O.ST.P Talks About Her Poly Relationship Experience

0:00They're something toxic that you like cat mouse games. Oh, I want you to like fight for me and like Obsessed it's not good. It's not healthy. So you damn you So you like when Man like you like borderline stalker Yeah, yeah, that's Have you ever had somebody stalk you before? Yeah tell us about it. Have that with him? Yeah How long did it take how long to take him but it wasn't like it wasn't like a It was stuck it was good. It was healthy stalking. What's healthy stalking? What's that stalking? I feel like if I say this on camera and say it out loud. It's I have a real bad tendency to say real real life stuff for me and then get a lot of But those people man, you know they like coming you would know they like comments to scrap but the people that now is a no judgment

1:02No judgment. So I actually have a story. Mm-hmm. So it actually just recently happened So I just got this like outdoor Table in these chairs and like a rug. It's the whole outdoor thing and I noticed there was like mud And I'm like thinking to myself like I have a like I have a kid I'm like he had to have taken the chair and put it in the mud or something like why is there mud? It's so random So I call him out there and I'm like hey, go like did you put the chair out in the mud and track mud all the place He's like looking at me like crazy, and it's like no like that was in me So I'm just like did your baba do it like who did this? He's like, I don't know. So I'm over here like okay so Oh shit So I just went about my business, you know like obviously, you know kids lie or whatever Don't know what had happened. So I wasn't there to know what happened. So I just let it go and then come to find out My man saw something in my phone which you know being an OF girl. Yeah, you get you know

2:06We have to communicate stuff And so I guess he thought that something happened that didn't happen so he like Stalked me in the rain sat outside my house even went inside my house and Literally was sitting in the heat he was standing right there. So when I'm like over here like Getting a seven market. He felt bad. He's like I have to admit something to you. I don't know. I thought it was cute You're toxic aren't you you're toxic? Are you do you like your toxic? That's that's toxic. Yeah I'm working on it Teddy. No, but no that's that's fine You can be men like that You have nothing else to be standing this rain. Yeah Do you like the talk doing Oh, what's that what's the type of stuff you say

3:07Um I love this Yeah Have you ever had a touch on with another couple With another couple. Yeah There's no fish in from me count I was in I was in there and I was doing something to the girl but then let the guy do nothing to me does that count I kind of count. No, it doesn't count. No, if she didn't do nothing with that. I was a touchdown I was there for the girl such now. If you don't score that's a watch you got to watch No, you got to display that's a touchdown No, let me tell you something if I have two women in my bedroom You're gonna go and tell the homie

4:11That count that you know that count you know that count if I had a girl And I'm in the girl and she That is we are connected We are connected In spirit, but you're gonna grab that I should come back and say no, I didn't get my touch of a night. I was just pleasing the girl who stays on If I this and this you you guys just got okay Okay, this is it counts. It's a technicality buddy count What what important qualities do you look for in a man? Oh I need somebody that's like kind When we go out to eat to servers or to like kids or whatever you got to be nice Um, and I like a big tipper. I'll be looking at that when I want to date with a man I'll be looking at how much he tipped in yeah, if you tip in bare minimum or nothing you'll never see me again

5:17So sometimes I'll take the receipt and tipped where You know, oh you're right on there. Yeah, I write the tip and if you got a problem me writing the tip we got a problem Because what's the problem? So what's the problem? It might not go through Wait, so what's uh, what's uh, what's a big tip like far as like okay the mill is like what Let's say A four fifty four hundred or no, no, let me not say that let me say a hundred and hundred and thirty eight dollars Okay, you feel like you need tip at least 30 dollars maybe 35 something like that. I don't know what 20% is but let me tell you something It got to be at least 20% okay, if we had great phenomenal service Yeah, I believe in sipping. Well, I believe in sipping was worth Right now let's say if I got like A A hundred orders, right? Not at one time, but like they had to keep coming back and forth back and forth and it's like a dollar so that's a hundred dollars

6:18I'll give them 20% of that which is $20 now if I got one In-stake that cost a hundred dollars and they just went from this that is And they'll do the work I'm still gonna tip, but it's like you know Yeah, it's like hey, man Look bro, you ain't saying have birthday or nothing you just just gave me a plate with a steak. You made a one-sauce now I got asked for the a one-sauce Okay What about it in the smear okay, where's the where's the parsley is this the steak on a plate? Yeah, no, no, no, I agree. I just I can't stand something that like doesn't tip at all or like tips like Low or something Essentially, we went somewhere nice. I'm like I'm like that. Yeah But that's just me. Yeah, I do believe in Tiffany. Oh me and my family But if it was terrible like you don't have to leave a great tip, but still like $7 something $7 for a bad like a band service. Yeah, okay

7:19What is your opinion on open relationships Hmm, this is an interesting conversation topic um I'm not against it. My spirit wants to be open to it But then I also like my ego's like no Have you ever been in an open relationship? Um, I've been in something similar to one yet. Okay. How was it? It wasn't by choice But you know when you like love somebody you're like okay, I'll try it Yeah, true and I see the beauty in it like I could see like Unconditional love and like being able to love multiple people. It's a beautiful thing Egotistically, I'm not there yet. I'm working on that