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Hey beautiful souls,
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Laura Bennett here, your friendly neighborhood,
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ADHD coach with a whole lot of love
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and some serious life hacks to share.
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Now, you know that feeling when you just got a click
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by now on everything in your online cart.
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Or maybe it's the urge to blood out the first thing
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that pops into your head in a meeting,
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no matter how brilliant or maybe not it might be.
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Yeah, I've been there.
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We ADHD folks are wired differently
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and in falsivity you can sometimes feel like
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are on well-comb psychic.
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We can totally tame this beast.
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Today we're diving deep into the world
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of overcoming falsivity
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because let's face it, being in control
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is always a good look.
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Think of this episode as your cheat sheet
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for navigating those oops.
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I did it again moments and turning them into triumphs.
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Firstly, know that you're not alone.
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Impulsivity is super common with ADHD.
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So don't beat yourself up about those spontaneous decisions
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even if they involve buying 10 extra pairs of socks,
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But understanding the why behind it all is crucial.
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Our brains are just wired to seek instant gratification.
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We crave that dopamine rush,
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that feeling out of immediate reward.
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So when you're tempted by a shiny new gadget
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or that delicious cookie jar,
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it's your brain saying do it now.
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But with a little strategy,
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we can rewrite those impulse scripts.
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Next up, mindfulness is your secret weapon.
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Ever heard the phrase pause before you act?
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It's like a superpower for ADHD brains.
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Taking just a few seconds to breathe
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and assess the situation can be the difference
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between making a choice,
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you regret and one that aligns with your goals.
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Think of it like hitting the pause button
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on a movie gives you time to consider
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what happens next, right?
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Now let's talk about planning.
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I know, I know it sounds boring,
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but trust me on this one.
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When you have a plan in place for things like
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grocery shopping or work deadlines,
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those impulse buys then last minute panics
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become a thing of the past.
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It's all about creating structure and predictability
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which helps those impulsive urges simmer down.
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Another game changer, finding healthy outlets
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for that pent-up energy.
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We ADHD folks are often brimming with ideas
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and rest this energy.
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So channel that into activities you genuinely love.
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Maybe it's dancing, painting, writing anything
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that keeps your mind engaged in your body moving.
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Trust me, a satisfied brain is less likely
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to crave instant gratification.
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Finally, celebrate the small victories.
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Every time you resist an impulsive urge
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or make a conscious decision aligned
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with your goals, give yourself a pat on the back.
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It's about progress, not perfection, people.
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Remember overcoming impulsivity is a journey,
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So be patient with yourself,
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keep practicing these strategies
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and watch those lips moments turn into a haw, moments.
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Speaking of those a haw, moments,
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let me tell you a story that happened to me
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I was at them all with my bestie who, by the way,
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is also an amazing ADHD warrior.
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And we stumbled upon this adorable,
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little shop selling vintage jewelry.
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My brain went straight into overdrive,
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picturing all these sparkly necklaces I just had to have.
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But before I could charge in like a wild stallion,
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I remembered our conversation about my infospending.
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So instead of grabbing everything that caught my eye,
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I took a deep breath, surveyed the situation,
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and asked myself, do I really need this?
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Will it bring me joy beyond the initial dopamine rush?
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After some serious soul-searching
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and resisting the urge to buy three chunky rings,
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I ended up choosing one beautiful vintage necklace
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that truly spoke to me.
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It was a conscious decision and let me tell you,
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the satisfaction of wearing it,
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knowing I made a mindful choice
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as way more rewarding than that fleeting thrill
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So there you have it, five powerful strategies
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for taming those impulsive virtues
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and becoming the CEO of your own life.
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Remember, you're capable of amazing things
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even when the impulse is hit hard.
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Just take a deep breath, tap into that,
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enter wisdom, and remember, you've got this.
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