Sasha Cobra: How S*x Was Weaponized to Control Humanity... | DSH #1752

Do we, as humans, in our exploration of our sexuality, seek out to watch violence and get turned on by?

Because at a certain point, you're conditioned with it, and what you are exposed to gets entangled with your body,

and then you actually need it to be.

And that's a whole other thing.

But what I'm saying is from the beginning, let's say you're a young boy,

and you just discover that there's something called,

and you Google it, and you realize that you're getting an update,

and you're like, wow, my body's alive, and I want to explore this.

And you want to see something that is true.

What is there for you to see on the internet that is even close to bringing beauty to another human?

Okay, guys, we got Sasha Cobra on today.

We're going to talk about how sex has been used to disempower humanity.

Deep topic, huh?

Yep, and a very necessary topic.

Yeah, and you're one of the few I think qualified to give a good take on this,

given all the work you've done over the years.

So first of all, thanks for coming.

Long flight for you, right?

Thank you very much.

It's okay, but it's a little late over.

Yeah, no direct flights out there.

No.

But yeah, let's dive straight into it.

So how sex has been used to disempower humanity?

Do you explain the history of that?

Yeah, so I think before we go into how sex has been weaponized to disempower humanity,

we first have to understand what sexual energy is,

what sex really is.

And I want to start off by bringing us back to understanding that at some point,

two people came together, had sex, and out of that, we were all born.

So we as humans are a physical manifestation of sexual energy.

So what is that?

Exceptional power is exceptional creative force,

and everything that is in existence comes through the sex act.

So what our bodies made out of is sex.

What is running through us is sex.

The spirit that we have, our destiny, our alignment,

everything is about the sex that moves through us because that is who we are.

And in our society, it's all about disempowerment.

It's a slave culture.

It's a trauma-induced culture.

Everything is operating on fear to control, to divide, to disempower.

And there's many different ways that we're all aware of that disempowerment happens through,

right?

So many different ways.

And we can even think about the basics, like food, right?

Our food is controlled, our air is controlled, our water is controlled,

our housing is controlled, electricity is controlled.

Everything is controlled, and even our sex is controlled.

And I think that a lot of people don't understand or don't think about sex as something really

significant for our lives and what it really means.

We think about something like an urge for reproduction,

but we actually don't have an understanding of the spiritual power of it,

and the healing modality of it.

So we as humans, we all know that we carry pain, we all carry trauma,

and whether that is trauma from experiencing things that we all could collectively call trauma,

as we know it.

That could be physical abuse, verbal abuse, sexual abuse,

but also the trauma of living in a crazy society.

You don't have a yesterday.

That as well, that's huge.

And I want to get to that, that's really significant.

But even going to just being born into a society that is backwards to nature and backwards to life,

you know, being put in a school system that is unnatural to our spirit,

you know, our expression of spirit, especially now where all of us understand that we're being lied to

and what we're being taught in schools.

So just the trauma of this very unhealthy, unnatural society and culture.

So with all of us caring that, we need healing and why.

We in our essence are born as divine beings.

We are pure, we are innocent.

We are love and body.

We all know that.

We know that children are beautiful blessing.

We look at children as the most precious thing in the world.

And what we forget as adults is that at some point we were all children ourselves.

And so we as humans are beautiful.

We're gorgeous.

We're love embodied and then bringing back up, you know,

something horrible that happened yesterday that is so present, you know,

it's really wild because I come here to this podcast with you and I'm like,

man, we're going to talk about sex.

But how do you even start a conversation about it when something

so important happens yesterday?

It happens all the time.

We're talking about one event.

But things are happening all over the world all the time.

It's just that this one really hits home for a lot of people.

Yeah.

And coming into this podcast, I was thinking, you know,

I think a lot of people don't realize how much the work that I'm doing is also connected

to what I'm seeing and witnessing from yesterday.

So we witness an assassin in assassination.

And what happened, how it happened, you know,

call it a sia, pray, is it a sia, is it not?

Whatever's going on, I'm not concerned about that.

What I'm concerned about is what humans do in our society,

with things that happen in society, right?

There's an event, something happens.

How do people react to it?

And I'm in this mastermind group on what's out with hundreds and hundreds of people.

Intelligent people, wonderful people.

This event goes off, hundreds of messages pour into it.

You know the group.

Yeah.

Hundreds of messages go into it and people start fighting one another.

How is this possible?

What do you think?

They politicized the death.

They made it right first left and then people got emotional.

But then you go one layer deeper.

How is it possible that we as humans can be so insensitive to life?

So insensitive to the essence of what we ought to be about, which is love?

There's no child on this planet that would rationalize and create logic and politicize pain.

Yeah.

And yet people's minds come in and they start wars over things that are completely unnatural

to, in my opinion, our essence and our existence as humans.

And so when I look at these things, what is the solution for that?

What is the solution for the wars that we see globally?

What is the solutions for the violence and the pain that we see on the planet?

Because for me, it is not natural to the human experience.

This is something that we're programmed with.

It's something that we're conditioned with.

And it's a byproduct of the pain that we carry

from our deepest, deepest trauma.

And that trauma is the trauma of not being loved as we should

and not being able to love as we should in a society that is so backwards.

Wow. So you think it all stems down to that when you see all these problems?

Absolutely.

Wow.

And not only just that, if you look at conflicts and relationships,

we can start closer to our intimate experience in life.

If you look at relationships, why are we so violent with one another?

How could we say we love somebody and then yell at them?

Where is that pain coming from?

And at the end of the day, when you go layer by layer into everything that people complain about,

give reason to, give logic to, at the end of the day,

it's because they feel unloved.

Wow.

So then, if we look at all these problems in the world,

and we think, what is the solution then,

to come back to a place of loving?

And how do we do that?

If we are the essence of love,

if that is essential to our nature, that is what we are when we come into existence,

then that means that it's not a matter of finding that it's a matter of cleaning out

and getting rid of all the shit that we collect in a lifetime.

All the memories, all the conditioning, all the trauma

that we collect from life, you know, it's,

this is a really crazy world that we live in.

Super crazy.

It is just completely insane and backwards.

Yeah.

And so, if the solution is love, it's not fighting, it's not conflict,

and it just, it saddens me so much, man, when I was reading these messages yesterday popping off,

someone died, someone's family right now is having to deal with grief and loss,

in a way that many of us have never had to experience.

And we're making videos about it.

Some people celebrating that, that is insanity.

Yeah, it's madness.

It's complete madness, but you know what I see?

Even from those people, they're lost.

They have to be.

No rational person will make a dancing video to that.

They're, they're lost, confused, and lacking love in themselves.

Period.

So, when I see that, what is that solution to bring them back to love?

How do we do that?

We all need healing.

What are the different ways that we can heal?

So, what I'm saying is that sexual energy is an incredible healer.

And I'm not talking about sex, you know, when we're doing this podcast,

and people are listening, there's going to be lots of people listening.

They're going to think, this is crazy.

Sex has never healed me.

Sex has brought me pain.

It's brought me problems.

It's brought me, um, imbalances of all different kinds.

You know, most people relate to sex, not from a place of beauty.

It's either an urge, an addiction, or actually something painful.

So, I'm not talking about that.

I'm talking about love making.

The way it was meant to be, which is really a physical act of loving.

Bringing our bodies together to love each other, not to use each other,

not to abuse each other, not to take, not to gratify, but to love.

And when you do that, energy is generated.

Because remember, your body is powerful life force.

We can call it sexual energy.

We can call it life force.

When you bring two people together in love making, you start to cultivate a lot of energy.

And that energy becomes a healer.

Your orgasmic states become a healer.

And they, that particular energy will clear out drama in your body,

conditioning in your body, your negating beliefs.

It brings you back through the body to you feeling love within you.

It opens up your heart.

It opens up your energy channels.

It literally will change the world if people understood how to make love rightly.

So, when we look at all of that and we understand the power that love making creates,

if we understand the healing that sexual energy brings in our connections bring,

then you got to understand that the powers that be that want to keep everybody

just empowered could not possibly just allow for such a magical, incredible,

powerful tool of transformation to be available.

Wow, yes, transformational, what sounds like?

It's absolutely transformational.

And not just within yourself, but think about it when you transform what happens.

The quality of your relationships change.

People that are happy, people that are satisfied, people that are in love,

they don't want more, they don't want violence, they don't want to cause others pain,

they want to love others.

So, then we look at all of that and those that are in power understand that,

the same way that they understand that food is our medicine, so they had to take care of the

food, they understand that water is who we are as well, that is an essential part of us,

so they control the water, they understand we need clean air to breathe, so they now take over

the air, they've taken over every single part of everything that we need essentially as humans

to have a good quality of life and love and sex is one of them.

So, then you look at how did they do that?

Yeah, we have religion and religion tells you your desire is dirty, your sex is bad,

you need to repress yourself, your desire to want to have sex to connect is something that is

sinful and shameful, you're not supposed to do it until whatever the reason is for many people

is marriage exactly, so what they create is repression, now what happens when you repress anything?

It grows, it grows, that's why when you look at countries and cultures that have a lot of religious

taboo around sexuality, they're usually countries that have a lot of violence, a lot of sexual abuse,

a lot of rape. Wow, I didn't know that, but that makes sense.

It makes sense, so then if you're going to repress something,

there's going to be a polar opposite, what's the polar opposite?

Surprise. Well, let's say suppressed and repressed, that's the same group, that's the same

hanging out, what are you doing on the other side, perversion, over sexualization, now you've got

porn, now you've got kink, you've got, I mean how many people go to church, repress themselves,

feel shameful about their desire and then their closet masturbators watching pornography,

and a lot of times it's not even your regular sex, it's kink stuff, it's violent stuff,

it's perverted stuff, it's animal stuff, I mean, just think about that, I think that we really don't

take the time out to look at life from an outside perspective, because we're so used to being

humans in such an insane and backward society that we somehow some way think it's normal,

we might not think it's normal, but we think like that's how life is, and I'm saying,

what do you think, just imagine aliens come down, and they're looking at us,

and how we operate and how we think, and what we're satisfied with, and what we're entertained with,

I mean, that's another thing, how are we even entertained with things that we watch,

in most movies and most shows, where everything that we consume has violence,

um, overshadow it, yeah, the frequency of the music, the frequency of the music,

the frequency of the movies, but again, who's controlling that, yeah, because if you hijack

every part that of what humans seek out, because we seek connection, we seek entertainment,

we want to have joy, right, but I mean, there's days when I may be sitting around thinking,

oh, it'd be so nice to watch a movie, and then I get to turning on, let's say, Netflix,

and you start watching the trailers, I can't bear watching movies. Yeah, it makes you feel terrible,

because everything is so violent, it's so backwards to nature, people are always in conflict,

there's always fights, there's not even romantic movies out there anymore that actually build up

beauty, and if you think about it, it's like the chicken and the eggs people will see like,

oh, but that's just life, what you see in movies is just life, and I'm saying, is it really,

or are we consuming all of that, and then regurgitating it, and saying that that's life,

right, what came first, because just imagine, what if there is a Netflix, but every single movie

showed beauty, every single movie showed how to resolve conflict through harmony, how to do things

lovingly, how to use superpowers, your intuition, how to be accessing states of yourself that are

truly divine, what if that was the programming that we were receiving, what did you think the world

would look like? Be a lot better, you could say, Guy is kind of doing that right? Yeah, but Guy is

a lot of educational stuff, you know, and they do put out some movies, but we're not talking about

high quality productions, movies, entertainment, stories, you know, we're not talking about that,

I was on the airplane actually on the way here, I watched a movie, I watched a new version of Snow White.

How was it? Beautiful and yet so much propaganda and programming. I mean, it's

different. I mean, the remake is beautiful, but when you look at the story in itself,

it is filled with trauma, and you know, I look through the lens of trauma because I work with a lot

of people, and a lot of people come to me for trauma of all different kinds, all different kinds,

and even if you had a fairy tale childhood, your pants love you, everything's great,

do you realize that they try to get you even through their movies? Because when you watch the

movies in Snow White, and it's funny, I come here to do a podcast about sex, and here we're talking

about Snow White, but a little girl loses her mother, there's a grief there, her father gets killed,

there's grief there, she gets an evil mother who kills her, like the whole movie is filtered

through a lens of pain, but these movies are supposed to be for kids.

So kids are being traumatized and directly, even if they have a great childhood just through

watching and consumption of that. Yeah. Which is complete insanity. Yeah, cartoons have changed

over the years. I feel like, because I used to watch them growing up, they were way more innocent.

Yeah, but I understand, I feel like everything's going up and not, but like,

think about Tom and Jerry back in the days, all that, everything has always had,

everything that has been created and funded by those in power, because they do control the media,

they control everything that is significant to our consumption as humans is controlled by

very small group of people. Wow. And if they are the ones in control, they are controlling the

experience of your reality while you are living in this society, in this culture, in this world,

basically, because of this point, we don't, anywhere you go in the world, wow, I was going to say

any rake on the world, it's not really true, but the air is toxic in most places. They're being

spread. Especially cities. And especially cities. So in most places, of course, not everywhere,

but in most places and places where people are most concentrated is where we're poisoned the

most to all different means. So I want to go back to the conversation of how we consume these

things and the point, right? Why does porn look the way it does? Do we as humans in our exploration

of our sexuality seek out to watch violence and get turned on by it? Seek out? No, we don't.

Well, these days it seems like people, that's another, that's another topic and I'll get to it

because at a certain point, you're conditioned with it and what you are exposed to gets entangled

with your arousal and then you actually need it to be aroused. And that's a whole other thing.

But what I'm saying is from the beginning, let's say you're a young boy and you just discover that

there's something called sex and you Google it and you realize that you're getting an erection

and you're like, wow, my body's alive and I want to explore this and you want to see something

that is sexual. What is there for you to see on the internet that is even close to bringing beauty

to another human? Porn. But what I'm saying is in porn, is it showing you how to bring beauty

to another human? No, it's just physical. It's just physical and I mean it's, I'm so touched by

having this conversation, have you answered because in a way, you're answering so innocently.

While I'm picturing my first time watching it, it was literally in high school and exactly what

you just described. Yeah, but the reason why I'm saying it like that is because you're thinking

of regular porn, but do you know how much other types of porn and categories and kinks there are?

Oh, I know. Yeah, stop watching porn. I hear about it. So, so what I'm saying is that there's

there's a lot to consume, but even if we just stick to two people having sex in the porn video,

they're not really loving each other. No, definitely. And when you go to nowadays where we look at

free porn sites, did you ever see the documentary called Pornocracy? Was that the one against

porn hub or no? And you porn? I think so. Yes, it wasn't so much against it. It was like a journal,

a journalist investigating into who owns the porn industry. Yeah, that was Layla, right? Layla,

Michael White. She's coming out. I don't remember the name. I think it was her thing. And at this

point, I mean, the documentary is quite outdated, but I found it to be fascinating at the time,

because I had been speaking about the fact that humans are giving their life force energy

while masturbating to point. You're literally giving power, life force, while watching and

participating in something. What is it? And who is providing for you that ritual? And what you

learn in pornography, for example, is a very small group of people that are controlling the whole

narrative of what you're getting conditioned with with your arousal. And here's the deep thing.

If you start watching porn of a certain type, your body responds, right? Your body is going to

respond because it responds to stimuli. It's seeing, it's seeing things. It's getting activated,

right? And in that activation, if you have certain images that you don't want to see, because

like I said, humans don't want to see violence when they're, unless they're already

got some issues, but they don't want to see violence. I just want to see sex. But if that violence

is infused, for example, if you're watching porn and what you're hearing is demeaning words being

said, the conversation, even the titles to the porn, why are all the titles to the porn have a

flavor of pedophilia? Yeah, stepbrother or something. Why? Why is it insistent pedophilia? Yeah.

Who came up with the idea? And you got to remember who's controlling all of this, right? So who came

up with the idea to infiltrate your arousal with insistent pedophilia ideas? So then

you're watching adult women in schoolgirl outfits. You're watching women with completely

shaven vaginas that look like vaginas of a 12-year-old girl versus a grown woman.

And whether you like it or not, you even being an innocent 15-year-old that just wants to

explore his body is being programmed with how your arousal is going to now, over time, be linked

to certain images and ideas. And even, I mean, the topic of pedophilia for me is very, very close

to my heart because I work, as I mentioned to you, I work with a lot of people that come to me for

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So that it's something that I've been, that's been very present for me and the stories

that I have heard on the stories I've heard. It's it's mind-boggling. It's terrifying. And how

common it is and also how common it is for men because a lot of times when we think about

sexual abuse, we just think it's it's more of a female thing because most men never share about

their abuse experience and even less if it's sexual abuse. And so when we're looking at

these images and pornography and masturbating to them and getting aroused by them,

it's something simple. I mean it's people may think like wow she's over exaggerating but

understand that when you when you understand the functions of the body and you understand that

we are bio computers and you understand that we are programs subconsciously all the time through

our consumption of what we consume. If your penis is responding to women wearing schoolgirl outfits

and having shaven vaginas and then all of a sudden you actually see a schoolgirl with a shaven

vagina your body is going to be programmed to respond. Your intelligent adult mind hopefully

will say this is crazy and disconnect from the feeling but something will happen. And I don't

think that we as a society are aware of how much programming we are getting for pedophilia

through movies. And the way that children are being sexualized in movies through different

angles through different conversations through how they speak. I mean it's been going on for years.

And so again we look at how sexuality and sex has been weaponized because if you repress

you pervert. So now that repression and that shame and that taboo and the sin and all the dirtiness

creates even more intensity for I want to explore sexuality. And the way that you do it while

hiding in your closet you know metaphorically speaking or not is by then being exposed to what

they tell you it is. And with that programming yourself all the time to have very unnatural

ways and distorted ways of loving, of loving physically. And then you also have to understand that

in order for us to utilize our sexual connections for healing it's an energetic connection we have

to being in the body we have to feel the reason why women are known to have to struggle with

being orgasmic or having orgasms is because women are very much energetically oriented when it comes

to sex they need to feel energy to have an orgasm men can get away with some rubbing

and something will happen but even then it's a tiny fraction of the capacity of pleasure that they

can experience but at least they haven't experienced but for women they need that energetic

connection they were they came here to love they came here to be loved a woman has to experience

her beauty from the inside out this is this topic is so huge like just look at women in this world

to start what are they obsessing over what do you think women obsess over what do you think

what do you think takes over their mental space culturally well the feminism movement is big

right now so maybe equality i was not expecting that answer but that's one of it's definitely

present what else just look at the industry what is one of the biggest industries on the planet

beauty yes yes on so many levels why are women obsessed with that when they are them

body meant beauty i'm with you and i love all natural beauty i hate makeup and all that women are

the embodiment of beauty and they got tricked and they got tricked because they were never taught

to experience the sensuality and the beauty of the energy that moves through them they don't

enjoy their bodies they're disconnected from their bodies and by default it makes them be

disconnected from their power and from their love women ought to be love embodied that is their

thing wow that is their powerhouse this is their positive pull this is their place of power this

should be the center ground for what women represents and why is it that we encounter

manipulation from the feminine pain trickery like culturally when we look at what's going on you

know when i watch social media clips so i'm just scrolling on instagram a lot of the interviews like

the conversations that we're having as humans nowadays are complete insanity and all

chords to anything that is bringing beauty to our world and women are starving to be seen to be

admired to be loved and you know what the remedy is making love to her because in love making

she gets to know herself that she cannot know herself otherwise to be physically loved

in a female body is to be filled up with love look at the mechanics

when a man puts his loving penis loving penis with energy his love pouring out of him like

a fountain inside of her he fills her up with love that energy moves up to her heart

it expands her it opens her it's a rarity nowadays but if you ever get to see a woman

that has been well loved she is radiating she's glowing she is glowing you can tell honestly

and men too but it's a different type of glow now i could tell when i meet a woman that's got a good

love life you could tell pretty quick yes and and for a man to love is to be king to love is to be king

because a man really will not know his power until he gets to witness the beauty that is reflected

through the woman from what he brings to her in love with king love love so i got a big male

audience you got to teach these guys how can they infuse their penis with some some love and some

good energy i just got goosebumps so let me start by saying this i've been doing this work for

18 years almost 19 the first eight years that i did my work i worked exclusively with men

so we're talking about thousands of men thousands of male bodies thousands of intimate conversations

they've never had with anyone else about topics that they've never shared with anyone else

and all of them make themselves small inside what do you mean by that i mean that most men

are scared of their power well they don't operate from a place of power they operate from a place of

i want to be a good guy i don't want to be historically what i've seen the patriarchy be

i don't want to be the hashtag me too guy i don't want to be the rapey guy i want to be a good guy

what does that mean they're holding back they're holding back and where they hold back the most

is in their genitals most men are completely disconnected from their genitals energetically

and you know a really simple exercise for the people watching or listening

if i tell you to feel your hand without moving it you know just now feel your hand

can you feel it well yeah can you feel your penis i would say yes

but at the least do you see how you hesitated i feel the hand more yeah you feel the hand more

so most men will feel their hand will feel their arm will feel their foot and when it comes to

feeling their genitals energetically they can't find it wow there's no connection to that part of

the body and there's no connection to it why because if the man wants to be a good guy he's scared

of his desire he's scared of his sex and by default when you as a man disconnect from your sex

you disconnect from your power you disconnect from your confidence you disconnect from the part

of your body that you love and be loved through i mean think about it you love from that part of

the body what a man sees a woman but he loves he goes oh i just love her so much i just want to be

inside of her it's natural it's beautiful he wants to love her through that part of the body

how does he feel loved how does a man feel loved he always gravitates everything toward

his positive for his genitals hmm i mean think about it and i know it's kind of simplified

what i'm sharing but when a man has given a really good blowjob he walks away going i think i

love her sucks yeah it's when he feels the most loved and i'm not talking about again some

pornographic friction oriented blowjob i'm not talking about that i'm talking about devotion

i'm talking about adoration i'm talking about admiration i'm talking about love i'm talking about a

woman not not just rubbing his penis to the point of ejaculation but making love to him with her

mouths that's when he feels wow his heart opens up he feels love so we're talking about a part of

his body that is there for loving and for being loved if you disconnect from that we're again

talking about violence in the world right yeah again talking about frustration if people were all

making love beautifully on this planet there would be no wars wow that's deep

there would be no violence there would be no conflict because we would be in love with our own

selves we would feel our beauty we would feel our worth we would have confidence we would

feel powerful we wouldn't need to hurt we wouldn't need to dominate we wouldn't need to conquer

you think there's been a time in history where it was like that in the past you know

it's hard to say for me and i only say that because what do we know about history like a hundred

years ago a lot of it's BS yeah we're just finding out so we don't know what life was like

really five hundred years ago a thousand years ago i mean we don't even know what happened

a hundred years ago because there's a whole tertiary and empire that is not spoken of but that

existed i've had to unlearn so much history recently so it's hard for me to say i would i

would say this i can't imagine that it never was like this hmm i can't imagine that because for me

it is how it should be but i also understand that there have been forces on this planet

that have created a lot of backwardsness and how long that's been i don't know

like you said you've had thousands of people you've consulted with over the years you've talked

them some of the most traumatized people do you see a pattern with with the trauma and the love

making of course of course and and a big trauma and let me double back before i get to that because

there's one more thing i want to add for the conversation with them

to really understand how to make love to a woman as a man you have to be connected to your penis

and so when we also speak about pornography is i'm not talking about some moral thing it's bad or

wrong you should do this you should not do that i'm talking about what quality of man do you want to be

who do you want to be for the people in your life who do you want to be for yourself how do you

want to walk in the world do you want to be powerful or do you want to be somebody who's small

disempowered just trying to make ends meet looking for validation and so if you want to be a powerful man

and if you want to bring beauty to the woman in your life or a woman in your life

you've got to be connected to your genitals so if you want to be a great lover

you've got to connect to your genitals energetically and what does porn do i'm not talking about

morals i'm not even talking about now what your consumption is i'm not talking about what you're

watching talking about the fact that when you're awareness and your attention is on a screen

it's not in your body so we're also talking about young generations now of young guys

that are have access to the internet in ways that i did not when i was growing up and so

they condition their bodies to get aroused through mental stimulation not their feeling

and then they wonder or at least i will save and i wondered at the beginning because when i was

doing this work i had men come to me for erectile dysfunction when they were older

let's say over 60 yeah then it was over 50 and it was over 40 and it was over 30 and now you've got

guys in their late and their early 20s saying i can't get an erection is that really a biological problem

no no it's a feeling problem it's mental right yes i mean you can call it mental but i'm saying it's

a disconnect from feeling because if you're all the time programming yours you're tricking your

body to feel something through mental stimulation and then you get in a room with a real woman

and now you got to feel how do you do that if all you've been doing is training yourself

to get aroused and have your body respond to mental images yeah and then on top of that when people

watch porn they're not you know sitting back for an hour watching some long video they're usually

fast-forwarding it to different images because the mind always needs novelty how do you do that with

a real human okay you can't so then how is your body gonna have enough novelty mental stimulation

for it to get aroused by to respond to yeah all valid points so if a man wants to be a great lover

he's got to connect to his penis to have energy there so cut off porn and what else should they do

give them so essential massage without the mental stimulation

sensual massage yeah so i'm calling it that because i don't want to call it masturbation because

masturbation how most guys masturbate is actually very violent on their body they're jerking

yeah they're rubbing they're being hard on it they're not listening to their body a lot of times

you know when i'm working with people even in workshops because we we work on the genital area of

the body everybody's got clothes on energetically you can even do it with no touch but when we do

that the things that come up for a lot of men as they start crying while and they start crying

because of the abuse that they've endured in that part of the body and i'm not talking about

abuse from outside you know sexual abuse i'm talking about the abuse of masturbating too rough

sometimes do a full ton today having sex too rough and it's not even some i don't care how often

somebody's doing it how are you doing it what is the quality of touch that you're bringing to your

body yeah and so if you want to cultivate power and strength for one you've got to stop losing

your seat all the time you've got to spilling it everywhere we're talking about life force

but most importantly you have to cultivate intense power in that part of the body which means

that you do engage with that part of the body and i'm calling it sensual massage because i want

people to understand that it's different from masturbation but for people that masturbate

sensually i would say do what you do with masturbation but get all the mental pictures out right and

not just porn mental pictures in your mind too really of course because it's about feeling it's

about sensation see we've over sexualized everything it is so strange to me that somebody could see

boobs and get an erection that's strange to you of course really and i mean think about it if you

go into places where there's tribes you think that in tribes where they're naked all the time

they're running around with erections when women are just walking around topless this is cultural

think about that in in tribes where people are naked or almost naked how do they get turned on

there's gotta be something different you don't think they got turned on from seeing a naked girl

but if everybody's naked all the time yeah they probably get used to it of course you get used to it

so then you there has to be something else and why do we get so turned on i mean think about it

like you won't get turned on if you see my elbow no no but in some cultures where people are covered

up all of the time a little bit of arm came create an erection in the man right right so again

we're talking about conditioning we're talking about cultural stuff we're talking about again

repression perversion repression over sexualization yeah because now on Instagram you scroll as a

naked girl with her butt and guys get turned on but isn't that a little bit weird

never thought a bit that way i just assumed men are naturally just attracted to to beauty like that

but is it beauty that we're looking at the body isn't the body beautiful but the body is

exceptionally beautiful but is what turns them on beautiful because look i'm not here to shame

people on their decisions but since when did plastic sex inside a body turn on a man

plastic stuff i'm saying it like that like a condom you mean no i'm talking about breast implants

i'm saying it like that because if we're talking about the body being beautiful and the body's

magical it's miraculous it's it's incredible the liveliness that comes the beauty of the breasts the

breasts are exceptionally beautiful yeah but at what point because someone will do this they will

actually want their girl to get breast implants that's crazy to me it is crazy and what i'm saying is

that at what point did that become something where beauty is putting plastic sex in your body

yeah no that's a really good question it's concerning that woman feel like they have to do that

to their bodies these days honestly and now it's with their butts right and it's always

something else and then the lips and then it's at what point did we stop celebrating beauty and life

because now what we're focusing on is just parts yeah i think over sexualized parts oh yeah

and i'm saying it like that because look you need for you to feel something in love making

you got to feel energy 100% how are you going to feel a fully alive body that has been chopped up

caught open traumatized in so many different ways completely disembodied how how is that

a turn on and i and i want to save this from the depth of my heart for the women that have done

through this because look we live in a sick culture we receive so much like it literally brings tears

to my eyes because i got nothing but love for these women and my journey with these women is that

no matter what they've done to their bodies they've got to at some point start loving

they've got to start loving their bodies and whatever place they're at however it is

and stop over sexualizing on themselves because they're hurting themselves immensely

i think a lot of them feel pressure because of social media they're constantly comparing themselves

and turn that shit off easier to have been done is it i mean you're off-grid in Mexico living in

America in a major city good luck with that but look i'm not off-grid you know no i'm not off-grid

and i'm very much involved with people because i work with people well you know how to control your

emotions and your your um you have good self-awareness i don't think most people have those skills

i'm human we're all human but at some point we have to make really strong decisions

i i i'm not perfect now i was never perfect i've had a life of all kinds of experiences in my life

but at some point you have to choose you i'm big on that i'm not and i'm not saying that it's easy

but i'm saying that when things happen in our life that brings shock even something like what happened

yesterday something has to move in you to say which side of life am i going to be on

the one that uplifts or the one that reaffirms insanity the one that continues to cause pain

or the one that brings healing you have to make that choice otherwise you're going to keep

feeding the monster when it's really not even your fault because it was handed to you it was

programmed into you and it's a virus that you're running in your bio computer and you got to understand

that you do have the power to uninstall it's not who you are we are not bad people we are not evil

we are divine loving beings that picked up some bad software programs and we have the capacity to

unplug and unplugging is not about you know running away from life and plugging is saying

i choose me and i choose love and i choose truth and i choose life

really well said you have such a powerful message i felt a really strong connection with us like

i can't believe it's been 50 minutes this flew by i could talk to you for hours

we're enough to film a part too yeah i dodges flew by yeah i'm like really fast and that's not even

touching the surface there's so much to it because the thing is it's you know i yes i'm a sex

teacher and yes i'm a spiritual teacher but it's not about sex it's about life and sex is a big

part of it it's such an essential part of who we are but it impacts every aspect of our existence

of our life and even events like yesterday yeah well you have your own events too right where can

people keep in touch with you so i i do in-person workshops i actually have one in october in

November i don't know when this will be aired we'll link it in the video yeah great and i

and i created recently so as you know i i mentioned to you that i used to do a lot of private

sessions yeah a lot i stopped offering private sessions to the general public and i still continue

to work with high profile individuals and in place of those private sessions i created an online

membership where we explore what most people don't and love truth and errors and it is

i highly highly recommend it because we we do energy work this is another topic we didn't

even touch on this yeah we'll buy you orgasms i wish i could experience that one though

without touch that's crazy and then imagine doing it online with people from all over the world

know what all at the same time because you're not limited by time and space and then on top of

that there's so look the online community that i have there's so many resources there's so many

tools and i know the people are there because they love the work but what i love are the people

because when you are living in a city and you look at the world and you say like gosh this world

is fucked and then you come into a community that is really truly about love and truth and it

nourishes you and it feeds you and people meet each other and it's like this is what life should be

it's beautiful we'll include that link to the community as well Sasha thanks for your time

yeah we're gonna have to do this again because i still have so many questions for you

yeah but thanks are common thank you so much for having me it's been a pleasure checker out guys

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