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So when I did my career day at Lodoo high school a couple weeks ago met a cool guy and a matte and

invited him to come in on the show

Matt Willis he is a dog trainer and the owner of dog training elite St. Louis and that's all I know

We just shook hands and you gave me a card. I'm like I'm gonna get this guy in the air

So thanks for coming in appreciate it. Yeah, you bet appreciate the invite. So give us your background just tell us about you sure

So you know I grew up with dogs and we were a hunting family

So always had some working dogs around we did some you know, fesent and dove and quail

You know upland birds and so I was around dogs that were we're pretty trained

Even if they weren't ours. They were with other people that we were hunting with so grew up with that always had an affinity

We always had a house full of dogs and just kind of trained them on my own didn't really choose that as a career path

When a different direction and after 20 years in a different industry

Our you know mergers acquisitions and just got tired of that decided to make a change and

This came across from a franchise broker. It is a franchise and so I bought all the St. Louis territory up and

You know they had a it's a family-owned business they owned kennels out and out in the western United States and

40 years worth of experience and I liked the business model and so hey

Like dogs I wanted to finish up my career with something fun and different and so switched gears about six years ago and started this up

That's cutsy. Yeah, yeah good big move good for you people thought I was crazy for sure

Yeah, I used to be a lawyer and I love to do this. So I remember my mom dad crying

Of course they cried and I started going to law school anyway

Anything involving me

so

Kev is literally the biggest dog fan. I know. Yeah, I'm a nerd. Yeah, he said he wouldn't I mean we've owned him since we were

Just married so I mean we've owned dogs forever

Yeah, and we did a lot of the training, but not we didn't train we went through the training programs as the owners of the pet because that's to me

It was important to get that base. Yeah, yeah, we did that with both more with Augie

Augie was a crystal white lab from Sievers and then we have Moses

Who's a mix from from Sievers and sit in both the school especially Augie and I remember his trainer saying

This is the most food motivated dog. I've ever met he said if you let me feed him enough

I could teach him to type exactly. Yeah, so got to find their motivation and that's tough when you have a dog that doesn't have that food motivation

Maybe maybe a little less list doesn't have a you know an affinity for toys or something else

You got to figure that dog out and that's what dog training is. It's problem solving

Yeah, every dog is different and in our industry. It's you got to you got to work the dog in front of you

Yeah, are you a believer in

Believers find the wrong word but just if someone says okay. I have

Anakita. I have a

Irish center

Do you care? It's like oh, I'm gonna treat them very differently

Well, I mean every breed does have specific qualities and characteristics that

That are true to that breed

But you can have a litter of six different dogs and they're all gonna have different temperaments and so

While they might have that that instinct and true nature for that breed

Everyone will be a little different and that's where it comes in real important when we're doing either therapy dog training or service dog training

training

You have to be at different ends of the spectrum within the temperaments

To really be able to develop that dog to what the finished goal is yeah

Do you have favorite breeds over the years? You're like man. I love working with these guys

Yeah, I mean, you know, it's your your your basics

Your most popular probably labs. I mean labs or they're friendly. They're amiable. They want to work

They want to train. They're they're working dogs

They just have a lot of good qualities that make it pretty easy usually yeah

That the worst I mean, so uh

The worst are probably, you know, hound group

The you know Eskimos and Huskies and Malam use. I own those

Yeah, I might did they're not with us anymore. Those were those are first pack

We're two simoids and an American Eskimo. Yeah, they're more difficult to train. They're stubborn. Yeah, they're smart too

And the bulldogs English French American bulldogs those those are all either a lot of

Interbreeding and crossbreeding in those two that don't make them the smartest breeds

As far as the the the bulldogs, but

You know nowadays, I do a lot of protection. It's one of the the angles that I really love to do

And so working with the Belgian Malinois

And the German shepherds is is always a lot of fun, you know working dogs are just so high energy high strong

So you have other difficulties, but

But I'd much rather have that than shy anxious

Listless. Yeah, you know some other

So if you're trying to teach your dog to shake or sit you can do that yourself

I'm guessing that if someone gets one of those protection dogs you talk about

Have a professional do it. Don't try to do that yourself

Yeah, most definitely and I mean we you kind of touched on it earlier

Our programs are all about teaching the client. That's that's the tough part, right?

And if I can get the client to understand and have a better relationship with their dog be able to read those behaviors and be able to communicate better

That's the success because they have to go do it day after day after day

So really I can have a dog doing whatever I need in three days

That's the client education. That's the tough part. So that's interesting. Yeah. We're talking to Matt Willis here

He's the owner of dog training elite in St. Louis

Just for people who may not be with us at the end of the segment how people get a hold to be

Well, the easiest way is through the website at dogtrainingelete.com

Yeah, we do free evaluations

I mean most of the people that are coming to us. Yes, maybe they have a specific goal like service or therapy or protection

The majority is just bad behaving dogs

And so that's you know

That's that's the the problem is they wouldn't be coming to us anyway if the dog was good

So that also kind of speaks to their abilities with their dogs right because a lot of people can do it on their own

Maybe you go do some youtube videos you look stuff up

But if you just don't have that

Nick that knack to to work with your dog. Yeah, definitely seek some help. So

Yeah, I'm just looking at the the website here Matt and seeing you know

You can help people whose dogs struggle with anxiety and aggression

Just kind of talk about that like where does that often come from and kind of how do you tackle that head on sure

So I mean really there is very small percentage of truly aggressive dogs out there. Okay

The majority of it tends to be from fear

Fear-based it's insecurities

Possibly trauma, you know, we work with a lot of people that you know

They do the right thing they go out and get a rescue dog that's fantastic

But they don't know how to handle this dog

And god bless the shelters

You know, they do a great job, but their job is to get dogs into homes. Yeah, so sometimes they're not giving you the complete picture of the dog that they see on a day-to-day basis

And so maybe they're not giving quite the background and history of that dog or how it's behaved in the shelter

And then all of a sudden these people get a dog home that's supposed to be friendly with other dogs and they have another dog or two

And they've got massive fights going on in their in their house and they're having to isolate and separate

Um, and while the shelters do a pretty good job of hey you can return the dog or we'll try to help you out

For the most part they want to kind of wash their hands and move on to the next family

But it can be it can be bad. You can put a dog in a really a bad situation

That can cause some harm, but yeah, anxiety is one of the hardest things to overcome, right?

I can take crazy and reel that in pretty easy

But to build confidence in a dog and especially it's an animal that we can't directly communicate with

Right, we have to try to figure out what those triggers are

You know what that fear is and try to work around that to make that dog more comfortable

So in your experience our dogs a lot like people in that

Because I always think of one dogs being better than people

Just across the board, but two I feel like

Well, just ask the question like if the dog is anxious

Is it typically because something is made it anxious or some dogs is born anxious?

Both

So yeah, so so just like I say

Temperament you can have dogs at the week. There's a test called the Vohar's test and that's what

Breeders and people that that have letters of dogs can use and they'd actually test dogs

As early as six weeks old seven weeks eight weeks and what it is it's just a series of exercises

And then you're gauging the response of the dog

So if I have and then you're rating that on one being very alpha dominant behaviors

In six being very skittish and fearful behaviors and so like with

You know a service dog or therapy dog

I'm looking for somewhere in the middle. I'm looking for scores of three

Right, I want a dog that's confident, but cautious as well

We can't have a bull in the china shop going into the assisted living home and jumping all over some elderly people

Right, but that's what I want in a protection dog

I want it scoring ones and twos right, but when they're scoring fives and sixes

We've got problems right and they're really not you know made for working lines, right?

It's more of a pet

It's more of a pet and that would be maybe better with an elderly couple that doesn't go out much and doesn't need a lot of activity

Right and the dog can feel safe and secure at home more

um

But yeah

They're amazing creatures and they can do it do a lot of things with proper guidance

So for people who don't know those tests and

We've most of us have been you know to someone's house and you there's the litter and they're all in the cardboard box

You have to pick one out like what sort of recommendations do you have for people that are just picking a dog out of a litter

They're not professionals just to be pets just to be a pet yeah

Yeah, um, we still want the puppies that are interacting with each other, right?

You want to avoid that puppy that's over in the corner by himself isolated

Maybe getting picked on by the other puppies

But you don't want the guy that's in there biting everybody's ears and tails and climbing all over and you know

Maybe a little aggressive with when the feeding time comes yeah

Yeah, when Nick and I went we surprised my daughter Phoebe for

Christmas what's like five six years ago as we went to seabirds and he had two from the same litter

Moses who we picked and

Moses's brother who we should have picked and

Moses's brother looked very much like a lab. He looked very much like a golden

But he was just on him just biting his ears and just trying to keep him away from us

And we're like oh, well, I love his spunk and then he did that for the next four years to our old lab auki and just kind of a dick and

But it's what I've always heard like

Everyone wants the puppy that grabs the

The broom and drags it across so you're like oh, I love his moxie, but like

It may not be so cute when you get home. You know, it just depends on your family, right in your environment

And what you do if you're an active person you go hiking a travel a lot to twelve-year-old boys or whatever

You want your dog around all the time. That's a good pick right because again you with with proper training and guidance

That dog can can follow your rules once he's taught right. That's all about clear directions

So for someone who people who are buying dogs for protection

I think they are looking for someone like you, but if someone's just getting a dog as a pet

Talk them into

Getting some training. How's that going to make their life better down the road?

I can tell you just experience. It's house training

Socialization because when they're young they're getting into these classes. So they're surrounded by other dogs

You know, you can do it on your own, but that's not always enough at least in my opinion

I think that and then you seeing

Other people struggle with things or maybe they have it easier than you is also teaching you what you need to do better

I think Matt makes a great point that if you you can be in class or we can send our dogs to someone like Matt

And that's great, but if we don't do it and follow up on it at home

It's not going to stay. Yeah, so we don't do board and train for that very reason right because I want to teach you guys

Just as much as I teach the dog right it's so important

um

But you should start I mean even with a pet you need to start with puppy

I mean what we're doing is we're shaping behaviors right you don't send your kids to school when they're 10 years old

Right you send them from the get-go, you know in preschool and work their way up

And that's what puppy trainings all about right. I'm not looking for the moon

But I need this dog to start understanding our world because all it's understood for the first couple of months of its life

Is biting and nipping and clawing and wrestling and what it's been doing with his litter mates, right?

So we need to start shaping the behavior and teaching him our world

So it makes our lives a little bit easier, but also makes it easier for the dog, right?

So he's not getting in trouble. He's not getting punished

He's got to understand and that's where I need to teach the whole household

So when we start off with puppy training

I mean, I have families coming in, you know, we do those private sessions

You know, we have camps at our facility where you send the dog for day train

I don't believe in board and train. I think it's too stressful

Even for working dogs

I always think a dog should go work hard and then go home shake it all off

Be with its people be in its home environment and come back and do it again, right? You guys sleep in the studio

No, all right, you gotta go home have a couple of toddies and then come back and do it again the next day, right?

So I think it just brings a better training experience for the dog and you can get better success when you're doing that

But yeah, puppy training. We start as early as eight weeks

Yeah, make sense

Matt appreciated this has been really good. I'm sure people really enjoyed it out there go to dog training elite.com slash staying

Lewis to get in touch with Matt. Thanks man. Yeah, you bet. Thanks guys

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We're back djs to 25 has interesting segment. I know you like it. I do. I mean it's

We've learned some from we we got off to a good start as like first time pet owners when we were in our 20s

We just happened to get into some good trainers and learn some good things, but

It's it's so important to do that to give them structure now if you've trained dogs your whole lives and you know what you're doing

That's a different thing than kind of being new at it. Yeah, but they're all different man

I mean the biggest dogs I had were the easiest to train and the little ones

I've been the hardest and they took a lot more work and a lot more time

But exercise matters so much every had a little dog. Yeah, we had until we had these two and they're still they're like the energizer bunny

They're 14 and 15 and they fly around. Yeah, they live longer. They definitely age

Quite a bit slower than the big dogs. Yeah, a flaming hot Cheeto shaped like the Pokemon Charizard

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I'm just talking about Bethesda

The nation's first dementia village will be opening in Madison, Wisconsin

It's a small village sort of like if you ever been to like a ski resort just picture that that little village that they have

um

With 65 full-time residents the idea is that people with dementia can live freely safely

and joyfully

Without being shut in their rooms all the time. So it's safe for them. I remember about 15 years ago

I said why don't we just like that's back with the Alton Bell was running and I'm like old people love that

Why don't we just like let them live on that I got a cruise ship. Yeah

Let them live on a gambling boat and let them gamble fake money

My mom and I would have been so happy

But it's nice. It's great that we're just in time for us

Beginning to start treating elderly people not in just the typical kind of way

Another Guinness Book of World Records his name is Alan McCloskey and he has been digging graves for 73 years

Dang. Oh says he's dug graves for his friends his family his wife

He says I always did a perfect job because it's a tribute to the dead

That's good for him with pride in your work right someone's got to do it

You decided to do it for 73 years might as well do it right

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233 dgs happy Tuesday attorney bread young joins us a bread

Hey Dave before we dive into your cases

I played a bunch of sound in the first hour of Donald Trump from yesterday

He had quite a day yesterday. He was on fire. Yeah, it's all over the place and I'm just curious

One how you think the war effort is going. It seems like he's having a little trouble

Now he needs some help in the straight and he can't get it

And then secondly, and I'm not making a joke

After listening to all of the audio Andrew brought up why are we not talking about the 25th amendment like people were with Joe Biden

So I want to get your take on both those things

Okay, I'll let me take the last one first

Yeah, there has been some discussion on the 25th amendment what I found interesting and again

I'm not trying to be overly partisan here, but

When Joe Biden was exhibiting

very distinct

Memory lapses communication lapses speech lapses the the mainstream media wasn't really reporting into 25th amendment now

I'm seeing it. I think that's interesting, but there is a discussion now about the 25th amendment

But effectively the 25th amendment cannot come into play unless the entire

Unless the entire cabinet agrees

That the president is incompetent under the 25th amendment and that's never going to happen

So I mean we can we can talk about it we can discuss it

But effectively it's never going to happen now just like it was never going to happen under the Biden administration

Because when you have a cabinet that's basically all yes people and most modern presidents have had that

You're never going to get that invoked

And was it Wilson who was so debilitated that his wife kind of was the de facto president for a couple years

I didn't think it was Wilson. I thought it was somebody before Wilson. Yeah, I'm kind of pulling a name out of my butt there

But yeah, but I saw that story and it was fascinating that

This president was so debilitated that his wife just kind of took over

Right, right, and that's I think in essence why the 25th amendment was put in because there was no

constitutional protections

For what to do yeah in that situation and there needed to be and and I'm glad that there is

But you know unless you're watching what was the movie the

Harrison Ford movie Air Force one you know where they had this one scene where they're all discussing

Do we invoke the 25th amendment yes or no and there was some obviously

Very drama filled discussions, but I just don't see any of those discussions happening now

Either with President Trump or with President Biden just because of how the cabinets are made up and how are you feeling about the war

Okay, Iran here's here's what's the most troubling thing it doesn't surprise me that we're having

Difficulty getting the people of Iran to rise up and to

Overthrow their own government because right now there are literally government troops

In the streets with guns and if you come out and protest they're going to kill you

So that kind of puts a damper on things

in terms of

How President Trump is dealing with the war the most frustrating thing it's not

The missile launchers. It's not the the as you would say Dave the Shaheed drones

Not it's not any of that the biggest issue to me is the fact that Steve Whitcoff in negotiations with Iran

Said that the Iranians bluntly stated we have enough fissionable material

Of uranium over 60% enrichment to make six to ten bombs within a week. They specifically said that

And when Steve Whitcoff negotiated to say all we're looking for here is for you to give up will even give you

Iran

enough of under processed uranium to to actually run a civilian nuclear power

System and they declined wanting that above 60% enrichment. I'm not hearing any of that from the president

All I'm hearing is stuff like a new reference to it like you know

We could take this out if we want to or I could take out Carg Island just for fun or any of these these

Estates that make regular people cringe

He's talking about that instead of focusing on the fact that their Iran could be having nuclear weapons

It within a week and that is the basis for what we're doing is there Brad

So I'm a little confused because a year ago we were told that their nuclear facilities were devastated completely obliterated and gone

So was that just incorrect at the time and and chest thumping

Because it's find I find it hard to believe that something that would have been gone is back in a calendar year

No, no what what was destroyed last year in midnight hammer did not

Resurrect itself. What did happen is is that by that point in time

The Iranians had already with their

centrifuges buried deep underground had already created this visionable material that was then stored elsewhere

So number one. Yes

Midnight hammer last year did destroy much of their ability to to create additional

Fissionable material, but once that material was already created and then stored off site in a different location

That's what was not destroyed

Because I mean the implication though a year ago was

They're done

Like that was the implication with the way it was presented like we it's this is not a concern anymore

Right, and I'd think that part of that's partially true that their ability to create more

Fissionable material was done

But the fact that they had already created enough to make six to ten what's called suitcase bombs

Not necessarily attach them to ballistic missiles, but to put it in a truck and you know drive it

They could put the fissionable material in a truck

Drive it to the Saudi oil fields

Detonate it and then at that point the price of oil goes to a thousand bucks of barrel

They they could do that within a week and I think that's what this whole action was

Was a based upon but what's frustrating is is that this is not being

communicated to the public and that is extremely frustrating. Yeah, I'm hearing it from you for the first time

Well, you you could go and find it Steve Whitcoff has talked about it extensively about how in those negotiations that were abruptly ended

The the sole criteria was you have to give up nuclear weapons and they said no

And the US said we will give you

Material to have a civilian nuclear power program

So you don't need Fissionable material above 20% which I think is the level of

Of civilian use is 20% of refined uranium or enriched uranium

And then the Iranian said no

And that's when the threat was made to Stephen Whitcoff that

We have enough to make the six to ten bombs and we could do it in a week

And it was after that that the negotiations were canceled that information is not being disseminated

I watched an interview with Stephen Whitcoff where he said it specifically word for word as I've discussed

Why isn't that being why isn't that being put out there by the president?

Why is that not being put out there by the press secretary?

I don't know

But if in fact that is true what Stephen Whitcoff said

That to me justifies what we're doing in Iran

And yet that's not being discussed. So Brad, I know you're not

Colonel Jeff McCauslin, but you're one of the smartest guys. I know

How do you see this wrapping up positively and how could you see this wrapping up not so great for the US?

Okay, a couple of things there first of all

President Trump has not been successful at developing this coalition to help ships through the Straits of Hormuz

That is one of the most dangerous military operations anywhere on the planet

Escorting ships through the Straits of Hormuz because the Straits are very narrow and all it takes is

Is one Iranian in a truck with a mobile missile launcher that can't be detected

It's fired. It could sink a ship. It could it could hit the

The tanker and blow it up and it's a extremely dangerous mission

So I do see those eventually happening

But how this eventually ends unless there is a total collapse of the Iranian government

And a new government comes and takes over unless that happens this will never be over

There will always be people firing Shahid drones shooting mobile missiles

Even though all of the actual missile launchers have been taken out

The missiles you're seeing now are being fired from mobile launchers

Which they fire them and then they run

So you can't locate their position and hit them with additional return fire

Unless you get a new civilian government. I don't know that this will ever be over

You're talking about in Iran

In Iran. Yeah, in Iran. So

I mean the obvious question is if you knew that

Then Trump and headset that everyone else knew that and we heard those stories when we first attacked saying that

The inner circle was against it and that his generals had advised him not to do it

I said yesterday on the show that one of the reasons I'm skeptical about it

Is that I find it hard to believe that the six previous presidents were just such wooseys that they didn't have the guts to do it

They must have had some reasons not to do it

I think we're seeing that the straight-of-war moose is one of the major reasons

Yeah, it is the major reason and assuming for discussion purposes because you know

We don't know what we don't know assuming for discussion purposes what Stephen Whitcoff said is true

If that's true, then it is easier to justify

This action now because the Iranians did not have

sufficient

Fissionable material uranium above 60% enrichment. They didn't have that until very recently

Within the last year to a year to half

So prior presidents would would factor that in and say do we want to risk a forever war

If they just have the possibility of creating nuclear weapons and the answer that is no

If you're facing in negotiations that the uh that the Iranians do have

60% or greater enriched uranium and they could make bombs within a week

Now that's a different scenario than what prior presidents have faced

So um, I think that's what justifies

Moving forward even in the face of what we're what we're seeing now

All right, that's attorney bad young. Thank you bad. We appreciate it. Hey my pleasure guys

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He has a new idea. Oh, he has created a new album. It's finished and

Anyone can buy it for two million dollars and then you own it and you can then distribute it to whatever you want with it

Yeah, all right

I've been wondering when something like that some type of change in the music industry would happen or if it would leave it to Vinnie Vincent

Hey, listen Vinnie was a hell of a guitarist in his day. I don't I haven't heard anything from him lately though

speaking of

Records vinyl record sales hit one billion dollars last year for the first time since 1983

Yeah, because of Taylor Swift apparently. Yeah, oh really yeah

The life of a showgirl god, listen to that one on vinyl. I just thought it was because they all got so expensive

The vinyls

I want some fun facts

Yes before Donald Trump the last time a Republican was elected president without either a Nixon or a bush as president or vice president was Herbert Hoover

So nuts in 1928

So nuts that I had to look that up. I couldn't believe that was true

It's like you well you'd have that long legacy. What how long did it run from

What 1980

until

What was Hillary under a Barack Obama?

Oh, wait, was she the vice president? She was secondary. Okay. Okay. I mean we had this like 30 or 35 year run

Where was either a Clinton or a bush in the White House? It was insane. Yep

The oldest known Yiddish text is a letter from the 1560s

From a mother to her son complaining that he doesn't write her enough

It's pretty great

Some things passed the test of time don't they?

Until 1915 it was legal to mail a baby through the U.S. Postal Service. What?

That's how that happened until when 1915 I guess back then they would have just been right on the horse with the postal service person

Yeah, yeah, it's a lot to put on the pony express

Yeah, yeah, no kidding. No kidding. Well, change me dude. I got a deadline. I can't be worrying about this. Yeah

We're reigned through sleep through snow humans are the only animal that can blush

Oh, that makes sense. Yeah, I guess so. Well, how do we know they're not blushing under all that fur all those animals going to

But

Boo

According to a new study your brain's attention span does not hold steady

It's vulnerable to distractions seven times every second what

This guy like I don't know how they know that I think they must measure it somehow

Which by the way, I don't know if you guys have noticed this on tiktok

But there's a new Netflix series called I think it's called dinosaurs. Yeah, a lot of people are crappin on it

Yeah, I feel like it's been made a million times with Morgan Freeman

I've seen dinosaurs shows with him so many times

But I watched the first episode because I was getting on tiktok a lot

And the main thing I took away from the tiktoks I were getting is that younger people

Don't understand much of anything. No about that kind of stuff. They're like how do you know anything?

Making it all like

But I understand I like hey, we've got things wrong for a while. Yeah, right like I think we understand now that most dinosaurs

Probably had feathers where we didn't really picture it that way before

Yeah, they got a pretty good idea of like what the plant life would have looked like what the temperatures were

Because you can see it in the layers of soil you can measure these elements

You can have an idea of what the atmosphere was like at that time and what grew and all of that

It's not perfect though because nobody was there

true

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In a poll of more than 23,000 people from 29 countries

31% of jinsy men believe a wife should always obey her husband

31% yeah

23% of american men say they agree that women should always obey men

Hmm

It's kind of shocking maybe if men started acting in a way that was worthy of

Obedience and respect more women would fall in line with that

But I think there's a reason why things are the way they are now. I mean there's your problem right there. Obedience is a bit of an

A bit step too far

Like there should be trust so that when you guys say things to each other you each trust with that person saying and you're likely to do it

I wouldn't expect anyone to obey just it is a the the the caught the

Uh

The implication of obey is subservience. That's that's what's in like traditional marriage vows though and pretty sure

Well, no, I mean that's yeah exactly and that's why a lot of people changed them right to take those things out because again the idea of like

You obey your your boss you obey your master you obey someone that's superior to you

That's that's a really odd way to look at it in 2026. It's just so funny that you know

However much it was Dave just said 30 something percent of Gen Z men feel that they are worthy of enough respect to get

Complete obedience from a young woman

Yeah, what are you do? Please explain to me how you are living your life in a way that deserves that

Because I see a lot of this manosphere stuff

That's what this is. Yeah, these women need to be in line. They should be staying home

They should be cooking and clean it

Well, why do you think that they entered the workforce in the first like what why do you think all of this is happening?

Is it because women are just evil and bad and oh no, they have too many rights now like no

The men weren't acting right so society changed

I mean if you want someone to obey you

Get a dog yet you better you better be in a wonderful position sir, but something tells me you're not

It that's definitely the the manosphere

Stuff and there's there is an opposite to that right you've seen the videos of some of the young women that are out there

And like I would never date anybody that's not making $150,000 a year whatever. It's a similar idea. Yeah

You know who's being awfully quiet about this?

Well, I'm I am choosing to let the woman speak and not talk over everything

Some people

Random applause for me. Please. Thank you

The study has shown that your coworker who loves corporate jargon is probably an idiot

The wait there are people that love corporate jargon. Do we have any of those people here?

I can't think of one off top my head. Do even the jargon spinners believe their crap

I know yeah, I mean isn't jargon just a way to like peacock and be like I know about something

It's like okay, well, let's all chill out here folks. It took me the longest time

In radio to refer to myself as talent

Cuz I didn't understand the word as it's used as opposed to engineering and promotion. I just thought like that's a little

Yeah, braggadocious

I'm the talent now fine with it

Yeah, you got used now. It's like a requirement

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