Second Date Update: Sunset Scribbles

0:00Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning. We got a brand new second day episode for you. Yes, but first some time for reflection. Oh, reflection. Yes, because we got so many comments about the very brand new episode, very first time ever, Alexis asks you out. Very awkward, why don't you get it? Last week, but thank you guys so much. Your comments are so nice. I was reading all of them, and I was like, oh, I just wanted to expect to eat. You guys are so sweet. You're so nice. Thank you guys, Comments. Yes, thank you. Yes, Alexis, you're a freaking amazing. I would 100% let you ask my next day down. Whoa, that's what you took from that, though. OK. Wainey said, finally, my girl, Alexis, has her time to shine. Not going to lie, this might be my favorite part of the show from now on. Love from Poland. Oh, you want more? Oh, yes. And then Libby said, I really needed a good laugh today, and Alexis did that for me. Oh, wow. The beginning was cringe. Yeah, but you recovered it pretty well. Really? Yeah, I've got to fix that. Did you see one about how fast you talked? Yes, Shantel said, I normally listen to your show on 1.5 speed

1:02because you talk too slow. But Alexis's new segment is the first time I could slow it down to one time's normal speed. Then we're on the same wavelength. That's really funny. So thank you so much, Raleigh. It got over 40 comments on the tour. No, you guys are so nice. Thank you. Even though I know you were, you know, it was the awkwardness most of you let you know you like. Yeah. I'm still recovering, but your comments help. All right, we're going to get to a brand new second date update right now. Broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. A popular influencer on Instagram recently got millions of views for a 10 second clip where she said she has a theory that the more attractive you get, the less likely you are to get a boyfriend or a girlfriend. And if you're a nine or a 10, you're basically cooked and are never going to be able to lock any one down. You know, I can actually see this. My best friend was stunning. And you don't have to talk about me like I'm not in the room. And people were intimidated by her. And they thought she was mean, but she wasn't. She was just shy and hot.

2:02Like it's not a, you know, it's a hard combination to live with. But also she's rare because a lot of them are mean. Yeah, but they've earned that right because they're so hot. And I wonder if our listener Tammy who's on the phone right now would agree with that since she's actually the one who sent me that clip. Oh, so Tammy, you you believe that, huh? You guys, yeah, I sent that to you because I agree with it. And I feel like it applies to me right now. OK, so you're the, you're the hot girl having a hard time in the dating world. Yeah, like I've been told them I'm a nine or a 10. But if I am that attractive and you're that attractive, then chances are you also already have like a very small group of people who are in your league at all. So the chances of them, like, you have no chance. You have no chance. If you're if you're really hot, there's not very many other hot people to date and you don't want to date down. Is that what I'm hearing? Yeah, it's if you're looking for equal in numbers. Yeah, right. And like I used to be nice. I used to be too nice.

3:03OK, that's what we just said. I was like, so the same. You're like, this is right. Yeah, that's tense for you. But all the terrible men out there obviously couldn't meet up to your nice standard. So you had to get mean. Like after a while, you teach this next is a seven and oh, sorry. Like seven. Oh, that's why she said, oops, yeah. You teach them enough about themselves. Like I was I was being ratified by like helping out guys that weren't in my league, like when I was younger, you know, and then it's like self improvement. And when you feel like you're finally finding yourself on a new level, like your world opens up. There are like levels of 9s and 10s. You find yourself and you're like, I made it. Yeah, I am not fully following all of this. I'm going to be honest with you. Yeah, I'm fully with you by the way, Tammy, I'm like, our brains are connected. Can we get to your date that you're calling us about? I want to talk about this more. But okay, I guess you've met a guy though that has matched your standards that you're holding for yourself. What's his name? Yes, his name's Tucker.

4:03Okay. And I didn't even know I had this standard honestly, because I have never seen his moves before. His moves. His move. Like the moves he put on me were like, I mean, they were like 11 moves. Oh, yeah. And he reached around and put his arm. That's a, that's a four screen. Yeah. Tell us about Tucker, how you guys met and what his moves were. Too hot. We met off the app. Too hot. Okay. Yeah. And first we got drinks. It was good drinks. And then we watched the sunset. And then after that, we saw a band that his friends were in. But like, it was the sunset moves. What were the sunset moves? What do you do? So here's what he does. He has like a little backpack. He pulls out two notebooks and he gave me a notebook. And he was like, let's journal. Oh, that's deep. Why did I want him to pull out champagne for you? A picnic basket? Are you not impressed with that? I don't know. I'm all for journaling on your free time, not on a date. Okay.

5:04You liked the journal moves. Okay. It seemed corny. But like, first of all, there weren't a lot of other people around. Okay. So I was like a little more kind of natural. And then like, I don't know. It just turned out nice. Okay. Like, you know, we weren't even talking. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I don't understand. Like, if this was all great, like, the drinks were great. The attractive level was great. You guys connected on a deeper. Yeah. Like, why wouldn't he be calling you back? Yeah, I know. Well, then we went to see the band. Yeah. So that kind of like changed it up. Like, we didn't really get to live in that moment. Like, yeah, we could have gone back to this place, you know what I'm saying? Oh. Yeah. Oh. If he asked you. You want to say yes? Yeah. I mean, if we could have journaled at his house too. Like, I don't know. Yeah. Okay. So you didn't enjoy the band experience to end the night. Well, he knew them, but I didn't. So I kind of just. Like, and I just had a really intense experience with him. And then it's like back to reality. Like, we weren't able to connect on that level that we had reached. So like, we were there for maybe 45 minutes.

6:04Oh. And then he's just walking to my car. But you gave me a kiss. Oh. Oh, good. It was a nice kiss. Yeah. I mean, it was like it didn't say much, but it wasn't like an experience. It wasn't like, it was warm. Like, the lips were the magic happens, you know? Okay. Okay. That's a line for your journal, for sure. Okay. So what's happened since that night? He isn't getting back to me. Like, I only know who he is through the app. And that's been perioding too. It was like, we aren't connected on social. So I don't know if he just like isn't using the app anymore. Like, I'm telling you, he's Prince Charming. Can we? You're saying that you can't find him online anywhere. Is that what you're saying? Yeah. Well, I can't find him online. So I can't stalk him. He's someone's in his life. And like, yeah, like he gave me his phone number. But I don't know. I think he, I don't think he forgot about me. But like, I mean, he's winning at life. So like, maybe. No, he's not winning. He's not winning at life because he doesn't have you in it, right? Right. Right. I'm going to write that. Yeah.

7:04I'm going to write that down. That's a great new romantic. That was good. That is real. Wow. I'm myself. Anyway. I'm disappointed in Tucker because you shouldn't be the one that's seeking him out. He should be seeking you out as the nine and 10 to like fulfill his part of his life. Yeah. Okay. I'm going to scratch that one out of the journal. That was not good. That wasn't. No, it didn't hit. Okay. But we're going to make sure that it hits right when we come back. We'll call Tucker and ask him why he's not calling back the most gorgeous girl he's ever matched with on the dating ass. Hey, we don't know that. That she has to be. Oh, yeah. We'll come back and do it right after this. Hold on. Broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. Why does God punish all the extremely attractive women of this world? Okay. Someone's just turning in confused. I don't know, Jeff. I know all the fours and fives are listening to this right now. I feel so bad for the nines and tanks. They have it so hard.

8:05I mean, yeah. This is really the definition of empathy. Yes. I never thought pretty privilege could be this dark. Is there a go fund me for these poor women? What can I do to help? Okay. If you're thinking that, here's what you can do. No one's thinking that. Text in to 78592 and cheer on our listener Tammy. That's right. A self-described hottie with all of the looks and personality to offer. But no man on earth who can handle her. I feel like you should start a nonprofit where we adopt one. We really should. We know worst cases of nine. The only guy who maybe can come close is Tucker. A good looking dude who took her to an area to watch the sunset and busted out some journals so they could write down their feelings together. And I thought that was pretty cool because you were really concentrated on people's looks for a minute there. But then the activity that you liked was really deep and thoughtful. Good for you. Oh, I can't take responsibility for the journal idea, you know. But I did say yes to it.

9:06Well, I know, but it's a thing that you like. I mean, I will use it. If he doesn't, if he really doesn't like me, then I will use it with someone else. Okay. That's worst case scenario. Assuming Tucker would say no, I don't know why he would to another chance to go out with you. Well, a gorgeous woman. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. If they journaled like it sounds like on his end, it was a great night. You guys are making me want to call him. Can you just call him? Yeah. Okay. God, I wish we could FaceTime though, because I really want to see this guy. No. Tammy's right. Let's get this over with and hopefully get Tucker on the phone. Here we go. Hello. Hey, is this Tucker? Yeah. Who is this? Hey, man, this is a radio show. We're called Broken Jeffrey in the morning. Yeah. What's up? Good morning. Hey, Tucker. I was just mid workout. Is this important? What is this about? Oh, sorry. Yeah. I don't mean to like getting in the way of your hot and sweaty right now. Yeah. Yeah.

10:06Early morning work. Thanks for putting that image in my head. Yeah. Awesome. Great. Listen, Tucker. Well, try not to waste too much of your time because I know you've got important body sculpting to do. But this is called a second date update. And we're trying to help out one of our listeners that you went out with recently. Lovely woman named Tammy. Oh. Okay. Okay. You remember? Yeah. What is this about? Why are you guys calling me about Tammy? Because Tammy's a little bit confused. She thought the two of you had a nice time together. But since then, you haven't been reaching out for another meetup. Yeah. Well, to be honest, I was a little turned off. What? Oh, really? I mean, can you tell us at what point you were turned off during the night because we heard it and it sounded pretty good start to finish? I'm not sure what she told you about what happened during our day. We can give you a quick recap. There was a sunset.

11:06There was journaling. There was a concert. There was kissing. Yeah. And your friends were like in the band or something? Yeah. Yeah. So we were at the concert and, you know, we got drinks. And I went to go look at my journal and reflect, you know. And when she was gone, she went to the bathroom. So at that point, I went and looked at my journal. Okay. I, I guess they switched. So I pulled out hers instead. Okay. Oh, so you accidentally grabbed hers? Yeah. And I, I opened it up and I just started reading. Oh, what? What didn't you open it up and then be like, oh, that's not mine. I should close that. Like, isn't the whole point of journaling to share like unedited uninterrupted thoughts that no one would ever hear? Well, maybe he didn't realize those weren't his thoughts until he was through prayer. He's like, damn, my poetic. My name's Tucker. This feels like such a breach of privacy, man. Well, what about reading it was a turn off? Well, after I got a couple of sentences in, I kind of realized it was just all over the place.

12:09And it was all just about track. It's this 910. It was kind of shallow. She was. When she was writing that stuff down. Yeah, she was writing all that kind of stuff down. There was nothing about like the ocean or the sunset or like peace, which is what of my journaling is all about. I know, but like, I mean, give her a break. You just sprung it on earth. She also didn't think anybody would ever see it. Yeah. So what I'm trying to figure out, what about her not doing that? Like, why is that a red flag or why was that a turn off to you? Well, because she was sort of writing about how he's a nine. I'm a nine. And we should just end the concert and then just often come to his place. Oh, she's literally saying. She was writing down exactly what she told her. Yeah. She was like dream boarding. Yeah. So I think I just think I need someone deeper or on my level. And in terms of how they act. And it just seemed pretty shallow at the end of the day. Yeah. Okay.

13:09I'm going to say. To be fair, journal. To be fair, she loved that exercise. And that was the thing that attracted her to you the most. Yeah. I feel like that speaks to what her priorities are. Great. Hey, bro, don't speak for her. Tammy can speak for herself because Tucker, you should know she's actually on the other line listening to this call waiting to talk to you. Not going to be happy. I mean, it's kind of like reading your journal, but just out loud. Tammy, are you there? Yeah. I'm just going to stand at what a creep you are apparently. Oh, no. Oh, I'm assuming that's about Tucker and not us. Yeah. I mean, who like who micromanages someone's journal entries? Oh, I someone with some personality. I would say a stalker. Maybe a stalker does. Well, this is devolving quickly. Yeah. He said it was an accident. He didn't mean to pick up your journal. He just, oh, he didn't mean to read.

14:10Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Music was going, the brain wasn't braining. You know how it happens. You know, you could have read my journal. It's much deeper. You would have loved it. Oh, wait. Are you talking about her? I mean, now's the chance for you to share the entry that you wrote. Do you have a theory? I do. I do. I don't know if we want to go down this path. Honestly. Yeah. He's like, she's a nine. I'm a 10. Sunset red. Oh, she's blue. I mean, we're kidding, bro. It sounds like Tucker feels like Tammy. You came off as being really shallow and only interested in his looks. Surface level. Is that fair? I mean, first of all, I don't think you can judge much about me from like 10 minutes of just writing whatever. That's like first shallow. And then you kept both like what do you have a big stack of women's journals back at your flop house? Wait. He took your journal. Yeah. He just put them in his backpack. I thought, you know, that's again, this is why I thought that like we were going to have a little.

15:12You know, once I read that journal, I realized I shouldn't have wasted any more paper on you. And I. Oh, wow. It wasn't even a new journal. It already had pages ripped out of the front. Oh, no. So you've done this other women. You have them right down their thoughts and then you judge them on it. Take the journal back. Oh, wait. Now you're sounding kind of shallow. Yeah. Tucker, how dare you have standards for the type of women that you want to date? No. I mean, apparently you think I'm a nine. So I don't see the issue. That's all you were writing about anyway. Well, I think we're nine. We're nine, you know, I mean, I'm willing to go. I'm willing to look past them, honestly. What? Oh, what? Even though he betrayed you and read all of your personal thoughts. I just said all those terrible things. Well, okay, but like you know, I'm sorry. Tucker Earmuff. I do know about Rose. Like they need some help. Yeah. I mean, I can hear his six back through the phone right now. You don't really happen then, right?

16:12You said you were literally pumping iron right now. That's the girl. Do not want a project. No matter how hot it is. Think for yourself. You're kind of a project either way. Mine will be hot. Hey, you know, that's a good point. You know that 25 year old Brooke would be all over Tucker right now. Oh, I dated hot and dumb. Yeah. Yeah. So let Tammy do the same. All right. I'm a little offended here that you guys are making fun of me and calling me dumb. No. I bought two journals. Oh. Well, that's fair. Yeah. Brooke, do you want to apologize? Not one, but you know what? You're right. Yeah. Look for one that's more. That is the sign of intelligence. So now that we're finally all on the same page. And the other ones have been ripped out. Let's just ask. Nice, Jeff. Tucker, would you be willing to give Tammy a second chance here? And go out on another date with her? Come on. Let's get some food. We didn't even get a good meal before the last date. Bro, you must be so hot Tucker.

17:12He is all about it, man. You know, I'm enough to pass. What? With that money that you would have paid for the date, I think you should buy Tammy a notebook. And she can do some journaling. Hopefully it's a little bit better. Yeah. Tucker, we're not as deep as you, bro. There's no way we'd be able to pull it off. I feel like the only thing you know is about his journals. Yeah. You guys should try it. It does a lot for the soul. Okay. Wait a minute. Try writing or try reading somebody else's. Little this little that. All right. Well, hey, Tucker, we appreciate you being on with us. You can go back to working out and making that body perfect. And Tammy, you dodged a hot bullet. You really did. I wanted that hot bullet so bad. Oh, my God. All right. Got the next line for my journal. Huh? We're looking Jeffrey in the morning. Man, I respect a woman who goes after what she wants and ignores all the glaring red flags because she puts herself in her feelings first.

18:13You know, or you want what you can't have Jeff. I believed her at first when it was hard for her to date. But then after hearing this, I'm like, girl, it's because of what you're picking. Yeah. They're both kind of perfect. You just did this to yourself. Yeah. And she didn't mind it. She had no shame saying she did not want to dodge that hot bullet. At least it was all on the table for her. Yeah. That's true. It just didn't work out this time. I hope we hear back from both of them in an update update. Really? You want that? I do. Didn't he say no? I think it'll turn around. Oh. You'll read her journal and see like actually we are meant for each other. Maybe the next girl's journal he reads because it felt like a trick almost. Maybe he'll talk about her. I'm holding on to hope. Maybe that's stupid of me. But if you've missed any second dates in the last few months, go ahead and find us on Apple and Spotify. Yeah. Where'd we get your podcasts and binge us until your hearts contend. Hey, yeah. Greatest in nine or be honest and give us a five. Yeah. That's fine too.