's 70% of women only orgasm through clitorial stimulation, which is the same way a man

orgasms and which is turning, get this, platois, is turning men, women into men.

Think about it.

The same way you climax through, as you know it, which is, it's not, orgasm and ejaculation

are separate.

But as the most masses know it, the same way they're called orgasming is the same way

70% of the women on the planet experience orgasm up and then down, energy up and then

loss.

We're literally mask it.

We're making women into men because of how they've been taught to climax and not just

how they've been taught, how men have messled them to climax.

Very good.

So man, as you're intimate with the woman, you're speaking affirmations into her mind

to what you want to do with her, why are you opening her up?

And so then also contact with other parts of her anatomy and her breasts.

That's one of the piece where the, and her heart, she orgasms first in her heart space.

Really?

If you're tasting her breast, you can taste her lactating before she gets into the full

heart body orgasm.

Wow.

Yeah.

That's why we do if you see our work, it's hand to heart.

So that's a orgasm right there.

The studies have showed the heart map, heart, heart, hand to heart, math, institute.

I forget what it is, heart and brain, heart institute.

They talk about just putting the hands on the heart with that does.

It instantly creates dopamine.

Really?

Yeah.

Like you put your hand on, just on your own.

On your own.

You can't imagine when your partner in Shiva does it.

His presence, his calming, because remember I'm chaotic, I'm going, so he does this.

Like someone gives you a Xanax, you instantly just melt.

You can't not surrender right to that moment.

That is like a drug.

Because once you have it, then you try to have a connection or intimacy or sex with an

average man.

You're like, this ain't it, you know?

So when you redefine the concept of orgasm, now it changes the whole perspective.

Now you, by redefining it, say you're suprett, you know, it's your breath.

And so now it takes out the concept of your limitation of I can't.

Because you're breathing, you can breathe.

Now breathe with me, connect with me.

Let him lead the, that's a different.

I know.

Like the very source of your life is contingent upon him telling you when the next breath

comes.

Are you going to suit to listen and to, yeah, so sorry to the breathing.

So he guides the breath.

I don't breathe till he tells me how many women.

Yeah.

So I trust him.

He might be holding the long breath.

I'm like, holy crap.

So you're controlling her breath.

What is the integrated breath retention?

We do it already in the network, concepts, you know, and things like that.

So it's like you just, but you're, you're allowing yourself to participate with me.

Yeah.

So it changes the whole dynamic from physical to a spiritual to spiritual to energetic

and emotional and a mental cause for women.

It's so much more, you know, I say this all the time.

Men need sex to warm up to the idea of intimacy.

Women have to connect.

They need intimacy before they can warm up to sex.

So when you're trusting a man to open you, breathe with you, guide your breath, tell

you when you can breathe, then you're, you're on his time line.

So then he's like, I'm like, he's a Leo.

He wants to be creative.

I'm going to take you places and then you go with them.

But women today, I'm a boss babe.

I don't want this.

I want my burkins.

I want my dog and my cat.

I'm not, I don't need a man.

It's like good luck.

And you might look aesthetically good, but I can tell by looking at your skin that you're

not orgasming.

She's not glowing.

She's not glowing because if you're not glowing, you're not climaxing.

And again, we know that roughly 20 some percent of women don't climax at all.

They don't orgasm at all.

And under 10 percent are like me full body, all 12, just cry.

I remember you used to say, Psalm, you guys orgasm too much.

Yeah.

Because then you'll be numb in the genetic lottery, huh?

But it's okay because the genetic lottery.

You learned it?

We were.

We worth it.

Sometimes people, different water signs are more predisposed to have an easier time of

reaching out a little bit because water flows.

It's more grounded air and fire, too, but the candy hot harder.

But we train for this.

It's like you train for the NFL people think that they're like, oh, like I didn't just

wake up like this.

And the expectation of people knowing to the depths of what Janelle knows, it's not about

that even.

It's just getting to understand bits of it to advance your practice because when you

begin to apply some of these things we're talking about, now you begin to open

yourself up, open the concept of what you're doing with your partner up, and

then you're like, okay, what else can we do?

Yeah.

You know, you can compound upon that.

Right.

That's why it's a practice.

You keep going to it and expanding.

Talk us to that.

Yeah.

When you were in NFL, did you view sex as just a physical experience?

Yeah.

You know, that's the mentality you have to play or have to play in that game on that

level, dominate.

I was a linebacker.

So that's the only mentality you had to have, you know, which for the dynamic of relationship

is like, it's like, since we mentioned BDS, you can't just smack the one.

You got to rub it out when you hit it early on.

Yeah.

So when dominating, you have to have some kind of understand the where we're going, you

know, some kind of finesse even, you know, you just maybe it's burbage.

It's a touch, learn to touch, a lot of men don't know how to touch.

That is correct.

You know, it's learning the language of touch and sometimes it's rough, sometimes it's

soft.

It's a combination of it.

Because women need, we need both because we need all of it because we have different

sexual archetypes.

Member 50 shades of gray.

There's a reason why that nonsense with so crazy because women, it's nonsense.

Have you watched it?

Watch both of them and they keep getting worse.

The more that you make, it's like the worse it gets.

It's like a fantasy.

It's an escape to be taken, to be ravished, to be explored, to be dominated, to be controlled

within sometimes to also be, you know, a little wild to be like, you know, all of these

things.

It's based on the chakras.

It's not fucking rocket science.

I call them sexual archetypes.

I have a quiz.

You can see which ones are more dominant in you.

So it's like the concept, it makes sense because women have different sexual archetypes

based on the first four chakras.

Inside of those, we also have shadows, meaning the imbalance side, which is why the BDSM

play is fascinating for someone like me who had kind of a very intense traumatic past.

It's kind of exciting to be with someone who's like, I'm going to take you there, but

I also have you like, and it's like healing, you know, and it's just, I'm sure you, yeah,

because a lot of times in the dynamic, most women don't recognize the power that they

do have.

So in the BDSM, it's a practice to discover what this power looks like and how it manifests.

So in the BDSM concept, it's like the man who's always, it was typically physically

the dominant one.

Now you have to be submissive.

And now the woman who's typically the submissive, now she's the dominant.

So now you feel what that looks like.

You feel like you feel the vulnerability of what that looks like.

Yeah.

She could, with words, cut you how with her physical being, she could put you in a compromise

situation.

And so now you begin to understand the knowledge of like, okay, well, this is a serious thing.

This thing needs to be handled with kind of presence or real understanding, or it can

be traumatic.

Yeah.

And so it just learns us the opportunity of how this engagement, what it looks like, and

how we can do it more constructively.

It is interesting.

I thought a few dominatrixes on the show, females, and they say boot, business is booming

for them.

Right now.

There's a lot of sims out there, huh?

There's so many.

She's sims.

Yeah.

Well, here's, here's a name when you have one, one out of every three men under the,

from 18 and 30, non-in-relationships, non-having sex, on lonely fans, our male fans, because

we can't say it.

I noted it.

But we have a crisis.

Then you have the single women who want him.

They want Shiva, right?

And they're the eligible one.

We're talking not marrying because don't even get me into the married stats.

They're actually worse, you know?

So then you have 80% of these eligible women who, who want a date, they either want a

date just to fuff, or they want a date to try to find, you know, no Shiva.

Yep.

But they're sleeping with the same pool of men.

They have to understand that.

The top 20% guys are.

20% guys, because you have to understand those other men are a comb jerking off, the

lonely fans.

They're not in the dating market.

And I keep telling women this, they're like, well, you can do that.

No, you can't.

The numbers just don't align.

I'm not saying you can't energetically shift stuff because if anyone can do it, I can

fucking do it.

But the point is like we have to start being like more realistic on like staying with the

partner you have, working it out.

Remember because we encounter people who come to our retreats all the time that, and we

have singles and couples and keep it that way on purpose.

We'll want people to see both sides of the grass, right?

Because we have couples who come and we had this one woman and her husband who came and

he had cheated on her and for like 30 years, she held that in.

She looked terrible and I'm not holding on is because you know me.

I do not sugarcoats.

She looked like like a razor.

She forgave him in this exercise we did and it's how she was holding it though.

She was over.

Yeah.

But then after she let it go, it's like her face, it's like she kind of face left.

Yeah.

What she softened.

She was like flirting and giggling and it was just like an instant shift.

And it's just so that this work is powerful.

It works.

Because I think women have to realize men drink, they go to the bar to drink so they can

talk to the woman.

Right.

Yeah.

You know, a woman in her femininity, she's way more dominant than she can imagine.

Imagine.

She's got a lot of power, right?

Yeah, there's a lot of power.

Now when she gets into that masculine role, she's, the man is looking at her as the same.

Well, I'm like the same.

But now I can dominate you.

Right.

Yeah.

Correct.

Like she says with a lot of men today, they don't have a consciousness of key of sheva.

Because you're, he dealt with like seven women that was, I know he had times when there

was like yelling, screaming, crying, people upset.

And he dealt with, he's still willing to tell by.

He'll have a Lorraine Apapa.

But most men, they want a woman like me who's feminine, who's highly seductive, who orgasms,

who's subservient, who's like all the things that men want.

It could clean fuck me, you know, listen to me, honor me, worship me, you know, orgasm

with me.

Check, check, check, ding, ding, ding, I've done it all, but they wouldn't get a woman

like me.

They're like, which are so emotional, I don't understand, I don't know how to deal with

this.

It's like, what do you mean you don't know how to fucking deal with this?

You're a Shiva.

You just be present.

Tell me, hey, here's what's happening.

I see you.

I hear you.

I feel you.

I am you.

Next.

You'll calm the fucking storm.

But these men aren't ready.

Sure.

A lot of responses don't require words.

Wow.

That's deep right there.

It just doesn't.

You can't outlaw the emotion.

And so you just have to sit with it and be with it and sometimes even, you know, ignore

it.

That's what I'm seeing, just stay like a home.

You know, as you're just in a concert, these men run for the hills and then they're like,

but I want all that stuff.

Well, what do you think?

If you want an emotionless woman, you basically want a man and you want to fuck a mate.

And that's what these better men want because they can't handle this.

So they'll just go for the beta, the, the women who are essentially men now because it's

easier to deal with her.

And you know what?

Those men get castrated because they are on their knees.

Here, honey, doing little TikToks with their wife and those men want to fuck it.

Tell them, man.

Oh my god.

Come on.

Doing the dances on TikTok.

Come on.

Yeah.

I can't, I can't respect it if they don't actually like dancing.

I can't respect that.

It's just, it's like, who is, you know, where are the testicles that are this equations?

And most of the time they've been castrated from the man and reattached to the quote woman

and, yeah, and that's why it's all fucked up.

And speaking of testicles, testicular massages.

What's going on with those?

Okay.

So the testicles are probably the most unappreciated part of the man's body.

Bars.

Boom.

But you have to understand what to do with them and keep, you can agree and you can agree

up to them in here, right?

But perfectly entouched testicles.

So you can tell.

So the testicles energetically is the standpoint of where all the life force, the creation,

the presence, everything, the energy, the vital energy sits.

And that nothing is happening to those.

They're just walking around all day.

At least your lean on gets stroked.

You get energy put there, whether by yourself or like if you're lucky, you have someone

helping you with this, right?

But the testicles not much happens to them.

So energetically, you've got to pull those down and release them.

And every day I tell men at least two minutes, two, three minutes in the shower.

You can do it in the shower because you're already in there, start from the top, work

your way down, and then you can gently go back up.

So you're just moving the energy, not only is it good for your sperm vitality.

If you don't want kids, it doesn't matter.

What happens with women's breasts when we don't massage them, but they get stagnant.

We get breast cancer.

Same thing with your testicles.

You've got to work them.

You've got to move it.

And sexually, you've been actually do like when you engage with their testicles.

When you massage them, while you're having sex or while you're doing oral or deep-throating,

if you will, or anything, reach around and grab the testicles.

But watch out for the nails.

Make sure that they're good.

The nails are good sometimes too.

But you're more extreme.

The nails are good sometimes.

But yeah, when you find yourself about to be on the edge of climax, have the woman pull,

like slightly pull it down.

Yeah.

It's a great exercise.

That works.

Yeah.

What?

Same time, push up on the perineum.

Well, what is that?

Perineum.

Is that the scrotum or what is that?

Oh, the anus.

Okay.

Not in the anus.

It's between the testicles and the anus that they get detained.

Yeah.

You're detained.

Yeah.

You push that up.

So that is like your gas and your brake.

Okay.

You know that.

Well, maybe use the knuckle.

It's the knuckle.

Yeah.

Like a user's knuckle.

Is it better to use the knuckle?

Well, you hear if your finger may slide a little bit.

Okay.

This is some advanced technique here.

I don't pass.

I know exactly where I'm going.

But for both the average person, maybe the knuckle.

You got it.

It's not like you got to like get in there.

You got to press.

Because what that's doing.

Well, you can explain what it what it feels like.

Well, you're activating the reflex.

Yeah.

The areas for the blood flow circulate.

And, you know, obviously those create more pleasure too.

Yeah.

So you kind of expand a lot of times when I'm on edge too.

You can also, you know, massage the crown.

Yeah.

The different parts of the heart as well.

Just kind of expands the orgasm.

But you can put it, send it up.

So I try to, after you're done pulling and pressing, pulling the testicles, pressing the

perineum, then you release and then you move it up.

Of course, I'm doing it energetic.

But I'm pushing it up to his heart, especially if Keith has a great heart.

But like the average man needs a lot of work in the heart.

But then for Keith, since he's so conscious, then you push it to his head.

Wow.

So wherever focus, attention goes, energy flows.

And then you get it orgasm in the head.

Pan have multiple orgasms.

They can have full body orgasm.

Yeah.

Keith is a tantrum master, which is why I have the utmost respect for him.

Yeah.

So many men have millions who fucking cares on board already.

Board, board, board.

Yeah.

If you had a pit between a really good person that sucks or someone with millions, that's tough.

Listen, listen, I love, I love, I love first class.

I love all the bougie stuff.

I'm not going to lie, right?

The tantrums we believe you can have a fucking all.

But I'm picking a man who can control his ejaculation at will every month of fucking time.

So I'm going to pick the million dollars for it.

And then you can go buy a coast.

That's a leap hole.

That's a leap hole.

But yes.

But in the end, I'm picking the million and I'm going to trade it myself.

But the concept is, it's so fucking attractive to me when I see a man who I know isn't a slave to his fucking dick ejaculation.

That he controls that shit.

That people are like, alpha men, fuck that.

That's an author.

Yeah.

You could control your ejaculation at will.

That's rare.

The rest of the man is sitting there losing it every fucking right now.

In minutes.

Mill thousands of people have lost it.

Yeah.

Their life force.

And that's the baseline of self worth, you know, loving of self and understanding what's your need and how you want to want to live life.

It's a certain level of discipline to do, but it's worth it.

And also it levels up the act that you're doing.

So if I'm with the woman, it makes you want to be there for more love than just recreation.

Because of the concept and tell me if this is true for you.

Yeah.

Every.

Can you get closer, Mike?

Oh, I'm sorry.

I moved.

I'm so sorry.

Every time we talked, we talked about this before every time you ejaculate, you're losing years off your life, right?

Yeah.

So think about this concept.

Every time you ejaculate with a woman, with the same woman, with your wife, with your lover, with your baby girl, your boo-boo, whatever she is.

Imagine subconsciously you start not liking her.

Because she's pulling your life force from you.

Whoa.

She is killing you slowly.

Like killing me softly.

She's killing you slowly with drinking your Ojas or or taking your Ojas inside of her.

So on a subconscious level, over time, you start to not like her anymore because she's deleting you.

Yeah.

And people don't think about it.

Do you think that's what's going on?

I know what's going on.

Holy crap.

I don't listen.

I always say everything.

I was telling keep this earlier.

I don't know much.

I'm not that intelligent.

I'm mildly attractive and I speak well.

And I know a practice that 0.001% of people on the planet know.

That's the only thing I have going for me.

Thank God I have that right.

But what I do know and understand is the science of sexual polarity and energy.

And there's a reason why men are cheating.

There's a reason why they're looking for more because the women are men.

And when they do get sex, they're taking their life force and killing them.

And over time, you can't help but subconsciously hate them.

Yeah.

But sex is such a magical thing.

It's the most powerful energy with possess.

It's your prayer.

It's your manifestation.

It's your creation.

And so like everything you're saying to me.

That is the height of our whole evolution as humanity, I believe.

Because understanding our purpose, our roles to play and how we can co-create together.

I think that's what makes us think so magical.

So everything that you're saying that you're brilliant in.

That's everything that we need to be.

Because you know that we have a saying in the tantra world.

How you show up sexually is how you show up in the world.

Yeah.

Sexual transmutation, right?

I want to see.

I can tell if I see you and your wife together, I can tell you exactly what's going on in your bedroom.

Really?

Absolutely.

How?

I can see it in how your polarity and how you guys react with each other, how you speak, how

the arguments, the looks, the listeners, how she listens, how she looks at you.

How she with another milieu, with another man in the room, how she is with you, how she

doesn't make eye contact with him.

Well, if she talks back to you, if she puts you down, if she talks crazy.

If she talks about you, I know what's happening.

Can you tell if someone's gay?

Oh, absolutely.

No.

Without them talking though.

Absolutely.

Really?

Oh, that's fine.

Energy and body language is everything.

Nonverbal's communication is 70% nonverbal.

I feel love it.

That's it.

But I don't just read that.

I read the energy, you know?

And so I know what's good.

I know she's not fucking happy.

I know she's talking to the tennis coach.

I know he's getting it.

Oh, my God.

He's getting pegged by, you know, some chick he met on freaking whatever the sides are now.

Painful.

Because a lot of men are secretly gay.

That's facts, especially in the Christian movement right now.

I'm seeing it.

We don't have to say names, but there's people get in.

There's people getting exposed.

The thing I have with it is like if you're portraying this super straight person and then you're like,

just be open about it.

People don't like themselves.

Like you said, they don't like who they are.

They can't look in the mirror and say, like, I love you.

I love my body.

And if some women haven't even looked at their young.

Yeah.

They're like, I'm sure you you fell with this case where they don't know it.

That's why in my book, I have the anatomy of the lingam and the young.

Yeah.

No curiosity.

It's like not even a curious idea.

It's like it's like fearful of it, you know?

And to sustain a relationship, you got to be able to go into those deaths.

Especially if you want to be in a monogamous relationship.

But we got to go to the depths of where this man has been.

That was him there.

And if you don't, he's going to be searching for that elsewhere.

That was something he said, the strip that I really listened to.

He said, if you want to be with a man, monogamy, and you want him to stay faithful with you,

you have to go with him to the ugly places, to the places his fetishes, his desires, his

things that he, that makes him who he is.

That's a part of his sexual archetype makeup.

And you have to be okay with it and not judge him and go with that.

Yeah.

You can't do that.

He's got to get it elsewhere.

Yeah.

Because men for sex, it's like, men need sex like they need oxygen.

Yeah.

If you're gay, the sex point feels better because isn't your G spot in your ass?

One.

You have, you have many.

I mean, you have a, yes, you have a G spot in your ass.

And an anal orgasm is, there's no orgasm like the anal orgasm.

But I mean, okay.

Listen, it's very different.

The uterine orgasm is the climax of all orgasms.

It literally changes.

It takes you to God.

I think it's some God.

I haven't experienced it yet.

So I need to, I need to work on this rather.

Try to come test where it happens.

Yeah.

What's going on here?

Show you how.

We show the diet.

We do it all.

But the anal orgasm, that's why people love that post so much, I think, is because it's

such a release of like, it's an, it's upon a value as the downward moving energy.

And women sometimes, I'm probably, I'm due for a dose of it right now.

I've been going through a lot.

I need someone to just get in there and fucking release that shit so I can heal.

But when you have that, that type of energy, it's not feminine.

It's different.

It is, it, I think it pushes you into, it pushes the energy back up.

It takes you out of the masculine, but it's not a feminine orgasm where the cervical and

uterine orgasms, those are deeply feminine because they're inside the cervix in the uterus.

And it, it builds in an expands and it, and it like opens you up.

Does that make sense?

Yeah, yeah.

The, the, the, the one in the, and the anal orgasm is more of like an explosion.

And it's like they say those anal retentive women, like someone, they just need to get

fucked in the ass and then she'll be, she won't be a bitch anymore, right?

Yeah, but I, I like to go even more because a lot of times we're, we're so ashamed of

what we want.

No.

And what we like.

We don't want to say it.

We don't want to, like, let the person know it.

And that's kind of bizarre to me.

I don't know if it's ashamed that we have around us.

We want to sense recovery.

Yeah, we cover that in our retreat, like the first day.

So it's like, we can have to move beyond that shame.

Yeah.

Guys have a lot of shame in the butt area, right?

Yeah.

I'd imagine, but like, from that standpoint, but like, it's to, whatever it is that you're

into, like, let it be known, this is the part that you're choosing.

Yeah.

So if you're going to go there with her, you've got to tell it truly go there.

I mean, you know, I just watched the Diddy documentary.

I can't wait to see it.

Yeah, he was into some stuff.

Yeah.

I mean, like that.

Listen.

This is what I think.

I'm curious to hear your point of view.

Okay.

Men like prostate play because it fucking feels good.

Yeah.

I personally don't think that makes them gay.

I don't think it would be there if it wasn't meant to be explored.

Now, if that is an obsession, like, it's what you have to have all the time, then I would

maybe question it.

But if it's some, it's another layer of pleasure, then I don't think there's anything wrong

with it.

And it's not a man like a finger or something like that or a tongue or I think that personally,

I think it's not fair that I have 12 different ways I can climax and you only have one, you

have two.

Why can't you exploit that second one?

And I think women should, you know, maybe put a tongue there, put a finger there, ask,

ask first, right?

Please.

Yeah.

Please ask.

Don't just jam a finger in his ass.

That way you might get hit.

And then it's your fault.

No, we don't come to a lot.

Yeah.

But I think it is very pleasure.

It's their G spot, but I do think that there's a whole nother layer that is just, it is

just gay.

Yeah.

For sure.

I'm with you.

I don't know the line.

It's a fan line, right?

It's a pleasure.

There is pleasure with that kind of play.

It's just understanding your edge or level.

I have a question for you.

Yeah.

So this was really good.

Tell me where you think about this.

He was saying to share those things that you want, those desires with your woman.

And I agree with you.

If you're with your wife, and you can, or your girlfriend, long term, whatever, and

those some people aren't marrying, and you can't tell her what your sexual fantasies

are.

You pick the wrong bitch.

Why are you fucking with her?

Yeah.

But then my question is, why do you think that some men won't tell the woman or the wife?

But then they'll tell a girl they need online.

Yeah.

Like me.

I've heard them all.

Stop telling me y'all.

I think we can, I think a lot of men can want to love their partner two months.

And that's how they become roommates.

Yeah.

You've got to keep that edge to it, because they want that.

They desire that.

Now there's a lot of things that we have up front that we favor the most.

Yeah.

We want our relationship to be this way.

But like there's a reason why we also breed chaos consistently, because we also want

that too.

It's like life is not like a Chinese menu.

We can't just pick and choose happiness.

It's like this.

We get all of it.

We get none of it.

Right.

We're cultivating the same results, because we are in denial of what we're really looking

for.

So, um, yeah, that's that's the temple.

So we talk about like temple night, temple night in your house.

So what we recommend is number one, I'll let you get into that more, but we recommend that

you have the questions, also a rule book.

He's big.

He created one.

I created one.

He's an NFL for a decade.

It's about to be inducted.

So he had a rule book from what you did, right?

I had a rule book for this.

There's a rule book for giving birth.

There's a rule book for podcasting.

Why is there not a rule book for intimacy and sex?

We created it, but we want you to also create that in your own relationship.

So it's like your tin commandments of your relationship, and it's no one else's fucking

business.

But if you don't have that from the start, you're going to fail.

But the other thing you need, according to the pharmaceuticals, is you need variety.

You need what we call like temple night.

And so that's a concept that we take in our relationships, but also we're integrating

into the retreats.

Now, because we've had, we've done so many, we have enough level ones, we're going to

do the level two.

Yeah.

So you can actually showcase some of the things that other people into that you never thought

about.

Like give us some examples, Keith.

Um, Shabari.

What's up?

You know, the Japanese rope tie rope tie.

Yeah.

Okay.

Talk about it.

It kind of expands the, the, the, um, the fourth place.

Okay.

So you're tied up.

Yeah.

Yeah.

So you know how the man ties up the woman.

I tell you, for the first few years of the retreat, I never did it because I was always

doing other stuff.

And then one year, I was like, I'm going to try it, you know, just, we had a big group.

And I was like, why is this, why am I so concerned or not?

It's crazy because you feel like I just feel like I should do anything I can surrender

really.

Yeah.

So Shabari's one with you, other things, we do some crazy tontric rituals and things.

Tontric massage.

Tontric massage.

Yeah.

So you're going to go into that retreat a little bit of mini BDSM.

Yeah.

Because there's a fine line between pleasure and pain, you know, yeah.

And sometimes the pain concept is just unexplored pleasure.

It kind of evolves into a pleasure for someone.

Yeah.

You can't expand into that.

And so people see different things.

It's like, oh, maybe I'll try that and see what I'll see what happens.

You don't eat the same day every day, don't go to the same movie every day, don't listen

to the same music every day.

You don't go to the same vacation every day.

People would say you're boring and predictable.

Why are you having sex the same way every same position?

Missionary with the lights off over three minutes.

She saw Shabbi.

He's mad at you because you are killing him the end of the roots and repeats.

Relatable.

But yeah, I got to get I got to get to your guys love it, but then also that mountain.

It's like a mountain otter smell.

So that's one of the things that just begins to deteriorate who we are as humans.

We want to be in that creative flow that in how it shows in your face and you're being

I feel keeps us alive.

That's what makes life worth it.

This is a great question.

When like with certain women, you you want your man to feel filled up when he's done

making love with you, not depleted.

Because if you're having sex and you're not practicing human retention, you're feeling

depleted.

Oh, yeah.

Even if you had a great time and it was pleasurable in the next when you wake up, you

forgotten about it.

I don't know how guys do back to backs like for real.

Well, Keith can shake.

You got it.

You got to teach me that some guys do like three.

It's insane to me.

Yeah, it's I mean, it's just controlling.

I mean, Keith is the man.

So he's not finishing.

So that makes sense.

Right.

I'm saying guys that finish and go again, I mean, I mean, you could do the same, right?

Well, your older now, older, it'll take about 30 minutes.

That's pretty good.

Well, you know, that's what you, by you need a physical activity, you got to, you

got to work out.

You got a testosterone needs to be up, you know, and that's requires, you know, heavy

weights, you know, squat, rag, bench press, you know, so that, that keeps you in the game

like that.

Okay.

In my teacher, you know, he was 86.

Holy.

His last child.

He was having a sex at 86, doctor saving doctor saving.

Dr.

Savi was your teacher.

No, I had his grandson on the show.

Dr.

Savi was a teacher and I'm like, I don't want to have kids at 86, but I still want to be

in the game.

Dude's a legend.

I always say this is like Dr. Savi Jr.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Into his home like 25 times.

Wow.

Wow.

That's awesome.

You got to learn from him.

Yeah.

That dude changed the world.

He changed the game.

Yeah.

He changed the game.

I know him mainly for the diet stuff.

I didn't know he touched on this stuff to the lifestyle.

He had 22 kids.

Why?

Yeah.

So his, his, his, at 86, he was, you know, two-year-old and his oldest was 60.

Holy crap.

Yeah.

That's impressive, man.

Impressive.

I think just picking, picking a woman who after you do have sex with her that you feel fulfilled,

right?

Have you ever thought of that?

Like, I feel full.

Well, that goes to a question I have for you, like, do you think women really, these

days really are into sex?

Yeah.

I think they're, they're not.

They're into what sex can bring them.

Yeah.

Which is the money, the bullying, the all the fun trips, the surgeries, the makeup, the

clothes.

That's the thing they can put on the gram.

So they do it because they know it's, I think all women today are basically prostitutes.

Even if you're married, you're a prostitute in a way.

But even if you're a prostitute, can you still be into sex, though?

I don't think most women are into sex to answer your questions.

Yes.

I think that people like Bonnie and all those, I think they're into it because there's

some exceptional.

There's exceptions.

I'm into it.

I want to have sex or else I, I would have been retired by now because I would have picked

rich guys.

They wanted to marry me.

I'm sure you got offered.

Yeah.

That part, I'm not so smart on, but we'll talk about that now.

But at the end of the day, I don't think women are into sex, you're right, Keith.

They're not.

They're in it to kind of, to, to, to satisfy your itch so they can get what they want.

But in the end, they don't want to have it.

They want to get the marriage bill so that they can get the, the bag secured, pop out the

child so they can get the bag secured.

And then they're retired.

Yeah.

It's like you, Keith.

They're retired from the league.

And, and then you go to Brazil.

I don't know.

Then you go to Brazil in the passport.

I don't know.

Get the stem cells.

Well, I first went to Brazil.

I went to Brazil.

I went to Brazil.

I went to Brazil at night.

Oh, for the ladies.

For the ladies.

I didn't go for the stem cells too, though.

I went to Mexico for that.

But Brazil in 99 is the first time I went.

Yeah.

And like if you want to know what a woman like really, I've heard stories, yeah, you go to

Brazil.

Oh my God.

They're the best to happen.

Sex over there.

They're into the passion.

Like you don't see that in America.

Hell no.

They're just laying flat, right?

It's just, it's just like I have a friend.

Shout out to John.

Shout out to John.

Thank you for being here with us.

We love you.

He's from Brazil.

Well, no, he went to Brazil with me for the first time.

So they were here with us.

And I introduced him to a few women there.

And I don't think his life would be the same.

And John is, he has, he gets women.

Yeah, yeah.

But to be with a woman like this and to feel with you, that's wifey.

Yeah.

That's wifey.

It's hard.

It's hard.

It's hard.

I mean, you're right.

It's not just laying there.

The thing is women, it's in my book, I, it was like monkey, see monkey, do women just do

what they have seen because they've never been taught for it.

So it's just like, like the grounds, then they're looking how much longer.

Yeah, yeah.

That's what's happening.

If a woman's really into it, she's like pulling you.

Yeah.

She's touching you.

She's not just keeping it like her hands are moving because that's how what, well, how

she likes.

She wants to be touched.

Yeah.

If a woman is pulling her hands off of you, when you're fucking her, she ain't into

you.

And you think that's the consequence of women watching, I think, I think that it could be

a huge part of it.

I think so.

And because with women and we talked about being gay and it's in, and the reaching so

many people's lives and that it is, it is a mass agenda to make the world gay.

Just the, the shot they always show is a few minutes before play and then they show

the cum shop.

But what's the, the main thing people fast forward to is the penetration where all you see

is the balls and the, and the legum, but you really see the balls more than anything way

more than anything.

That is they're trying to make you gay, right?

Yeah.

I get your welcome.

I believe that.

You're welcome.

I could see that.

Yeah.

Damn.

So Brazil is the place to go.

Well, at least if you're going to go and you say, you all want to be married at some

point, you can know what it looks like to make love to, yeah, like it could be.

You can know what it looks like to be married to a woman who's going to take your kids

after she divorces you and makes you pay to see them, then you know what it's like to

make love when you go to Brazil.

Maybe we do that first.

Oh my God.

Oh, man.

Yeah.

Sean looks impressed right now.

I think Josh got married.

Oh.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

We could train her, right?

Yeah.

Yeah.

She's Latina.

So she has it in her somewhere.

And I still have her box for her.

I got to get that.

Oh, thank you.

Thank you.

Just waiting for some stuff.

I got some fun topics here.

Okay.

Yeah.

Should we touch on that first or whatever?

Whatever.

I didn't want to ask about condoms.

But, um, oh condoms.

Yes.

You don't believe in condoms.

Can you just agree with me on this because he goes to Brazil?

But I don't agree with condoms and here's why I'm.

All right.

Energetically, everything has a frequency.

You know, you have crystals and stuff everywhere, right?

The frequency in this room is great because you've created that.

The frequency in your body is great.

You've created that.

Same with me.

That's the vibration that we operate on.

If I have set, first of all, I don't go into places where I can't control the frequency.

This is why I have a hard time walking through the casinos.

I'm getting better because I'm on a healer.

I'm an impact.

Yeah.

But it's hard for me because I'm like, oh my god.

They have walkers in there too.

They have walkers.

Frequency blockers.

Do they really?

They don't want psychics to be able to win the game.

I feel that because what?

Oh, thank you, Sean.

I didn't know that.

I was like, why do I feel so not in control when I'm there?

Yeah.

Thank you.

Yeah, they have them all over the casinos.

I actually know why I don't like being in them.

Yeah.

So because it's blocking.

Yeah, spiritual people hate casinos.

I hate it.

Thank you for sharing.

But so I believe that everything that manifests in the body is just a physical

representation of an energetic vibration.

Right?

So if you're sick or it's just something that was in the body stored on the famous

line, right?

Untapped or stored, trapped emotion that need to come out.

So it's the same thing with the condom.

If you're energetically aligned, first of all, I'm not going to have sex with anyone.

That's not in that same or equal vibration.

My mantra every morning is only energy of equal or high vibration will connect with me.

And I shield myself.

So I don't want that.

So if I'm having sex with someone, I can have sex unprotected because that frequency is not

going to penetrate me.

I believe that.

So I wouldn't, I don't use condoms.

I'm allergic to them.

And I'm not saying that just to say that like I just don't know as them.

And I've never been on birth control.

And birth control didn't work on me because I did take the morning after with my son.

So I'm a freak though.

But for the average, so I, I don't believe that I could get an STI.

Now I did get an STI once.

So I'm contradicting that.

But here's why the point that I was, I had postpartum and it was rough.

And people who say it's not real, fuck you because it is real.

But the postpartum became because I had, I was the poster child for it.

I had, I had a lot of trauma.

I was single mom.

I had no support system.

That's when you first met me.

I was low.

So that energy vibration.

As much as I was trying, I was low.

On the backside of it, I would say get the trait test.

Get tested.

I do think you should.

Yeah.

Just, just because what's your experience been with condoms?

And, and, and, and because you've been with them.

You've been only been with 70.

I went with 78.

Oh, 78.

No.

Didn't you don't watch my real because we were talking about the 78 countries.

Oh, I was going to say I thought you'd be in the hundreds.

78 sounded light.

It is.

That's the joke.

That's the joke that you said.

I would, I would, I'm not going to throw his dirty laundry out there.

I would say it's more than 100.

But that's just me.

Well, yeah, condoms.

They don't feel good, right?

But do you use them?

But do you can trade tests?

Get your tests.

Yeah.

And there's some, there's some good brands of condoms you can use.

Oh, yeah.

There's a little lamb skin and some from Whole Foods that they have some.

And the average person should, should definitely use them.

Yeah.

Yeah.

If you're hookin' up with a one extra.

If you're Brazil and things like that, probably you use them, right?

Yeah.

Of course.

Yeah.

All the time.

I mean, there's some, some cases that I'm familiar with the person.

We have more of a longer one.

Right.

Talk about this.

This is my question.

He, he doesn't give his semen to every person.

That's right.

When he does it, Jack.

Oh, yeah.

He doesn't always.

I don't think everyone deserves it.

Do you think there's an energy transference?

Of course it is.

And so I don't want to give that energy to everyone.

Right.

I'm not sure what I want to do with her yet.

Yep.

You know, so that's a, that's a really intimate.

It's an imprinting.

Imprinting.

Imprinting.

And it's essentially gold.

There's, there's two ways the body makes like a liquid gold.

And that's from the, the breast milk, as you mentioned earlier.

And from the ejaculation.

And so you're giving that to a woman.

You are basically giving her your DNA, your imprint, your blueprint for life.

And you're putting that in her.

And if she's unstable, then good luck.

Good luck with that.

It's crazy.

You say that.

I was clearing my trauma through hypnosis.

Yeah.

And he asked like how many sexual partners have you had.

And all of their souls showed up.

Wow.

So there's a, there's a, I think he called it a soul tie or something.

Yeah.

So like you're tied to that person.

Even if it's been years.

Yeah.

You know, there's an energetic.

And, and one of my teachers, she's a little out there.

And I asked her for the, the copy of the citations.

Because everyone always asks for these.

She's like, I can't really tell you.

But they say that the, the DNA can transfer into the brain.

Wow.

And you've heard of that.

Yeah, I've heard.

And I was like, and she's, oh, she's, oh, not old, but she's 80, you know, she's older.

And she, I was like, really?

And she's like, yeah, that's why it's not good for women to have many sexual partners.

Yeah.

That, that, it's, it's just like, it makes them literally crazy.

It does.

So multiple, say if you have 50 partners, you have 50 DNA swimming around here.

Holy crap.

You don't think, why do you think women are, we're crazy enough without all that.

So, but if you do have one partner and you're giving her your Ojas, then you're also your,

you're sort of training her to become like not your child.

Because that's not it.

It's like, it's your, it's a part of you.

You're training her to be your second brain, your second.

And that's what you want for the mother of your child.

You want her to think the way you think.

So when you're penetrating her and you're giving her your Ojas,

you're saying, hey, this is what I would do, right?

This is how I would move.

You're going to take care of my children.

And that's why women go crazy when they start having those really good orgasm

and they get a lot of your semen, they're kind of like, they're kind of like your shadow.

They're hooked.

Does that matter to you when you're engaging with a woman, their, their body count,

how many sexual partners they've had?

It does matter because like, like Janelle San,

it's going to play a part in your relationship.

You don't have to unravel that to get to the actual person.

Because there's so many layers.

I mean, I always say that the woman follows the man.

So his things he likes to do, the, the, the saying he says, well, she says.

No.

You know, so you're dealing with all these personalities of these individuals

and whether they have the, the best intention for her or not.

And so you're taking that on on top of everything that we just talked about.

It's very scary.

Yeah, it is very scary.

Yeah, they lie about their body count too.

I'll tell you in that.

Yeah.

Because people are like, oh, all these red pill guys.

I will only be with the woman if she's had under six.

I'm like, she's lying, bro.

Yeah.

She's fucked.

You're supposed to multiply their answer by three other leaf.

I think it's not more than more than that.

Well, just as the stats are showing that even for the virgins,

the number is almost the same now.

Like women, as far as like there's, virgins are obsolete.

They just don't exist.

I don't believe the virgins statistics.

You don't believe that?

They're saying 20% of Gen Z are virgins.

No.

Women.

No.

I don't believe them.

No, no, no, they're lying.

Yeah, I think that's tough.

But they're saying that the statistics for men is, is, is, is about the same as women now.

Men I could see because men aren't getting laid.

Yeah, men aren't getting laid.

I don't believe the women.

And then you have to understand that women, she just as much as men do.

I think more personally.

This is my just grow.

That's a hot tip.

Listen, I believe they cheat more.

We just don't fucking get caught.

We're just better at it.

We're supposed to be multitaskers.

Why?

We take care of you.

We take care of the home.

We take care of ourselves.

And we take care of children.

You don't think we can cover up a cheat?

Yeah.

Come on.

Dan.

Seriously, especially like.

I'm Lloyd.

I'm a Virgo.

So if I'm with you, I'm with you.

But someone with my knowledge, you don't think I could like cover up one or two.

And that's another reason why they show up in the bedroom like that.

Because they don't want to showcase what they know.

Yeah.

Because how do they know it?

You know, they were introduced to it by a man.

With their tennis coach.

What is the thing that everyone plays now?

That's kind of like pickleball.

Pickleball.

Yeah.

I would never let my woman get a male physical.

Nothing.

Don't let her get a male anything.

Yeah.

I don't know.

The only male she should see is the fucking male man.

They've done studies on woman.

Yeah.

I'm sorry.

If I was a man, I would clean up shopman.

I think I should.

What about friends?

What about male friends?

No.

Hell no.

Unless they're gay.

A shoulder to crowd.

Unless they're good.

Really?

Because gay, because your body doesn't, well, I kind of technically get into this.

Yeah.

But like, the body doesn't know your opinion about yourself.

It really does.

That was the anatomy.

The basic.

Wow.

Yeah.

And so now you're going to pick up characteristics that you're going to have expectations about

this man to be this way.

And it's not over here.

No male friends.

So the shoulder to crowd is a dick to ride on.

Oh my god.

Damn.

Shoulder to crowd is a dick to ride on.

You heard it here first.

So the biggest reason, uh, that's a bar.

I'm right now a doubt.

Go through her.

Go through her.

Shoulder to cry on.

Pick a woman who has a male to ride.

You have your cousins.

You have your church.

You have your girlfriends.

You're.

You can have so many friends.

Just not a male.

Yeah.

The biggest reason, uh, woman, she, I just read the study is the workplace.

That's.

Why do you think that is?

They're around guys all the proximity is motherfucking power.

T.R. said that.

Yeah.

And if you see them in a, in a light that you don't see, like it's like it's, uh, untraditional

light that you see them in.

You see them in perfection.

Right.

You don't see their flaws at the workplace.

So think about this.

Your initiative.

Make men want to boss up and be more like y'all.

Think about this concept.

If I day and I'm thinking about it to y'all, if I marry a man, it can't provide for me.

And I have to fucking go to work.

Hmm.

And I have to go to work and answer to whom?

Another fucking man.

Hmm.

And I have another man at work telling me when I can pee, when I can eat, when I can text you,

my husband.

But yet I'm supposed to open to you for orgasm and I'm supposed to listen to you.

But you have me taken orders from another man.

And then call him a boss.

Oh, correct.

Hi boss.

But I'm supposed to call you daddy.

Hmm.

Oh god.

So if you can't eat, I'm sorry.

I know y'all are.

You're men are going to be pissed at me, but get your bag right before you get a woman.

Ooh, it's tough out there.

It's about there in the street.

Stuff out there.

Why are men so bad at oral?

Men are bad at oral because, okay, here's, here's my plot twist.

Men with big dicks are terrible at oral.

Damn.

You know what?

Damn.

Because they're stallions.

They're motherfucking 1% of the population.

I used to tell my ex.

I love planning on them a little bit.

Sorry.

Sorry Isaiah.

But he had like a.

Sorry.

Call them.

Sorry.

Sorry Isaiah.

And I know he'll see this too on some hunt because everything we do goes viral.

But anyways, he had a huge dick.

The biggest I've ever been with in my life.

How big?

He was like 0.001.

They used to call him foot long.

Wait, 0.001.

So like he was in, he was.

Oh, percent.

He was like, he was up there.

I think he was like 12.

12 by like whatever.

You know, he was huge.

So it was hard.

It was rough.

But that was the other question we're going to talk about.

But I used to, and he didn't make money.

But I was just, it was sex.

He met him.

In the end, I was like, listen, bro.

We broke up because he cheated on me with some, with some lonely fans, girls,

hood rats from inland empire.

But yeah, see, I'm human.

I share everything because I'm vulnerable.

And I keep it real.

But I told him when we broke up, listen, sweetheart.

I know you won't probably be much in life.

And that's okay.

You always be a barber.

But I just want you to know, at least you're the 1% and one thing.

Because you have a big dick.

So all right.

So guys with big dicks, they don't have to fucking try.

They can just go to town because they have a large lingam.

They're the stallions.

They're the 1% or the 0.1%.

Because if you're 9% or bigger, if you're 9 inches, you're 1%.

The bigger it gets, it goes 0.01.

Got it.

There's just lingams don't exist.

So they don't have to try.

Guys with small lingams, like the carrot in my book, the small, less than five or less,

they are really good.

They have to be.

They have to fucking figure it out.

Because they know they're probably not going to make you climax with their little, little willy.

But it's just not happening.

So the other reason why men are bad at oral is because of.

Thank you very much.

They show that they, it needs to look at their actors.

People forget that.

Sometimes people think it's real.

It's like I've been on set.

I used to date a director.

Wow.

Like I would watch it.

It was so uncomfortable.

Because they're like, let's do it.

This weird shit.

And then men go in the bedroom.

Because it needs to look like that for camera, right?

So then they go and like,

A, B, C, D, what the fuck are you doing?

I would add to that though.

From the standpoint of, do they really care?

They don't.

That's true.

That could be a big part of it.

Because if they don't really care about you or they don't.

Or care about one's pleasure.

Or the pleasure.

But I think it's more like the nature of how they feel about the person.

It's how they'll be with the person.

Yeah.

Some guys like him in the oral, but I would say majority don't.

They don't.

And I don't blame them because most women smell like fish.

Fuck.

And why is that?

I don't blame them about that.

You nasty women are putting meat and dairy in your body,

thinking it's going to smell like watermelon and pineapple.

I travel.

I don't share much.

I think we talked about this.

Yeah.

You don't share what's the reason.

Because I eat living freaking foods.

I'm putting non-acidic foods into my body.

That's why I taste like a fucking lollipop every time.

And you use those on sauna.

And I use those on sauna.

And I use freaking, you know,

I'm about to start douching with the aged urine.

Douching?

Yeah, with the aged urine.

What's that?

So it's like, you don't know what douching is?

Is that the thing in the shower that people have?

Well, yeah.

And I'm douching.

They used to have like the summers even.

That's another reason why women smell is because they're using synthetic chemicals

like summers eve and powders and sprays.

And I'm going to spray bath and body works.

They're chemicals.

Heavy metals are just spraying down here.

It's like, what are you doing?

And then you have the acidity of the meat and dairy

coupled with all those chemicals, it's going to smell.

It's going to smell.

And then I steam too.

So I think a big proponent of women being plant-based or vegan.

And I know for men, you know, I'm middle of the road on that.

If you want to eat meat, I think it has to be clean.

But I think women are designed to be vegans.

You can't put acid into an already sick environment

and get a good result.

I can't, you cannot convince me about it.

What about the protein for women?

I think women needing the protein.

As far as they get older and where they're going to get there.

And a lot of this, a lot of the vegan context is not the best.

The process of obviously you want minimal of that.

But you can get it in other ways.

There's many even just with the bee pollen starting with that.

You can, the spirulina, the marina, those are complete proteins.

Because I'm seeing women really deteriorate physically,

muscle mass deteriorate because they're not able to recover.

They're not able to recruit so much protein.

It is, I'm not going to lie with a lie to you, Keith.

That's a hard one.

And even for me, I struggle with it.

Because I want to get those gains.

I'm in the gym and I'm like working so hard for that.

Like shakes, shakes, bee pollen, this, you know.

My hemp, everything, it is tough.

I'm not going to lie.

And I don't necessarily have the best.

And we should like to eat more.

The pine pollen is a new thing.

It's boosting testosterone.

It's amazing.

Do you use it?

I used to.

I love the pine pollen.

I'm taking the bee pollen.

I'm taking, most of my food is liquids.

I think the best thing where people can do is have a consistent detox.

Like every three weeks, every three months, something like that.

Once a year at least, have a consistent detox to cleanse your body.

The liver, we know it has over 500 portions.

We were just on with Dr. Ed yesterday.

And you know, he sends us all the products.

I take this stuff too.

Love it.

Great stuff.

The best place on the planet, by the way, I believe.

And I've toured the center.

But yeah, so for women, it is tough.

You have to do more maintenance.

Men, it's a little more easy.

I think Yoni's steaming.

Yoni's doing it.

You can do that, Yoni.

What is on two?

Yoni's doing it.

They're testicles.

They're testing the testicles.

It's just a steamer with water.

I'm going to send you one.

The steamer.

Explain the steamer.

The herbs kind of.

Oh, herbs.

They pull up for two.

They tap into your body.

Your pores open up with the heat.

Teasets.

The books that are directly for the uterus, for the tonalities.

Oh, that's cool.

You can create the wet wet.

You can create the tightness.

That's what we read today about.

We're doing something like that.

Okay.

We read them.

You're seeing, yes.

Wow.

Women are dry today.

Dry.

But it's fucking dry.

Yoni.

And why are we putting KY up there?

Oh, my God.

I don't, you, I don't use lube anymore.

KY they still, KY are using wine.