Mariska Incorporated: Tuesday, September 15th, 2026

0:00Good morning, girl, is it's the tallos? It's Jackson Claude and where your hoes. It's your favorite show, the fast-by-things you need to know. We'll start your day off, swirly, it's the toast. It sound amazing. Welcome back to the toast and happy Tuesday. Hope everybody had a great night. I did it. Watch the family stone. I know. I know. I know. We both did our homework. I watched the Emmys. You watched the family stone so we could come here today and discuss both at nausea. And the streets were really interested to hear what I would think about the family stone. And as predicted, did you feel like S.J.P. was the victim? For a minute. But like, think of the change quickly for her. No, no, no. And actually, at one point, the family did take it too far. Like in the kitchen when she dropped that thing on the floor. Oh, no, but by then they were all good because she really redeemed herself with that present,

1:03which actually brought it to her to my eye. By the time... Oh, so I haven't seen the movie in a while. What was the present? She got everyone. And she's passing out the same gift to everyone. So we're like, what did you get everyone? And they all opened it and it's like a frame photo of the mom, Sybil, just like looking very beautiful and pregnant and like radian. Oh, that's nice. And they were just all moved to tears. I would say by the time the sister came, like S.J.P. is doing better. She's obviously hard to root for. Like, what was she doing and saying at the dinner table? No, dinner table. Like, girl, shut up. What was shut up? And when she was like... She was like, that's not what I mean. And then her boyfriend was like, why don't you say what you mean then? Like, just find the words to say what you mean because it sounds really bad. Georgia Rule is her boyfriend at the time, right? Durant Milroni. Durant Milroni. And then she swore their leaves with Owen Wilson, right? Like the derelict brother? Yes. And then the sister goes with Durant. So it's great. But unfortunately, she still has to join this family that she was never right for in the first place.

2:06And I guess we'll see how that turns out in the long-awaited sequel. Yeah, I guess there will be like a lot of kids. Why was the... not that you would know this because you barely remember the movie, but why was the husband of the pregnant daughter not there? Who... I don't even know what you're talking about. I haven't seen the other... There's a pregnant daughter, Susanna. She's like... she's pregnant and she also has a kid already. And her husband, like, literally only comes on Christmas morning, like, walks in and says, marry Christmas. Like, he wasn't there. I don't know. Like, why? I don't know. Yeah, if someone could sound off if I miss something, like... Is he in the armed forces? I don't know. I watched the M.A.s. one because it's my job and two because, like, I did have to support the main track of television, Miss Mershka Hargote. And, like, I'm sure we'll talk about it in the stories and we'll go through, like, all the winners and stuff. But in her monologue, first of all, she was cracking me up. Like, she did a good job. And I feel like a lot of the times when you're a comedian, you write a lot of the jokes. But she's just, like, an actress in a house. Like, everything was written for her, so I was a little bit afraid that, like, it wouldn't be, like, good or personal.

3:06It was funny. Like, obviously, some of this chick was stupid. But she did what she was supposed to do. Like, she brought Jalen Brunson and Taylor Swift into her pre-recorded sketches and, like, thank you, Quaid. And we got, like, 11 lawn-awder jokes. Like, thank you. That's all we need to bring me out. And, um... Oh, and in her monologue, she was, like, I'm the first woman to host the Emmys in 15 years. And, like, seriously, she shouldn't have said that because that's genuinely embarrassing, like, for Hollywood, which claims to be, like, this extremely inclusive, progressive institution. It's like, wait, we're still doing that, like, first woman, like... What? It was just kind of, like, awkward when she said it. I guess, but it also, like, it makes it a huge woman for her. So she should have her flowers. No, of course. She should not get them because they should be embarrassed. Of course, but, like, every speech, you know, every, you know, at classical wardrobe stuff, even though I found that it wasn't, like, a terribly annoying wardrobe. No one was being, like, so patronizing. They just loved to say, what we do is so important, we're storytellers. It's, like, we find... Not yet, but, by the way, that's kind of me. But what firefighters do is so important. Do you know what I mean? Like, they just were putting themselves on the same level as firefighters? And they're... They're the fireies.

4:06Correct. Like, this just sense of, like, real importance. And, like, Sally Field, she was like, it started in the caves and the fires. And it's like, okay, like, you're just, like, doing movies. It was a good time. I actually enjoyed it. I enjoyed it. And the... I think I need to watch Windows Bay. I've never heard of it until last night and it won every award. And so, it was a lovely evening. For the small screen. I'm so glad the last few award shows I've watched. I've, like, deeply regretted. And I think I'm in a place of boycott right now. So I was not going to watch the Emmy. Said, I'm glad I had homework to do because I maybe would have felt conflicted. But, like, no, no. It got really bad towards the end of last award season. So I'm on hand. There are various types of award shows, right? Like, music, TV. I find the music ones, like, way more tolerable. Because at the end of the day, we're getting performances. Yeah, you are. And even if you, like, don't agree with the winners or you find it, like,

5:07you still get music. And that's always fun. There was one performance last night during the memoriam with Noah Khan. So, like, wasn't like, I didn't watch it. Why? Sounds so sleep. It was only at the end. Like, I'm sorry. I was such a long award show. I watched a movie. I think there was a tribute to Dolly. Where's there? I heard, like, I saw this morning there was, like, Reba. And... Oh, oh, I missed something huge. Who was that? I'm sorry. Like, I gave two hours of my time. I feel that if you can't get the whole show in in the two hours. And maybe if you took less commercial breaks, that was insane. It was literally, like, one award commercial break, one award commercial break. So many commercial breaks. I give people complain about the ads on this show. Like, take your complaints to the Hollywood Farm Press. Like, that was an insane amount of commercials. And at least we do ours with, like, style and pizzazz and comedy. Like, oh, my God, it was dreadful. It's, sure. Sally Field and Reba led an emotional tribute to Dolly Parton at the Emmys. Oh, I must have missed that, my bad. But I feel that I saw the, the, the gist of the program.

6:07Yeah. So Big winner was Widow's Bay. Anything else? No worthy? Um, actually, we're going to talk about, like, some of the no worthy things for me Emmys, that, like, everyone will care about. But I just want to say, Mariska did a great job. We got, like, her whole family there, Peter Herman. Like, anytime we get the Herman, hard to take crew out of the house, it's a good day. Do you think this is the, because now, remembering our conversation about Mariska hosting the Emmys and like, my prediction that she will be like the next Kelly Clarkson. Um, did you say that because I was thinking last night that she's actually giving Kelly, like, she could be the next household name in this country, America's sweetheart, you know, products line TV show. She's just like very warning. She's got the Rachel Ray formula. Yes. Um, so do you think that last night was the beginning of like Mariska Incorporated? One thousand percent. You want to know why she was not divisive at all. She didn't make any political jokes. And I think like we always say about Kelly, the reason why a lot of people can't fill her shoes is because they almost can't help themselves, but like put their personal thoughts and agenda and political. And which I totally understand.

7:07That's why we said pink wouldn't be a good host. Because she's very principled on a lot of political issues. I feel that Mariska just wanted to entertain. And I think that she would make an amazing Kelly. And like I'm ready for the way fair for Mariska Mariska Harkertate for Way Fairline. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. She's on her way. I feel like we're going to see more of that. And she gave us like looks too. Like she changed every time she came on stage. She did a hilarious game of thrones. But like she was actually cracking me up. She's funny. Like we don't get to see her in that light a lot because she's like a sex crimes detective. But she was like joking just about like she said something funny. She was like I won my first Emmy in 2000, whatever for Olivia Benson. I've never really clapped. And she's like and I want a number of them since that day. That number being zero. She was just funny. She had good delivery. She looked like seriously a plus choice. I never would have thought like so random. But she is she doesn't even get enough credit just because she's so like embedded in culture. She's literally the matriarch of daytime television. Not even daytime. She's holding it together.

8:08Yeah. And she like what is they're going on to their 20th season. Like she doesn't get enough credit for being the hardest working woman in Hollywood. I think credit starts now. I think this is the beginning of a beautiful journey from her ishka. Yeah, maybe like her she was raising her kids so she was happy just to have this like consistent gig with lawn order. It films in New York. She loves in New York. She doesn't have to like miss out on the recitals and stuff. But now because I saw picture of her kids they're like kind of grown like little preteens. So maybe now she can start doing things outside of just Olivia Benson. A homewear line. A cooking show. No more recitals. No more recitals. Yeah. I got the vibe that like maybe this is kind of like a like a debut aunt Kitson Yara like a coming out party for more. Yeah, the beginning of I think the five point plan. I live and I love live left love. We're sure that it's like probably like new representation. They have a mood board. Yep. Marish. And she definitely like needs the backing of like a VC firm to take her product line her beauty line and just make it come to life. Maybe like food line. Yeah.

9:09Big Salon Mowne is we have to have great stories today. Actually four out of the five stories could have been number one story of the day. So the first four will be in like no particular order but just know like they're all fighting for the number one spot. We also have to your toaster. But it's usually the opposite like none of these stories are number one story. Not usual. I've never had this problem of four number one. Yeah, this is a great problem to have. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But so don't be like, oh, why is like Michael Moore number four? Like he could be number one on a different day. I don't feel that he would ever be number one. That story is what could have been. No, sorry. I was just saying like Macklemore in general. The story could be maybe it will be number one. Let's see where the conversation goes. But that's big news. We also have to your toasters and we also just like have a lot to do. So I won't really tell you too much. But I did want to say. Talk about one thing I went down a rabbit hole yesterday. Like I'm not sure if anyone's following because it's all happening in Europe. Like Celine Dion's big comeback. So I watched her documentary. If you've seen the documentary, like you know,

10:09okay, she was diagnosed with stiff person syndrome in 2021. And she basically lost all motor function. Her documentary was chilling because she had like a live seizure on the documentary while she was getting a massage. And they kept the whole thing and it was like very graphic and deeply disturbing. But I think that it was a real window into what it's like to live with that chronic illness. And over the years, you know, we've heard from her very briefly. She did perform at the Olympics. And that was like a really big deal. I do believe her condition got way worse after that. And then a little while ago, I remember she went on Hoda and was talking about how like she's in the process of rebuilding now. Like basically how like, you know, you get in a car crash. You have to learn how to walk. Like she had to learn how to do everything. And that includes singing. She like lost complete control of her vocal chords. So she's literally taught herself how to sing. And over the weekend, she had her first show back. I think it was in France. Brian Kelly was there. So I was like following the whole thing through Brian's Instagram. And now I've seen like a million clips. It is actually like, it's the craziest thing to watch. First of all, her voice sounds completely different. Like you can tell like, it's almost sounds like a different person singing.

11:10And first of all, she sounds amazing. She doesn't sound like herself. And I feel that, you know, she, her, she sounded like everything was so much harder for her. Like she used to belt out these lyrics. Like not even move. Like it was nothing to her. She's so focused. She's trying so hard. She sounded incredible. It's very emotional. Like you have to watch these videos. Of course, she's serving looks. And she's like still being her Celine Dionne's self. But she sounds really different. But it's literally amazing to see somebody like literally completely rebuilt. Just basically teach them. So it's like literally we sat down one day. I was like, I'm going to learn how to sing. Like couldn't even talk. It's the most insane thing ever. She said, Jacqueline. And I do think now she's going to go like do a series of shows. Not just this one comeback show. It's a beautiful thing to watch. I think it's very inspiring to people with chronic illnesses, like especially stiff person syndrome. Yeah. Wow. Okay. I have to see the videos. You do have to see the videos. Like it's insane. It's very emotional. I'm curious to hear what she sounds like. If it's so different. It's so different. And then I think her big thing was like she really wanted to hit that one note. And all by myself. It's like, anyway. And that's like her whole. That's like her thing her whole life.

12:10I think that's what I made her famous back in the day. The video of it first of all, she slighted it. Like she hit it hardcore. I saw some other videos. She doesn't hit every note. It's not a perfect performance. She's like literally rebuilding. But this particular note, like I think, means the world to her. And that's like her whole. That's like her thing, her whole life. I saw some other videos. She doesn't hit every note. It's not a perfect performance. She's like literally rebuilding. But this particular note, like I think, means the world to her. It was like I actually started crying when I watched it. It was beautiful. Like really beautiful. Oh wow. It's kind of one of the great tragedies of our time. Like Celine Dion is one of the greatest vocalists in the modern era. Like maybe in the last 100 years. And she got diagnosed with this illness that robbed her of that. And it's kind of a modern tragedy. Yeah. I was talking about her. It was so sad. If you haven't seen it, it's on prime. Yeah. Okay. I was embedded to the premiere. Then I met Kelly Clarkson. I remember. I just wanted to share that really annoying fun fact. That's a good fun fact. Yeah. You're free to forget. You're free to share that. Thank you. You're well. Do you feel, like sometimes you forget famous people that you've met?

13:10Maybe. But I think I forget like fun facts. You know what? What people would be like, what's like the craziest thing that's ever happened? Or like, you know, we just had this conversation about close on Sunday. Yeah. Right. Who do you think is the most famous person you've ever met? I can't even rack my brain. And what do you mean met? Like. Like either taking a photo with or chatted with like not just been in the same room. Because yeah, okay Taylor Swift, I went to our concert. We were in the same room. No, but or like do you do a meet and greet? That counts. That counts. If you exchanged words, photos, glances, that counts. Besides me, obviously. Um, who was I just like I met Miley Cyrus once? That's what I was saying. The most famous. That's like my most famous celebrity like run in, you know, run it. Yeah. That's different than like being an advent or something. Yeah.

14:10And before he was who he is now and he was just sort of like the wonder kid building spaceships. I met Elon Musk at like a party and he was like, I love your blog and I was like, okay. And I always forget that that happened because he's like Elon then is different than Elon now. But I feel like that's probably the most famous person I've ever met. That's a very famous person. Yeah. And even understand the magnitude of it at the time. I've met Kim. I've met Kim. Yeah. Yes, I've met Kim. Yeah. Yeah. And she's the most famous person in the world. So that's the most famous person. When did you meet Kim? Like a work like you wouldn't even know it was probably like 10 years ago. But like it was a work event. It was um, I feel like it's not bringing up any memories. It wouldn't. I would like I think it was like a corporate thing. Corporate back in my corporate days. Oh, okay. Oh, I'm sorry to William. That's like really up there too. It was a corporate meeting. Yeah. Corporate meeting of the minds. Yeah. Cool. Very cool.

15:10Super. I love celebrities. Super cool. Super cool. Super cool. Yeah, I feel like I'm like, I'm literally Megan Fox in confessions of a teenage drama queen. Like I feel that my worth is directly tied to like how we celebrate. You are a Megan and Stewel. Like into his party. Like whenever that was like exactly. I forget you had like a birthday party or something. And someone like famous was like there. I'm not going to remember. It was literally 10 years ago. But I was on a sounding familiar. And I told you you were being like Megan Fox and Stewel. There was somebody famous at my birthday party. Yeah, like a million years ago. Like maybe someone from the bachelor or something. Oh, okay. I guess we're like fast and loose with the word famous. That meant everything to us then. Back in the day. It's so true. And I said yesterday, which is like, I don't know. Famous like celebrities. I don't really do it for me. Now. Yeah. I'm at Alex or all. So I guess Alex or I would be the most herni-laun most. I'm really like in my influencer era. Like I only care about the influencers. I wonder if other people feel that way at all. Like I don't know.

16:10I find celebrities so boring. But the exception of like Taylor Swift and select field. Yes. When it comes to who I would rather be in a room with. Like a bunch of boring actors or like a bunch of viral TikToks. Like I'm not going to be in a room with a bunch of boring actors. Like I'm not going to be in a room with a bunch of boring actors. Or like a bunch of viral TikTok and YouTubers. Like, yeah, I think I'd go for the latter. Honestly. Maybe it's because like that whole parasocial element where it feels like we really know them. I don't know what it is. But they, at least for me, just like eclipsed interest. They're more interesting. Yeah. So good job. I think a lot of people feel that way. Good job influencers. You're doing good job influencers. Yeah. Consider me influenced for sure. Now, I feel like we should dive in. We do have like a shit ton to do today. Yeah. And like, there's a lot of things that we need to talk about in tandem of like what we already talked about. Like Taylor and Mershka. So without further ado to do to do. And it's time for the fast-eye stories that you don't do. We need to know the fast-eye stories that you need to know are brought to you by SmartMouth.

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23:32Thank you, Tertuccino. You're welcome. I feel like did you ever watch the fruit AI like soap opera. Yeah. And their names are always banana cheetah. Like because it's a banana and then it's like orange you know. Yeah, and your Tertuccino. I'm Tertuccino. Yeah. Our first story Taylor Swift appears at the chiefs game last night chatting with Tom Cruise as they cure on Travis Kelsey at the first chiefs game of the season. So I forgot this is something that happens. But the chiefs played last night. Travis's wife Taylor was in attendance sitting next to Tom Cruise. Taylor's back. Going to turn me for comment. Okay, I feel that last night between the Mershka Hargote pre taped segment and her in real life at the chiefs game. I'm a very, very good look at the new haircut. And might say I love it. Like it's really inspired. I didn't even know what to call it because it's not a lob. But it's not like mid either. It's a very unique length. And I think it looks great, especially for a girl who like relatively never changes her hair like if she had her curly era.

24:38And like that's pretty much it and then the bangs like she's kind of consistent in that. And getting her criss-crossed scary. I just want to say I love it. Like I really love it. I love it too. Are you talking about the hair so much because you're avoiding having to deal with the fact that you choose with Tom Cruise your mortal enemy? No, I'm not. I hate to just like lead with negativity because as you guys know, I'm not that type of person. Yeah, of course. Like devastating to see my biggest like little my role model sitting with my op Tom Cruise. Like because one thing about me. I keep my foot on the neck of Tom Cruise. Now do I think that this is a poor reflection on Taylor and like the people on Twitter who are like it's so disappointing to see her. No, because I'm not a loser. But it is so disappointing. Yeah, good. I think also I like to see her were like interacting with famous people like I don't care. They could just wind up in the same box. I don't think he's like now the personal guest of Taylor. No, he is because as we know Taylor. Taylor personal guest. Yeah, Taylor exclusively goes to games at Arrowhead. She like won't go to other stadiums. And it's because like she has her setup there.

25:39I believe that they're in the same suite every time it's her suite or it's Travis's suite because there's always like Travis's family. So no one is in there because they like had some extra tickets and they gave them to the marketing department like no he was a guest of Travis and Kelsey. Travis Travis. Maybe it's like he's a guest of Travis. Yeah, and I just want to say like there's nothing wrong with being a Tom Cruise fan like. Like he is like one of the biggest movie stars in American history. I do like that like in recent years like Taylor doesn't give a fuck. I feel like she used to be like so afraid of any sort of scandal that she would shy away from like maybe a potential friendship because like Tom Cruise is bad PR like whatever. I like that she doesn't care. She likes her friends canceled. I do think that that's something that comes with maturity. And so I like that. It is because it's also not even about like if you did like your friends canceled you would be friends with like lively. So it's like what are you talking about? Or like Kelly Taylor like what's literally what's going on? So I like that she doesn't give a fuck. Yeah. I just like we would have been more exciting to see her there like sitting next to Chloe Kardashian.

26:41You know what I mean? Like if I had to choose anyone like I didn't choose and Tom Cruise by the way fun fact. Chloe Kardashian is a big fan of your favorite creator. The one who meal preps. You're kidding. She knows our girl. She's been commenting on her videos. Chloe is literally so real. What's the name of us? What's the name? It's them something. Do you mean the name of my favorite creator? Yeah. She just say her name because it's literally so different. Oh, them hovers. Them hovers. Oh, she's like saying that's probably the name of her family. Yeah. Her name is Cindy Hofer and her handle is them hovers. We keep talking about her, but we like can't we forget the name. So that's her name. Chloe is a big fan. Chloe leaves comments. Chloe loves reels by the way. Yeah, she's a reels mama. I like seriously love this woman with my whole life. No, me too. That's my goal. Like I want to be like her. She made like an amazing meal prep this week. She does every week. Like pizza rolls just insane. No, I will buy her in due time.

27:42Keenwa bites. So good. And she's a Cowboys fan. Oh, she from Texas. I always got the vibe that she was Southern. I have no idea. I'm just sort of falling along for the ride. You know, yeah, I love her. I would like that for Chloe. I do. I do like that for Chloe comments. It like you're amazing. Taylor took like a big break last season from going to games even at Arrowhead. Remember we were like wondering if it was because she got like a botched face lift or like she was a first stalker. There were a lot of different theories, but I guess she's back. Once you're married, like you got to go. Yeah. And I think, you know, the face lift has set. It looks really good. So she didn't time it perfectly. She probably timed it perfectly for the wedding, but she didn't time it perfectly for the Talawha press run. Yeah. And the beginning of football season because she has to be hiding. Right. And it's hard to find time to get a facelift when you're a public figure. Like when our time comes, I don't know what we're going to do.

28:42Well, you know, I'm very conflicted about getting a facelift. Okay. Because obviously my conflict is that I love plastic surgery and I'm a believer that like if you need something, get something and I'm sure I'll need one. I know I will need a lip lift one day. Like it's in my future. But I feel that people genuinely underestimate like how big of a procedure a facelift is. Like it's not like boob jobs are like low key standard. Like no jobs to like you do recover in like a week. And also like we could do. I'm like, Matt, I said we could do this show recovering from a boob job. Oh, yeah. I mean, I mean, I have no shame. I'll sit here with the thing on my face. You'll sit there wrapped up. Yeah. It's more so that I feel that it's a major, major recovery that I'm really not prepared for. I'm not a good patient. No, you're not. Do you remember when I got like one thing done to my chin and like seriously never never stopped talking about it? Yeah. Yeah. No, I agree. Maybe you're not. Olivia said she could hear me. Olivia picked me up. She said she could hear me from screaming from the waiting room. And also as much as you said, I'll sit here with a bandage like you wouldn't be able to talk your face off.

29:42For over an hour a day recovering from a facelift. Like it's not just about that you're wearing a bandage like you're in pain. I think you forget I'm the girl who got a public IV on this podcast. I used to podcast hungover. You could do that. You could do anything. It's not true. That's not a deal. But you're not even listening to what I'm saying. Like I don't think I have the Constitution to go through such like a major major procedure. I think people underestimate generally what goes into getting a facelift. Sorry, I skipped over that point because I hardly agreed. And there is enough said like I'm scared. I'm not doing it. I think I'm more scared of the facelift than I am of looking old and ugly. Yeah. That's fair. So I think I'll stick with like Botox fillers like literally everything but like only because I'm afraid like but from the neck down. I'll look 26 face up. But will that not make you look older? At least they're talking about me.

30:42You know, yeah, anyways, I'll just say like it's give them something. It's a good. It is hard to time your facelift as a public figure. Yeah, yeah. However, because like we said, it's a major surgery. One year later, she's looking amazing. Settled flawlessly. Yeah. She looked, it was a great night for Taylor like she just looked and she's also like in an off era for her. Right. She hasn't done any work professionally since T. Law was it's like Travis's time. She was planning a wedding. Right. Right. She was getting married and then she's done. And I don't know what when she does start working and stuff like what that means for her football attendance. Yes, well, we'll get to that in the next story sort of, but I just wanted to say one more note about Taylor that people were noting was that she wasn't drinking. Yes, I of course saw the theories, the Taylor Swift stomach watch dogs. I'm with them like she also could have just not been drinking like maybe she had to wake up early. It doesn't mean anything. She doesn't usually have a vacacoda in her in her. But I think that if she were pregnant, then she would go to the effort to pretend like she could just get a cup of ice water.

31:46And it wouldn't raise any time. With a lime. So I actually think because she wasn't drinking, that's more of a clue that she's not. This is the girl who shows up to her shows in a refrigerator like she goes. There's no length she won't go to to like pull the ball over your eyes 1000%. So she could pour herself a little drink. A little seltzer. A couple of grape juice. She's not even going to pour it herself. Like someone's going to pour it for her. Yeah. So I don't think that that's a smoking gun at all. I don't mean either. I would love for the gun to be smoky as hell. But I don't think it is. Yeah. I don't think it is. Okay. Well, it does lead into our next story, which is a bit of Emmy's discussion, including the Easter Egg video that Taylor Swift did with Olivia Benson, the sketch, the SVU sketch. Apparently there's a lot of Easter eggs in there. Well, the concept of the sketch was very funny. Yes. They were like trying to solve a crime in the SVU office. ICT everyone was a Rollins. And the crime, no, not the crime. Like the question that they were trying to solve using all these like different clues was Will Taylor Swift, attend the Emmys. And they're like going through all the different shows and what it could possibly mean.

32:48And then the new guy shows up Taylor, the detective. She's like, I think you guys have got this all backwards. And whatever they end up getting to the conclusion that of course she's not going to attend the Emmys. Her husband has a football game that night. The answer lies in TV. And then her and Marish can do is like cute. It was very, very first of all funny. Like me and Ben were cracking. It was well written. Of course, because that is how the Swifties are with her clues like putting them on the board like detectives. And we actually got clues from Taylor last night. Right. So here are some things on the board. Okay. We have Tuesday 8 AM. The clock is set to 1013. And 1013, October 13th is a Tuesday. So then we have Tuesday 8 AM, October 13th. Question mark. Personally, like I do draw the line with the Easter eggs. Like I feel that my, you know, we all have a role to play in the war to come. And my role as a Swiftie is not the decoding department.

33:51I'm not sitting down with my cork board. I can't get involved in these types of things. I really can't. We have DTF, St. Louis. What's that? TV show. Great. Thank you so much. Because they were also using like the TV shows nominated last night to lie. Yes, yes, yes. There's a lot of elementary is here hacks. Elementary. Elementary. Just that I'd switch it up. Elementary. And then there's also speculation like based on this that two Taylor's versions are in here. Two albums. Because it said two TV. TV could be the television because it was the M.E.s or it could be Taylor's version. And then also when she said it all comes back to TV, that could also be a Taylor's version. Not. Yeah, even though we're yeah, yeah, north south. I do think like without getting too specific into this one, I'm setting a alarm October 13th, 8 am. Two, I do think this is the beginning of clues. Like I think some like like how you said, just do for an album.

34:52And you said, see, I'm a her going the same. My last haul. I think we're on the road of an announcement. And you know that her clothes are always a part of the universe. And her like gingham, Southerny country dress last night, like was giving CMA country album of the air. Yeah. Yeah. I think we're on the road. I think we're on the road too. It's exciting to be on the road. It's frustrating and annoying, but it's also exciting, especially at this point. It's one of the worst places to be like at this point right here. So the road gets really rocky when it's like all for a special additional vinyl vinyl album. All for merch. Yeah. Yeah, I agree. But when it's all for something, I'm sad. Agreed. And then do you want to talk about Emmy winners? Oh, yeah. Nothing. I feel like there wasn't the pit was like the most nominated. Actually, at one point, I think in like the supporting actress category, there were four actresses from the pit.

35:52None of them won. I feel like they split the vote. Like Alson Jenny won. They split the vote. It was so random. But so there wasn't, I feel like a show actually Widow's Bay probably. I kept calling it. Me and Ben were talking about where like what is this show? Widow's peep. Widow's Bay. Widow's Bay. What's it about? I have no idea it's a comedy. It sounds like it's about a lot of like wealthy widows who live on the bay. No, I saw the clips. Nobody looks wealthy. Okay. There is a bay. She's a very wealthy widower. I'm not sure if that was a good guy. That's just a good guy. A new England mayor trying to boost tourism on his island and navigate strange events, suggesting it might be cursed. That sounds great. We dodged like a major bullet. Thank you to the Lord and the voting, voting members of the Emmy Academy for not voting for Hannah on Mender. Like I personally could not have sat through one of her speeches. Aquine she won and I think I don't know what this is against but What is it like four or five seasons of hacks? She's won every single year Wow And now the show's over so it was like very much everybody gave her a standing ovation

36:55It was very like conclusive wow has that ever happened before No, there were a couple of records that guy Matthew Reese. Yeah, he's in two different shows the diplomat and Widow's Bay and he got nominated for both as like lead actor and one both You mean he got nominated two different categories For two different shows yes, but in two different characters. Yes. Yes. Okay. Okay. He won twice like supporting actor lead actor in a comedy and lead actor in a drama Yeah, an eliminated series Oh, and then the weird thing was but they had a category of um Can you read me the categories which one did Sally Fieldwin? Um, I'm my way my birthday buddy Yeah She won lead actress in a limited or anthology series. So that's in a like a mini series Okay, uh What she won for remarkably bright creatures was a movie okay? When they included her in the nominations, I'm like well she can't win. She's not in a series. Are you positive?

37:55But I watch it okay. Are you sure? It was a two hour long movie you're you're sure about that. I'm sure it was a movie Okay, and so I thought it was weird that she won and her speech she said something like Loki like Helad is respectful Her first thing was that like she wanted to thank the woman who wrote the book For writing this amazing story about a man a woman an octopus. So shout out shelvee band pelter whatever your name is I was like Is that a joke? But then the rest of her speech was so serious. I was like I was actually really shook by that comment. That's really crazy Maybe it like stems from something Maybe they'd be or it's like a joke or they have not I don't know maybe they have jokes But yeah, that is weird to the naked eye and I thought it was weird that she won Because you didn't like it No because it's a movie oh, everything else nominated was a series right Claire Danes beast and Nate Carrie Mulligan beef Sarah pigeon Sarah Snoop The fanning sisters like kind of sisters night out. They were both nominated for like separate TV shows

38:56Margaret's got many troubles and she's in um the Sarah Snoop one what the hell was it called tell me all her fault Yeah And they were just like in the front rail like having the time of their lives I don't think either of them one, but they were just happy to be there That's so cute. That's where I would have liked to have sat That's really cute. They're obviously spending a lot of time together working on the nightingale As they motherfucking should gets work. I think they were working on it like it's being worked on good um So yeah, I guess pit one best drama for the Noah Wilde one also like for his lead actor comedy Widows Bay limited series DTF St. Louis. Truly. I've never heard of it. Um, I thought it was the like the traders one and the traders returns this week The nobody's for nobody's and they won for competition series Reality competition program reality yeah dancing with the stars tonight and then traders later on in the week And it's the one without celebrities I wonder if it's gonna be so much better or so much worse I think it might be like if you're into games I think it will be better on the gaming and people don't know who each other are who smart who's not

39:56The other show like has that inherent flaw that all the smart people get out first Yeah, it's so true. It's annoying. Yeah, so I think if you're into like actually the art of the game It will be better and yeah, I'm down Um, okay, that's your emis recap abridged emis recap Yeah, I like to our next story is a little more tv news Michaela Matthews from secret lives of Mormon wives and now insists her exit After hearing recent news that she said went against her morals So Michaela Matthews from secret lives and Mormon wives posted yesterday that she will not be returning to the show She said I made my decision over a week ago after hearing some news that I will not be continuing the show at this moment In her post she said that she was no longer comfortable being a part of the show Which she said was platforming behavior she didn't agree with especially given her own experience growing up in a home with multiple forms of abuse There's no amount of money worth going against my morals are changing the stance I've had since I first saw and heard the things that made me feel the strong lane She added though she did not share further details and for her personally

40:58She said continuing to directly profit from this behavior feels wrong and unethical It feels like a disservice to the children everyone's healing and the millions of people watching Supporting an adult doesn't mean constantly making excuses for toxic behavior while giving unconditional sympathy and grace with zero accountability or change I was in that enabling cycle for years and I'm not going to be a part of it again Give yourself a pat on the back it is first of all I was just not expecting Let me let me rephrase This shocked me for a multitude of reasons it's hard to imagine that anyone would walk away from a show That's like literally just making you so much money Prey money To walk away Because it conflicts directly with your core values Is something that only somebody with an enormous amount of integrity does and to be honest like I never saw that for Michaela Like I maybe I just don't know her but like she wasn't giving me the vibe that she was like this extreme stand-up citizen

42:01Like who would who would do something like this? I was so shocked. I was very impressed like her statement was There's so everyone's walks the walk condemns this condemns that but nobody would actually walk away and and hurt themselves Everybody still continues to profit it you know inadvertently platform it by putting themselves on the show and It's a huge sign of like unseen maturity I don't know and someone who has a serious problem with what's going on which is a lot of people They might be like you know what I'm gonna go on the show and I'm gonna tell them like But to actually walk away to be like that mature and evolved to be like I don't want any part of it So I don't want to be seen to support this in any way I don't care if it's a detriment of like my finances and my career like my Morals and my values are more important to me Wow Wow, I just I I was shocked reading this Genuinely and it also pretty much confirms that production will continue

43:02To film with Taylor And we knew that yeah um I wonder what she found out last week. Yes, like what is the more stuff And I remember even when the production pause happened and then the video came out of the barstools I remember the girls like Miranda and people were saying like there's so much more that you guys don't know like We had to pause because we found out all this stuff and like there's so much more there's so much more And I just feel like they're always saying there's so much more like can someone tell us because it's really hard to Judicate when we have is the more in the room with us 10% of the information it seems like it's so true Michaela and Taylor were like beefing on tiktok yeah Michaela had posted Some like snarky tiktok towards Taylor it was some responding to when Taylor said in the show like Michaela needs to be humbled and then Taylor posted like something in response about how like uh she commented on a creator's video who was like recapping the drama And she was like this is bullying at this point um and pretty sure she spelled it be you ll

44:04ing which is the way they pronounce it bully bull like They say so many things for real no and they say like understand like they always have an sh in place of access That is very real yeah um and then I saw a comment like Oh that Michaela won't associate with anyone Who is associated with Taylor she like cut off like Miranda or something because she's associated with Taylor And then Taylor posted a video of like screenshots of jace following Taylor Being like well your man is still Associates with me and I think Like i'm sure jace didn't know that he's still followed Taylor No, and i'm sorry all of Taylor's tiktok's recently are about her like finding the lord and finding celibacy And so it's like if you really are wanting us to believe you're on this hilling journey um why Why the fuck are you like making tiktok's about Michaela's man, you know Yeah Yeah, and then i saw a really strange comment by Taylor that like Hasn't been dissected yet so i feel like it might not be what i think it's about but it was something about like

45:05I don't even want to repeat it Because i think i made how my wires cost like i can't imagine she would say something like this like to jace and Michaela Speak it was like something About like thinking like using Taylor in the bedroom or something i don't know I have to find she's disgusting. I have to wait i think i if you give me a minute I don't want to like Yes, i will also take jackey pointed out to me yesterday that Michaela is currently I think in Milan or somewhere with all the women they're clearly filming So i do think similar to how we found out Whitney was leaving but then we still got a season I think we will have one more season with Michaela and then that'll be that but they're sort of dropping like flies over there How do you find like drama information? You know what i mean um you could google like salama Michaela t- well it probably happened on tiktok. What exactly are you looking for? A comment that Taylor Frankie Paul left on In a tiktok You know i meant about jace? Yes

46:06Gemini's trying to help me Oh found it. What is it? So he had commented Okay, so she made a tiktok saying let me get this straight She cuts off anyone that supports me So who's gonna tell her? Oh, I guess he can and it's the fact that jace still follows her So jace commented what the hell? This is how I find out you don't follow me anymore That's funny And she said i'm so irrelevant you thought of me to seek advice in the bedroom I guess when they were going to their intimacy issues maybe he reached out to Taylor because she's like sort of like the advanced one in the group Is that what happened? I thought that would come in I'm guessing i'm guessing it's so inappropriate Taylor is a fucking crazy person like she really is She really is well that was easy to find you got to get on tiktok. How did you do it? How'd you find it? I searched Taylor freaky paul comment jace and it came up the comment just shows up We kept videos like drama channels drama channels. Yeah, I don't see you think I've heard the drama channels We kind of are a drama channel. We are I always like I don't want to be at all, but when they show those clips in

47:07Secret lives of course I know on the drama I'm like Surprised and glad that we're not on there Well, I know that we're not on there because we have been used and they have to reach out for rights For ed like they like you've decided over the license and stuff So I knew we weren't gonna be on it and honestly like I didn't want to be a part of that so well When they use people's tiktok videos do they have to get the rights maybe not? I have no idea Because I feel like maybe that's why they do tiktok. Yeah. Yeah. I think so too Yeah, that's why they have to have to license it. That's why they don't include No, I didn't just want to be on No, I want to say just when I was starting to like me Kayla. She disappears I respect this decision wholeheartedly like it's very rare to see someone walk the walk and talk the talk. Yeah, and I commend her She will be missed I saw macy people were commenting me see like are you also leaving? She was like I'm you know filming now and Thinking about it. So I just feel like she's getting pressure to also like do the in like the integrity thing And she's like not doing it. I understand it. It's like this terrible person is gonna come in the way of me supporting for my family

48:10Like no, I can't make the argument like you know what I'll have you know I can be more effective if I'm on the show and I'm calling out the behavior and I'm raising the red flag And that is a good argument too, but like just to walk away from it is so mature and and a Big of a person and I just hope that in the last two years like she's made more money Then she'll ever really need and she can live comfortably and she'll have brand deals and she's tons of followers Yeah, she'll still make a ton of money just for being like a high profile influencer Yeah, you don't and that's what we were saying about like that tier of girls who like never like really yes Switched up their life too much Have enjoyed all the benefits, but do you see McAleous house like she seriously lives in I think the same house since season one Like she doesn't seem to live beyond her means. Yeah, so I think that's great for her and it's a good place to be up Because then you don't need to show and then you can leave on your own terms And I also think that she's definitely on season six which is gonna be like the batch lorette fallout because that was months ago And she may be even filmed after that like she's gonna do the same way Whitney quit the show But we still watching her we're going to be watching her for like at least another year before

49:14She's out I bet this just makes like Whitney feel good about her decision like everything that's happened because she made her decision Before all of this and now it's like yeah, who the hell wants to be a part of this. It's so low brow No, but she made her decision. I thought after like the batch lorette drama No, because it was her decision was all about like Broadway It had nothing to do with the fact that like the show was in jambals. No, but like right now in the show Whitney's on Broadway And the bad chart is about to come out slash no Did Whitney leave the show like three weeks into Broadway? So I got a question. I feel like yeah, I feel like she left it when she started Broadway, but we're following her She's on the season when she starts Broadway That's When did Whitney lev it leave secret lives announced announced She Announced her exit may fourth So when was the batch lorette I think it was like eight bro

50:15Was batch right before Westman when did ABC cancel the batch lorette march March So yeah, after I guess I make the decision easier like oh, this is becoming this used to be like a fun show And now it's seriously like trash yeah, and of course you can say CPS of course you can say like production should you know take Taylor off the show and Michaela be on the show But it's like they're not gonna do that The show needs Taylor's chaos in order to be a show and Michaela's never gonna shoot to that level. So like this is just it's wrong, but it's the way it goes It's wrong, but it's right It's wrong, but it's the way it goes and I just think everyone should have immense respect for her I agree like seriously kudos to you. Yeah, and I do want to know like the more stuff Yeah, everybody's gonna need to stop like pussy footing around the more yeah, hopefully next season in what six months

51:16That season was too sure we really needed like a part two it wasn't a season like that's a thing It's it was a part one. I feel like we're in a midseason finale I feel like that too Yeah, I mean like a month don't drag it out. We might lose interest. Yeah, I almost did by the time the show came out like No, I'm sorry the second I started watching I said I'm so bad. Oh the second I started watching but like before I'm like I never really thought about it in a while So yeah, I haven't thought about it in a while either just know Okay, our next story Maccomor has been dropped from the ed Sheeran tour after his free Palestine speech at a September 4th concert at MetLife Stadium in New Jersey So ed Sheeran had a tour going on a stadium tour and he had tapped Maccomor to open for him and on September 4th Maccomor did it just so and turned it into um an opportunity a political rally To make it a rally for Palestine stating free Palestine wanting everyone in Gaza Occupied West Bank to know that they had not been forgotten

52:20Of course people were upset about this there was like petitions for him to drop Maccomor which he wouldn't have done because he chose him and Maccomor has been this person for many years He does like Jew face he dresses up as a Jew he does Hitler salutes against an intentional choice because it's not like he's this Insanely popular in demand artists who you want on your tour like no There is almost like that's who's opening for ed Sheeran no He's certainly like a washed up has been artist who now just makes headlines because uses like political Movement like Israel and free Palestine free Palestine free Palestine so since that I didn't really I hadn't been paying attention So I'm like this is the world now you know what I mean like yeah this stuff just happens go and I don't know what that means But I can't think about it all the time and pay attention to it and like fuck it Sheeran Fuck Maccomor I'm on my way, you know yeah There are so many people involved in this and I don't know if I have a lesser opinion of anyone more than I do ed Sheeran Well, so here's what happened because and there was a signature with a protest with a bunch of signatures

53:24Like drop him, but like he would never But then Robert Kraft slammed his dick on the table and told the Ed Sheeran that he could not bring his tour to Gillette stadium If Maccomor was the opening artist and he also said a bunch of other stadium Stadium owners are in agreement and he cannot tour there now He is set to play like 10 more stadium shows in the US. I think Maccomor was gonna open for him at eight of them And they sort of forced Ed's hand and Ed dropped Maccomor from the show And to be honest like I said like I don't know if I Think I don't know I don't know what I thought about Ed Sheeran before but like I now hold such a low opinion Because he couldn't make the decision to drop Maccomor based on his own values and he also like almost Hired him like the hiring seems so random to me because like I said this is a huge stadium tour like Sabrina Carpenter Opened for Taylor Swift. Do you know what I mean the opener for a stadium tour is not a nobody

54:25Yeah, so to have chosen Maccomor who seriously is just like and obviously like I just like Maccomor But this is just facts like completely unbiased like it's not successful or talented Besides for one song from an actual over a decade ago It's such an intentional choice. Yeah, so you made that choice and then you Couldn't you didn't do anything when there was backlash and it wasn't until your own bottom line might have been affected Like I just feel like he's spyingless. Yeah, it's really crazy He seems very committed to not taking a stance on the issue which I have a lot of respect for it And I think me too you have every right to do he's complicated able to in all different like areas in conflicts like to have no opinion Like seriously I love that for you stay out of it So to initially invite him on the tour when he is so outspoken and so polarizing and so hateful Why would you do that if you really want to be that guy because now he's in this spot where like he has to drop him Otherwise he's making a huge statement and he doesn't want to make a huge statement

55:25So why would you what you thought you could like bait everyone and like you would get away with it and everyone would just have to Made to be uncomfortable and he mac and more could speak for you and and you just get to play all innocent What did you think was gonna happen and obviously robber craft or you know his friends column Bob Has been like getting heat now being like you know you're a billionaire using your and it's like this is my place of business I don't want These this going on there like he's well within his rights to have done that like let me say this whole situation once again It's terrible for the Jews just like John Galliano what's worse than it actually happening is that it being cancelled Fuel's rumors Jews control the world right obviously don't however like Robert craft yeah control your Stay yeah, we happen to have a Jew in a high place Feel free to control your stadium because people don't know how to behave and so even if it fuels more You can't say it more can't be worse right now really so say Jews could draw the world because Mac I'm more ahead to be dropped from a chair and whatever Yeah, I just like I'm

56:28focused here On how big of a loser Ed Sheeran is and the funny thing is that I think sort of what's uniting the world is that people from both sides like hate Ed Sheeran now I love that and he had wanted to say a bit the unification But like he refused to do anything pro or anti or just like sort of let this whole thing like happen to him And so yeah everyone hates him now and I think that's funny Yeah, it is funny and I'm sure he's having like a really bad week like PR Especially because like being aside from the fact when you want to go to like Robert Crafts stadium for the most part like being free Palestine like is good for business career You know because anyone who's like an outspoken Zionist just suffers and is isolated and look at pink I mean look at gal Gadot Look at the boy from stranger things It's been less than a week for pink and like literally I Feel that the damage done to her reputation. You see Elizabeth Banks. Yeah

57:28With tell everyone the banks is a loser Elizabeth banks sat next to pink at the US open and they posted this carousel of photos of her at the US Open and like literally cut pink out of every single one. Yeah Yeah, so it doesn't pay to be pro Israel No, it's not at all it does to be Free Palestine look at Mark Ruffalo look at Billy Eilish look at all of these people kind of I'd bender Who just get to act like a victim yet? They're thriving Mm-hmm So yeah that Ed Sheeran now has to be in this position. It's kind of gorgeous Yeah, it is poetic. Yeah, you literally did this to yourself. Nobody was asking to see Macklemore open up for you There are so many like wine email artists right now who would be perfect opening up for you like what about Alex Warren? No, I can't even stress how like opening acts obviously, you know, you think it's like a shitty gig opening up for Ed Sheeran In a stadium into opening up for Taylor Swift like it's not nothing So the people who would be a part of that lineup are not on the rise even their risen like yeah

58:33And it was such a bad choice almost you know an intentional choice And so for you to have ended so poorly for Ed Sheeran. I'm personally thrilled by that Yeah, so I'm gonna have a hard time on Friday deciding between Robert Kraft and Michaela Matthews for Queenie of the week Honestly, Michaela Matthew No, it's like easy to like like not that I'm not diminishing what Robert Kraft did But like it's it's easy to whip your tick around like when you have a million dollars like Michaela Matthews It's just a girl like up against a network. Yeah, that's true It's like David and Goliath. Yeah, but it's like Go you can talk your shit, but not here Yeah, yeah, I was reading Mac Amor statement and like it's so crazy like the The obsession that he has and he thinks he's so brave. I'm gonna say these I'm taking the stage to say these two words It's like you are seriously Simping for a terrorist organization like you don't actually care And he also said October 7th was like justified resistance. So like he's a piece of shit He does do face. He's an anti-Semite. He wants to say he's a big nose

59:35Adelaide Jews. I just have criticism of the Israeli government like we know what that why you doing high-ill-hitlar if you don't hate Jews A piece of garbage like seriously. Yeah, everyone who liked his post on follow. Thank you Honestly, was no one one girl. I didn't even know why I followed like I actually didn't get It couldn't be happening to a worse person for real and I'm loving it And I just want to say like this is not good for the Jews. Honestly like it's just gonna feel like I'm on my heart I went to look at Mac Amor statement like yesterday afternoon It's 6.7 million followers and then later that night I went back to like show someone someone something and he was at over 7 million And the the post has like what almost 4 million and now he's at 7.2. This is really really horrible Oh my god someone else. Oh, sorry. Just gotta do that. Oh you found someone else. Oh, yeah It's great. I was following too many people Um, what a crazy saga honestly. Yeah Oh another one Another one bites the dust

1:00:35Do you do what was that the fourth story that you said would be those are four stories Okay, okay, Taylor at the game the emis mccayla Matthews macklemore My number one story is mccayla Matthews Yeah, but I just felt like I couldn't put that first Given like how big of a night for TV. I got it. Yeah, um, okay our fifth and final story Stage coach 2027 line up Garth Brooks Riley green and Zack top will be headlining I am so upset Why You're telling me Kelly Clarkson is performing before Riley green and Zack top Like the disrespect is insane for so I'm not even to have a female headliner like okay Sorry, and I like Riley green. I actually listened to his music A headliner. He is not now. I don't know Zack top and I feel like maybe I like missed out on the whatever So I can't judge whether or not he's an adequate

1:01:37But like I also feel that he's not and to like to seriously to grade Kelly Clarkson into opening up like For one of these artists like I feel it's disgusting. Well, she's opening for Garth Brooks Which I do think in I need to order things based on like the lines. Yeah, but maybe she wanted to perform on a Sunday Like maybe because I do think if she wanted it's hard to imagine if they offered her the headlining She would say no, I'd rather go Sunday second to last I don't know and also like last gets late. She's a mama I feel like this has more to do with her than it does No, I don't disrespect because she could also just easily not do stage coach No, I think it's I think it's like genuine disrespect. I want to throw up when I saw that so here are like the big names on Friday We have Riley green as the Headliner headliner before him Hardy and brother Zaws born and then throughout the day is also Shabuzy Stella lefty Cameron Whitcomb. I'm just going based on the people that like I know and like yeah, Cameron Whitcomb is great That'll be great Saturday's actop

1:02:40I mean like I've heard of him um, he's definitely new. It's it's really not Headline material. Yeah, and then before him is Willie Nelson and I think other people would make the argument That you're making for Kelly about That will see Willie Nelson should be that obviously headline. Yeah, and journey And I feel that so much of country music is like respecting the artists who came before you And Willie Nelson opening up for his actop like is not Congress with the values. I know country music to have yes Also Charlie Crockett Stephen Wilson Jr Who's like literally nominated for everything the fray Dasha Ingrid Andres good luck to her. Hopefully it's not another national anthem Mm-hmm. I like how like this genres a little mixed Yeah, it's less country and more like not pop and then there's Sunday Garth Brooks Kelly Clarkson Pitbull I think I have to go for just like that hour and a half of Kelly and I love Pitbull like I hate this

1:03:42I Like there's like one mainstream country music festival and now it's like getting co-opted And I'm actually I'm not even mad at like Pitbull because to be honest the country Roster is really not doing it for me either. Yeah, like let's supplement with Pitbull. It feels like the big dogs like didn't want to do it You know because yeah or a Morgan Wanted one of these spots. It would be theirs. I feel like there's sort of supplementing like maybe it's not an amazement like high-paying desirable gig I think it is like I really do. I think it also it's something That a lot of artists want just like for the prestige But yeah Luke Morgan even Zach Brian like all the bigs the ones who play stadiums and and arenas um Casey muskraves like no like all missing from Ella Blake Shelton Ella Yeah, I play any Wilson like where is everyone? I don't know it seems like a staple to it's not desire. I'm going with that. Yeah

1:04:45And then late night we have Florida, Georgia line Sean Paul flow rider Oh, I saw Florida, Georgia line um a couple of days ago teasing this they like made this video and They're really trying to recapture the magic of whenever they were and I'm so down But like I don't know if you saw the how committed they are there's two The Democrat and the Republican right that's how I know them. I can never remember their names Brian and Tyler Back in the day The Democrat had like that long hair like a bob he grew it out Okay That's caught commitment Commitment to like they're trying to literally rep oh, oh, he grew his short hair back to his lob Because then he had his solo career where he had like a buzz cut I said I'm gonna recognize him he brought the lob back is what he means He has the lob back and he had a buzz cut like normal boy hair For years like he's been off the lob for the better half of a decade But now the Florida, Georgia line is trying to recreate their ticket very copypaste approach even the hair

1:05:47Yeah, but is it like are they going the Jonas brother is back shoe boys around with like nostalgia like Let's create those good old days of cruise It's wasn't giving this style. Yeah, it was just giving like truly pick more like you are trying to compete with LL anglian Morgan, walleting you think like because you were the Morgan, wallon of the 2010s So are you are you trying to like for those of us who were there like cater to us or you're trying to get to top the charts again I guess we'll see like if they play a lot of new music or if they just go down memory lane I'm not sure because they could be the Jonas very teller they could be the Jonas brothers of country music Yeah, it's hard to imagine like where they would be If they hadn't broken up because I do think like they were very much on track to be like even more famous and Yeah, cuz they really transcended genres and Morgan is so so successful, but really within I mean, that's also like Sam hunt too. I know you hate him But like he was all so agree with number one like viral guy of

1:06:49And people just all over loved him because he was like so handsome and Dan and Shay tequila Dan and Shay tequila Yeah It's hard to be the duo dan and Shane Florida George line should go on a joint tour That's like a thousand brothers Hillary Duff nostalgia country tour Love that for like the the people and like how he's saying nostalgia for something that was 10 years Yeah, nobody and for people like I said mean like millennials who like Aren't really consuming that much new music like a little bit sure, but like we just want to hear our favorite songs and like a rock out 100% I just want to rock out and that's all we've ever wanted. It's true. I've been consistent in that Know that That's that's all on that Well, those are the fast-paced stories. We still have to your toaster So before we dive in let me just remind you that to your toasters And this episode ad placement is paid for by Beth and bodyworks their new reserve collection is designed to elevate your space with home fragrances

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1:13:01All right, are you ready for your toasters? I'm ready first order Okay, our first one is I actually think like a very real thing for a lot of people going on right now Which is why I chose it okay Swirlies. I'm so happy you're back. My friend and I got dinner the other night And the Lindsey Clancy trial got brought up she was very pro-lensy She thinks that Lindsey's a victim and basically like God's gift to this earth. No, she's not safe No, no, but that's how this girl interpreted it okay That like she's you know going through something that so many women go through and like you know I like her yet Right, I'm so firmly against this she talked down to me because she works in OBGYN in OBGYN office And I do not and I just left our dinner feeling really gross I saw her again this past weekend Due to a mutual group of friends being in town and I asked to not discuss it with her She brought it up and I truly am not sure how I can maintain being friends with someone who supports a literal psychopath Do I just blow it off or can I be done with being her friend because I don't like her anyways minus that there's a lot of history there Well, you don't like her anyways, so like don't be friends with someone that you don't like now. Let's take yes and I actually also think

1:14:05um, I don't know if you saw like There was like a couple of new story like a man leaves his wife for her take on Lindsey Clancy like I actually think more often Then I'm not the type of person who believes that like people with different political differences can't be friends or even married Although I do think that's very complicated like I I don't like to be that type of person like I do think that human beings can and should work through most things Now I have experienced this two words like I actually find myself like shifting opinions of what I think of people Based on their Lindsey Clancy take like genuinely and I can't help but I think it's such a layered issue and it's so It's so dark that like yeah, I can't help myself, but I I actually think that you should not be friends with this girl. Yeah, and I think maybe she her friend who agrees with her Me telling the same thing about you like I actually think like if you disagree with somebody on this like fundamentally It really is not a match friendship or otherwise. Yeah I think that there are a couple issues not every issue, but there are a couple things at least for me that are like a true

1:15:08Test you don't agree with someone on that are a true test of like if we could see eye to eye about most things Right And for me this would be one of them if I had a friend who you know Who very much very strongly to the point that she couldn't not talk about it because you asked her like the the right thing to do is be like Let's not talk about it. We disagree and it's right. It's getting messy But the fact that you said that and she stills talking about it so if I had a friend that could not stop talking about it And that was her in my opinion awful take wrong take evil take That's it for me. I'm out Yeah, I think that This is an exceptional Circumstance because I really don't I think a lot of people automatically are like oh you can't be friends with that person They're hateful. It's like well, no they just have a different opinion. Yeah, like calm down I think that this is one of a few issues that at least for me personally and this is not universal But I think if you're feeling like you can't be friends with this person like you probably are my type of person like I I think especially if you sound like you have reasons to get rid of her anyway outside of it. You won't like me

1:16:11I'm okay I'm okay with this friendship ending Yeah, and if it's so like core to her personality like and some people like sometimes an issue or a political thing happens And they just make it their personality and that's it and I know what I can be and that's also just And that's also just annoying so like if that's who you are now not my kind of person Are you following juror eleven The lone rural juror Like and all the information that's coming out about him. What's all the information So one of the jurors went on Gail Kay's ideas. I saw this and Gail was like asking a lot of questions about like the socio-economic backgrounds The racial backgrounds of how many men how many women how many black how many white and they eventually like the woman Wasn't offering up the information until Gail like sort of figured it out herself And she said there was only one person of color and it was a man and Gail was like wait is the holdout juror a person of color and The female juror was like yes and Gail said she needed to sit with that And that sort of like took the internet by storm. I guess like people weren't expecting that not that it makes a difference

1:17:13and then this local NBC station in Boston like figure I'm by the way I had said last week and I do want to make a correction that a picture of the Chair alone juror got leaked the picture. I saw was of a white man. So obviously like that leak was fake. Okay, people people had not figured out who it was NBC this honestly the juror should sue NBC his Identity has not been revealed yet, but they like combed their court documents and found that he has a criminal record He like owes like a bunch of background and then there was like a He was like the police got called on him for like a domestic violence dispute with his wife who's now his ex wife And so like now like obviously we have to make the loan juror and to like they hate him and he's a criminal But all this information is getting leaked about him and it's like Why would anyone want to be a juror like literally ever? Well, you have to be and nobody And she wants to be is the funny thing like no, but like if not you're not the one thing that good being a juror had for you It was like you would maintain your privacy, right? And it's like and that was something I feel that everybody really respected

1:18:16Unless the person wanted to go on TV and there have been a bunch of the women going on TV I like I think it's so crazy that like all this information about the guy even though his name and identity have not been revealed all this like Sort of leading details and information about him have been like leaked and they're being reported like everywhere Yeah, including his race Well, yes his race, but I guess it's like on the other juror to share. I don't know. I don't know if she did anything wrong I think she did anything wrong and I think those are like fair questions and honestly Maybe it's not fair in the grand scheme of things but given that this case is garnered so much national attention like I actually I think that fact is sort of like put people in a tailspin Yes, they didn't know like gale's cage touch you need to sit with that. Yeah. Yeah, I think I also heard he might be gay I don't know if that's true, but like people are just like obsessed with like these facts They said it was an older gentleman um Yeah, I think that I maybe it's hungry. I think it's interesting

1:19:16Yeah, I do too, but I like feel bad like unless you're a lot of them, you know Left the courthouse and called up TMZ like a lot of want this And I can imagine not wanting to I'm a me such like ugly person obviously could go and tell their story or sell their story or whatever But like if it is like an older person they're probably not interested They just sat on the jury and they came up with the decision that they thought was best And because maybe as like an older person they couldn't really be swayed By what people were telling them and all these like women yelling at him like Well, I just think it's funny that like now we know he has like a allegation of domestic violence against him Like everybody's so a gas but like Lindsey Clancy literary strangled her three kids like what are we talking about? Gasness and also all of that would have come up in jury selection right you have to well So that's also a discussion is like a lot I think if you have a criminal record sometimes you're not allowed to be on a jury So I don't know how that information Well, they might they might you I think you have to go to jury duty You have to try and serve that's everybody's like civic duty But if you have a criminal record and you say that and then you'll be excused because they don't want to write that but

1:20:18I'm sure he disclosed that information and he was still chosen Right and also they can look up that information too like truly a thankless job I would never want to be on a jury like for real. I'm gonna say next like this is cured me Sometimes I'm like you know what I could do it This is I feel has really cured me. I'm gonna just gonna go in like next time I call for jury duty and say the most insane Shit ever you don't really have to because your um The public nature of my job the the facts of your life being like a young working mother like I last time I did jury duty I was like I was like you know what like I guess I'm I can be a juror. I mean always say I'd be a really good juror We always say that's why I was like going along and then I'm like I'm sorry like I can't actually Miss work and I have like I think I'm children that I'll that like I actually like a primary caretaker Actually can and you actually like a lot of times if you if you take care of like an elderly yeah relative You can't yeah no 100% if you're like the provider and you have to go to work um

1:21:18There are people who actually can't given the deal the facts of their life the requirements So job to for you you you don't even have to start saying crazy stuff Well, I'll still say it sure you are litter you would never put something on my file say never let this bitch You would never I know you I would never I am you would be so you'd be so shy at jury duty I'd end up being the foreman that's where my my shyness comes out Jury dude. I can't even be like I can't I have to wait for them to tell me I can't yeah All right next up hey Jackson Claude I never thought I'd have an interesting enough problem to send in but here we are I'm 23 years old and I live in New York City. I'm currently a grad student. I'm a nanny for an affluent family I am with the family minimum three nights a week. It's two girls the parents are both married and they both work Dad works from homes right typically see him around the apartment and he's almost always trying to do the parents are both married like To each other Hmm the parents are both married and work. I'm gonna assume

1:22:19They're divorced married to each other. Okay The dad works from home. I typically see him around the apartment He's almost always wearing air pods and very locked into his computer Neither one of us have ever paid much attention to each other Like most girls my age in New York. I am on hinge and I got home from work the other day I was mindlessly scrolling and I saw that the dad had liked my profile I was shook. I went to work the next day and acted like nothing happened I've not said a word since but I don't know what to do Do I tell the mom her husband is cheating on her on hinge? Do I confront the dad? Do I leave it alone? Act like it never happened because I don't know what agreements they might have I'm a broke student who really can't afford to lose her job and wants to do the right thing I'm seriously not not my circus on my mind It sounds like you have a great gig for this rich family and like the unless he like makes an advance a very Paul G. Amadean the nanny diaries unless it goes any further Just pretend like you can safely ignore this yeah, pretend like you didn't see it ignore until you can like all moral and tell the wife But then it's like you're gonna lose your job. No, don't get involved. I yeah, not your sir. Not your problem like um

1:23:21That's unfortunate. It will probably like escalate in some way. He will probably make an advance and you will have to leave If you like grabs yeah, then you have to yeah, you have to leave um, but and I guess maybe it's like bad advice to tell you to like wait around and like until that happens But it also could not and I just want to say a lot of times people are capishes on hinge It is possible like I've heard that happening. Oh what happens to be the man that she lives with Yeah, and I guess like your phones obviously know that you're like in close proximity with one another great match No, it's 100% him That's disgusting Uh, so ignore until you can't but that'll probably be in a couple days from now in the words of Ashley Do you pre like men are pigs they all cheat? Yeah That was she was crazy, but it's like even if he was like a single dad or whatever for and she was like No, it was not probable That would be worse actually It says much about the cheating nature. It is about like the power dynamic and the fact that you guys are in the same house and that he would do something like that Like what a no, it's like a boss sicko

1:24:23But it's worse than a boss because the job is so intimate Of course in the home like it's terrible Our third and final haste rallies love you guys have a relationship question and I need to know if I'm in the wrong I'm getting married later this year and once we were married my fiance wants to combine all of our bank accounts I told him I wanted each of us to keep one separate one and just put like 50 to 100 dollars a month in it Nothing crazy for small gifts for each other in case of an emergency or something messy where to happen between us He's looking at it like I don't trust him and I'm not fully committed. What's the right thing? I just don't think I'm sorry I don't want to just give in because I feel really strongly about this But he's hurt and he's acting like I think he's gonna run away with all of our money Love you both have you enjoyed your summer break, but I'm so glad you're back So first of all I need you made a mistake in what In telling him I need to know everyone's financial situation here I don't I feel like they they seem like two like young professionals on the same level because if he had like a lot of money She would have said that like and I feel like the what he's saying to in the way he's acting like is like someone that you can't financially trust

1:25:24I don't know why but like him being a meeting you trust me like I that's interesting. I And I also think that you should have your own account for like so many reasons both serious and benign But like you should be able to do what you want When you want and not have to answer especially if you are working and and same for him So like I'd like the idea of separate and joint Personally, I think that's a nice thing to have um And I think that his especially if you're talking about 50 to $100 a month into a personal account like I don't know why that would upset him Yeah, I didn't see this so much as a red flag But I guess if you want to look in like him being controlling over your money sure I I saw more of his like an image or anything. It's like but we're getting married We share everything. I just think every woman should have a separate bank account that honestly her husband doesn't know about I think you never should have told him what the fuck does he need his own bank account for he doesn't you do He doesn't make her on account on the side and it's called a conniple where you like you know You just so way money for a rainy day just in case you should never like your husband should not know all That's how you can end up in financial abuse which is a real form of abuse like yeah

1:26:25You need a little account if you ever needed anything you need to run you need to go You have a little something on the side even if it's a box of cash under your mattress But also like taking away Those extreme circumstances just for like your daily operating like you want to have freedom You don't want to have to explain everything as long as you are working that is your money And you're giving him the option to do the same thing as you well And I think you're wrong for that because I think we always talk about how like men and women are different And there are situations where men can do something in a woman can't and a woman can do something in a man And I don't think that a man can have his own bank account Honestly, I think that's weird and shady and like it never leads to good things And I think a woman like it is Integral to her survival that she has one yeah, so I think that you should tell him that he's right He should put all of his money into the joint and that you're right and he'll keep something out Yeah, I'd say I wouldn't even tell him yeah agreed Like just drop it and like make your own account on the side go to like some But I just think it's a different totally different bank like a rich wood saving

1:27:27Is insistence regarding like what amounts to maximum $100 a month is strange Well, yes, I think if you wanted to look deeper into that like maybe we could find fault and like potentially, you know controlling of the finances like is a little bit of a red flag Yeah, I wasn't even thinking controlling but just like not I don't know like just that seems like a very normal situation to have like a small personal account and a joint account So what is his expectation for like marriage if you can have any independence? I also don't think that there is a Standard way to do finances as I think some people keep everything in the modern world. I agree Yeah, it's not it's not a one-size-fits-all I think that people just do what works with them completely agree But I do think like if I had to prescribe like what I think a healthy situation is for you know to working people It was young people and also but then it's also like if the woman's not working with that's a separate issue

1:28:31That has to be dealt with but to have like personal accounts and a joint account I think is healthy Yeah, I think so too. I don't think that's like a bad option, but it's not what it used to be No, but and how did it used to be like one account because I think that there was like a family account that the women really knew nothing about but technically had access to and they think also men mostly had separate accounts too for like you know flandering And yeah, and like the family account was like for groceries. I was just watching um uh Mad men and they got a Bank as a client and they were offering this thing called like executive accounts, which is basically just for men to have their own separate accounts so that women can access To you know by liquor and prostitutes. Yeah Things of that nature. I could No, also not good Um, well, that's what your toasters. Thank you to everyone who wrote in that's our weekly advice segment if you ever want to write in you can send us an email to your toasters at gmail.com or head over to our website the toastpodcast.com There's a little submission box totally anonymous. Don't worry. We'll never blow up your stuff and thanks to everybody who wrote in we really appreciate your vulnerability and transparency

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