Joel & Mary Beeke: Why Strong Marriages Start with Loving God First

Joel and Mary Beeke have spent decades studying, teaching, and living what the Bible says about marriage.

In this conversation we explore the biblical foundation of a strong marriage, why many couples slowly drift apart, and how Scripture provides a model for love, respect, friendship, and lifelong commitment.

Joel Beeke is a pastor, theologian, and author of more than 100 books. Mary Beeke is a teacher, writer, and longtime pastor’s wife who has helped generations of women and families cultivate strong Christian homes.

Together they wrote How to Build a Godly Marriage: 12 Principles for Flourishing and Lasting.

We discuss the biblical pattern of marriage found in Ephesians 5, the Puritan vision of joyful family life, and why holiness — not emotional intensity — is the true foundation of lasting happiness.

If you want to build a strong Christian marriage, lead your household well, and recover the deeper wisdom of the Christian tradition, this conversation offers practical guidance and time-tested insight.

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TOPICS DISCUSSED

• The biblical foundation of marriage
• Why couples slowly drift apart
• Sacrificial love and respect in marriage
• The Puritan vision of joyful marriage
• Why holiness produces happiness
• The importance of kindness and encouragement
• Building trust and unity in marriage
• Raising children with responsibility and faith

GUEST LINKS

How to Build a Godly Marriage: 12 Principles for Flourishing and Lasting

Joel Beeke

• Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary — https://prts.edu
• Reformation Heritage Books — https://heritagebooks.org

Mary Beeke

• The Law of Kindness
• Teach Them to Work

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