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Welcome to the Technical Writing Success podcast from Kurt Robbins,
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where we help you get smarter than your competition,
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hire Kurt to coach you or your employees in AI to avoid a pink slip
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or having your competition eat your lunch.
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This is episode 191, I'm Fred Jones.
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And I'm Daphne Blake.
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This episode reviews an informative article
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from Writing Instructor S.J. Williamson, entitled Artificial Intelligence
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as an approach to ease emotions of email writers
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that was published last July.
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Right, so today we're basically examining
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This incredibly anxiety inducing
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emotionally risky communication mode,
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you know, especially for neurodiprogen professionals.
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I think we've all felt that panic before hitting semi.
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And we are exploring five really specific ways
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that AI can actually be used
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to manage those negative emotions for you.
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Okay, let them pack this because I mean,
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email in the professional world often feels like
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walking a tightrope blindfolded like one wrong tone
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and you just fall right into an anxiety spiral.
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Yeah, that is a perfect analogy.
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And to understand how AI can fix that problem,
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we really first have to understand
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why email makes us so anxious to begin with, right?
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Right, like what is actually happening in our brains
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when we open our inbox?
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Well, it goes back to Sylvan Tompkins.
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He is basically the father of affect theory.
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Okay, affect theory, walk me through that.
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So he mapped out how our bodies physically react
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to emotional stimuli.
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He identified these distinct negative effects,
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things like fear, distress, anger, and shame.
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And all of those can be triggered
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just by reading an email.
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Literally just from text on a screen.
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When you open a vague message from your manager,
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your brain does not just process it as data,
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it triggers a literal biological stress response.
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Because we are stripped of all that normal human context,
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You cannot see their face or hear their tone.
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And the author highlights her specific perspective on this
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as a neurodivergent female presenting academic.
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Okay, so she brings a really unique lens to this stress.
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Because for neurodivergent individuals,
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communication errors might be judged much more harshly.
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So the emotional risk is just, you know,
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astronomically higher.
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That makes a lot of sense.
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The stakes are raised before you have been type of single word.
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And then she brings in Moia Bailey's concept
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of the ethics of pace.
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What does that mean?
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It is this toxic modern expectation
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that because you have instant access to technology,
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you owe people an instant response.
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Yeah, that hits close to home.
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It creates what Bailey calls a false disability
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and just massive anxiety.
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You feel like you are failing just because you aren't replying
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But wait, let me push back on that for a second.
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Isn't some urgency real?
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Like, how do you separate actual emergencies
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from, you know, artificial panic when the clock is ticking?
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That is a totally fair question.
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And Langtaw and Duxbury actually did research
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on this exact thing.
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They found that urgency and importance
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are simply not the same thing.
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So we just constantly conflate the two.
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And Williamson shares this amazing real-world example.
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Someone ignored her for three weeks on a project.
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So she naturally wanted to send this super angry email.
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But instead, she paused and used chat GPT
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to just draft a polite follow-up.
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Did it actually work?
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It worked perfectly.
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The colleague apologized and sent the work.
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And it taught her this vital lesson of assuming, like,
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accidental email burying rather than intentional maliciousness.
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Yeah, giving them the benefit of the doubt even when it's hard.
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But, you know, it is not just the toxic speed
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of expected replies that causes stress.
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It is the sheer paralyzing volume of the inbox itself.
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Oh, the volume is so overwhelming.
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It is just a daily avalanche of messages.
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Like, you log in and it's just endless.
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Yeah, you have job postings, LMS announcements,
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mandatory calendar invites,
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and, you know, the free food and the break room alerts.
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Hey, the free food ones are critical, though.
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But a researcher named Ishi actually showed in 2005
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that less experienced users develop real negative feelings
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simply from confronting the sheer volume alone.
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Just from seeing the notification numbers go up.
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Yeah, cognitively exhausting.
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But this is where AI becomes a practical relief valve.
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You can use it to build automated templates
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for those cookie cutter situations.
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Like, sending out mass announcements for students
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who all have the exact same questions.
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It takes the pressure off entirely.
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Okay, here is where it gets really interesting
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but also a bit dangerous, I think.
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Well, if we automate our work
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by feeding real emails into an AI,
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aren't we risking serious privacy violations?
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Like leaking student data?
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That is such a valid point.
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And it brings up the concept of data scraping,
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which AmeriCorps discussed in 2024.
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Because the AI learns from what you feed it.
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So what is the work around them?
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There is a critical rule when using AI for emails.
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You must completely anonymize the text.
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So no names, no personal info, nothing like that.
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Strip out names, email addresses, university identifiers.
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You have to comply with privacy laws like FERPA
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before you ever generate those templates.
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That makes total sense.
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Protect the data first.
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You always want to stay compliant while saving your time.
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Let's take a brief break for a special message
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from our producer, Kurt Robbins.
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Back to you, Daphne and Fred.
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Welcome back to the Technical Writing Success Podcast,
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where we help you get smarter than your competition
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by coaching you in AI.
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So before the break, we figured out how to safely handle
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the sheer volume of daily emails.
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But what about the hard stuff?
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You mean the highly sensitive, unique emails?
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How do we handle those ones that require deep thought
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or really delicate emotional navigation?
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Well, neurodivergent individuals often struggle
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with information processing, right?
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And that can lead to incomplete thoughts
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when you are under immense pressure.
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Sure. When you are stressed,
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the right words just do not come out.
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So AI actually acts as this one AM sounding board.
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It is like a pure collaborator.
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One AM sounding board.
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I really like that framing.
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Yeah, it helps translate those budding messy ideas
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into polished professional phrasing
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when no one else is awake to help you.
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That is incredibly practical.
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Furthermore, for unique situations like email bullying,
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AI serves an entirely different function.
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You mean where people are just openly aggressive
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Well, usually it is a lot more insidious than that.
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It is when assertive communication exploits
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power dynamics to just subtly humiliate or shame someone.
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Ugh, the absolute worst.
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That leaves you feeling so powerless.
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And in those specific cases,
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AI becomes what Carolyn McGuire calls a social spy.
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Okay, what does that actually look like in practice?
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Well, it means observing how others navigate complex
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social situations so you can calibrate your own understanding.
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You learn the unwritten rules by watching.
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But you cannot exactly look over your manager's shoulder
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to watch them draft sensitive emails, right?
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But AI serves as this ultimate on-demand social spy.
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It models the boundaries for you.
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So what does this all mean for you as the user?
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It sounds like AI is basically a flight simulator
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for awkward social interactions.
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Yeah, like you can crash the plane in the simulator
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and practice different rhetorical responses
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without actually ruining your career.
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That is exactly right.
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You hit the nail on the head.
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It really takes the risk out of it.
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AI allows you to practice tone,
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audience adaptation,
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and different rhetorical choices completely safely.
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Because you do not have to actually
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hit send to test the waters.
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You do not need a real human manager looking
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over your shoulder to learn how to gracefully handle
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a passive-aggressive colleague.
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The AI just maps out the terrain for you.
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It can model those exact professional responses instantly.
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Which is pretty incredible
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when you think about the real world impact of that.
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Tying it all together,
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there are obviously valid criticisms of AI
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out there as an industry.
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Sure, like copyright issues in art
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or the massive environmental impact.
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Those are very real issues.
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But it's use some professional communication
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goes far beyond just writing words on a screen.
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It actively transforms negative emotions
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into positive effect.
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And actually gives you your agency back.
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It improves your self-esteem
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and actively builds your coping skills in real time.
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Which leaves you with a final provocative thought
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to really mull over today.
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If interacting with AI can teach us to pause,
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and draft emails with genuine empathy.
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Could practicing with AI
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actually rewire our brains
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resilient, and empathetic communicators.