O.ST.P Talks About Her Poly Relationship Experience

They're something toxic that you like cat mouse games. Oh, I want you to like fight for me and like

Obsessed it's not good. It's not healthy. So you damn you

So you like when

Man like you like borderline stalker

Yeah, yeah, that's

Have you ever had somebody stalk you before? Yeah tell us about it. Have that with him? Yeah

How long did it take how long to take him but it wasn't like it wasn't like a

It was stuck it was good. It was healthy stalking. What's healthy stalking? What's that stalking?

I feel like if I say this on camera and say it out loud. It's I have a real bad tendency to say real real life stuff for me and then get a

lot of

But those people man, you know they like coming you would know they like comments to scrap but the people that now is a no judgment

No judgment. So I actually have a story. Mm-hmm. So it actually just recently happened

So I just got this like outdoor

Table in these chairs and like a rug. It's the whole outdoor thing and I noticed there was like mud

And I'm like thinking to myself like I have a like I have a kid

I'm like he had to have taken the chair and put it in the mud or something like why is there mud? It's so random

So I call him out there and I'm like hey, go like did you put the chair out in the mud and track mud all the place

He's like looking at me like crazy, and it's like no like that was in me

So I'm just like did your baba do it like who did this? He's like, I don't know. So I'm over here like okay

so

Oh shit

So I just went about my business, you know like obviously, you know kids lie or whatever

Don't know what had happened. So I wasn't there to know what happened. So I just let it go

and then come to find out

My man saw something in my phone which you know being an OF girl. Yeah, you get you know

We have to communicate stuff

And so I guess he thought that something happened that didn't happen so he like

Stalked me in the rain sat outside my house even went inside my house and

Literally was sitting in the heat he was standing right there. So when I'm like over here like

Getting a seven market. He felt bad. He's like I have to admit something to you. I don't know. I thought it was cute

You're toxic aren't you you're toxic? Are you do you like your toxic?

That's that's toxic. Yeah

I'm working on it Teddy. No, but no that's that's fine

You can be men like that

You have nothing else to be standing this rain. Yeah

Do you like the talk doing

Oh, what's that what's the type of stuff you say

Um

I love this

Yeah

Have you ever had a touch on with another couple

With another couple. Yeah

There's no fish in from me count

I was in I was in there and I was doing something to the girl but then let the guy do nothing to me does that count

I kind of count. No, it doesn't count. No, if she didn't do nothing with that. I was a touchdown

I was there for the girl such now. If you don't score that's a watch you got to watch

No, you got to display that's a touchdown

No, let me tell you something if I have two women in my bedroom

You're gonna go and tell the homie

That count that you know that count you know that count if I had a girl

And I'm in the girl and she

That is we are connected

We are connected

In spirit, but you're gonna grab that

I should come back and say no, I didn't get my touch of a night. I was just pleasing the girl who stays on

If I this and this you you guys just got okay

Okay, this is it counts. It's a technicality buddy count

What what important qualities do you look for in a man?

Oh

I need somebody that's like kind

When we go out to eat to servers or to like kids or whatever you got to be nice

Um, and I like a big tipper. I'll be looking at that when I want to date with a man

I'll be looking at how much he tipped in yeah, if you tip in bare minimum or nothing you'll never see me again

So sometimes I'll take the receipt and tipped where

You know, oh you're right on there. Yeah, I write the tip and if you got a problem me writing the tip we got a problem

Because what's the problem? So what's the problem? It might not go through

Wait, so what's uh, what's uh, what's a big tip like far as like okay the mill is like what

Let's say

A four fifty four hundred or no, no, let me not say that let me say a hundred and hundred and thirty eight dollars

Okay, you feel like you need tip at least 30 dollars maybe 35 something like that. I don't know what 20% is but let me tell you something

It got to be at least 20% okay, if we had great phenomenal service

Yeah, I believe in sipping. Well, I believe in sipping was worth

Right now let's say if I got like

A

A hundred orders, right?

Not at one time, but like they had to keep coming back and forth back and forth and it's like a dollar so that's a hundred dollars

I'll give them 20% of that which is $20 now if I got one

In-stake that cost a hundred dollars and they just went from this that is

And they'll do the work

I'm still gonna tip, but it's like you know

Yeah, it's like hey, man

Look bro, you ain't saying have birthday or nothing you just just gave me a plate with a steak. You made a one-sauce now

I got asked for the a one-sauce

Okay

What about it in the smear okay, where's the where's the parsley is this the steak on a plate?

Yeah, no, no, no, I agree. I just I can't stand something that like doesn't tip at all or like tips like

Low or something

Essentially, we went somewhere nice. I'm like I'm like that. Yeah

But that's just me. Yeah, I do believe in Tiffany. Oh me and my family

But if it was terrible like you don't have to leave a great tip, but still like $7 something

$7 for a bad like a band service. Yeah, okay

What is your opinion on open relationships

Hmm, this is an interesting conversation topic um

I'm not against it. My spirit wants to be open to it

But then I also like my ego's like no

Have you ever been in an open relationship?

Um, I've been in something similar to one yet. Okay. How was it?

It wasn't by choice

But you know when you like love somebody you're like okay, I'll try it

Yeah, true and I see the beauty in it like I could see like

Unconditional love and like being able to love multiple people. It's a beautiful thing

Egotistically, I'm not there yet. I'm working on that