Stop Calling Yourself Your FAILURES

What if the biggest thing holding your marriage back… is how you see yourself?

In this episode, Brad sits down with Bill Rieser to unpack a foundational truth most couples miss: you can’t build a healthy marriage with a broken identity.

Bill shares his redemption story from addiction, infidelity, and nearly getting a divorce… to a complete transformation through Jesus. But the turning point wasn’t behavior modification...it was identity.

This conversation dives deep into how:
• We label ourselves by our failures instead of who God says we are
• Misplaced identity keeps couples stuck in cycles of shame and dysfunction
• Understanding your identity in Christ changes how you show up in marriage
• Seeing your spouse through God’s eyes transforms how you love them
• Forgiveness becomes possible when you live from the truth of who you are

If you’ve ever felt stuck, ashamed, or defined by your past, this episode will challenge everything you believe about yourself and your relationship.

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🔑 KEY IDEAS:
• identity in Christ in marriage
• how identity affects relationships
• overcoming shame in marriage
• Christian marriage transformation stories
• how to forgive your spouse biblically
• breaking cycles of guilt and shame
• seeing your spouse through God’s eyes
• how to rebuild marriage after infidelity
• spiritual identity vs personal failure
• how to grow confidence in marriage


📚 KEY VERSES:
📖 2 Corinthians 5:17 - "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”
📖 1 John 3:1 - “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!”
📖 John 15:12 - “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.”


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