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Jordan thought he finally found something real after a rare, old-school meet-cute that led to tacos, margaritas, and what he swears was a very intentional goodbye hug. So when Elise suddenly goes silent, he’s left replaying every detail—and blaming himself. But when we finally get her on the phone during this First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, the real reason behind the “ghosting” comes out… and it’s not what anyone expected.
Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
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Jordan is on the phone today for our first day follow-up,
and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Elise,
so in a few minutes we'll call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him,
and maybe get him the second date
that he so desperately desires.
But first we got to find out what happened.
So, Jordan, what's up? How long has it been since you heard from Elise?
Hi, it's been almost two weeks.
Okay.
Okay, so it's been a little while.
Have you tried to reach out to her?
Just just a once.
I didn't really want to push.
I didn't want to be that guy, you know what I mean.
How was the date, or how did you guys end the date?
We ended it with what felt like a good hug.
It wasn't rushed.
It was so intentional.
It was a solid hug.
I mean, with the ending of a good night, really.
It didn't warrant a ghosting.
Not that I thought.
I wasn't expecting.
Let's tell us about the date.
Okay. Well, we actually,
we met in real life.
It doesn't really happen anymore.
Wait, for the first time,
were you ever met?
Was it in real life?
Yeah, it was weird.
It was like this to face.
It reminded me of high school.
Good times.
Well, how did you meet in real life?
Well, we were waiting online at a food truck.
And we just started chatting.
Oh, okay.
Eventually, I got to it and asked her out to a cool taco spot.
And she agreed.
So, that was nice.
And we ended up meeting at the taco spot and ordered tacos.
Got margaritas.
She suggested sharing everything,
which I thought was really cool, like family style.
Okay.
Yeah, it was, I mean, for me, it was fine.
We got to try because we got different things.
I got to try her fish tacos.
She tried some my carnitas.
It was, you know.
All right.
I know you didn't mean that to be funny.
It was.
All right.
So you enjoyed each other's tacos.
And then what happened?
Honestly, after dinner, we just kind of went for a walk.
Just hung out, went for a walk and talked more.
And that's what we kind of called it.
And I gave her a hug, which felt like I said intentional and good.
Solid.
And that was that.
Okay.
Was she giving you signs on the date like she'd want to see you again?
Like, did it feel that that was surely going to happen?
Well, she felt, it felt, I don't know.
It felt grounded, like it was calm.
Like it was, it was easy to talk to.
And it was like, I didn't have to perform or anything.
I had to, I could just be myself, which doesn't often happen.
That you sometimes wouldn't first meet somebody.
Yeah, it's like fun.
Right.
Why do you think she's ghosting you?
No idea.
I honestly, I replayed everything.
We've thought, I was wondering if it was something that I might have said.
Maybe I talked about my ex too much, but she asked about my ex.
I didn't like bring it up awkwardly.
Okay.
We ended kind of on good terms.
Anyway, it was a relationship that settled out and that was that and kind of left it to her.
Okay.
What was she asking?
So what was she trying to find out about you by asking that question?
Like how you guys ended?
Yeah, just why, why did we split?
Okay.
And it wasn't like she asked about your ex and the floodgates open.
And it was like three hours long of you just talking about your ex now.
No.
Jordan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Elise.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.
But first, Jordan, why don't you remind us about your date a little bit?
Okay.
Yeah.
So we met in person at a taco truck.
We shared tacos and margaritas.
We had a great time, great hug.
And I haven't heard from her, but I think it's because I talked about my ex too much.
I don't know.
I hope not because she talked about hers too.
So that would be kind of a double-seater.
And she was asking about like, I don't know.
You're kind of asking the questions.
All right, Jordan, you ready for us to call her?
Yeah, let's do it.
Okay.
Here we go.
Hello.
Hi, man.
Speak to Elise, please.
Um, this is Elise.
Elise, how are you?
This is a Jewel show.
It's a radio show.
Hi, Elise.
I'm Nina.
Hi, I'm Victoria.
And my name is Jewel.
What's going on?
Oh, my God.
Hi, sorry.
What's going on?
What's lots of people?
What's happening?
This is a radio show.
It's called the Jewel show.
And we do a segment on our show called the first date follow up.
So what it is is if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghostings that person,
that person can email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them.
And we got an email about you Elise.
That's why we're on the phone.
Oh, well, wait.
Why?
You said, I would go, wait.
You got an email from someone I'm so confused.
His name is Jordan.
You went on a date with a dude named Jordan a few weeks ago?
Uh-uh.
Wait.
No, I like Jordan.
Oh, my God.
No, I don't ghosting him.
You're not?
I did not mean to ghost him.
Jordan said that you haven't talked to him for like almost two weeks now.
And he's trying to get a hold of you.
And he responded and he's what he thinks.
No.
No, I liked Jordan.
Wait.
Is he okay?
Where have you been for two weeks?
So let me think.
The morning after, like right after our date, my sister went into labor.
Like early labor, like an emergency fee section early.
But like I sent the whole next day at the hospital.
And then for the next few days, I was running back and forth.
Okay.
From the hospital, helping my sister and my brother-in-law just going to their home,
going back to the hospital, back to work, back and forth.
Like I flew out of town.
You know?
Sorry.
I'm still out of town right now.
And I'm still like friends.
Well, I feel like I feel really bad.
I tell myself I respond like one thing has come down.
But then like things just have not come down.
And so like days, days have like turned into chaos.
I feel really bad.
Okay.
Well, at least Jordan is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.
You're sister, is she okay?
Oh my God.
I need to hug.
I didn't mean to hear.
Hi.
She is okay.
Thank you for asking.
She's great, actually.
She's really happy.
But I'm sorry.
Oh, that's great.
Well, congratulations to your sister and your family.
That's awesome.
I'm not cool.
I'm not cool with you.
Not calling me back for two weeks.
Oh my God.
Oh my God.
I'm really sorry.
I, I, that's on me.
I guess I, I definitely should have texted or something.
But I'm just saying this, I feel like, you know, two weeks is a long time.
And I feel like if we're going to see each other,
so I'm going to be somebody that's going to be seen.
It's, you know, I've got to be a priority too.
You know what I mean?
Wow.
I mean, it's, she, your sister was alone with that.
I had the baby.
I mean, how hard is it to help out without taking 15 minutes to make a phone call?
Wow.
Oh my God.
I, I don't even like, I don't know what to say here because I feel like you were such a different
person on the day and what you're saying now is so, I, I, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like
father-gasted right now.
Like, you, I'm so disgusted.
I don't even, I guess you really don't know what to say.
You're like, I'm the one that's out around for two weeks.
Jordan.
What are you doing?
What are you doing?
I'm a baby.
What did you want me to do?
I left on one date with you.
Yeah, but, but doesn't make any sense.
We had tacos together.
Now, every time I drive by that place, I think of your fish tacos and I think, and I get
upset.
Man, I cried like twice since I've driven past that place.
Why?
Okay.
That's really weird, Jordan.
There's no such thing as leaving someone on ghosted.
This is really, really weird.
Would you like another date with Jordan?
We'll pay for it.
I, you know, I did and now I absolutely don't.
I don't care who pays for it.
I would rather spend time with my sister and my sister's new beautiful baby.
This is so cringe.
Like, I'm so, I'm cringing.
Damn, sorry, at least.
Now listen, it's, it's, it's cool.
We've had the chat.
We've talked about it.
It's no big deal.
Whatever.
It is what it is.
But, you know, tell your sister I said congrats, okay?
Yeah.
That won't mean anything because she doesn't know you.
Hello.
Oh, so I'm saying that, too, doesn't help.
It's a surprise.
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