
#79. No Screens After 9PM: Sleep, Sanity & Emotional Regulation (Week 1 Update)
About this episode
I’ve officially gone screen-free after 9PM for a whole week… and it might be changing my entire life??
In this episode, I’m breaking down the surprising (and honestly wild) impact of cutting off phone time before bed - from actually cleaning my room (shocking), to finishing a sexy fairy book (that I hated?), to waking up with positive vibes like some kind of morning person.
I also talk about:
- The night I broke the rule, and why it lowkey proved how powerful this habit is
- My mini car scroll moment (we’re all fragile, okay)
- How less screen time has boosted my productivity, improved my sleep, helped with emotional regulation, and made me feel like a more present parent
Oh, and there’s a letter from my son that had me ugly crying in the best way — this one's got heart.
🔑 Key things you'll find in this episode:
- How to stop doomscrolling at night
- Setting phone boundaries for better sleep
- Creating a night routine without screens
- Mental health and screen time
- Journaling before bed
- Parenting while healing (and trying your best)
If you’re thinking of setting a no screens rule at night or just need a cozy, encouraging listen to nudge you into a better habit... this is your sign 💫
💬 In this episode:
- Why I’m screen-free after 9pm (and kinda obsessed)
- The gross feeling of breaking my own rule
- A weirdly productive week
- How I discovered sexy fairy books were not for me
- Parenting wins that hit deep
DM me or drop a comment if you’re trying out no screens after 9 - let’s be emotionally regulated girlies (or girlies adjacent) together.
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