As we step boldly into adulthood, the dynamics of our friendships start to shift dramatically. In childhood, we often have a vast circle of friends, sometimes numbering between 10 to 20. It’s a time when friendships are abundant, and social interactions are a natural part of everyday life. But as we transition into adulthood, particularly around our 20s, that number tends to dwindle. According to research, adults under 30 typically find themselves with just 3 to 5 close friends. This stark reduction can feel jarring.
So, why does this happen? One term that captures this shift is "The Great Scattering," coined by Mel Robbins. As young adults, life takes us in various directions—new jobs, different cities, and evolving priorities often pull friends apart. Couple that with increased life responsibilities, and it becomes clear that maintaining existing friendships or forging new ones can be quite the challenge.
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