Maternity Leave Is NOT a Vacation—Here’s What to Say to HR

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Too many parents hear “enjoy your vacation!” as they head into maternity leave—but let’s be clear: maternity leave is not a break. In this episode, Kaitlin sits down with parental leave expert Akiko Thayer for Part 2 of their eye-opening conversation about how to navigate the confusing and often dismissive world of workplace leave policies.

They talk about:

What language to use when requesting leave (hint: don’t say “maternity leave”)
How to protect yourself legally once you announce your pregnancy
What to do if HR pushes back
Why your employer isn’t necessarily looking out for you—and how to make sure you’re covered anyway

This is the episode you must listen to before talking to HR. Whether you're pregnant, postpartum, or planning ahead, this conversation will leave you empowered, informed, and ready to take control of your leave.

Maternity Leave Is NOT a Vacation—Here’s What to Say to HR

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