Jillian Turecki On Attracting The Right Partner, Why Most Relationships Fail & What To Ask Yourself Before Breaking Up

Today’s guest is Jillian Turecki. Jillian is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves. She is also the host of the popular podcast, “Jillian on Love.”   We talk about why it’s important to reflect on past relationship patterns and how to communicate them effectively to a potential partner. We dive deep into how to find love and how to attract, build and maintain a healthy relationship. We also get into the four questions you MUST ask yourself before exiting a relationship, how to heal from a breakup and more.   What to Listen For:   0:00 Intro 1:12 Why it’s important to identify past relationship patterns 03:55 How to “level up” your relationships  06:31 When healing becomes unhealthy 12:19 Bringing up your past when dating 14:53 The difference between chemistry and connection 17:38 How to separate your head from your heart 19:50 Practicing self trust and rebuilding self esteem 23:13 Learning to “co-regulate” in a relationship 27:09 Why it’s hard to know if a relationship is unhealthy 29:22 How to have difficult conversations with your partner  32:25 4 questions to ask yourself before leaving a relationship 35:25 What to do after a breakup 39:05 How to tell if someone is interested in dating you 41:39 Jillian’s thoughts on chivalry 43:25 How to avoid “losing yourself” in a relationship 45:42 If you wanna be in a relationship, it's not about you anymore 49:06 Communicating your needs to your partner 50:25 How to not get stuck in something that’s “casual”          Episode resources:   Follow Jillian:   Instagram Website Podcast Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices