Soaking, Jump Humping, and Creative Virginity Loopholes

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Is it sex if you’re just soaking? What about butt stuff? Or dry humping in your underwear?

In this quick follow-up to our viral episode on virginity, I sit down with Dr. Sue Milstein to unpack the wild “workarounds” people use to technically stay virgins… even when they're doing everything but.

We touch on:

• Soaking 
• Anal sex in purity culture
• and how kids are getting crabs in their armpits

This isn’t just about religious shame. It’s about the myths we carry into adulthood — and what happens when we realize the rules were made up all along.

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