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“Somatic healing” is everywhere right now. But most of what you’re hearing is either vague mysticism or shallow nervous system language that never explains the mechanism.
In this episode, we break down what the soma actually is — not as incense and metaphors, and not as reductionist chemistry — but as an integrated system connecting neuroscience, fascia, emotional tagging, memory encoding, and biblical renewal.
Your body does not passively store trauma. It encodes predictive rules.
Through emotional tagging, amygdala activation, interoception, and tension memory, the body organizes these rules long before your conscious mind gets a vote. And if your entire healing philosophy revolves around “feeling safe,” you may be reinforcing the exact pattern that needs opposition.
We unpack:
How memory reconsolidation actually works
Why dysregulation is downstream, not root cause
The neuroscience behind somatic tension and fascia remodeling
The danger of turning “safety” into an idol
Why you cannot rewire a trigger you refuse to face
How strategic pattern opposition builds true resilience
The connection between somatic renewal, neuroplasticity, and biblical faith
True regulation is not fragile. It does not require the world to cooperate with you. Healing is not eliminating activation. It’s increasing resilience in the presence of it.
Watch the full episode and examine where “safety” might be keeping you stuck.
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Safety has become the highest virtue. That can actually get somebody stuck in
chronic survival mode, and if people are trying to placate or soften those edges,
you may never encourage that person to move out of that space. The problem is if
we're not careful, safety itself becomes an idol, and when safety becomes your
idol, all of your growth absolutely stops.
Your brain is wired for deception, but here's the truth. Patterns can be broken.
The code can be written. Once you hear the truth, you can't go back. So the only
question is, are you ready to listen?
You've probably heard the word soma, or somatic, and surely somatic healing is
having a big moment. And depending on who you're listening to, it's either the
missing key to all trauma recovery, or it's a bunch of incense, vague metaphors,
and of course our Instagram therapy. You're probably hearing things like the
body keeps score, your trauma is stored in your tissues, or the issues are in
your tissues, and your nervous system just needs safety. But rarely do you hear
how, through what mechanism, what exactly is the soma? How does this connect
to neuroscience, to memory encoding, and even to biblical renewal? I'm a deeply
spiritual person, but I also try not to ever be vague. I also try never to reduce
the body to simply chemistry or float it off into mysticism as a whole. I try to
integrate the two, show the bridge between the spiritual world and the scientific
world. So if we're going to talk about somatic healing, I would love to
understand the nature and the architecture of it as a human being. So not from an
anti-science perspective, but also not from an anti-spiritual perspective. I do
see somatic healing as a sacred science. The word soma in Greek means the body
living in its wholeness. Not just muscle, not just nerves, not just symptoms, but
the body as a felt or lived experience. To be is to experience. And you can't
experience anything without embodiment. Every second, three domains of
perception are running simultaneously. X-terroception is when we're taking
in cues from our outside world. In-terroception is when we're listening to cues
that are happening inside of our body. And proprioception is where you are in
time and space. Your brain is constantly integrating these three domains. And
reality is not simply something that is observed. It's also constructed
and you know extensively from episodes on this podcast that the brain acts as
a filter or a lens. Stimulus comes in, the brain then categorizes it or defines
it. The nervous system then is going to signal the body. Emotion is generated,
meaning is assigned. Your somatic experience is not passive. It is actively
participating in your perception of reality, which means that your body is not
reacting to objective reality. It's actively interpreting it. And that
distinction changes everything you know about memory encoding, nervous system
regulation, and somatic healing. If you go deeper on the topic of memory, it's
important to remember that it's not just simply narrative recall. Memory is
actually neuronal reactivation. When an experience happens, clusters of
neurons inside of your body are firing. And if it happens repeatedly, these
connections strengthen neurons that fire together, wire together. But here's
the missing piece that many people are skipping. Not all experiences wire
equally. Emotion absolutely determines priority of memory. This is something
that we call emotional tagging hypothesis in the scientific world.
Emotionally intense experiences get tagged by the brain as important. Think
fear, shame, rejection, even exhilaration, and of course, humiliation. One
emotional arousal is high, the amygdala activates. Stress hormones increase
and the hippocampus prioritizes memory encoding. Emotion acts as a
highlighter. It tells the brain, store this, tie this to a very specific childhood
memory. Think emotionally charged experiences times when things felt
unpredictable or unstable. Conditional love that felt transactional, volatility
and consistency, each one of these moments become tagged and therefore
prioritized. And when they get tagged repeatedly, the brain starts to predict
them and don't get it twisted, the brain's primary job actually is prediction.
So when the brain predicts something, the body actually gets in line and starts
preparing for it. And this is before your conscious mind is even able to intervene.
Your heart rate gets elevated, your muscles start to brace, your breathing gets
shallow. Maybe you start to notice some symptoms in your gut, maybe you
clench your jaw. The soma is what encodes the rule, not just the singular
event. The rule might be conflict equals abandonment. If I'm in the spotlight,
I'm in danger. Love is only available to me if I perform. Being at peace isn't
safe. And boy, can I align with that one? The body organizes these emotionally
tagged rules, and it isn't happening on a purely mystical or spiritual level.
It's happening in a very real neurochemical predictive data-driven level.
Interrelception is your body's awareness of its internal state.
So think heart rate, temperature, breath, tension. Your brain is taking in low
level interrelseptive input and it's converting it into meaning. A great way
to look at this would be if you are running on a treadmill and you're
increasing the speed on your treadmill, right? You're going to like 7.5.
Because you know you're putting up the speed, you're expecting your heart rate to raise.
So as you're starting to become aware interrelseptively of your heart rate going up,
you're also simultaneously defining that as rational. I know I'm putting the speed up,
so my heart rate should go up. But for those of you that may ever have smoked weed,
and this happened to me when I was a teenager, I smoked weed, I think I already had heightened
interrelception. All I could do was fixate on the sound of my heartbeat. And guess what?
The more I thought about it, the higher it went up and then I'm like, but I'm just sitting here.
Oh my god, I'm in danger. Am I having a heart attack? No, I'm not having a heart attack.
What's happened is I'm fixating on an interrelseptive input. And because to my mind,
it seems out of place for the context in which I find myself in, I'm now deciding I'm in
grave danger and I have to panic. But on the treadmill, you completely brush past it because it
makes sense to you. So this is where the same actions or the same sort of interrelseptive awareness
can split into either I'm safe or I'm in danger when really nothing is different. The only
thing that is different is how you interpret it. When we're looking at early experiences that are
tagged for threat activation of that threat response will always trigger you to feel unsafe.
And I bring this up for a very specific reason because I think the word safety gets very much
weaponized in our world today. Everything is about safety and cultivating safety. I'm a firm
believer that safety is an inside job. And when we think about how many things our brain is going
to tag with that threat response, it's very common that you may feel unsafe in a situation that
is objectively totally safe. While in a situation that if we actually look at the math, you might be
more statistically likely to die. If you've convinced yourself that this is not a threat even if
statistically or more likely to die in that scenario, you will feel safe. What's the truth?
The truth is that safety has everything to do with perception and it's not always going to be
tied to objective reality. So I want everyone to keep this in mind because we're going to pull
this threat a little bit later in the episode because I think to me, one of the most dangerous
pieces of somatic healing and how it's pitched online in particular and Instagram is just this
conversation around safety leading us to I think not step into pattern opposition and true
healing which ultimately could create real safety and instead we're outsourcing it to something
externalized. It's also important for us to think about the connection of fascia in the somatic
healing experience. So fascia is our interconnected web of tissue that runs through your entire body.
It's richly integrated so there's lots of nerve endings in it and it responds to mechanical
stress and it will remodel based on repeated tension states. Repeated contraction patterns are
going to actually influence how your collagen is formed, mechanical forces are then going to
influence your structure. So a great way of looking at this would be if your body went into a
specific position when you experienced a trauma, you can have two things happen. Let's say that
happened when you were 16. When you're now let's say arbitrarily 32 years old and you experience a
repeat of that trauma, your body may actually return to that position because that's where the
memory is stored. So even without thinking about it you might be holding yourself in a specific
position that is exactly where your body and fascia and soma experience to that trauma as a 16
year old. But now you're 32 and your body just naturally went back to that state. That's one
way that this can happen. What's also interesting about tension memory is as a 32 year old you may
not be activated in the same trauma but let's say that you just so happen to get yourself into
the same body position. The body may also then trigger the trauma because of the position you
just navigated into. So it's important for us to understand that interconnected relationship
between what our body and brain are encoding from memory and what sort of tension position we
are in at the time and that that can go both ways. One can trigger the trauma or the trigger
of the trauma can put the body into its sort of tension memory state. So when you experience
memory often it does change your body position right you might brace you might all the sudden
clench your jaw. This absolutely is coming from our connection to our fascia system.
So to be really precise here repeated stress signals changes in your tissue behavior.
Your fascia is very much shaped by how you breathe how you brace how you respond how you think
for those of you that have ever done my somatic movement practitioner training. One of the series
that we teach is called respond react which helps you actually map how your protective response
either fight flight freeze fawn flop exists in your tension memory and it shows you some very
powerful ways to move an opposition to those patterns as you're retraining your brain to think
differently. So I want to keep in mind when we're talking about words like that fight flight freeze
fawn flop we're very much talking about how intentional memory and our somatic experience maps
in with our fashion or memory encoding. So I want you to keep this in mind everyone has very specific
ways that their body will respond to stress. This is something that took me honestly way too long
to notice but if I look back many of you know that I struggled with a really intense panic attacks
from roughly 9 to 19 and it took me years to realize that actually when I would start cracking my
neck that was probably a good sign I was trending toward a panic attack right because the first
thing that would happen is that I'd crunch my jaw and then all of my neck muscles would start to
tighten and that sort of tension would then compress my C spine and then I'd feel the urge to
crack my neck as everything was like pulling down. Now obviously I know those physical signs so I
know to oppose them long before my nervous system and fascia ever get to that place.
So let's talk about dysregulation. I think this is another one of those terms that people kind of
float around and not everybody knows exactly what dysregulation is. I used to work in a clinical
environment with teens who were struggling with mental health issues of all kinds and they would
throw around this. I'm just dysregulated. I'm just dysregulated and it was kind of like a get out
of jail free card if they said they were dysregulated they kind of got a pass from whatever it was
that they didn't want to do and to me this kind of parallels this idea of weaponizing the word
safety in the somatic healing space. These words have truth in this conversation but if you can use
them as a get out of jail free card or to not step into the pattern opposition that would be
required to heal then they actually holds you back rather than help you. So dysregulation
is real but it's not actually a root cause it's actually a downstream effect of a root cause.
The cause is actually how your memory encoded in the first place which is why I always tell
people in break method you are only chemically imprinted with what you perceive happen to you.
So like what your mom says happened or what your dad says happened doesn't matter at all.
It in fact sadly objective reality doesn't matter at all. Even if what you experienced and then
in turn encoded into your memory is completely wildly untrue you are still imprinted with it.
So it feels true to you and if we are going to do the somatic healing work that is required to
unwind those patterns we have to know what you imprinted rather than the objective truth right
and I just put air quotes for those of you that are listening to the audio episode.
When we build an entire healing philosophy around avoiding things that feel unsafe or being able
to just use the word I'm dysregulated and get out of having to step into the discomfort we're
actually reinforcing the original encoding we're letting the brain body soma connection actually get
away with it. What feels safe is almost always simply what feels familiar and what feels familiar
comes absolutely from your childhood adaptations. So in a way we have to remember that true healing
is not eliminating activation. It's increasing resilience when faced with activation and learning
how to navigate through that activation to build new patterns right to learn how to self-regulate.
The nervous system recalibrates when it experiences something. Activation without collapse with a new
outcome. This actually reconsolidates memory. So this is actually how we update our neural networks.
You have to go through it and reorganize and redefine with that resilience piece so that you can
reconsolidate because that is part of the process of healing and again if you're allowed to use
words like I feel unsafe or I'm dysregulated without having to be encouraged to move into and
through that you're going to hold yourself stuck in sort of this familiar safety net.
I want to talk a little bit about movement neural plasticity because I think this is really important
and especially right now it seems like I don't know the nitty-gritty of it but I see a lot of
posts right now about polyvagal theory and there are a lot of people that are like you can't take
that study seriously like polyvagal theory has so much like there's so much impact on my clients
so they've got the people that are kind of like proponents of polyvagal theory and then any of
the people right now that are very harshly criticizing polyvagal theory on Instagram because supposedly
there was a scientific study that came out that basically debunked the evidence-based validity
of polyvagal theory. I think you guys know how I feel about scientific studies and one thing I will
say is looking because we've we've done some of this with break method the clinical study environment
in a lot of ways I know that the whole goal is to kind of make it systematic and
incorruptible and blah blah blah but what ends up happening is then you you take away the ability
to mimic real life right in crafting the study you're taking really someone out of their real life
environment and you're you know and I understand why but to create this sort of uniform experience
to really air quotes test sometimes you're going to alter the experience because you're putting people
into an unnatural sort of structure. So it does seem that you know while the people that are
you know science is a god are saying polyvagal theory is debunked would say obviously I'm not
an expert in polyvagal theory but there seem to be years and years of stories of profound healing
and awareness that have come from polyvagal theory. So this is just a great example of
when a scientific study comes out and kind of you know debunk something does that mean that it's
no longer valid? I personally lean on how many people's lives has it helped? How how has it helped
clinicians inform their practice because I think there's a lot of there's a lot of goodness that
can come from something even if people go out of their way to try to attack it and debunk it through
a clinical studies. So one of the things that we want to look at is that when we're looking at
things like movement right and I know somatic my somatic movement practitioner program very much
as movement based you're integrating proprioception right like where your body is in space what you're
aware of internally as your body is moving through space and you're also getting vagal tone
synaptic plasticity you're also being able to think about your thinking so you're simultaneously
as you're doing all these things you're shifting yourself out of that amygdala activation and you're
moving into prefrontal cortex and you've got tools to kind of merge all of these things in an
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This is a really profound very whole experience for somebody to come out of a trauma response.
Is it possible that doing all of these things in a clinical study environment didn't quite
translate because a clinical study environment is not necessarily conducive to things that are a
little bit more natural and organic and multifaceted possibly? So I think it's important for
my rest. Remember that if you've gotten caught in some of that sort of like great divide on
polyvagal theory don't be so quick to get caught into the device of narrative even if that
clinical study somewhat invalidates the evidence base of it and what it was built on. That doesn't
mean that there aren't still some amazing nuggets to grab from it and that you should kind of turn
your nose up at it. I think everything is worth looking into with a fresh set of eyes and while
again I'm not an expert in polyvagal theory I think it very much kind of parallels or comes
alongside a lot of the work that we naturally do in our somatic movement practitioner training
which ultimately we have to integrate all these systems as we are recoding the memory or
reconciledating the memory and ultimately when we do this correctly that is neuroplasticity. We are
able to change both the physical patterns but more how the physical patterns are tied to the
fascia patterns how the fascia patterns are tied to the way the memories being encoded and when
you can get the body to a place where it can actually release the physical energetic spiritual
pattern while you're helping them cognitively through metacognition reorganize intellectually
what that memory is the type of profound healing you experience I've never seen anything like it
and it it's so fast because what ends up happening is if you kind of get to the right cluster
with all of these systems integrated at the right time there can be such an intense ripple quite
literally through time space that I've seen a client in literally one session completely change so
much about their life what their lived experiences and their body their choices so don't be so quick
to jump on that bandwagon and be like this is all hogwash like there are lots of things on Instagram
about this that to me are more on that hogwash side but that doesn't mean throw it all out there's
so much here that I think is critically important for us in the healing experience and I think
there does need to be this bridge you know like the work that I do in break method is very
heavy and academic and very like mental health cognitive focused but the somatic movement piece
is really important for a lot of people because and I think for example this is the reason that
booty which has always been a somatic practice has helped so many people heal the way that you are
organizing your body and your retraining your thoughts and your movement patterns as as you
were experiencing this sort of like healing uplifting experience it can move people out of profound
trauma without ever stepping foot in a therapist office right so there's a there's a time and a
place in an application for so many different things and I I hate to see certain things
divided or over generalized right like somatic being like overly woo woo and weird and kind of
forgetting about the real grounded science involved in it or again this sort of like it's anti-scientific
and now it's not evidence based just read my paper right I think there's there's so much more to it
than that but I do want to call really clear attention to what I think is the biggest current
issue in the somatic space right now which I mentioned earlier which is that safety has become
the highest virtue and virtually everything gets filtered through this word safety does your body
feel safe only move toward what feels safe don't activate yourself honor your nervous system
and I'm certainly not saying that there isn't a time and a place for these things but that can
actually get somebody stuck in chronic survival mode and if people are trying to play K or or
soften those edges you may never encourage that person to move out of that space and I think this
largely one of my biggest criticisms of many trauma-informed practices is that you often end up
allowing a client to stay stuck on repeat far longer than they actually needed to stay stuck there
and again I'm I'm not saying that there isn't a time and a place example if somebody just
experienced some sort of brutal sexual trauma I'm certainly not saying that like three days later
is the time like all right buck up buttercup time to pull out of this that's not what I'm saying
but I think far too often in this space we've allowed people to kind of align with their victim
story and unfortunately put up these bumpers and safeguards and we don't encourage them out of
their at a specific time so the problem is if we're not careful safety itself becomes an idol and
I've absolutely seen this word safety become an idol in the somatic space but kind of just like
in mental health honestly as a whole and when safety becomes your idol all of your growth
absolutely stops because as I mentioned what feels safe is really often just familiar and what
feels familiar means that it is directly tied to the original pattern if you grew up in chaos
calm feels unsafe if you grew up performing love rest feels safe if you grew up constantly
bracing for impact while vulnerability is surely not on the table for you so if we teach people
only to move toward what feels safe you're usually reinforcing the exact emotional tag that's
actually begging for you to dismantle it safety if you outsource it externally becomes another form
of control control over your environment control over people control over your triggers control over
tone control over exposure control control control but that isn't actually regulation at all
emotional regulation and self-regulation and emotional resiliency those all actually are
supposed to go together and when you're trying to control and put up buffers you're not actually
doing that you're usually creating a system that's far more dependent because true regulation
is not fragile and it does not require the world to cooperate with you you go out into the world
in break method I always remind people you cannot rewire a trigger if you refuse to be exposed to
it it's literally not possible in your head you might really like nail the landing but that's
all hypothetical what happens when you actually go do it it's probably not going to happen the way
you imagined in your head you have to do it you have to do it some more and you have to do it some more
when you embrace those triggers and you embrace opportunities to step into fear you're able
to not only rewire but you're able to build a whole lot of confidence and capability around
those skills I use the term with my husband all the time fear dates and he started using it back
to me the other day he's like I'm going out to breakfast with this guy this morning like yeah I'm
just really trying to challenge myself to go on some fear dates and I'm like yes it's working
for those of you that are aware of places that you actively try to avoid or in your mind justify
as not being important I encourage you spend a week pick three things that typically you would
avoid or justify or minimize and challenge yourself to go do precisely those things and watch
what happens because when you're stepping out of those comfort zones into something and break method
that we call rebellion zones you do rewire and you do realize there's a whole lot more out there
that actually could wildly change your life if you could stop falling victim to yourself
deception that keeps you in this little loop true regulation is coming from your internal
authority and if you're outsourcing it to something else well you're making me feel unsafe
you're not realizing that again safety is an inside job I can learn to feel safe even around people
who are objectively not safe so in a way regulation is our capacity to experience activation
without collapsing into your old childhood rules and this is why it is so important that we embrace
strategic pattern opposition you will not heal a pattern by feeding it with comfort and safety
you heal a pattern by very carefully and strategically confronting it I'm not encouraging you
to be reckless but incredibly intentional if your body learns something like conflict equals
abandonment then healing means that you cannot avoid conflict you have to go into it equipped with
a very clear strategy it's experiencing the conflict and knowing on the other side not only
are going to survive it but you're going to learn new skills to navigate conflict if your body
learned that visibility is going to equal danger for you then healing is not actually being a
wall flower staying in the background it's expanding it's working on your self-regulation skills so
that you can step boldly out front and center and learn that on the other side you're going to be
just fine even if you navigate a little bit of embarrassment every time you repeat it you're going
to get better at it then healing is releasing control in measured ways and watching how your nervous
system is able to recalibrate things that once made my nervous system react they don't have
into me anymore I'm able to stay calm and regulated in situations where as a 20 something I never
would have been able to stay calm and regulated and in fact this is an interesting little tidbit
I threw my back out for a few days just from being on so many planes and walking around and
heal as my back went into like a full blown spasm and I was in so much pain and it put me on so
much edge that I remembered what it was like to basically be old me because my emotional
regulation skills were severely lacking my husband made like a little jab at me and typically
this would not bother me at all and actually it wasn't even a little jab never mind I remember what
it was I went out of my way to try making this really special dinner and I went on Pinterest and
I figured out how to make these soy sauce cured egg yolks that you could put on a crispy rice cake
it's like a Japanese delicacy and it's like a two day long procedure and I was so excited
to have Gordon taste my egg yolk and he said something like because I'm like holding it out to me
he's like no baby I'm not eating that on your fingers or something and I typically I would have
been like whatever and eating it myself and not cared but because I was in so much back pain
and I wasn't operating in the way that I am typically my eyes started to well up with tears
but thankfully I started to laugh at myself and I'm like oh my god I am in so much pain that this
is like what it feels like to be a regular human because I'm usually so far beyond these sort
of emotional reactions that this is like it brought me right back to my mid 20s where I was
actually sensitive and easily triggered so it just goes to show when you're doing this work and you
can get yourself out of these things resilience ultimately resilience and peace right like the
resilience and peace sandwich is what you're able to achieve on the other side of this work
but it's never going to come from not doing the work right putting up bumpers or telling people
like that offends me or I don't like it when you act that way sometimes we have to figure out
why am I why am I reacting to what you just did and and are is what you're doing objectively wrong
or do I also have to kind of learn to like toughen up or maybe advocate for myself in a way that's
more productive if we're able to just kind of get out of having to face some of these hardships and
we don't have to move through the emotional reactivity we don't ever really learn how to get to the
other side in a more corrected integrated experience so I'm just sharing that because it was kind
of an interesting one for me to kind of remember what it was like and the good news is when you get
to the other side of a lot of this work resilience and peace really pay dividends in today's world
because our world is hard especially if you have a social media presence things are challenging
people are always kind of like coming for you and trying to start drama being able to maintain
that sort of internal peace and regulation is such a gift and I would love all of you to have
access to it and going in line with a program that I know you guys know I launched a few weeks ago
my renew your mind program which is on you can get to it on either my show notes or on my Instagram
URL a lot of what we're talking about there's what the biblical principles are of neuroscience and how
in the Bible pretty much everything we know about neuroscience and rewiring was already written
on the Bible long before we could prove it with imaging and scientific studies and I think in tandem
with this it's important for us to remember faith right faith is a key component of renewal
and going back to this idea of somatic experience and kind of I think this hijacking or corruption
around safety is faith is being able to trust that God has something for you even if the situation
that it looks like you're in feels scarier unsafe right so in a way I think to truly activate
faith and to step into that place of renewal you have to be able to build skills that allow you to
willingly put yourself into situations that might not feel safe to you but might be an absolute
gift for you in the long run so this is something that I think about a lot because it does make me
sad how many people have kind of bought into this like cut out toxic people safety narrative
and they miss all these opportunities I think to heal in a really profound way but more importantly
from a spiritual level to learn how to access faith one example I was thinking about the other day was
and I think this is just it's an interesting dichotomy as a child you guys know that I had really
bad panic attacks right I was having panic attacks largely because I didn't trust my parents I
didn't trust their decision making in my day to day environment but then when I would be completely
on my own and separated somehow magically then I was fine it was really only being subject to my
parents emotions and decision making that activated my panic disorder but then when I was totally
by myself I'd like magically have these moments of being fine because there are these things that
don't really line like why would you be like that and then also be out at raves Friday and Saturday
night traveling all over the place right one they that feels unsafe right so this just goes to show
when I was I was thinking about this when I was probably like 15 15 16 years old I was often at
raves every Friday and Saturday night I grew up on the east coast so I was either at raves in
New York City or like I mean one of the places that we used to go all the time was in Camden
New Jersey which is so dangerous you guys but like New Jersey Boston Worcester like just going all
over always at a rave but very frequently I was going out late in the night in New York City and
I would take the lash train home which typically I think the lash train home was at like three in
the morning or something maybe even slightly later it's been a long time I'm turning 41 but
there would be so many times that I would take the lash train home by myself so like little 15 year
old busy by myself and what I made a point of doing almost every time is I would stay outside of
Grand Central Station and I would get Duncan Donuts and Cash to homeless people and drug addicts
that were on the street and I would literally talk to them about God and I would get there early
so that I could have like a solid one hour at least conversation I had some really deep conversations
with people on the street I'd have my you know I think back then I was like a light in sweet like
ice coffee that was like this big I don't even want to know how many calories was in that thing
but I would have these deep conversations now objectively was that an unsafe situation like if
I really looked at the crime statistics and data was that unsafe yes but I didn't feel at all
unsafe in that situation I was in full surrender I'm like God's got me I'm having these conversations
in those ways I was able to access faith and not fall victim to what the circumstance might
appear like and was able to just kind of trust the process then in a stupid situation at home I'd
be like completely panicking because I just for me what made me feel most unsafe was being around
my parents so this just shows this whole point of our desire to stay safe and controlled is
completely antagonistic to faith so if accessing faith and surrender which largely I think are
required for you to eventually get to a place of full renewal and peace are not available to you
right now this sort of conversation around somatic work I think is incredibly important and this is
why obviously I built the somatic movement practitioner training and I actually this summer
have a version of somatic movement practitioner training that is launching it'll launch right
after renew your mind is done and it's called embodied renewal and it'll be kind of a piggybacking
of renew your mind and the biblical principles specifically with the somatic movement practitioner
training if you've already taken the somatic movement practitioner training you will have access to
embodied renewal completely for free if this is your first time engaging in this work I'm going to be
putting together a whole landing page that gives you a ton of information about embodied renewal
but I think it's really important that we understand Biblically that God wants to redeem our time
and the desire of God Biblically is for us to be fully restored and set free with a completely
renewed mind and in doing so you should be able to actually let and let all of those old narratives
and stories go but more importantly let them go from your somatic experience and from your physical
body so this is a great training for people who are wanting to focus on where the physical meets
the spiritual because as I mentioned with intentional memory like this is this is a real thing and
this is often the root cause of repetitive injuries chronic disease autoimmune disease
even for me like throughout my life the amount of times I've rolled my right foot and then eventually
like broke my right foot from rolling my right foot it's like my body has everyone's body has a
specific way that they go out of balance and in all of these training modalities we're really
focusing on what the physically manifested pattern is and what memories are associated with that
physical pattern so that you're restoring the physical pattern as you're recoding and renewing
that memory because I really do believe from a biblical perspective when God says that we are called
to become a new creation we really are meant to become completely brand new where the stuff that
happened to you or that you did feel so separate of who you are that you feel completely freed from
it and a large part of I think that work has to do with addressing the somatic experience in a way
that is not about putting up bumpers and keeping yourself safe but instead actually generating
safety from the inside building your internal authority and remembering that this is a really
sacred science right like our our body is part of our temple and we have to learn how to bring about
that full restoration because I mean that's the work that I think people need the absolute most
so I hope this episode helps you understand that the somatic is not just this sort of mystical
woo piece but it's also not just the mechanical pieces it's to me evidence of an intentional
creator and intentional designer that built us to have this profound holistic experience
but also the tools to get in there and make sure that we can become truly restored and renewed
and that is the work that I love doing and there will certainly be more coming out about embodied
renewal and if you have not yet joined us for a new your mind access is open forever we'd love
for you to join us we are I think at this point on lecture four of twenty so here it's not too late
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Bible says about mental health and neuroscience this is a great opportunity for you to step in
if you are a believer but you've been struggling to move past shame fear self-worth issues anxiety
depression this is a great opportunity for you to learn very biblically rooted neuroscience tools
to move past those things and if you're also like me and you're just a geek for all things
mental health social spiritual you know my styles to always go deep in everything that we do so
we're going all the way from the practical foundational all the way through to what's happening
in the spirit realm connected to mental illness so we're going all the way I hope that you will
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