Mya & Trevor: He Ghosted Her After the Date… Over a Coffee Order

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First date of follow-up.

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Maya is on the phone today for her first day follow-up.

And she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trevor.

So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her.

And maybe get her another date.

But first, Maya, how long has it been since you heard from Trevor?

Almost three weeks.

Oh.

Okay.

That's quite a while.

Yeah.

Well, so I tried reaching out, you know, a little.

I texted one snake.

Oh, yeah, it's fine.

Because it was fun.

And then I texted again and said, oh, you're weak.

And then I just on TikTok.

That one that I thought I would like.

Because I already connected on there.

But then I stopped.

Because I didn't want to be that girl, you know.

Okay.

So three attempts.

In no way.

Yeah, I don't know.

After one day, that feels like a lot.

But that's okay.

I don't think that's why you're getting ghosted, though.

Because if he really liked you, it wouldn't matter.

Right.

That's why I'm so confused.

Because it really was a great date.

We'll tell us about it.

What do you guys do?

Well, they just, you know, did something low-key.

We're like, let's get a coffee.

You know, a trendy coffee shop, I guess.

It ended up being one of those ones where it's like plants and coffee.

But then there's just like one plant.

And it's behind the counter.

So you can't tell if it's fake.

You know, whatever.

Everything costs nine dollars.

But it's pretty good.

They have like lavender.

Anyway.

Okay.

We.

Yeah.

So we like, you know, got our drinks and ended up talking for a long time.

And let's see.

He got a cold brew.

I remember because he made us like, we'll speak about how he drinks coffee for the vibes.

Not the caffeine.

I was like, I mean, that's funny.

Like, okay, sir.

I'm serious.

But.

Yeah.

Sir, you want to hear what our coffee is?

Fives.

I mean, we were, we were just vibing.

But anyway.

So that's just an example of it.

Okay.

It was fun.

And then we walk around.

I've been here by like outdoor market, you know, like sometimes it's a, what do you call

it?

And we can't like a farmer's market.

But there's just like little, little stuff.

Have some samples.

I bought this really good honey for just to take home.

Anyways.

A lot of local honey.

Anyways.

Yeah.

Travel and people watched.

And we just.

We're clicking.

It's like teasing me like in a flirty way.

I know.

I felt like so casting.

But it just felt like wrong.

Come meet you.

It was just one of those like perfect days, you know.

It's just nice.

It was just great.

And then we, you know, sat down on the bench towards the end of the day.

They finished our coffee and he put his arm around me and it wasn't awkward.

It was felt natural.

And yeah, we did kiss on the bench.

Ah.

Okay.

All right.

Kiss on a bench and everything.

You're still getting ghosted, huh?

Yeah.

What do you think went wrong?

This sounds damn slow.

I'm like, I feel dumb for even thinking this is why you could be ghosted.

I can't think of anything else.

I did feel still my drink on him while I was laughing when we were sitting on the bench.

And it kind of went everywhere, you know, like there's a little bit left.

But man, that like would just go, you know, like on the ground on the bench.

So but he joked about it and stuff.

I thought that was fine.

But I was like, well, maybe he thinks I'm too much of a mess because of that.

I don't know.

Oh, I hope that's not why he ghosted you.

How did he act after you spilled?

So you said he was kind of joking about it.

But like, did you kiss again after the bench?

Yeah.

I think actually I'm going to spill that before I kissed him.

But yeah, no, it didn't seem to like change anything.

I don't feel like my mom a lot.

I just don't remember that.

Like bringing it up more than once.

Not like a trauma way.

But I was like, yeah.

If it's like talking about your mom, like, you know, to bring up exes.

But like, I'm just my mom.

That can't be weird.

I talk about my mom all the time.

I think that's probably fine.

Like you said, that just depends on how you're bringing it up.

Maya is on the phone.

And she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trevor for three weeks now.

So we're about to get him on the phone and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her.

And maybe get her a second date.

But before we call him, Maya, why don't you break down your date with Trevor again real quick?

So it was great.

He really was a coffee date, date and date.

Loki, we kissed.

I spilled coffee.

I've heard her back.

Okay.

Are you ready for us to call him up?

Yeah.

Okay.

Here we go.

I'm going to dial this phone right now.

Hello.

Hi, Maya.

Speak to Trevor, please.

Hey, Trevor, how are you?

This is a radio show.

It's called the Jubil Show.

Hi, Trevor.

I'm Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria.

And my name's Jubil.

What's up?

Okay.

Is this real right now?

Okay.

Is anything really real, Trevor, if you think about it?

I don't know.

We can show us off.

Anyway, I feel like you can have that conversation right now.

Have you ever listened to the Jubil Show before?

Yeah.

Yeah.

I am.

Okay.

Thank you.

Well, you might know or not know.

I don't know.

But we do a segment called the first date follow-up.

That's where if you go on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can e-mail

us to get you on the phone and ask why.

So we got an e-mail about you from somebody.

Oh.

Okay.

Is it that?

Is it that?

It's probably about Maya, isn't it?

Well, it is about Maya.

You're correct, Trevor.

Yeah.

She emailed us and we talked to her a little bit about your date.

Sounded fun.

She sounded like she really liked you.

Yeah.

And she's confused.

Do you mind telling us why you're ghosting her?

Oh, right.

All right.

Look, first of all, I didn't hate her date.

She was great.

She was fine.

She's cute.

She just honestly did like one little thing that kind of freaked me out.

What did she do?

Well, she ordered the same drink as me right after I ordered it.

And that freaked you out.

What's your drink again, Trevor?

I like cold brew.

We went to a coffee shop and we got a cold brew.

So you got just a straight up cold brew?

You can ghost me because you got the same drink as you.

Yeah, but it's not just like that.

She ordered it.

Like she said, that sounds good.

I'll have that too.

Hey, Trevor, that's Maya.

She's on the phone.

And she wants to talk to you, obviously.

She didn't know she'd hear me all right.

Yeah, I need to know.

And I just, are you serious?

Is that a joke?

Are you ghosting me over?

Why ordered a coffee shop?

Number A, I didn't.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I didn't.

I don't really know.

Really?

Well, I was calling it 30 thirds.

Rita.

Thank you.

Number a, I didn't.

No, Nailed it.

.

Yeah, well, I also didn't know you were going to order this

same exact drink with me, I mean.

Well, why is that a theme?

Wait, because I ordered a cold brew?

Are you?

Boxing kidding me?

It's just.

If I ride motorcycles, you're riding motorcycles, and if I do, I've been through that.

So you think it starts with the drink, ordering the same drink as you, and then they're wanting

to do everything the same as you.

Look, man, I've just, that's in my past, that's what I've experienced.

It is one coffee, not a whole lifestyle change.

It's just so important.

It's so important.

It's so important.

Okay, look.

You put your arm around me, you kiss me, and then you disappear over a drink order

from the beginning of the date.

When we, when we say like that, it sounds bad.

Oh, thank you.

I mean, I still stand by it.

I really don't want somebody like to copy my personality, is what it is, and that's psychotic,

right?

But I'm the psycho.

You're the one who's trying to morph into me.

I know you're going to be ordering the same thing as dinner, saying like, you're not hungry

and eating all my food, and absolutely not for that.

I've had enough shape shifters in my life.

I do not want another shape shifter.

Are you serious?

Have you ever met a woman before when you just, yeah, I've met at least three of them,

and then all of a sudden they were, they were me.

Why?

Why?

Start riding a motorcycle, you crazy person, but you kissed me.

Yeah, I did, but you know, you ordered the same drink as me, it's only a matter of time

before.

I feel like I'm kissing myself.

Why?

Are you okay?

I'm home.

Okay, we'll have fun with that.

Trevor, would you like another date with Maya?

We'll pay for it.

Um, honestly, I don't think so.

I can go take myself out to dinner.

Oh, how nice.

Well, that's good because if I did work until you, I would become incredibly uninteresting

and I wouldn't want that to happen to me.

Well, you know, don't hate the player, hate the game.

If you really want to be mad, so I'm going to be mad at Maddie.

Maddie?

Maddie.

What?

Who's Maddie?

Maddie.

It's the last girl copied my drink order.

I'm really great for her.

Yeah, I'm wise to that now, she's shapeshifter.

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